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No replies yet... 1 June 2017: GET out there..It might be terrifying,but you need to broaden your social horizons.Go on line,join a club or go to a speed-dating night You will not find love in your living room.REVAMP your image;Ask a good friend to appraise your style.Do you need ...
CatFish, and tips to keep you safe
No replies yet... 10 May 2017: CatFish,has nothing to do with either Cats or Fish.As you will probably know ..CATFISH....is a person male/female who will put a fake profile on dating sites....and will contact many people or maybe just one and have a relationship be it ...
Nora B, Sharing thoughts on observations about life and struggle
No replies yet... 22 October 2016: In this day and age when trains stations are crammed with people,coming and going,roadways are congested with traffic. Meeting deadlines maybe at the cost of ones job. Emotions have taken a backseat,love and friendship are something to be ...
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Broke up with my ex of 2 yrs. It was 2 months ago but I don't feel I'm moving on. Is that normal?
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years and I recently broke up. I guess it's not really recently its been since Thanksgiving. She has a new boyfriend and I have new girlfriend who I like a lot don't get me wrong, but I can't seem to shake off my past girlfrie...
A. 6 January 2013: To be in love with your ex-girl for 2 years was wonderful.There is no way you can move on after only 2 months this is not possible.You need time and a lot of space to yourself to move on Not always wise to go into another relationship so soon .Take ... (read in full...)
Lack of experience and concern about my size is holding me back from forming relationships.
Q. I am a virgin and I am interested in sex and relationships but I am afraid because I am in experienced and i have a small penis. The internet forums I have been on I have seen women talk about not being able to stay with otherwise great guys who...
A. 6 January 2013: Real love for a man is loving the total man, the size of a man penis should not come into it. The sexual act is part of a relationship not the total relationship. Don't judge all women the same as the woman you stated .I know you are hurt at the m... (read in full...)
He's busy and antisocial. So why did he ask me out?
Q. I got to know of this guy through my friend. We only met once that time together with my friend. Since then he hasn't messaged nor called, until one day he asked if I am interested in a movie. So we went out for movie and dinner. he told me he is...
A. 6 January 2013: This guy is being very honest with you right from the start and that is a good thing. He is not trying to impress you he is just himself. So if you are interestd in him you would have to accept his Personaility as he is. Give him a ring for a chat ... (read in full...)
Bf cheats and lies. I'm scared that breaking up will leave a void. How do I get the courage to leave?
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me a year and a bit ago and I only recently found out. We broke up last January and got back together in May. I found out about the cheating 3 months ago after his sister had enough of his behaviour and set me s...
A. 5 January 2013: You yourself have answered yourself when you stated in your letter .That You know that you need to end it. You are alone in this relationship if one could call it that.Once trust is broken its gone for good .At the tender age of 20 years start ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him the truth? Now or in September, when he has such high expectations of how I look?
Q. So I met this guy on the internet three years ago and we started talking. I lied to him and told him I had, had sex. We stopped talking for a while but recently we re-gained our friendship. When I say friendship I mean he is a really good friend....
A. 4 January 2013: As you now have become friends again i would tell him the truth about the sex question. Then in a friendly way i would describe your appearence to him. Ask him what he looks like. There is no one Perfect so that is the good news. But you must have a ... (read in full...)
What can I do to relax and cope and overcome my fear of sex with my husband? We love each other and he is a good husband.
Q. hi, i am a married girl. My husband loves and cares for me. he is a very good husband and i too love him a lot. but the problem is i am scared of sex. i will get scared of pain. whenever we want to have sex, i will become scared and then we cant...
A. 4 January 2013: As your are so lucky that your husbands love you. He will understand if you suggest that it might be a great help for you if you went to see a counsellor. He might also like to go with you and both of you discuss at indept level the problem with the ... (read in full...)
He lied about sleeping with someone while we were apart and it has broken the trust in our relationship, what should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, To begin with, I'm in a relationship for like 3 months now, and I've been with that same guy in a relationship 2 years until we broke up in 2011. So we got back together, obviously. Things went very good, we get along extremely ...
A. 3 January 2013: I note that you did not say the Reason why you broke up in the first place.However as you have lived with the man for 2 years you are the only one to decide if you can trust him.Lies in a relationship can break trust and its hard to build that trusy ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband never want to have sex?
Q. We were in love for 4-5 years before getting married and we use to have sex everyday,sometimes 2-3 times a day. Even if i did'ent want to,i would do it to satisfy him. But since we got married it just reduced and fell apart. He just does'ent ...
A. 3 January 2013: First of all its not a good idea to try and force your husband to have sex with you.it will probably have the opposite effect and you will feel more rejected.I think it might be a good idea for you to alone and talk to a marraige counsellor.He/she ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex that I found out he's bipolar and I'm ok with it?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 1yr and even though he is gentle and sweet, he has a dark side that I could detect. I"ve even seen it a couple of times. I recently found out that he is bipolar and he's asked me not to contact him again. I found ...
A. 3 January 2013: I suggest that you do research on Bipolar and find out as much information as you can .Try and ask him to have a quiet talk about everything and sort the situation out. It may take time as he will e feeling upset that you found out yourself. Be ... (read in full...)
I like this guy I work with but don't know if he feels the same.
Q. Hey all! I share an office room with a colleague of mine. He joined our company in August, he is the son of one of the CEOs of the company. We didn't speak much during the first few weeks but once we started talking, we got along like a house on ...
