He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we're in love! Everyone tells me to finish it. Help!
Q. Im in a relationship with this 15 year old boy. He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we've fallen in love. Ive tried so hard to say its over but i just cant! Its our 3rd time we've gone out so i think that we've something. Everyone tells ...
A. 4 September 2007: I dont think talking on the internet for a very long time can make you fall 'in love' with them, but I knwo where your coming from. You feel special that he takes the time to talk to you all the time and etc and that feels good.
But you should real... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesom but I would rather it just be me and another woman! Is this selfish of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we are extremely happy. He always talks about wanting to try new things and I am usually completely up for it. But lately he has talked about having a threesome with another girl. For awhile I ...
A. 4 September 2007: I dont think threesome are the best thing to do especially fi you are in a serious relationship for so long. If three people came together and they were single then that would be better. But no i dont think you should have a threesome..do you know ... (read in full...)
Why do some men get bored in a relationship and is it possible to love 2 people?
Q. why do some men get bored in a relationship? and is it possible that you love two persons in different levels?...
A. 4 September 2007: Heya hun. there are many reasons why: men get bored in a relationship:
There could be lack of somehting in the relationship.
He doesnt love the person anymore.
The relationship is a same routine.
You talk about the same thing all the time.
There... (read in full...)
I was date raped a few years ago. I have a date soon and dont know when the right time should be to tell him?
Q. I have an awkward question, I was hoping somebody might be able to offer some advice. I'm 24 right now, but when I was 17 I was date-raped. It affected me for years, and I had major self-esteem issues and trust issues. Now though, I've 'found ...
A. 4 September 2007: Tell him when it feels right hun. even if its on your first date. If you wnat to clear things up before you two become serious if you do then thats your choice. If you want to wait untiil the relationship is serious then tell him..again its your ... (read in full...)
Does my ex from a year ago still love me even though she has a new boyfriend?
Q. I don't know what to think. I am completley devastated. the situation is this, I dated my girlfriend for 5 years, and have been broken up with her for just over a year now.I am still completley in love with her, but am confused to wether she still ...
A. 4 September 2007: Maybe your ex does still love you. But you were in a 5 year relationship. that is a rather long time just to be in a normal relationship. did you ever move in together?
But also she may liek this new guy too as hes a change *not to be nasty* but ... (read in full...)
Do I stay or do I go? My guy is distant these days.
Q. Okay, me and my guy have been together since Jan this year. And Im his first proper relationship. He has been with other girls before, but none would give them him the time of day. He spent lots of money on them, but I have to pay for my way in the ...
A. 4 September 2007: If your boyfriend is seeing less of you then maybe there is a problem. talk to him. Communication is your key. sit him down and tell him how concerned and sad you are that he wont spend any time with you. after all you are his girlfriend and he ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?
Q. Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ? ...
A. 4 September 2007: its normal. I didnt bleed when I first ever had sex.
And its possible that your hymen could have been torn by the use of Tampons coz they can sometimes do that if you use them at all. If you dont then theres still nothing to worry about. Its norm... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex is flirting with him. Because of his past should I be worried?
Q. Before my b/f got together with me, he was seeing the other woman who is something like 26-28. She never bothered me as she is in a long term relationship with 2 children by the same guy. Untill however when I thought about the way she had been...
A. 4 September 2007: what do you mean your bf gets touchy about her when yu talk about her? is it an angry touchy or a 'i dont want to tlk about her' touchy. if its the second one then thats great news. Means that he doesnt want to remember there relationship coz hes ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?
Q. I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was ...
A. 4 September 2007: Heya hun. Ive been in a similar situation. But what you must do is not blame yourself. You were in love and you trusted him and HE betrayed YOU. So what i think you should do is put it behind you.
What I did was refresh everything in my life. I we... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. I feel there is nothing appealing about my personality. Could anyone advise me?
Q. Hey! I'm 15 years old and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I'm not bad looking but I don't feel I have much personality. I know guys would rather girls with a big personality and I feel insecure and that I'll never have a boyfriend becaus...
A. 4 September 2007: heya hun. I thought the exact same thing as you at your age (im now almost 17) and I dont have much of a confident personality. I have mood swings. I dont liek to go out and hve fun. I hate being around big crowds and etc etc.
I thought I had a ru... (read in full...)
Did I cheat or do I have worry issues?
Q. Umm this is a wierd one but I am a real worrier and need to know that I am just snowballing a worry. Anyway, Im in a relationship with a person a I love very much. I went out with the girls one night and saw one of my boyfs friends out and latched ...
