I went out of town to see a girlfriend, and came home a couple of days later to discover that whilst I was away my husband had sex in our home with his best mate's partner!
Q. I need others help. I have been married for 6 years, together for 8 years. Over the last two years we have had a tough time, more me and our life changed dramatically when I got MS. My husband was my best friend in the world until a couple of ...
A. 16 August 2007: Heya love.
All I can say for this one is. What a bl**dy snake!
Pitiful man. He sounds like a terrible person.
Im sorry to hear that he has acted so foolishly and has affected the way you feel about him. My bf cheated on me with a lot of ppl at th... (read in full...)
I skipped a day on the pill! What should I do?
Q. I've been on the pill for 4 years, and have never missed one until this morning. I am using it as a contraceptive and have had sex a couple of times a day for a few weeks. Do I need to take the morning after pill from the family planning clinic? And ...
A. 7 August 2007: missing one pill has no increase on your safety.
I take the pill and have missed a few pills. If you take your missed pill in 12 hours then its fine. after 12 then there may be a lil bit of increase in ur safety, but one pill is nothing. dont worr... (read in full...)
How do I get passed the feelings I'm having?
Q. How do I get passed the feelings I'm having? Everytime this one person gets mentioned (one of my girlfriend's exes, let's say Tim) I feel very low and get vivid imagages of the two of them together. This is due to my girlfriend who shared her past...
A. 7 August 2007: Talk to her. Communicate.
Explain to her your very upset with the fct she had to spill all details of her old relationship. She didnt need to do that and you didnt need to hear it.
Maybe she still has feelings for him, even if this sounds very ... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex if he tells me he loves me and will make more effort this time?
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months before he dumped me saying he didn't love me anymore. This was about 3 months ago, we are still very good friends as I was not angry with him because he was honest with me about how he felt which is ...
A. 7 August 2007: Talk with the new guy now..as it seems to me as your in no position to get into another relationship when you feel so uncertain.
Im sure he will understand.
and for your ex, if you feel as though you two can give it another go then talk with him... (read in full...)
He has told me straight why he has done it saying he doesn't let anyone close to him because he has been hurt before...
Q. I found out that a lad who I have been texting and kissing has been having sex with a girl I know from the pub. When I asked him he admited it and just said that he is single but he wasnt trying to play me because he liked me. He asked me out on ...
A. 7 August 2007: Sounds like to me he's just another player in the yard. If he wanted you he wouldn't go out and sleep with other girls. 'He has told me straight why he has done it saying he doesn't let anyone close to him because he has been hurt before' pff... (read in full...)
I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him.
Q. I graduated high school this year and am off to university. I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him. Can ...
A. 7 August 2007: Talk to him hun..
as hlskitten says...your not his pupil anymore.
See how it goes first. offer to go out for dinner or a movie or go to a pub or his house. Get to know each other more first and maybe youll both end up liking each other enough t... (read in full...)
This is my first relationship, so how do I know if I love him or not?
Q. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for about four months now and I love him, the problem is this is my first relationship ever and how do I know that what I am feeling is true love? I have never really been the type who wants to date around ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hello hun.
I wasnt sure weither I was in love with my boyfriend in the first couple of months but its garenteed that you will one day pop out and tell him you love him and mean it.
Youv only been going out with him for a few months and you have... (read in full...)
I finally called, just to find out that he's back with his ex...
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 1/2 weeks ago, (our anniversary is in about 20 more days) He did the whole not talking thing to me, and I couldn't bottle it in anymore that I wasn't over him, so I finally called, just to find out that he's back ...
A. 7 August 2007: Im very sorry to here that sweety.
Im not sure what else there really is you can do.
Maybe hes not sure whether he wants you back yet.
My ex did the same thing to me.
As soon as we broke up he went straght back to his ex who still wanted him... (read in full...)
I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site...
Q. I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site, when I asked him why he just said it was to have a look, I find this strange, we are both in our 40s. I can't really understand why he would want to do this?...
A. 7 August 2007: Agreed with hlskitten.
You need to talk to him.
If hes joining a dating site then theres obviously something
wrong in the relationship. Or hes just being a sick disrespectful man.
Talk to him sweety.
Goodluck... (read in full...)
I don't want to split up with him but I don't know what to do, should I believe him?
Q. I had been going out with a lad for a few months when I found out he had been cheating on me. We split up for 6 months and then he asked me to go back out with him and that he was sorry for what he had done. I have now been going out with the sam...
