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I need a mole removed on my back but I don't know how to go about it...
Q. can i have more answers plz. i have a finger tip size mole on my back and i am so self conscience about it. im 16. what age do you have to be to get it removed? also i dont wanna ask my mum if i can get it removed cos its embaressing, i dont wanna ...
A. 7 June 2006: You shouldn't be so self conscious about your mole. Just simply ask your mom if you can get it removed...it shouldn't be embarrassing to ask your mom about this. I'm not quite sure what age you need to be, but if you have your mom go about doing ... (read in full...)
He likes me shaved, but it hurts....what can I do?
Q. My bf has a shaved pussy fetish. I met his needs, but it bleeds a lot when i shave and it stings. I want to keep it up for him though. What do i do? ...
A. 23 May 2006: Why don't you try and just trim it very very short with an electric shaver? It may not be as smooth, but it definately looks nice and it also don't hurt at all. See if that's good enough for him. There shouldn't be any reason that you are hurting ... (read in full...)
My bf wont have sex with me till he's obese!!
Q. Hi, I'm 18, my boyfriend's 21 and he refuses to have sex with me any more. We have a good relationship but sexually it isn't as good as it used to be. I asked him why he doesn't want sex with me any more, and he said he won't have sex until he be...
A. 12 April 2006: Okay, I have never heard of something like this. Where did he hear this information? He definitely needs help. Is he not happy being healthy? Does he not enjoy sex with you as of right now?
Try and seduce him to show him he doesn't need to be ob... (read in full...)
Is 3 months too long for her to be away with her guy "friend"?
Q. My girlfriend knows a guy overseas. She wants to go over there without me for 3 months. Am I being overly concerned to think 3 months is a long time or not?...
A. 6 April 2006: Is there a reason why she wants to go over there without you? For 3 months. That seems to be quite a long time just to visit someone. Is this like her childhood friend? As long as it's not just some guy she just met or something of that sort, there ... (read in full...)
The boy my girlfriend is having round her house is fitter than me and they flirt!
Q. hello, i could really do with some help with this if you have a few spare muinites. me and my girl freind have been going out for 6 months, we broke up for a bit and got back togetter. my girlfreind is having a boy over her house, a freind of hers...
A. 6 April 2006: If you are uncomfortable with this situation, why don't you join both of them while they're at her house. If there's nothing to be hidin' then there shouldn't be a problem with having you around. I would probably feel as you do about this situation. ... (read in full...)
Is this guy looking for another wife or just for fun??
Q. Well i've met this married guy on a web site,we have been emailing and talking to one another for 5 weeks now.We have met up on a number of occasion,but have just gone for a few drinks,thought we was both looking for friendship to begin with,but ...
A. 5 April 2006: First off, if you are unhappy with your marriage, having an affair isn't going to help it. You should just get a divorce from your husband before you go any further with this other relationship. Why would you want to hurt him like that? You should ... (read in full...)
We broke up because I can't give her the luxury she wants, but she wants to stay friend! I don't think I can do that!
Q. Hello, Last week, my girlfriend of 10 months broke up with me. She says she still loves me but she wants to do her own thing and she says that she doesnt see a future with me because I can't give her the life she wants in terms of luxury. Surely i...
A. 5 April 2006: I would just let her go if she wants to be so materialistic. You obviously aren't and don't need to spend all your money to make some girl happy. That's just unreal for some. You need to find someone that wants what you CAN give her and don't care ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to stay with him or not!
Q. Please Help Me !!! I have been in a relationship with this guy for about a month now and it's not going so well. I was trying for a long time to go out with this guy and now I'm finally going out with him , But the problem is he treats me like ...
A. 4 April 2006: Honey, you've only been with him a month. He obviously isn't what you expected he should be like. He seems so rude and careless. You deserve better then him. No matter how long you were chasing him, you got him and now you don't need him. You found ... (read in full...)
He is showing interest again and i want him back in my life. What should I do??
Q. Am in a one year relationship with a married man. weve been happy for the one year except the normal conflicts. Recently i suspected him moving with another lady and when i asked him he said no and that they smoke together, and decided that he will ...
A. 4 April 2006: Honestly, I think you should just move on and find someone that is more available to you. Let him know that he missed out on something with you and that's his fault. Do not give in to him just because he shows interest once again. You need to find ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to give him oral sex?
Q. My boyfriend's penis is too big to really fit in my mouth to give him oral sex. what could i do to give him oral sex?...
A. 22 March 2006: If you mean that it is "too long" to fit all the way in your mouth, just use your hand with your mouth. But if it's just too big then just suck on the sides the top and lick it. That should work!... (read in full...)
I need some exercise advise. Please help!
