Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 19 March 2008: =/ sorry to hear that you thought people were just reminding you of your age...but hes proving to you by havings sex that your beautiful?
that just sounds weird..and not right.
He should think your beautiful always anyways without the sex. Personal... (read in full...)
I'm looking for subtle but effective ways to make my BF jealous, because he also disrespects me!
Q. My guy likes to try and make me jealous by talking about how hot other women are and flirting with women sometimes. I never give him the satisfaction of letting him know it bothers me after all what's good for the goose is good for the gander. But I ...
A. 17 March 2008: I dont think you should even bother trying to mke him jelous. Hes sounds like a waster and he doesnt care about you if hes trying to make you jealous about other girls. What is that going to do to your confidence? Knock it down. Just ditch the ... (read in full...)
He's not a creep, he's HOT! Is he just playing me?
Q. OK theres this guy I know. I've noticed he's quite flirty-which doesn't bother me in fact he says he flirts with everyone. Now he SAYS he's just playing yet he winks and looks at me longingly. He's also offered his place for me to 'esc...
A. 17 March 2008: MMMM im usually quite wary about guys who are a general flirt, becuase you can never tell if they are serious or not about someone.
Its nice that he has offered his place to you, but remember, becuase he is a flirt and he likes the girls, he may ... (read in full...)
How do I build trust back?
Q. I'm meeting my ex boyfriend on Friday, for a chat and a general 'What happened to us' conversation... which we do need because it was all very messy and we haven't spoken in a month ( at all) and not properly since December. It was my fault the...
A. 17 March 2008: Hello hun.
Well you havent told us what the situation was that made you broke up, so it might be difficult to help you, but acting normal and casual will probably help.
When you next meet him, approach him with a smile and a friendly hello.
... (read in full...)
How does he live this happy life now without consequences?
Q. Hi. I know others have gone through this a million times before me and it will happen a million times after me. However, I have experienced the most traumatic event in my life. My ex, whom I loved and trusted whole heartedly and who I was about to ...
A. 17 March 2008: awww hello love.
I really feel for you. what a terrible thing you have gone through.
I find this somehting thats difficult to answer, becuase after all he may be the one with the only answer and you need to get it out of him.
My only assumpt... (read in full...)
He arranged to meet another girl via Internet, then regretted it. How can I trust him again?
Q. Hi, i have been with my husband for 2 years. About 5 months ago i found out that he had been messaging another girl on a internet forum and had gone as far as to arrange to meet her. He says he would never have actually met her and that he is sorry ...
A. 17 March 2008: He may really regret his mistake, but what i dont understand is was this a mutual meeting? or a proper flirting situation and he met her for sex or what?
If it was for the second one, then....ooo hes been caught out. If you still want to stay with... (read in full...)
I want to try alcohol! Will I become an alcoholic?
Q. I've never really drank alcohol before, but for some reason now I want to try it. In the past, I've only had a few sips. I never want to become an alcoholic, so I'm put off drinking it incase I like it a bit too much! Am I being stupid? How to you ...
A. 17 March 2008: Well I have only drank a few times and got drunk those times as well. i must say but there's a small chance you will be become an alcoholic. If you drink but have a stable life as well, there's slim chances you will get to that point. Drinki... (read in full...)
Should I stop this relationship based on sex?
Q. Hi i'm in a new relationship yeah for me! I'ts been a while! but all we have in common is great sex. I know he is only calling me because of this but I don't care cause I like having sex with him . Should I stop this I know it's bad? right?...
A. 17 March 2008: I dont see the problem with you seeing him and having sex if thats all you want right now. But then again, if you wanted more, he might not be committing to do so, but carry on if you wish darling if all you want is no string attached sex.... (read in full...)
Got caught masturbating!!!!
Q. I love to masterbate and love porn. I've been in a relationship for 2 year with my girlfriend and things are great but I feel she does not trust me because I masturbate. I tell her it is just a fantasy, I'm being truthful with her, we make love 4 to ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hello. Well I understand that your girlfriend will be shocked over the fact that you still masturbate even when you make love 4- 6 times a week, and to me that's quite good for someone who has been with them for 2 years. The fact is that she may ... (read in full...)
My husband has told me he wants an "open marriage" but I can't do this, please help!
Q. My husband has been cheating with my sister the whole time we have been together and married, it's been awful and one trys to stop but my husband won't let it. He wants both! Now she had a child to him so when I try to get him to want only me he ...
A. 17 March 2008: Divorce is your way of getting out of this. He's cheating on you hun. I'm sure you already know your answer and you are just getting some reasurance from people, but as the following people have said, move on with your life. I understand you'r... (read in full...)
I can't open up easily to people...
