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writes:so my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 and 1/2 years now. were pretty sexually active, but not too much. when we do things in bed, i want them to be good for him, and me too. dont get me wrong, they are good. theyre great. but i just wonder if they could be better. i heard that doing "doggie style" (cept not in the butt) feels pretty good for the girl. that it hits the "spot" or whatever. but the thing is, i dont want him to see my butthole. i think thats gross. but covering myself up with a blanket or something would be a turnoff to him.so heres the question, how can i do it like that without him seeing my butthole and being grossed out and me feeling embarrassed? or should i just try to get over it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Helper45 +, writes (6 April 2013):
Ok, if he loves him and you love him it won't be embarrassing or disgusting for either because that's just love. And have you tried 69 or butterfly you should there good for the man and guy GIVE HIM A BJ my man lives that and u guys will be happy with the sex adjustments
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reader, resplendentwings +, writes (16 April 2009):
Turn the lights off, maybe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmm, i guess i shouldnt be ashamed. its true, he does have one too. i think im getting my confidence up. and i know he'll be happy when we actually try it. (:
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 August 2008):
 In my opinion, you should not be ashamed about any part of your body. You may be too young to be doing any of this, but heck, so was I active at your age. Anyway, he also has a butthole and we have all seen one or more. The one solution is to simply do it in the dark.
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (17 August 2008):
 Trust me he wont be woried about looking at your butthole. Guys love the doggy style anyway because they can see ther penis going into and out of you so trust me when I say wont be consentrated on your butt hole. Yes he will probley see it but wont concentrate on it. And if he does look at it so what they like it so yes in a way you do need to try and get over it there are so manu dif styles you can try that involve him looking down there. Plus you want him to look, dont want him sticking it in the wrong hole do we, by accedent anyway.
Take care
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (16 August 2008):
 He will not see your butt hole, I assure you.
He'll be too concentrated in the act and feeling pleasured. Looking at your butthole and feeling disgusted woul be the last thing in his mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): You'll need to get over it. Make sure there's no shit around it and there won't be a problem.Doing 'doggy' involves a certain amount of looking at your butt hole, but it's nothing to be ashamed of or to hide - everyone has got one!
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