A. 2 January 2013: It is never never Wise to mix work and pleasure. He seems very nice but as you stated he is much the same with the other girls in the office. It would be wiser to have only have a work relationship with him for the sake of staying in your job long ... (read in full...)
Was his flirting a trick? Is he actually trying to get me out of a job?
Q. I have been in this job over two months, this colleague is now more of a friend to me he is a senior. He is always helpful and we do get along but I am worried what his agenda is now. We do have a flirty relationship but professional one too. ...
A. 1 January 2013: Its never never a good idea to mix work and pleasure.As you still have 4 months probation re your work situation.I would thread very carefully as you said you dont know his agenda.It would be wiser for you to keep a professional relationship with ... (read in full...)
How long to get over a break up?
Q. He was the third bf. My first ex was my first love - we were together 2 years and I got over him in one year, the second I got over in one month. But this one, we were together just around one year but I can't get over him at all. I was strongly i...
A. 1 January 2013: In love we cannot compare the amount of time it takes to get over past boyfriends ,As they all have different personaility and your amount of involvent would be different wih each boyfriend. But each time there is a breakup there is much hurt and it ... (read in full...)
How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?
Q. One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not s...
A. 1 January 2013: Right from the start the chemistry is there between a man and woman.As he is your friend you owe him the truth.Be gentle but firm and tell him the way you feel.He may feel hurt in the begining but time will heal the hurt and he may thank you later ... (read in full...)
Why can't my family and friends mind their own business about my dating life? How should I respond?
Q. Dear Cupid, it's has been nine years since I have been in a relationship and now people who I know want me to return to the relationship scene . I feel like I am not ready yet I want to do me right now I feel if I go back to being with somebody...
A. 31 December 2012: Its so painful being hurt again and again but Time is a great healer. Each of us take a different amount of time and we must deal with it in our own way and our own Time. People have your best interest at heart and know that you have a lot to offer ... (read in full...)
How can I win my son's love again? Please help!
Q. After my divorce, my son changed totally with me, he was so close to me but now he changed and he told his dad that he saw me with another man and this was 5 years back. I thought he forget about it but he didn't .I was not happy with my husband at ...
A. 31 December 2012: None of us are prefect we all mistakes and hopefully we learn by them.I notice that you did not mention your sons age.Taking his age into consideration. i suggest that you have a long chat with your son and help to clear up the issue he has whem he ... (read in full...)
Long term family friend has confessed, when drunk, that he's depressed. But so far he's not getting treatment. What is the right thing for me to do?
Q. Let me just give you some background. My friend and I have known each other since birth. Our parents and families are friends. We grew up together and went to the same school and are in a big friendship group together. He is well liked and respec...
A. 31 December 2012: This is a very big load for you to carry.Sometimes when a person is drunk the truth comes out.He is very lucky to have such a good friend as you. Have a long chat with him and find out as much about his problem as you can .Be there for him and if ... (read in full...)
Why did he wait so long to contact me? Then ask about a present, for him? Does he like me?
Q. I met up with this guy who is my friend's colleague We both know that my friend want to introduce us to each other that is why she organised the meetup. According to my friend, this guy is quite shy and not proactive in talking to girls and doesn'...
A. 30 December 2012: First of all he is out of line to ask for a present this is not correct behaviour at all My advise on this is not to waste your time even thinking about him. you owe him nothing.Start living your own life and meet someone nice .Best of luck. Nora B.... (read in full...)
I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.
Q. I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bill...
A. 30 December 2012: It takes 2 people to be in a marraige-you are on your own.That is very hurtful situation to be in.he blames you for everything but he is the silly one not you.YOU DESERVE to be loved respected and have your opinion heard.Because you are so aware of ... (read in full...)
Was I justified to walk away from a man who would not commit? I'm finding it hard to move on.
Q. Hi all. Just two weeks ago I ended a relationship with a man I had deep feelings for. He was not willing to commit to me. He and I were seeing each other for a year but he broke it off and started seeing someone else. All the while, he contin...
A. 29 December 2012: HI .Anonymouse.WELL DONE YOU.You were more then justfied to walk away from this man.He is a man that is selfish and has no reaL FEELINGS FOR ANYONE BUT HIMSELF.Try and be strong and dont take him back.He is allready doing the same with his new ... (read in full...)
My story, update and appreciation to everyone who has helped me.
Q. I haven't wrote an article on this site recently and well I think its about time as i'm so valued here that I update my life, and well give everyone an insight to why I came on this site and why I love giving people advice and help. ...
A. 28 December 2012: Hi Almighty Duck. How wonderful to read your life experience at such a tender age. Well done you. In helping others you helped yourself.It was a pleasure to read and i know it will again help others .Thank you and the best of llife at all levels. ... (read in full...)
Do you still believe that love is central? That love makes the world go round?
Q. To be in love is pure magic,but lovng that special person maybe not be that easy. So it is very important to be true always to youself. Always remembering that we are treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated. We must know ourselves first ...
A. 28 December 2012: HI Anastasic. Many thanks for your reply 10/6/2012.You are very much to the point. I respect your opinion.Hope you have a very happy New Year. Best Wishes. Nora B.... (read in full...)
Do you still believe that love is central? That love makes the world go round?
Q. To be in love is pure magic,but lovng that special person maybe not be that easy. So it is very important to be true always to youself. Always remembering that we are treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated. We must know ourselves first ...
A. 28 December 2012: Dear Anonymous.Thank you for your very kind answwer on the 10/6/2012.Its quiet true and pointed. i appreciate it very much. May i wish you a very happy Near Year 2012.Kind regards . Nora B.... (read in full...)
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