Q. I never opened up easily, not to anyone, as much as i've wanted to, i just can't and i really don't know why, it's so frustrating when i'm going through a rough patch and nobody knows, because other people tend to get mad at me for acting the way i ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hello darling. You remind me of myself when I was younger. I certainly wasnt one of the adventurous people in the crowd and I never really talked to people becuase I was really really shy. I went through my early teens with only a very few friends ... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 17 March 2008: I would like to say that darling you are too young to be having sex. You may feel as thought you are grown up and mature enough to have it becuase you have a boyfriend. But you two are still so young. Its illegal to have sex under 16 in the UK. You ... (read in full...)
Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid.
Q. hi can you help me Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid!!!! I don't know if it's just me as I have had my little boy I don't feel as braw as ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hello love. I thought the exact same thing when I was with my boyfriend. Every time his eyes were in the direction of a girl or a group of girls, Id always question him saying 'what were you looking at them for?' and he would always reply with 'Im... (read in full...)
My thoughts are keeping me up all night and I can't get to sleep...
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad and feeling depressed lately. And I just let too much stuff get to me. Yes, I speak to my family about how I feel. I see a counseller once a week. But my thoughts are keeping me up at night. I'm having ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hello darling. It sounds to me as though you have some sought of depression. I know its difficult to feel like this at your age, what with hormones getting the better of you and etc. I was diagnosed with Dythymia at 12, having been very very sad... (read in full...)
She still likes her ex - can this work?
Q. me and my partner have only been together for about 2 months now. in the beginning everything was going on fine and then slowly i began to see a slight change to her.had a feeling it was to do with her ex through over hearing phone calls and also ...
A. 17 March 2008: Just move on darling. I know how it feels to always be second best, and its certainly not satisfying in the least. Tell your girlfriend that things just cant work out if she still has feelings for her ex. I know its hard to realise but maybe yo... (read in full...)
If you don't have your period then are you pregnant?
Q. hi my name is michele and all i wanted to know is if you dont come on your period does that mean that you are pregnant or other things thanks michele leonard...
A. 17 March 2008: Not always love. If you have had sex in the last few months and havent had a period since, then It would be good to go see your GP. If you havent had sex, there is no possible way you could become pregnant. Some girls at your age are adjusting and ... (read in full...)
Painfull sex, sugestions please!!!
Q. I've slept with my bf of 6 months now for the 1st time about 4 months ago now, but every attempt at sex since and including then has either been painful for him or I'm just not getting anything out of it. We've tried so many different position some ...
A. 17 March 2008: Has he had sex before? And did he complain about it then too? If so then maybe hes got some medical problem with his penis. Or maybe you are not lubricated enough, so its rough and feels unpleasant for him. Instead of trying new positions get some ... (read in full...)
We're not in love with each other and we've been seeing one another over a year, is this a problem?
Q. hi, I'm 17, been with my boyfriend for about a year an 3 months now. The other day we talked about how we felt about each other. We both said we really care about each other. We both said we hate the thought of each other being really sad and ...
A. 9 March 2008: No I dont think this is a problem. My boyfriend told me he has never been in love with me and we have almost been going out for 20 months. Theres a big difference between loving someone and being inlove with them. Loving someone is that you care for... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?
Q. Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...
A. 8 October 2007: Think wisely hun.
I am against threesomes. I am possitive that you DO NOT wnat to see your partner make love to another woman.Think how you would feel if he did it behind your back. you would be devistated...and seeing him actually doing it infr... (read in full...)
My girlfriend tends to ignore me when friends are around, but says she doesn't realize she's doing it! What can I do?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months it seems great and we are both soo in love but sometimes i feel like being kind of ignored like if her cousin or one of my friends is there she acts different. i need help because most of ...
A. 14 September 2007: My boyfriend does the same. When we are with his friends, he doesnt talk much to me. If I say something silly he will make a big deal about it and make me look more of a fool. But what she does is possibly change her attitude coz she wants to ... (read in full...)
Why does he always choose rugby over me?
Q. On sunday, i was really unwell with womens problems and i had a migraine. i really wanted my boyfriend to come over and pick me up because like every girl gets, i was tearful and upset and felt although i really needed a cuddle. the day before we ...
A. 11 September 2007: He sounds like an ignorant person lovey.
Of course he should put you first before a silly game of rugby. Next time he asks you to come over just say no. becuase your doing something else.
Once you give this attitude back to him he will probably... (read in full...)
I was all moody with my BF. Have I ruined things now?
Q. I slept over my bf's at the weekend. I was quite moody with him and we did argue a little over stupid stuff. When he dropped me off in the morning he seemed different, he did not kiss me goodbye or tell me when he was gonna call. I havent heard from ...
A. 11 September 2007: Call him and apologize.
Thats what you just have to do. If you were the one being grouchy to him for no apparent reason then yes, call him up and apolozie. If somethings on your mind then still call him. say sorry but then go onto explaining why ... (read in full...)