Q. Hello. Need some exercise advice. I'm in good shape. OK, honestly, can be better, and I have potential to have a really nice figure, but find myself going to the gym one week and not the next week, therefore I end up in square one. I need to...
A. 21 March 2006: If you go to sparkpeople.com, you can set yourself up a diet and exercise program and it's totally free. It asks you what you have available to work with and gives you exercises based on that. So...if you're doing stuff at home, it gives you things ... (read in full...)
He's choosing weed over me and I don't know what to do.
Q. hi erm.. well rite now im sat alone in my bed room because my boyfriend has chosen his friends and weed over me! i suppose it is my fault 4 actually not saying anything to him wen he smoked it in front of me bt not when hes leaving me on my own all ...
A. 17 March 2006: Honey I have been in this situation before and it don't work out unless he wants it to or you just use to being 2nd in his attention. I don't ever understand how a drug can become before someone and come in between relationships. I think it is so ... (read in full...)
My husband and girlfriend are extremely close. Is this normal?
Q. My girlfriend spends a lot of time on the phone with my husband and at my house with my husband when I'm not home. I know they discuss her bad marriage and sex. I told both of them I'm upset and want it to stop. Now they're upset with me and ...
A. 16 March 2006: Honey, this isn't normal whatsoever and you should definitely not let this go on much longer. There is absolutely no reason why they need to spend so much time together, let alone talking about these inappropriate situations that she could talk to ... (read in full...)
Met up with my ex-husband who I still want back... And couldn't stop crying!
Q. Hi I split up with my ex husband who had chased me for 6 years when I finally agreed to marry him, only after 6 months! We have had no contact for 4 years and he suddenly text me last week. We saw each other for lunch and he has suggested meetin...
A. 16 March 2006: Sweetie, you may want him back, but you have to try and be tough when you see him. If he sees that you're doing great without him, that may make him want you more.
It's nice for you that he wants to meet up again with you, maybe this could be... (read in full...)
Did he cheat again?
Q. My boyfriend I know liked his best friend for 3 years and all the time stayed at her house. He started ditching me and staying the night with her and getting late phone calls from her. His eyes are constantly roaming and he seems to only want oral ...
A. 16 March 2006: First off honey, why would you want a guy like this? He cheated on you and treats other women better than you. I'm pretty sure you can do so much better than to settle with just this guy. He don't seem worth the attention.
But let's answer y... (read in full...)
I have many questions about birth control pills, can you help?
Q. I (18) and my b/f (19) are very much in love and have decided to have sex. we have been together for over 6 months and now feel the time is right. I am a virgin but he has had one previous sexual partner. the problem is i am very worried about ...
A. 13 March 2006: You do need to go to the gynecologist to get on the pill and have an exam done. The pill is about 99.9% effective towards pregnancy, but only after a month of taking them correctly. They do not protect you from STD's though, you must use a condom ... (read in full...)
I slept with my close guy friend.. But he has a girlfriend. Now I'm confused.
Q. i am so confused and guilty ryt now. i have had feelings for a close friend of mine for years and we've always had feelings for each other, but we've never been out. i've always been his rock when hes going out with a girl and he's mine when im goin ...
A. 13 March 2006: You guys should definitely try being together. It seems that you guys would be a great couple. If you have been there for eachother for so long and are interfering in eachother's relationships, maybe you guys should just try it out for a little bit ... (read in full...)
Is his behaviour a sign of an abusive personality?
Q. Hello, I am currently in a long term relationship, and although I love my boyfriend very much, there seems to be a lot of stress involved. He can very difficult to deal with sometimes, and I can't figure out whether he has signs of an abusive ...
A. 13 March 2006: Have you talked to him about his anger? If not, you should talk to him about this and say exactly what you said here to him. If he gets mad about you forgetting to call him, then maybe you should make it a point to call him every time your supposed ... (read in full...)
His mother is his life, will this relationship last?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 19 years. He does'nt want marriage or commitment - he has never been married before and lives with his 91 year old mother who is his life. What do I do don't love him anymore I only see him on Saturday evenings ...
A. 9 March 2006: I think you may be just wasting your time if you only see him once a week, especially. If his mother is his whole life, where would you fit in? I'm sure you could find someone better that isn't so into their mother that they would have more time for ... (read in full...)
I won't let my partner cum on my face, he's unhappy, and won't compromise
Q. My partner thinks our sex life is dull because I won't let him cum on my face. He says he can't imagine his sex life without this and goes around all unhappy about it. I in turn find this a big turn off and feel offended by this act. He won't ac...
A. 8 March 2006: He can't make you do something that you DO NOT want to do. He should beable to compromise with you. Instead of your face, how about your breast or stomach? Don't let him pressure you into something you don't feel comfortable doing. It's your body ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prove to him I won't cheat on him too!