A. 2 September 2007: stop worrying love. you probably didnt cheat on your boyfriend if you remember everything that happened that night. Just remember that this is a lesson for you. whenyou get the intention of being flirty with someone. stop and think about how you ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 2 September 2007: divorce your wife. You say youve loved your sister in law for 11 years but youve never divorced your wife. this just sounds to me as though you dont love either of these women. its all lust. if you really did love your sister in law you would ha... (read in full...)
What can I do to get our relationship back the way it was?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a week ago his mates told me he has cheated on me but we talked and we said we would give it another go. He apologised and i knew he meant it because he was crying and he told me he has not cried ...
A. 2 September 2007: Ive had the same problem. my boyfriend cheated on me with a lot of guys (not girls) and kissed them all on new years.
Its been 8 months since that happened and no..things just arnt the same with us like it was beforS and still dont trust him full... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to stop my periods from being so heavy?
Q. Sometimes my period is really heavy it hurts like normal but i keep having to change all the time and i just cant be botherd causre ther toilets at school are wrank. Please help because its annoying me having to keep changing all the time....
A. 29 August 2007: to the poster below. it is perfectly safe to use the pill. my doctor subscirbed it to me and yes the pill does effect u if you use it for a long time, but with the pill you use it for about 2 months and your blood flow will get used to the effect ... (read in full...)
I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a ...
A. 25 August 2007: Your discusting. A typical cheater. Eeew. Sorry love but you discust me so much. And at your age!!! you should realise by now that cheating is a terrible thing and hell yes it mkes you a bad person. Your sick and evil. I think you should just te... (read in full...)
Don't enjoy sex with my husband so should I meet this online guy?
Q. I got married 8 months ago even though i knew i didn't really want to as i no i'm not totally in love with him. He's such a good man who is descent and loyal and adores me. I love his family and love being part of it, but since i got married i knew ...
A. 25 August 2007: Come on love you know the answer to this already. Dont go meeting up with some twit from the net even if you do know him. Yeah you may not enjoy sex but you never mentioned why. Is it becuase you dont get exited? Is it becuase hes to rough and not ... (read in full...)
Am I being a little too paranoid?
Q. I recently moved out from my girlfriend of 2 years. we were very much in love, but within a month she had invited two other men over for coffee she had met online on seperate occasions. then we started speaking again and decided to give our ...
A. 25 August 2007: I agree with the guys below. Its got nothing to do with you anymore. You have broken up and you have both gone your seperate ways. Shes interest in other men now and whether she had sexual intercourse with them is up to her. Shes single. Your not ... (read in full...)
If he loves me why is he cheating on me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I love my first boyfriend very much but I don't know if he loves me that much, because he cheats on me which I've not got him red-handed but have been informed. Any time I confront him on this issue he denies. I tried breaking up ...
A. 25 August 2007: Hes cheating on you love. And you know it already!
If my boyfriend did that. even with one person and even if it was just a kiss. I would kick him to the curb and break up with him there and then. Im fed up of cheaters. And im sure you are too. Get ... (read in full...)
My wife treats sex as a reward, as its the only bargainig tool she has... would an affair be the answer?
Q. I am married to my wife for 5 years now, after dating her for 4-5 years. She is good looking and sexy and I love her. We have a 1+ old baby and another one on its way. I work from home and my business is good, so we have no financial problems at all ...
A. 25 August 2007: I dont agree with the person below's answer. Yes you only have your life once. But that doesnt mean you shoudl go around cheating on every girlfriend or wife you have in your lifetime becuase of one small thing that could be soughted out. Dont be ... (read in full...)
Should i be unfaithful or should i just end it?
Q. Hi, I got a bit of a juicy one for ya. I've been going out with my girlfriend a little over a year now, and we've had some really good times, along with a few rough patches. Lately, its been all good, really. However, I'm 22 and she is 25. I have ...
A. 25 August 2007: What? Im sorry but I cant believe what Im hearin.
No! do not dare cheat on her! I cant stand cheaters. Im sorry Im not trying to be nasty here BUT You have to realise that playing off with someone else is not going to do justice. Ever!
You s... (read in full...)
We have unprotected sex. Could i be pregnant?
Q. I think i'm pregnant. Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a few weeks. Anyway we started having unprotective sex last month and my period came on and last month and after my period went off everything was messed up now that...
A. 25 August 2007: Go to your doctor and get yourself checked out. If you had unprotected sex than there is a big chance you could be preganant. Even if he doesnt ejaculate inside you doesnt mean he hasnt given you his sperm. His sperm can come out while you have sex. ... (read in full...)
Planning on losing my virginity, will the first time hurt?
Q. dear cupid. I have bin with my boyfirend for 15 months and love him more and more each day. I am 14 and he is 16. we do yes have a sexual relationship however we have'nt had sex because we have not yet felt that we are ready. Over the course of our ...