A. 7 August 2007: hmm this guy has cheated on you before. he seems to think he can get away with cheating on you when ever he wants now as you took him back. Its disrespecful enough that hes got texts on his phone to girls calling them gorgeous. whether they are from... (read in full...)
I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right?
Q. Hey, I'm looking for some advice so I don't waste my money. I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right? Any help would be apreciated as so...
A. 7 August 2007: If you are getting ur hair extensions done from a hairdresser then its bound to be enough for your hair as they know what they are talking about.
If your buying ones on the internet, i wouldnt go for the pre bonded individual hair. I ordered some... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and a 20 year old man wants to date me; I love him but my parent's don't know him, should I go out with him?
Q. Hey im 12 and i live where there is alot of mexicans. But i dated a 15 year old that lives by me. But i broke up with him so there is this boy hes 20 and he gave me a letter and he wants to go out with me should i say yes and i known him 4 a 1 year ...
A. 7 August 2007: you should not go out with him sweety. deffinetly not. you are way to young to be going out with a 20 year old. When a 20 year old likes a 12 year old, theres obviosly something wronge with this. a 20 year old wouldnt normally have an intere... (read in full...)
He's gone and played the "open relationship" card!
Q. My boyfriend just talked me that it is ok to have sex outside of the relationship as long as you are not sharing any feeling with this other person. In other words, sex and love does not go together and having casual sex is ok. I replied by saying ...
A. 7 August 2007: get rid of him....plain and simple. If he wants to crawl around and have sex with every girl he sees and then comes to you saying how brilliant it was...well i wouldnt stand it. Hes not being a very respectful boyfriend. And seeing as you wa... (read in full...)
His friends take their girlfriends.
Q. My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings ...
A. 7 August 2007: I think you should kick him.. sorry but he doesnt sound like hes giving you a lot of respect. If his friends are taking there girlfriends, he should invite you too. Talk to him about it and if he wants to cause an arguement give him the boot. ... (read in full...)
I want to have fun when I go to Greece, but my boyfriend wont trust me not to cheat while I am there
Q. I'm 16 and I'm going to greece with my twin sister and my friend. My boyfriends really worried because he thinks they are going to infuence me to drink and cheat on him. I've told him that i would never do that and i promised i wouldn't drink or...
A. 19 June 2007: I am diagnosed with depression too and im in a relationship so I can realate to how your boyfriend is feeling. I feel my boyfriend will cheat on me when he goes out with his friends, but you have to realise that its not his fault he feels like ... (read in full...)
I was trying to take it slow, but now he's lost interest
Q. What am I to do? I met a guy in a club over a month ago. We just clicked and talked all night. We have been seeing one another most weekends since. My friends live in the town where we met so I am there quite a lot staying with my friends at we...
A. 19 June 2007: Yes I think you should tell him that you want to see him again. But if he wants this relationship to go at a pace that your not comfatable with then tell him. If he doesnt follow it, then hes obviosuly not the right guy for you.
Talk to him how upse... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me like a maid
Q. Hi. my boyfriend and i have been together for one year now even though we have been friends for close to ten years. The problem is that he he feels a woman place is in the kitchen. He does support my career aspiration but bluntly refuses to help ...
A. 19 June 2007: No this is not a normal relationship. It sounds as though he is taking you seriously for granted. And i doubt you could change him, but If you want a go at it, talk to him how you feel.
Sit him down and tell him that you have too talk about your... (read in full...)
I want to stay in the 'honeymoon' stage of a relationship forever
Q. Hello! I'm 24 and have never got past 5 months in any other relationship because I am insecure and unreasonable and I don't like it when the initial 'honeymoon period' becomes 'comfortable'. At the moment I am in a relationship with a man tha...
A. 19 June 2007: Im sure every single woman and man in a relationship feels like this at some point. Everyone wants that 'honeymoon period' to lst forever, but the good thing about it passing, it shows that both of you are now comfatable with each other. You dont ... (read in full...)
He is cheating on me, but only wants her for her money!
Q. I have been in relationship for fifteen years now with my boyfriend.We have two children, but my boyfriend is not satisfied because he is not working. So he is now seeing a another woman who has money. This is killing me. He says everything will be ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hun. Your boyfriend is cheating on you, not only is he doing that, he seems to be using this other girl for her money. This is terrible. You have to get out of that relationship, he is deffinetly not worth it if hes ruining two ladies lives. You ... (read in full...)
I love him so much but he works far too much!