Q. Hi all, I'll keep it short. Basically I met this guy (S) in October while I was seeing someone else (J). Both S and I fancied each other but nothing happened as I was taken. We bumped into each other again some weeks later and swapped numbers, and ...
A. 8 March 2006: I was kinda in the same situation. I met my now boyfriend while I was with my ex boyfriend. Eventually, he'll get over it. Only time will let him know that he is your one and only.
Good Luck hun!... (read in full...)
He kissed me, but also my friend.....does he really like me?
Q. There is this guy that i really like and i know that he likes me, we have kissed. i know that he is a bit of a player and i dont want to get hurt. I am a virgin and i know that he is very experienced and i don't know if he just wants sex. I do ...
A. 8 March 2006: If he kissed you AND your friend, it seems that he likes more people than just you. You need to find someone that is only going to like YOU and that's it. You don't want to have to put up with a player such as this guy. It's not fair to you and it ... (read in full...)
I wanted to go on a break, but now I'm worried he don't want a relationship with me
Q. okay i have to admit i'm highly dramatic for person. just yesterday i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should go on a break. i thought it was best because i think i try to be my own person again and he needs to figure out what he wants, how he ...
A. 7 March 2006: Just give eachother some time alone to think about what you guys' really want out of your relationship.
You must love this guy or you wouldn't have been crying about it. It's not being dramatic, you're being very normal.
If he realizes what he... (read in full...)
What is the difference between sex and making love??
Q. Simple question: What would you say is the difference between sex and making love? Thanks...
A. 23 February 2006: I agree totally with smeedle. She's right on! ... (read in full...)
My gf says nothing happened but I have a feeling it did. How can I find out?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and just recently she went on a cruise with a girlfriend. They met like 5 guys that they hung out with the whole time. She called me every night when she was going to bed except for one night she said they ...
A. 20 February 2006: The crying part may be a definite that something happened. If she didn't do anything, she wouldn't have anything to cry about. I was in that situation before and I cheated and my boyfriend found out and I cried, but I didn't want to admit it. I ... (read in full...)
We got back together and things were bliss but this morning he hit me and smashed my head against a wall. I love him so much...what do i do?
Q. Please help me. I had been with my boyfriend for almost two years, when we argued about money and he left me. The reason we argued about money was that he spent all his wages on cannabis and didn't pay his bills.Four months later we got back tog...
A. 20 February 2006: How could you possibly be devastated that he left? He hurt you! Do you actually want someone that hits you and makes you bleed? That thinks some drug is more important than you or becoming financially independant himself? You don't need someone like ... (read in full...)
My friend's online dating guy is a cheating rat! How do I tell her this?
Q. Hi all, I really need some advice about this. I joined an online dating site about a month ago. I joined this particular site because a couple of friends of mine have had some successes. One of these friends, met a guy last summer and has been...
A. 2 February 2006: Maybe you should ask this guy if he knows your friend, to see if he has any response to that. If that don't do anything, then you should definitely tell your friend. She deserves a lot better than some lying jerk. No one deserves treatment like ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly jealous when I saw him out with his female boss?
Q. Hi... i met a guy last week, we hit it off straight away, been exchaging a few txt messages and he phoned me at the weekend to see if i was out but unfortunately I wasnt, but said i was out during the week and he said great he'd see me out. Anyway ...
A. 2 February 2006: Seems like this guy may be playing games with you. I think you should just forget about him and move on. Especially if you haven't heard from him.
Anyways, it's kinda "awkward" that he's out with his female boss in a bar, w/his friends..... that... (read in full...)
He kissed one of my closest friends and I don't know how to cope
Q. My husband and I have been together 9 years. We married 3 months ago and 3 weeks ago my husband told me that 6 days before we married he and my closest friend (one of my bridesmaids) kissed, but he swears they did nothing more and that he didn't ...
A. 1 February 2006: It seems like he is very apologetic about the whole situation and if you guys decided to end your friendship with this woman, then it seems that you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If it's not a problem with him, then I don't think anything ... (read in full...)
My husband still calls the mother of his adult children (I'm not talking about myself!), and they exchange "I love you's." Is this appropriate?
Q. Hello! I've been married just three years (2nd marriage), his first marriage. However, he has had numerous lovers before me. Those affairs produce 2 children by 1 woman. They are adult children. Every time he calls each one of them, they alw...
A. 18 January 2006: I don't believe this is appropriate. There is no reason for him to be telling any other female besides you that he loves them, well besides family members. If he don't mean it, then why say it? It's not like he's with her and going to hurt your ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or go to be with my ideal man?
Q. What the hell should I do? Last summer i met my ideal man, he's caring, thoughtful, always gives me compliments, sexy, good in bed and very touchy feely. But the problem is i already have a boyfriend of 4 years who is the total opposite of this. Im...
