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writes: Hi... i met a guy last week, we hit it off straight away, been exchaging a few txt messages and he phoned me at the weekend to see if i was out but unfortunately I wasnt, but said i was out during the week and he said great he'd see me out. Anyway out with the girls last night and when we got into the last bar (which was where i met him last week) he was in there with his mates. I said hi and went to the bar and he said "its kinda awkward im with my boss and need to make a good impression, ill come and speak to you later". His boss is female, so trying not to make out i was bothered i let it go,but anytime i did try speaking to him she kept approaching us and kept taking him away. And then started saying to his group of friends that we (me and my friends) were talking about them and stirring it. As I had drunk a few drinks i ended up sending him a few txts asking why but havent heard from him. I apologised this morning and dont know why. I like him and dont want to give up on it just yet, and i know it was only last week but i dont understand why he would ask if i was out and then turn up with his female boss! How can i rectify it without seeming like a jealous pyscho!!
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (2 February 2006):
 Seems like this guy may be playing games with you. I think you should just forget about him and move on. Especially if you haven't heard from him.
Anyways, it's kinda "awkward" that he's out with his female boss in a bar, w/his friends..... that's seems a little weird to me. If he's trying to make a good impression, then what are his buddies doing around also? You could've been around too then if he was interested in you, which I personally don't think he really is.
This guy is definitely not worth the effort or time. You should just move on and find someone new. There are so many more men out there that I'm sure you can hit it off with pretty good also.
It's only been a week anyways, at least, you found out how he must really be really early.
If he wants to talk to you, then let him call you, but don't try and get ahold of him anymore.
Good Luck!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (2 February 2006):
 Are you sure she was his boss and he wasn't stringing you along? Sack this guy off, he should have introduced you as a friend at least. I think he has something to hide and he isn't being excatly truthful with you. I mean you barely know him and he might even be married for all you know.
I wish you luck.x
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