There were rumors of her cheating. I didnt believe them, but now she is upset with me anyway
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we just moved off to college. We both have never been so happy in our lives but last week someone I know started a rumor about her cheating on me. Although I trust her completely because of ...
A. 11 September 2007: I understand that you girlfriend is now angry and very sad about all this. I would be too. If you know who made up this rumour then the thing that your girlfriend is probably hoping is that you sought this out and tell what the person did was very ... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend's "Ohhhhhh" face and it was really gross...
Q. I saw my boyfriend's O face and it was really gross.. I was on top and I had the blanket over me cuz it was really cold and I took it off just in time when my boyfriend was getting off, cuz he was making this awful face, I have never seen before. ...
A. 9 September 2007: Dont look at him. My boyfriend goes ontop when hes ready to orgasm and cum and he hugs me and puts his face next to my shoulders so I cant see it.
It shouldnt really turn u off that much. If you really dnt like looking at him close your eyes.
you k... (read in full...)
What do I do so that I'm better for him than she was?
Q. Ok, basically my fiance's ex girlfriend squirted when she orgasmed and he really pleased her and she really pleased him, I was a virgin when I met him although I'm not now, but I still feel inadequate and I can't compare to her. What do I do so that ...
A. 8 September 2007: Hello hun.
I dont think you should worry about his ex being able to squirt. You know not many woman can actually do it. Possibly under 20% can so i dont think it should really bother you as its completely normal to not be able to.
And if you want... (read in full...)
I need to stop bein unfaithful before I get caught and lose him, what's wrong with me?
Q. Im so confused......I love my boyfriend, I REALLY do. Id love to someday be his wife but....I have this huge problem....I cant seem to be faithful. The sex is great, our relationship is great, we are best friends and I dont ever want to be without ...
A. 8 September 2007: Heya hun..I think your very mature to get yourself some help and advice and im glad you realise what your doing is wrong. Ok so my advice is to go to a counceller or a proffesional. They will probably be able to help you and your high sex drive (i... (read in full...)
All she does is brag about how this other guy to MY friends is better when she doesn't even know his last name.
Q. Me and my ex broke up because of a fight that literally never should have happend. She is trying to punish me for the fight when she is the reason it happened. She keeps rubbing her boyfriend in my face even though she is only dating him to make me ...
A. 8 September 2007: Hmm it sounds liek there is two options here why she is acting liek this. 1) she still likes you and is trying to get your attention. and trying to make you feel guilty and plead for her back 2) She is manipulated by thinking you were the one to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on my yesterday but I'm giving him a second chance...
Q. My boyfriend just cheated on me yesterday, and he told me today..... now last year I had a lot of issues with boys and a lot of trust issues, but he still cheated! He felt this girl down, that I know, she's in my grade. I love him soo much, but ...
A. 8 September 2007: It really is up to you if you want to take him back.
But I have reasons for both parties on why you should and shouldnt.
Ok I think you shouldnt becuase you are still young. You still have exams and school work to get through and your GCSE 's... (read in full...)
Is the age difference the reason I'm so bored with him?
Q. I don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. I feel the relationship lacks spontaneity. He's 21 and I'm 16. My parents love him and vice versa. He's a lovely guy, very hardworking, and has plans for the future but I just feel that I'm getting ...
A. 8 September 2007: It could be something to do with your age gap. I mean Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. Hes legal to drink so whenever we go to the pub with his friends they can all drink and I cant so I get bored, and when they get drunk I feel left out. He can go to ... (read in full...)
She seems so down and lonely when I see her in the pub and I'd love to get to know her better.
Q. Hi I'm 22 and single, I have only had one girlfriend and that was back in college but I ended it because I knew she wasn't the type of person I wanted to be with. I am the quiet type and have been waiting for someone who I want to spend the rest of ...
A. 8 September 2007: Offer to buy her a drink. Next time you go to the pub go alone. dotn bring a friend or a gang of people and just go alone. If shes there. Say hi to her and ask if she wouldnt mind if you sat with her. Buy her a drink to. That should get you two ... (read in full...)
Do you think my relationship with my boyfriend will last?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months and 5 days. So far eveything is okay but, the past months, I've been so mean to him and childish. I tried breaking up with him but he always asks why and doesn't leave me alone and I always end up ...
A. 8 September 2007: Yes your relationship can last. but you never mentioned why your being childish and getting mad at him. what for? is he doing somehting you dont like? If he is then talk to him. And yes most relationships have there drama now and again. Me and my... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and have been doing weight training. Does it harm you?
Q. hello. im 14 and have been doing weights for 6 months. im 5'11 and just want to know if its true that they stop your growth? i have been doing them reguarly, do you think it would have caused any damage already? thanks for any help:)...
