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writes: Hi,I have a boyfriend of 2 years. About 3 months ago I met another guy through a friend, and because I knew that he was interested in me. One evening I met him out and, because I was drunk, I ended up sleeping with him.That was 2 months ago now, and we've carried on seeing each other behind my boyfriend's back. The thing is, for me it was always just a bit of fun, but now this guy has totally fallen for me. he textx me every day and tells me he's in love and couldn't go on if I ended things with him.I like this guy very much, but only as a friend. I want to end things with him for good, but am scared to hurt him and am worried he would tell my boyfriend about us in revenge.How should I go about doing this?!
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (10 January 2006):
 You should probably just end it with him and see what happens. If he tells your boyfriend, then awe well, you mostly deserve it anyways. You shouldn't be out having a "bit of fun" with anyone, except your boyfriend. It's just not right and it's unfair to him. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate your boyfriend doing the same to you, right? I sure hope so.If this guy doesn't tell your boyfriend, then you're one lucky person. You shouldn't be out sleeping with people without thinking of the consequences that come afterwards. You have a boyfriend, if you want to sleep with others, get rid of your boyfriend and then sleep with whomever you want, then you don't have to worry about if he'll find out or not.Good Luck!
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (10 January 2006):
 For a start, what were you doing getting drunk without your boyfriend, or even an ORDINARY friend there to make sure you didn't do something stupid like, say, sleeping with someone?
And for another thing, why did you continue to see him for 2 months afterward, if it was a stupid mistake to begin with? You got yourself into this, and although I have no sympathy for people like you, you should probably stop seeing the "bit of fun", and if the boyfriend doesn't find out, you should be glad and never do this sort of thing again.
Of course, there's always the chance your boyfriend finds out, in which case it's up to him what happens.
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