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writes:I was with a guy for one year we were engaged and I am curently pregnant with his baby. He left me for a girl 14 years younger than him we were having a few problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. I love this man with all of my heart and want to be a family again. I hope one day he will come back. We have been split up for about 6 weeks now. We talk off and on about the baby. I am wondering if anyone has any advice as I am sure my friends and family are sick of hearing about it. Is there a chance he may wake up and come back to me and our unborn child?? Also it was a long distance relationship I was going to move myself and my child to where he is.Thank you Jessica
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): Thank you guys for your feed back! He says he wants to be in the childs life as much as possible! I have an older child also so for sure the pregnancy and my toddler are my focus! I was just hoping he would come around and it looks like he may for the baby which makes me more than happy! We will see how the next while goes.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Probably not. Although he may try to stay in the child's life, he'd really have to be living in the same area as you and the baby. The most you could probably get is child maintanence.
I hate to be blunt, but I'm someone who would know.
You should talk to him about this whole situation properly if you haven't already and sort something out.
I really hope things work out for you.
good luck
xx
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (30 May 2010):
 He's irresponsible. He's in this thirties so he can't use "I don't want to be free I don't want to be tied up yet" as an excuse. Unless he's Jackie Chan what's the use to keep him? Just focus on the baby and enjoy your pregnancy for now. Travelling is not recommended for young children. Your baby needs to be in a stable environment. Stay where you are. When you notice yourself keep thinking about your fiance, switch your focus on feeling, you and your baby's existence and less about your relationship status. Have faith that it would all work out in the end.
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