A. 8 September 2007: Im not one hundred percent sure about that. but I guess its ok that your keeping yourself healthy and active, but maybe if you cut it down to about 2 or 3 times a week for about 10/15 mins. becuase yeah you are growing and you could pull muscles in ... (read in full...)
My husband flirts with other women, takes their numbers but says its innocent.
Q. I have discovered that my husband has been flirting with other women - but would like advice on whether he's going too far. I have been with him for 5 years, married for 2. Last night he came come late and drunk, about 3am. He fell asleep mid text...
A. 8 September 2007: Yes...I think he is going to far. He isnt respcting you as a wife or your lover. Hes flirtin with other woman and taking there numbers. Also phoning up a hotel for the two of them to stay at. I think that is very far enough. Im sorry to say that he ... (read in full...)
How can I make this up with my girlfriend again?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend about one year now and I really love her. We tend to fight a lot but always talk it out and are better. Last month I was having a drunken stupid conversation with this one girl I used to work with. We both liked each ...
A. 6 September 2007: I'm sorry love but I think this is your own doing and I dont blame your girlfriend to chuck you out of her life. what you did was a very nasty thing to do. and im glad you realise that. She found a convo of you and another girl talking lovingly to ... (read in full...)
She hasn't told me she loves me since then, and things don't feel completely right. Any advice?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with a girl I was kinda "more than friends" with for years. In the last few weeks I asked her out and she said yes. We're just teens, both 16, and we've kissed and it was great. When we kissed I told her I love her, which ...
A. 6 September 2007: Heya Joe. I dont think you should worry about this all to much. When me and my boyfriend started going we didnt really say 'I love you' until about 4 months later. U shouldnt worry to much. She probably doesnt say it because of a number of ... (read in full...)
I love her soo much, she's funny, gorgeous, intelligent, and soo much more and don't want to lose her but really need to figure our problems out because I don't know how much more I can take.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 14 months. I love her soo much but it seems that as soon as things get really good she finds a reason to get confused about me. Last Friday she phoned me in the morning and woke me up which is fine. She wanted to ...
A. 6 September 2007: Hello Love. I can fully understand why your girlfriend is acting this way. she pretty much reminds me of myself.
I get very annoyed when my boyfriend is like 15 minutes late when we are meeting up. I get annoyed when my boyfriend doesnt call me o... (read in full...)
Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk ...
A. 6 September 2007: Talk to your boyfriend. Tel him how concernd and how much it bothers you that he is constantly talking to his ex. Tell him all the thoughts running through your head and ask him WHY he has to keep on contacting her. If you have the feeling that your ... (read in full...)
Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk ...
A. 6 September 2007: Talk to your boyfriend. Tel him how concernd and how much it bothers you that he is constantly talking to his ex. Tell him all the thoughts running through your head and ask him WHY he has to keep on contacting her. If you have the feeling that your ... (read in full...)
But what does strawberry flavored lubricant mean?
Q. My boyfriend and I have trouble having sex. He can't fit inside me. Some of my friends tell me to use lubricant. At the drugstore, I saw a whole bunch of kinds. I bought a strawberry flavored one because it smells goo. But what does strawberry ...
A. 6 September 2007: Your too young to be thinking about sex rigth now.
But no..the reason why your boyfriends penis wont go in is not becuase your not ready but maybe his size is to big for you or your just not relaxed enough. Lubricant is used just for that. It help... (read in full...)
How do we bring the spark back into our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of over a year just recently told me that he doesn't feel anything when we kiss anymore. However, he doesn't want to break up with me. We're best friends, I'm crazy about him, and we love each other deeply. Neither of us can see ...
A. 6 September 2007: Try not to get so worried about it hun. Me and my bf have been going out for about a year and a month and our spark had kinda gone. But we bought it back again by doing some new things. Going shopping together was the best thing we did. we had fun ... (read in full...)
He planned to cheat and got caught (that is my fear). He can't believe it is such a big deal to me, but I'm embarrassed, shocked and hurt...
Q. Hi, my boyfriend is from a very different culture to me. He hid the fact he had a girlfriend when we met, I left when I found out. He broke up with her and said he will try to avoid her, he doesn't, she was even at his place once when I went there ...
A. 6 September 2007: Hello hun. Most men are different than woman. they dont understand why we get upset when they talk to an attractive lady. They dont understand why we have a go at them for hanging around a lot of girls.
But what you need to do is set some grou... (read in full...)
He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we're in love! Everyone tells me to finish it. Help!
Q. Im in a relationship with this 15 year old boy. He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we've fallen in love. Ive tried so hard to say its over but i just cant! Its our 3rd time we've gone out so i think that we've something. Everyone tells ...
A. 4 September 2007: I dont think talking on the internet for a very long time can make you fall 'in love' with them, but I knwo where your coming from. You feel special that he takes the time to talk to you all the time and etc and that feels good.
But you should real... (read in full...)
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