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female
age
36-40,
*hortyanna
writes:My boyfriend is a very affectionate person and expresses that by telling his woman friends that he loves them. He got me hooked because he always tells me that he is in love with me, but i believe he uses it too carelessly considering he started saying it 2 weeks after we started dating. We have been dating for 8 months and I do believe we are in love, but it's hard to tell what he is thinking. My problem is that he is very close with a friend (one of my old roommates) of ours that was there for him while i had to work all the time. I know that they don't want to be together for love, but he seems to care more about her then me sometimes. He is more troubled if doesn't see her, then if he doesn't see me. He also tells her that he loves her with his whole heart, calls her sweetheart over text messages and always says 'i love you' to her. It makes me jealous and hurt and he doesn't seem to understand when i talk to him about it.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 He sounds really inconsiderate to me. If i had a boyfriend who did that I wouldnt just tell him how I feel, I would probably break up with him.
He needs to realise that if hes got a girlfriend, his girlfriend should be the only woman he says 'I love you' to.
Talk to him again sweety. If he doesnt listen to you, then i think it will be good for you to just get out of the relationship. You never know..your words may be nothin to him but if you take action he may realise what he loses by doing this and will come back to you and stop with this other girl. Dont give him the ultimatum by telling him to choose, choose for yourself.
Do whats best for you. You can do better nd have someone who really will treat you like the only one for him.
goodluck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 It looks like you are not getting the recognition and respect from him as his g/f.
You either accept and suffer in silence or you tell him your feelings and be damned!
If he cannot respect your dignity , then he is past his shelf life date.
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