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How do you overcome a deep obsession with an ex?

Q.   HOW DO YOU OVERCOME A DEEP OBSSESSION WITH AN EX??? Please dont tell me to move on; thats the point, I want and need to so desperately but cant seem to do it. How do I stop spying on him and his new girlfriend via myspace, looking at all her ...

A.   3 July 2007: I do the same thing :( for me it's been 8 months, not so different than u though... I think we'll never truly let go until we meet someone else, someone better who'd make us forget the past and not look back and better yet when we'd remember th... (read in full...)

the day he left.

Q.   ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...

A.   28 June 2007: wow! this is a very touchy story, I don't know what to say but, God bless u!... (read in full...)

Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?

Q.   hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...

A.   28 February 2007: when one dies, his spirit goes up & his body is left to decay in the earth... when his spirit goes up, everything he's ever done in his life is written in a "book" since the day he was born, till the day he dies, & if he's been doing good deed... (read in full...)

Do I tell him I like him a lot or not?

Q.   hello i think i am inlove with this guy called justin but i really dont know what to do about it? i dont know if he is single? or if he'd even consider anyone like me? he is about 2 years older than me and his name is justin he is well gorgous and i ...

A.   27 January 2007: hey gurl... heva am kindda in a similar situation, but what I do is that I get a frnd's help; we talk together when he's around & when am shy to start the talk my frnd does it n then leaves us space to talk, so we talk n throu talkin I got to know... (read in full...)

Being gay and brought up in the UK makes me find it difficult to understand why people do this!!!

Q.   My partner and I have been together for six years, recently he stated that he thought being gay was a desease and that people like us should not be able to have any rights and that he puts his family first before me. This came as shock, but he is a ...

A.   23 October 2006: Well it is definately time for u to move in, cos to him he was doing something shameful & he's a sinner...so he thought by leaving you & returning back to his native culture & religion it would just erase the fact that he's a gay & I think it is ... (read in full...)

How can I build my confidence or get rid of the acne??

Q.   hi! i am 16 years old and have acne on my face along the sideburns and around my neck and some on my nose. i have tried creams but nothing seems to work. i think that it deters some girls from speaking to me but there are still many who think i...

A.   21 October 2006: Hey this is a normal phase & it goes away as you grow, however do not ever play in them or sqeeze them cos this way they could leave a scar! Also make sure u wash ur face regularly using anti acne foam or jel or soap, also use clearsing tonic, howe... (read in full...)

How can I build my confidence or get rid of the acne??

Q.   hi! i am 16 years old and have acne on my face along the sideburns and around my neck and some on my nose. i have tried creams but nothing seems to work. i think that it deters some girls from speaking to me but there are still many who think i...

A.   21 October 2006: Hey this is a normal phase & it goes away as you grow, however do not ever play in them or sqeeze them cos this way they could leave a scar! Also make sure u wash ur face regularly using anti acne foam or jel or soap, also use clearsing tonic, howe... (read in full...)

Dating an Asian-Muslim girl..what kind of barriers and problems could arise from that?

Q.   Can anybody help me with problems arising from having a relationship with an Asian Muslim girl?...

A.   20 October 2006: Well, this is kindda complicated...u've sort of solved the religious part that you could convert...but the difference in the nationality cannot be solved unfortunately, but since both of you have already mistaken by having sex. so you've got no ... (read in full...)

I slept with him and now cant get rid of him, it was a mistake and wish it didnt happen!

Q.   Back in April I slept with this guy (he was my first and he wasn't my boyfriend it was just sex). I hate to sound b*tchy but I have to tell the truth... he was a bit of a minger. It grosses me out just thinking about him. No seriously. People would ...

A.   9 October 2006: Well u could tell him that he should stop texting u cos ur bf would get really angry if he knew or u could say that ur bf saw his texts & got really pissed off, tell him that if he cares 4 u then he should want u to be happy & that ur happy with ur ... (read in full...)

Im I being overly sensitive or is he hiding something ??

Q.   Hello guys. I wanted to ask advice on whether I should be worried about some texts I found on my boyfriends phone. I know I shouldnt have looked, but it was sitting there and I just oculdnt resist. It was more nosiness than anything to be honest, I ...

A.   9 October 2006: Everything could have a double meaning, so I guess u'll never know until u ask him!! like say u noticed he's got many texts from this gurl, but dont say that u went readin all of them, or u can simply open his mobile infront of him & say this gurl ... (read in full...)

