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Should he wear a condom during fellatio or a hand job?

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Question - (16 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job or a hand job and I was just wondering should he wear a condom and what happens when he cums, do I stop and let him take over, I am a little unsure as I have never done his before. Thank you.

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A male reader, Mark25 United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2008):

Mark25 agony auntThis one is basically down to how comfortable you feel and whether he has and STD. If you're unsure about his sexual health then, yes, wear a condom. Like PsyCookie says, though, make sure it's flavoured. You can get an STD from a hand job. If you have any cuts or sores on your hands or fingers and it comes into contact with semen then you can get an STD. You have to ask yourself "are you comfortable with doing these things without a condom?" If you're not, then make him wear one. But also ask yourself if your comfortable doing these things at all. Don't be pressured into doing something that you don't want to do.

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (16 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntIt depends. If he's free of STDs, then it's safe to not use a condom. If you don't know if he has STDs, it would be wise to ask him if he does and if he doesn't answer you, make him use a condom. Also, a condom can prevent you from swallowing of spitting if you don't think you will stand his fluids (and smell).

OH! if you decide for him to wear a condom, MAKE SURE IT'S A FLAVORED ONE. If you get a regular condom, YOU WILL REGRET IT. That latex taste doesn't come off easily, you know! Get your favorite flavor and make him wear it. You could get the banana flavored condom for comedy effect if you want.

Taking him over will just depend on the mood, but most of the time it ends right there. Just remember to make him really horny before you do the act. After you give him the blow-job, he will be satisfied.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (16 August 2008):

O Connor agony auntwith a hand job there is no need for a condom - condoms are for protection and there is no risk of pregnancy from giving a hand job. as for giving a blow job - it is kind of up to you, i know alot of girls who use flavoured condoms when giving head. also with the cumming situation again it is up to you. when i am giving head i stop when he cums as i really hate the taste!!! its up to you hunny, just make sure you are careful and are comfortable.

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