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Skeez
writes:hello guys.I have always wondered why men always break up with their girlfriends once they get settled into a relationship. I'd like guys view on this. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Skeez +, writes (22 March 2008):
Skeez is verified as being by the original poster of the question i'm asking people their opinions because i'm interested. and no i don't need to edit anything.
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Then just substitute all the "you(s)" with "a person(s)" if that will help in translating the message to a more general and less personalized one.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (22 March 2008):
Skeez is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno this has nothing to do with breaking up with my boyfriend. I know the real reason already. Just my friends have gone through this and its somehting I would like to understand
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (22 March 2008):
I think it's the opposite, guys don't break up with you if they are comfortable. People generally like to be comfortable unless they are adrenaline junkies or movers & shakers. If the above does not describe your boyfriend, then he broke up with you because he didn't want to have a relationship with you anymore.
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reader, Andy00 + ♥, writes (22 March 2008):
 Yes, that is probably true to some extent. Some guys do get bored with relationships, or they don't want to get tied down. Personally, I would love to find myself in a "settled" relationship again, and if I did, I certainly wouldn't be the sort to get scared and run. But then, every guy is different.
I wonder, what makes you ask this question? Have you experienced this recently, or is it purely out of curiosity?
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reader, Skeez +, writes (22 March 2008):
Skeez is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIv heard that some guys do break up with there girlfriends, once they see a proper commitment is starting, and they get scared and just run away.
thats why i really asked the question. I do believe some men are just scared to stay with that one girl for years.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (22 March 2008):
 My experience is that you don't break up with a girl when you get settled. Once the girl is part of your life, so to say, you can count on her for fun, love and companionship. At least I wouldn't break up with someone I feel comfortable with, and I think not many people would do that, either.
I suppose that break ups do happen when the relationship becomes boring and repetitive; when it has stagnated and takes you nowhere. It is then when you want the thrill.
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (22 March 2008):
 Hi
Sorry not a guy but usually those that do that, simply prefer the thrill of the chase, not the actual settled relationship. They are the type that get bored easily.
C xxxxx
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