A. 17 January 2006: You don't need to stay with someone that makes you miserable. You're just torturing yourself. If this other man said to leave him and he's serious about the two of you then do it! Be happy with yourself. Your boyfriend should get over it unless he ... (read in full...)
Once a cheat always a cheat?
Q. is the saying once a cheat always a cheat true?...
A. 16 January 2006: It's not totally true. People mostly cheat when they're not happy in their relationship or they're not getting the affection they expect and go elsewhere to look for it. Some people just do it for the fun of it. It just depends on the person and how ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was upset after his uncle died, so he kissed another girl (with tongues)! Does this count as cheating?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years kissed another girl (with tongues)the other day, he found out in the morning that his uncle had died and he says he was upset, so he went with this girl we both know to a coffee shop where they chatted for a bit before ...
A. 16 January 2006: I'm sorry sweetie, but this is definitely not an excuse to be kissing any other women. I agree with purrfectionist. He should've went to you before her about his uncle's death. It's wrong of him to be using this death as an excuse for kissing ... (read in full...)
He always cheats so I left him. Am I right to leave or are his relationships acceptable? Am I insecure?
Q. 2½yrs ago I found e mails between my husband and a female friend declaring their love etc. Also lots of calls in the middle of the night to his cell phone. He denied any sexual relationship and said it was a silly fantasy world he was in at the ...
A. 13 January 2006: I don't think your being unreasonable at all. No woman should be telling YOUR husband how much she loves him. There has to be something going on. If he hasn't always been like that and you don't feel the love that you felt before, then why stay in a ... (read in full...)
My past bothers him...what should I do?
Q. I have a somewhat wild past..my current boyfriend has heard many rumors and is now bothering him. We have discussed this, but its still bothering him. What should I do? ...
A. 10 January 2006: YOU shouldn't have to do anything. It's your past, if you're not like that anymore, then it shouldn't matter. A lot of people have a wild past and want to just move on from what they've done before.
I am one of them, my past isn't the greatest... (read in full...)
I cheated and slept with a guy... Now he's fallen in love with me and I'm scared he'll tell my boyfriend if I end it...
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend of 2 years. About 3 months ago I met another guy through a friend, and because I knew that he was interested in me. One evening I met him out and, because I was drunk, I ended up sleeping with him. That was 2 months ago ...
A. 10 January 2006: You should probably just end it with him and see what happens. If he tells your boyfriend, then awe well, you mostly deserve it anyways. You shouldn't be out having a "bit of fun" with anyone, except your boyfriend. It's just not right and it's ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's dating my friend..what do I do?
Q. i really like this guy but he is currently dateing my friend and i am the reason they are dateing. what do i do?...
A. 10 January 2006: You should most likely leave well enough alone. Why would you want to be with someone that is with your friend? Don't you think that would hurt your friendship, or do you not care? There are so many more men out there that AREN'T dating your friend, ... (read in full...)
She swallowed my sperm and claims she is pregnant!! Is this possible?
Q. i am a 13 yr old boy and my girlfriend and i have been having oral sex she wants to go all the way but i am afraid of having a baby, she wants a baby i dont. She said that because she has been swallowing that she is pregnant now, I said thats ...
A. 6 January 2006: This is definitely not possible. No one can get pregnant by swallowing sperm. There's no way at all. Tell her she is such a liar, because she is. You HAVE to have vaginal sex in order to become pregnant.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Lots of sex, but no orgasm for me, because my boyfriend is too quick! What can we do?
Q. I've had sex with my boyfriend many times, but he comes too fast and I've never really had an orgasm. Can someone tell me what should I do or how to delay him from ejaculating so fast?...
A. 4 January 2006: Have him please you a little bit before you guys have sex. That usually works. Toys, mouth, fingers, etc... As long as it gets you started before him, you guys shouldn't have any problems.... (read in full...)
It really bothers me that my man isn't affectionite unless he wants to have sex with me.
Q. My man is'nt very affectionite unless he wants to have sex with me it bothers me cause I try to give him kisses or rub him or what ever but he never does it to me unless he wants sex. even when we go out drinking he hates P.D.A's I hate it I could ...
A. 3 January 2006: I use to be in the same situation as you with my EX-boyfriend. Obviously it didn't work out due to the affection I wasn't getting from him. I too tried touching him and rubbing him, but he always pushed me away because I was annoying him with my ... (read in full...)
I get an orgasm each time I get intimate with my boy... Normal or lucky?
Q. I've read some of the questions about what an orgasm is and some replies said that they're not even sure it they've had one. It took him a while (about 4 mo., it was both our first times having any kind of sexual pleasure by another person), but now ...
A. 28 December 2005: There's definitely nothing abnormal about this. It happens to me too. I think we are both very lucky people!:)... (read in full...)
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