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writes:I am really lost, my boyfriend and I split up about a month ago after an 11 month relationship, as he cheated on me with his ex. I am distraught, but to make things worse I used to go see him every weekend, and my social life became evolved round him and his friends. I now have lost those friends, and have seemingly no soial life. I don't know what to do, it is impossible to get over him even though I know he is a complete and uttr waste of space. I am in such a state, my life at college is awful, as I have few friends, and I just want to feel part of a strong friendship group again, but tagging along with my old friends doesnt work now we have split up, as they have known him longer and so chose his side. Please help!!!
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reader, Skeez +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Aww wow hun. Thats exactly what I went through.
I was with my boyfriend for 20 months, and my social life was evolved around him and I never saw any of the few friends I had. We only recently split up too and I thought 'Oh god Im going to be alone, and have no friends'. What I did, was ask the people I knew there mobile numbers and just planned a day out with them. I am a really shy person and in other circumstances I would never ask a friend out, because Im too shy, but I realised the only way to get over him is to be surrounded by other people. Just pick up your phone and get in contact with the few friends you have. Also tell them how you are feeling and ask if they can introduce you to there friends aswell. You will be alright lovey. I broke up with my ex only 1 week ago, and so far I have been out with a different friend every day since, because I could be bothered to pick up the phone. Just remember you need to get over this and the only way to do so is keep yourself occupied.
goodluck
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