I have been cheated on before, so I am expecting my new man to do the same. Am I worrying over nothing?

Q.   im wondering how a person can trust a man when been cheated on so many times by others. i am getting married in a year and i cant stop thinking about how he is just going to hurt me like all the others. so far so good. but i find because of the c...

A.   8 October 2006: Well, not all ppl are the same!! some ppl r assholes & could reall mess up our lives, but then again there r others who r gr8! it's all about making the right choice, so I believe u need to really know ur man b4 marrying him & making sure u know... (read in full...)

What do girls like to talk about?

Q.   there is this really pretty girl i fancy. i've only met her once when i saw my mates with her. she is single. i got her phone number. i text her whenever i have a reason. the conversation keeps runnin when i ask her what she's upto, and how's ...

A.   8 October 2006: You can ask her about things she's interested in, where she likes to hang out & what does she like to do in general, maybe u share similar things & do some activities together or smthin to get closer, also askin a girl a simple question like "how ... (read in full...)

I really like him, but he says he just wants to be friends and is scared of ruining what we have. What is the real problem?

Q.   im a 16year old girl who really likes this guy whos in my college and does the same course as me, and we told eachother we like eachother, but the other day he told me he wants us to remain friends because he doesnt want to ruin our friendship or ...

A.   7 October 2006: Well, I've had a quite similar situation with my bf at the begining, he only wanted to be just friends cos he thought that I was too good for him & he didn't want to lose me, the thing is cos I knew for sure that we both like each others I insisted ... (read in full...)

Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love?

Q.   Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. ...

A.   7 October 2006: Am having the opposite situation!! my boy frnd is a "bad-boy" & I just wish he'd become grown up & more mature! cos I feel like am going in a circle with no improvement!! so I think u should be glad that ur boy frnd has become devoted to u & only... (read in full...)

Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love?

Q.   Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. ...

A.   7 October 2006: Am having the opposite situation!! my boy frnd is a "bad-boy" & I just wish he'd become grown up & more mature! cos I feel like am going in a circle with no improvement!! so I think u should be glad that ur boy frnd has become devoted to u & only... (read in full...)

I met the love of my life before finding out my wife had cancer. She is now clear and I want to leave her. Do I go or stay?

Q.   I have a wife who has had cancer but it is now clear. She has a 40 to 60% chance of the cancer reappearing. I met the love of my life 1 month before the diagnosis. If I go I will feel very guilty, if I stay I will loose my dream relationship. Do ...

A.   7 October 2006: The love of ur life uve only known 4 a month, but ur wife uve known 4 a life time I assume, so what if u leave ur sick wife 4 this new gurl & then find out that u dont really know her that well?? I think u should stay by ur wife's side, at leas... (read in full...)

I met the love of my life before finding out my wife had cancer. She is now clear and I want to leave her. Do I go or stay?

Q.   I have a wife who has had cancer but it is now clear. She has a 40 to 60% chance of the cancer reappearing. I met the love of my life 1 month before the diagnosis. If I go I will feel very guilty, if I stay I will loose my dream relationship. Do ...

A.   6 October 2006: The love of ur life uve only known 4 a month, but ur wife uve known 4 a life time I assume, so what if u leave ur sick wife 4 this new gurl & then find out that u dont really know her that well?? I think u should stay by ur wife's side, at leas... (read in full...)

My friend is obsessed with MSN messenger! It's like she's forgotten about her real world friendships..what can I do?

Q.   One of my best friends (and who I thought of as a potential g/f) has become obsessed with talkin on msn! She's on it pretty much every night and usually talks to about 10 different people at the same time which hardly constitutes as a proper ...

A.   28 September 2006: You could try talkin to her on MSN for a while & getting really close to her through it, until she gets used to chatting with u daily, then stop going online...then she would have to leave the net world and go to the real world to find u... (read in full...)

Am I being too sensitive if my fiancee comments on the girls around us?

Q.   Trying to figure out if I am too sensitive... My fiance (seems like) on a regular basis makes comments such as "she has nice breasts" or "she is really hot" in front of me. I told him that his comments are hurtful, but he continues to do ...

A.   14 August 2006: My bf does the same thing! but he does it to tease me, besides some gurls get over dressed to attract eyes, I told him if he looked again I'd leave & that maybe he should go sit with them instead, then he just holds me closer & stops lookin, he said ... (read in full...)

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