Q. This is how my life goes, I am deeply inlove with someone and he feels the same. we have a long distance relationship. We meet from time to time and both of us are okay with that. I love this guy so much that even words cannot explain how i really ...
A. 15 June 2007: I know exactly how you are feeling hun.
My boyfriend now has a full time job and he lives about 12 miles away from me, and I get to see him at least twice a week, so I can relate to how you feel to some point. It hurts to not be around the pers... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed to show him to my friends as he is 'not as fit' as all my old boyfriends.
Q. I am lost with what to do with my (currently ex) boyfriend. I knew him for about a year back when we were both about 14, and liked each other but we were immature/naive and didnt do anything. He moved and i thought i had lost him forever. Suddenly, ...
A. 15 June 2007: I agree with Askeve. You obviously dont love him, otherwise you would have no problem showing him off to your friends and the whole world. And I dont understand what you mean by his size? Are you on about his penis size? and if you are, If you ... (read in full...)
Sex isn't a priority for him anymore!!
Q. My bf and I have sex very irregularly these days. It seems like it is at the utmost bottom of his list of priorities, if he even considers it a priority. I have talked to him about it a few times and he sort of brushes it aside and the last time ...
A. 15 June 2007: There could be a number of reasons why he doesnt have sex with you that much.
1. He may be upset about something. If he works he could be piled up with stress and that can lower sexual interest.
2. He may have depression. Lower sexual interest... (read in full...)
Don't I deserve a chance too??
Q. Just to recap this is the question i asked and got answers for: Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his chil...
A. 15 June 2007: I understnd how upset you are feeling. But there are two parties to this. Your boyfriend has a child of his own now. He has to take care of it. And spend soem time alone with his son/daughter. Now I dont know the reason why he broke up with his ex, ... (read in full...)
People can't deal with us as a couple...what can we do??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over six months. The thing is people still can't really deal with us as a couple. It sounds silly but people won't come over and talk to us if we are together, or if we talk to them they tend to make ...
A. 15 June 2007: Hello there hun.
I can understand that this is hurting you and making you feel rather rejected from your friends. Maybe having a chat with them will make them understand that you need your friends aswell as your boyfriend.
I understand you feel... (read in full...)
I told him that with over 100 women on his phone it was taking the pee.
Q. i have been with my man for 5 years. we have had our ups and downs like everyone else. he is 10 years older than me. i found out a few years ago that he was using chat rooms. i didnt mind him having conversations with other people at first, but then ...
A. 15 June 2007: I feel very upset for you. I can see from what you have written that he is possibly cheating on you. I am going to agree with everyone else here. Leave him. Forget him and move on. He doesnt deserve you at all.
Hes spiteful, disrespectful to you ... (read in full...)
Marriend and looking for extramarital sex with no strings
Q. How do I find a discreet sensual partner without ties? I am a mature man with longstanding domestic committments but with a still strong sexual interest. My partner has had no interest in lovemaking for a long time and I am very frustrated. I ha...
A. 15 June 2007: "I am a mature man with longstanding domestic committments"
....sorry but no. Your not being mature at all in this situation. Talk to your wife about this. She is your wife after all and you say that you dont want to disrupt your marr... (read in full...)
How do I ask my boyfriend if he wants a threesome?
Q. hello, i am a 23 year old girl who has been with my boyfriend for 1 year and a month. we get along amazingly and have a trustful relationship. the problem (which really isnt a problem exactly) is that i want to spice up our sex life, by having a ...
A. 13 June 2007: i personally think that you shouldnt have a threesome. If hes the shy guy he may be very offended when you ask him if he wants to. And plus, now, Im guessing you think you will feel ok if he had sex also with another woman in your bed while you are ... (read in full...)
I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?
Q. Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...
A. 8 June 2007: Hey...I am a girl who has had this same situation happen to me with my boyfriend. He was drunk and cheated on me. Seriously boy you have to get your act together. Is your girlfriend more important to you or is the drinking? Sit down with her and ... (read in full...)
I haven't been able to trust my BF since he made out with 12 guys on New Years Eve 2006!
Q. Hey, I have been having some problems with my boyfriend of almost 9 months, for what feels like a rather long time. On new years eve last year (2006) my boyfriend cheated on me with 12 men while he was drunk. I saw him make out with them and sinc...
A. 10 May 2007: hey everyone thanks for your response.
Yer it was New years and he could have been doing it just for that sake, but would u really like if your boyfriend or girlfriend made out with lots of other guys or girls, or even both. Are you sure you woul... (read in full...)
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