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writes:I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to her direction to talk because im in back but when its just us he barely turns around for anything and when she comes in the room or leaves it he looks at door. I'm likely when u know who it is comin in and going out,he say he does no such thing. He didn't have sex with her during threesome as he was too drunk so i'm wondering if he wants to do it to her or if im overreacting. He say he don't want to but it just seems funny to me but hey I could be wrong. Someone share experience or give advise on what i'm thinking, or am I making a big deal out of nothing as he put it...
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reader, carebear  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 Did you post before you had threesome as happy4947 23rd Nov 07? Its sounds so similar b/f too drunk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): just talk to him and if he doesnt admit it do the threesome again and see if he likes it
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Have you thought about asking your boyfriend to do a threesome with you and another guy? Would you be interested in doing a threesome like that? That might solve his problem of wanting to have sex with your sister because then he would see you having sex with another guy, so he would get maybe a little jealous and focus on you instead of your sister. Just an idea, but it might be worth a try. Do you know any guys you would like to be the third guy in the threesome?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice. I did think bout all of it b4 I chose her cuz I couldn't find anybody dat I would wanna ask,as for my bf he has always stated dat he didn't care who da bj or threesome was with just as long as I was a part of it that if I didn't wanna do it or wouldn't enjoy myself he didn't wanna do it at all or nobody else,so I kno dats every guys fantasy so idk, also told him how I felt (without her round) he to me I was exaggerating and he' doesn' twant her he can get a bitch dats a dime,she mediocre and im making it more than wat it is lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Yes, he probably does want to have sex with her. Threesomes are not something to go into likely. They will confuse relationships and blur the lines of what is cheating and what isn't.
He wont admit that he wants her because he knows it will make you angry. Men dont admit things that will make their girlfriends angry. "do you want to have sex with my sister?" is pretty much a rhetorical question... of course he wants to... but he'll never turn to you and say "Yes I would love to fuck your sister"- what would you do? You would freak out.
I have had a good amount of threesomes with a few different girlfriends (guess I always found the open minded ones) and whenever we chose who to have the 3some with, I always picked girls that I wanted to have sex with... obviously. I wouldnt have a threesome with someone I wasnt interested in sexually. Very simple!
You have created a bit of a mess here. Good luck.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 o_O
You basically gave him an open pass to have sex with your sister when you did the threesome.
Offcourse he wants sex with her, there is obvious desire or he wouldn't have had the threesome and he can taste the forbidden fruit.
It is a not uncommon fantasy and most women point blank refuse it and end the relationship if their guy asks for it. You not only allowed it but even initiated it?
Yes he wants her, what the fuck do you expect? He got two sisters to blow him and you expect him to ignore that and not try for more?
Might as well rub your cats nose in some fine salmon and ask it to walk away.
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reader, Unique1 +, writes (23 March 2008):
I don't really know why you chose your sister do do it with. You knew she would come around.
Your bf very possibly might look at he because he liked what he saw. Ii think it was a mistake to do it with her and than have her come around the house or him.
I don't think your making a big deal and if it gets worse i would talk to him or even her...
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reader, Skeez +, writes (23 March 2008):
 hmm you should sit yourself down with him and get his feelings out. personally i think it was very silly of you to let him have a threesome, especially with your sister who is someone hes going to have to see quite often if hes round your house.
I know you probably thought at the time it was a good idea, but maybe you can learn from your mistakes now.
Also its a bit weird your sister actually went along with this threesome.
You should also get ur bf and your sister and you together for a talk, to sought this out.
Hopefully oyu will get it all over with and hopefully you wont do this again.
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