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36-40,
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writes:I met up with this guy who is my friend's colleagueWe both know that my friend want to introduce us to each other that is why she organised the meetup. According to my friend, this guy is quite shy and not proactive in talking to girls and doesn't ask girls out. But during the meetup, we have quite a number of things to talk about, although I agree he is less chatty than normal guys. So after the dinner, my friend left. The guy foot the bill and as I do not have enough money, he said I can treat next time. The guy and I took a train back. During the journey, he asked if I mind giving him my phone number. I gave him. However, since then (one month ago) he has not messaged me at all or call me. During Christmas eve, he suddenly asked "what's up?" to me ND saying merry Christmas. He asked me where is his present. I said i still owe you a treat. He said really..but that is not a Christmas present. Then we talked abit more about his work. Now it is silent again. I am not sure what is his impression of me and why he only texts me during occasions.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (30 December 2012):
First of all he is out of line to ask for a present this is not correct behaviour at all My advise on this is not to waste your time even thinking about him. you owe him nothing.Start living your own life and meet someone nice .Best of luck. Nora B.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 There are man who do not ask girls out because they have the impression that men get rejected most of the time. He resents that and would only get in the game when the girl does the initiative. Sometimes they think that women enjoy teasing men and just getting pursued. So they give up and tell you that women, if you want a relationship you have to do the asking. I would not bother with those men. They are not just shy but they harbor resentment towards their role in the dating ritual. If he does not show you enough interest, then do not show interest for him. He does not even give you a chance to get to know you to see if you like each other. You do not owe him anything.
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