A. 25 August 2007: Are you sure you want to lose your virginity to him? Remember it is still illegal for you to have sex at your age. And his too to have it with someone under aged. Why dont you wait it out until your 16? So then its perfectly fine to do so. But if y... (read in full...)
We argued a lot, and now she dumped me for someone else
Q. so there was this girl that i started to like but i kept it to myself and i found out she was keeping it to herself too. so we found each other after 8 months then we dated for 3 weeks, when we were alone we had so much compatible but when we were ...
A. 25 August 2007: i agree with somewhat anonymous.
Your not in love sweety. Its been 3 weeks that you dated. your young and you two havent got to know each other enough yet. If shes being a nasty girl and telling you how perfect her new boyfriend is then, just igno... (read in full...)
He's visited masage parlours in the past and paid for sex, now I feel worried about our future!
Q. I'll start off my saying i'm very much in love with my boyfriend. He's a good guy with a lot to offer, one that i can see a future with, so far, still a lot to learn about each other. We've been dating for over year... and conversation cam...
A. 25 August 2007: I have had similar shock as you. My bf told me he had sex with a girl he met on the internet. Kissed many guys. And talked dirty to lots of girls when he got the internet. Now I know thats not as bad as yours but I think you should trust him. I had ... (read in full...)
In love with my recent girlfriend but my longtime platonic friend suggested a no-strings-attached relationship, what should I do?
Q. I have a girlfriend that I love. We have been dating for months and all that we have done is kiss and make out. This is fine with me because I really like her. It can be frustrating, though. Meanwhile, my longtime platonic friend Kim has made it ...
A. 25 August 2007: Sorry love but I dont think you should do that.
No strings attached sex with your friend? some friend she is when obviously she knows your in a relationship.
Sounds like a jealous young girl who thinks you will go straight for her offer.
And if yo... (read in full...)
Really fancy an older guy I met on myspace!
Q. I really fancy this 18 yr old i met on myspace and we flirted a little but i am not sure he likes me in the same way that i like him. I am only 12 so there is a big difference but i am just s in love with him but i cannot tell him because i dont ...
A. 25 August 2007: Heya chick.
we are not being mean or anything. But if you two are having just normal talk on myspace then its fine. But then we are all telling you to watch out just incase he asks to meet up with you. Your 12 and hes 18. Probably 19 soon.
Its f... (read in full...)
My wife treats sex as a reward, as its the only bargainig tool she has... would an affair be the answer?
Q. I am married to my wife for 5 years now, after dating her for 4-5 years. She is good looking and sexy and I love her. We have a 1+ old baby and another one on its way. I work from home and my business is good, so we have no financial problems at all ...
A. 25 August 2007: No an affair will not help. Your old enough to realise that. Your married and having an affair will only make you a cheater and a traitor to your family. No sorry.
All I can think you can do with this is talk to her.
Mention how upset you feel wit... (read in full...)
What can I do during this painful waiting period while she second-thinks our relationship?
Q. I have dated this girl for the past 3 years and it's been great. We're good for each other and everyone at my school knows that we have a solid relationship. But just recently she said she wants to take a break so she can make sure that our ...
A. 25 August 2007: Your both so very young and youve been in a relationship longer than the majority of people your age.
She probably feels as though the relationship is getting samey. Like the same routine and the same things all the time.
Just wait it out hun. Kee... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: If he is pressuring you to do something which your not comfatable doing then dont do it. Whether he likes it or not. If he keeps nagging and telling you to do it then just dump his ass. Or otherwise hes going to have to stop and realise that your ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with a 25 year old footballer... is this age gap too big?
Q. Hi, Im 15 years old and have recently fallen for a 25 yr old footballer. He appears to have feelings for me as well, i would like to get involved with this guy if he feels the same way about me, is the age gap to big? I turn 16 in 5 months and ...
A. 17 August 2007: I personally think the age gap is too big for your age. Maybe if you were 25 and he was 35 then maybe yes.
But not now, no. Any 25 year old whos interested in a 15 year old is not normal. and he could be a pedo. You dont know, but its unlikely he h... (read in full...)
He never wants to kiss me and it's making me feel unloved!
Q. Ive been with my bf for almost 8 months now and things are going well apart from a few little things. He never seems to kiss me when we are out (im not wanting a full on snog im asking for a peck on the cheek). I kiss him and hes fine with it but he ...
A. 17 August 2007: Heya dolly
I thought the exact same when I first went out with my bf. He wasnt realy that affectionate and rarely kissed me in public. It seemed as though he was embarrassed.
Talk to him more hun. Communication is your key.
Maybe he isnt... (read in full...)
I cum quicker when I am having intercourse than when I am alone
Q. it's weird, because when i play with myself it takes me quite a long time to come, but if i'm having sex and i start to play with my clit, then 1-2 minutes later i have an orgasm, lol. sounds stupid but why is this? is it becuase i'm having my ...
