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writes:my girlfriend and i have been started dating in september of last year and everything was so perfect.. we had our differences and we fought alot but we were so in love that we always got through it. we would always fight about who loves each other more and just everything. we were so in love.. she always told me she loved me more than anything and she would never leave me. in 5 months it seemed like she was always ditching me for friends, and we got into a huge fight. then she said she needed a break.. it was killing me not seeing her for 1 week so i finally saw her. and she seemed like she was still very in love with me. but she still wanted a break to figure what she wants. i wanted everything to go good so i said i'll give u more time. i told her i changed so much, and i'd do whatever it takes to be with her.. a week later i went to her house and she seemed so different.. i slept over and she didnt seem like the same girl. i eventually asked her what was wrong.. but i knew. i said do u still love me the same? she just kissed on the cheek and started crying. i knew what it meant i started crying.. its been two days since. she doesnt love me the same way. but i want her back so badly. i cry all the time about it. i dont know what to do? i wanted to see if we could start over because there still has to be feelings there. she said "well figure it out"? im pretty sure she wont fall back in love with me.. and i dont know how her feelings for me can just go away like that.. im just so lost and heartbroken right now. what can i do? please please please help me..
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 aww hun i feel for you I really do. Only recently my boyfriend dumped becuase he said he didnt love me anymore and its a really difficult thing to except I know.
But I do believe she still loves you incredibly. Maybe she ws just offended by you getting worked up becuase she wanted to hang out with friends more. Or maybe she really has felt somehting different about you.
All you really can do lovey is have a talk with her. Ask her why she feels the way she does and see if you two can work it out. Theres a slim chance it wont work, but you can still be friends.
Communication is your key hun. In the mean time keep yourself very very busy. Have your mind on something else and most proabbly she will start to miss you. Or just call her up straight away and have this out in the open.
I hope it all works out for you, I really really do.
Goodluck x x x
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