A. 17 August 2007: Thats normal. I find it when I masterbate it takes me ages to have an orgasm, but like Danielepew says, i think its something to do with your partner. Your connection with him makes u overwhemed and your horny and etc. And perhaps yes its becuase ... (read in full...)
I am sad cause guys dont notice me
Q. Hey! Im sad cause most off the time guys just dont notice me and I am really getting mad cause for almost 3 years since i have had a single boyfriend and i sometimes even think that i will never have one!! So I need some advice please!!! Thanks...
A. 17 August 2007: Heya hun.
Dont worry about it now. I was the same as you. Boys never noticed me. I wasnt the prettiest girl in the school and all my friends got more attention than I did.
But one day I met my bf who i fell in love with at first site and we start... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I really want to have sex with a girl just once
Q. Okay...I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we live together and I've known him for most of my life, we've always been great friends. He's the greatest boyfriend I could ever wish for-he's kind, affectionate and supportive and I ...
A. 17 August 2007: Heya hun. Hmm i find this a tricky one. If you want to fulfill your desire with having sex with another woman..why dotn you try it when your not with your boyfriend? There are so many problems that could be caused from you hving sex with ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesnt want me to talk to girls - EVER
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 11 months already (14 of this month, which has just passed), and I truly and deeply love her to death. 5 months into our relationship, I moved from Daly City, CA to Tracy, CA and here's where the problem ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hey hun.
I am exactly the same with my boyfriend. I very much dislike him talking to any other girl..purely becuase Im insecure too just like your girlfriend.
Her past has affected her. whether she was cheated on or whatever. But I still reckon y... (read in full...)
Is a vaginal discharge normal?
Q. I have been having virginal discharge for 1 year and I have not accepted the fact it is normal. I want to have sex but what if that guy doesnt like it or its not normal? please help me a gurl without a mother. i dont no whats right and whats wrong?...
A. 17 August 2007: Its perfectly normal sweety
I get the same discharge nd ive had it for a very long time.
Its hella annoying I must admit and it isnt exactly attractive but its normal.
xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I think I can give her mulitple orgasms, but she seems scared of it
Q. Hi, I was wondering something about when I'm going down on my girlfriend. She says I've made her orgasm by fingering, and past oral adventures. But she has said with all of them that at one point, she starts to feel tingling all over her body, ...
A. 17 August 2007: I have the same problem.
When my boyfriend gives me multiple orgasms I make him stop before I do orgasm.
It feels great but its a sensation that I feel is to overwhelming for me. And I find it pure difficult to let go.
Its a nice feeling but ... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to stop my periods from being so heavy?
Q. Sometimes my period is really heavy it hurts like normal but i keep having to change all the time and i just cant be botherd causre ther toilets at school are wrank. Please help because its annoying me having to keep changing all the time....
A. 17 August 2007: 'The pill' will work wonders on you.
Yes its the same pill people take when they want to have protected sex. But i took this when I was 10 becuase my period was so heavy.
Its done me the world of good.
I no longer have stomach cramps and my perio... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been text messaging and calling with at least four different girls!
Q. I looked through his phone and found out that my boyfriend of 3 months has been text messaging and calling with at least four different girls. He says they are just friends and that I don't have anything to worry about. What should I do??...
A. 16 August 2007: well from what you posted. he sounds like a right jerk. Unfortuantly he may be keeping his eye open for other possible girlfriends. How long have you two been going out? Maybe hes not the relationship type of guy. Maybe he just wants an open ... (read in full...)
He admitted he cheated
Q. Recently my boyfriend and I decided to take a break after 5 years. And just the other night, while I was visiting, he dropped the biggest bomb on me. He confessed to have cheating on me with 2 different girls (that I was always suspicious of) for 3 ...
A. 16 August 2007: No he does not deserve a second chance. EVER!
God this guy sounds like a right berk. He cheated on you with 2 girls. AND he lasted 9 months in total with both of them behind your back. what the hell??
wwhy are you taking such a scank back?
Y... (read in full...)
I went out of town to see a girlfriend, and came home a couple of days later to discover that whilst I was away my husband had sex in our home with his best mate's partner!
Q. I need others help. I have been married for 6 years, together for 8 years. Over the last two years we have had a tough time, more me and our life changed dramatically when I got MS. My husband was my best friend in the world until a couple of ...
A. 16 August 2007: Heya love.
All I can say for this one is. What a bl**dy snake!
Pitiful man. He sounds like a terrible person.
Im sorry to hear that he has acted so foolishly and has affected the way you feel about him. My bf cheated on me with a lot of ppl at th... (read in full...)
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