I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 20 July 2009: Tina, I am so so sorry this has happened to you. You need time to recover, and to understand that this just wasn't meant to be - however, I'm sure you will have another baby, and that will be meant to be.At least now your boyfriend has come to terms ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 13 June 2009: He sounds to me like he has a problem coping with responsibility, and he messes up, and then just can't deal with what he's done. You are sensible and only controlling in the sense that you want things to run smoothly and normally, i guess ... he ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 12 June 2009: Also, bit strange that you said you had no idea why he left, but now you are going to counselling and wondering if he will ever forgive you ... sounds to me like you have a very good idea why he left. ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 12 June 2009: So what exactly have you been doing to him?
And how did he screw up? It sounds like maybe you never quite forgave him for that, and have been controlling him ever since. What form does that take? Whatever it is, it has completely sent him off his ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 12 June 2009: ps
and for the moment, you absolutely must leave him be - don't try to talk to him if he has said he doesn't want to. Wait until he comes to you. You can't force this.
Of course, there is the other issue of his utter meanness in leaving you ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 12 June 2009: Well, good news that he hasn't actually disappeared but just think about what he has done, and why ... he has just abandoned you, leaving you to worry and not know where he was. Other people have helped in this. You do, I think, need to analyse ... (read in full...)
I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!
Q. My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...
A. 11 June 2009: Well unless you're not telling the whole story (but I'm sure you are!) then it looks horribly like he has done a disappearing act on you. But what about his parents? And friends? What do they say? Aren't they worried that maybe something has ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared about my skin cancer!
Q. hey .. im a 15 year old girl and i need sum advice .. i am a carer of my mum who has skin cancer and i found out i do to .. and she is always in hospital .. and wen she 1st started gettin it she had a lump (sist) on the inside of her mouth ... an...
A. 9 June 2009: You poor thing. Listen, you absolutely don't know that what you have got is the same as what your mum has - it could be something else. Have you got a nice doctor? Maybe a lady doctor? You need to go to the docs and let them have a look at this ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and not sure who is the daddy..maybe the old flame?
Q. Im in a huge dilemna, I am currently 6 weeks and 6 days pregnant (tomorrow will be 7 weeks). I got my period April 22, 2009. I went on vacation from April 26-May 3rd 2009. On that trip, I ran into an old flame and slept with him every night from ...
A. 9 June 2009: It is of course absolutely most likely that it is the old flame.
If your periord started on the 22nd, you would most likely have had your fertile 24 hours (24 hours when the ovum is available for fertilisation) on 1-5 May, and most likely around t... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex's new girl that he's cheating on her?
Q. ok this is kinda hard for me to write this but i really need advice, Im still good friends with my ex bf and we do still get on great,he has a new gf whos pregnent with his baby and yes i admit i find it really hard sometimes to see them both tog...
A. 9 June 2009: Hi there
I don't think you should say anything. She is in a very vulnerable position, and she doesn't need to know this AT ALL. She needs him there and with her throughout the pregnancy and when the baby is born -if you tell her, that probably won'... (read in full...)
Going back and forth between 2 brothers, cheating, rape
Q. hi i realy need help on this i had a baby a few months ago and i got postnatel depression and i started to hang about wid a friend and my boyfriends brother and my boyfriend was never supportive when my depression got worse so i turned to his ...
A. 8 June 2009: Well done - best choice - hope it works out!
nx... (read in full...)
Going back and forth between 2 brothers, cheating, rape
Q. hi i realy need help on this i had a baby a few months ago and i got postnatel depression and i started to hang about wid a friend and my boyfriends brother and my boyfriend was never supportive when my depression got worse so i turned to his ...
A. 7 June 2009: I feel very sorry for you. You are in a really vulnerable position - being pregnant is a breeze compared to the year or so afterwards - trust me. Your emotions are up and down as your hormones do stuff and you try to return to normal and can't, in ... (read in full...)
Going back and forth between 2 brothers, cheating, rape
Q. hi i realy need help on this i had a baby a few months ago and i got postnatel depression and i started to hang about wid a friend and my boyfriends brother and my boyfriend was never supportive when my depression got worse so i turned to his ...
A. 7 June 2009: I feel very sorry for you. You are in a really vulnerable position - being pregnant is a breeze compared to the year or so afterwards - trust me. Your emotions are up and down as your hormones do stuff and you try to return to normal and can't, in ... (read in full...)
Going back and forth between 2 brothers, cheating, rape
Q. hi i realy need help on this i had a baby a few months ago and i got postnatel depression and i started to hang about wid a friend and my boyfriends brother and my boyfriend was never supportive when my depression got worse so i turned to his ...
A. 6 June 2009: Hmm. This is a weird one. I think technically it perhaps was rape (sex without consent), but he hadn't had negative consent (ie, you hadn't said to him 'whatever you do, don't have sex with me'). In a relationship, I think it's tricky to draw the ... (read in full...)
I go to swingers' parties alone and it can mess up my marriage if it's found out!
Q. Although I love my husband dearly and he is the best father to our two children, he doesn't satisfy me sexually. My biggest fantasy was to have sex with many different men. Finally I brought up the idea of bringing in a partner. I even said he ...
A. 5 June 2009: sorry - just saw you have two children.
Don't risk their happiness for the sake of a few orgasms with some strangers. Well, do, if you want to - but as a mother, what is more important to you - sex, or your kids?... (read in full...)
I go to swingers' parties alone and it can mess up my marriage if it's found out!
Q. Although I love my husband dearly and he is the best father to our two children, he doesn't satisfy me sexually. My biggest fantasy was to have sex with many different men. Finally I brought up the idea of bringing in a partner. I even said he ...
A. 5 June 2009: Tell her that you asked him and he refused and got really angry, and that you can't bring it up again.
That's the practical answer. Now the moral one:
If you want to carry on like this - satisfying yr sexual desires out of the home - I won't p... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me now?
Q. Please help me... Before a boy relli flirted with me at my birthday party. We dance to the last song and he span me around and we dance really romantically. Before the Party people said he has changed around me. The party was in the half term of...
A. 1 June 2009: Trust me, he really likes you ... he too is just a bit unsure about how to go about this. Just enjoy this period before everything happens - where every look and gesture is so important and exciting :) ... it is a wonderful time.
I am sure som... (read in full...)
What is cam2cam?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a while and he wants to do cam2cam...i am willing to do this but i don't really know what happens during cam2cam. I know that it does involve getting naked but what else do you do??? please help because i don't ...
A. 1 June 2009: Don't be daft - you are too trusting. Think about it. You take your clothes off in what seems the privacy of your own room, with this one guy watching you - but (a) he could so easily be videoing it and (b) maybe all his mates are sitting on the ... (read in full...)
How do I have a vaginal orgasm?
Q. I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x...
A. 30 May 2009: Personally I think it depends on you, and on your partner, in terms of dimensions. For me, being on top or having my partner on top with his legs either side of mine (so mine closed, his open) is the best way to ensure vaginal orgasm. There has to ... (read in full...)
What is love? What does it mean?
Q. i'm 16 and in high school. i was wondering what is love? i know its a strong feeling you have towards someone, but how do you know when your in love?...
A. 30 May 2009: Trust me, you know.
Ok, this is what I have observed:
There are several types of love. You can list these as:
1. Sexual/romantic love - based on strong attraction between two people
2. Deep attachment love - for your family, and eventually f... (read in full...)
My life is in ruins, how could another human being do this to me?
Q. i had been happily married for 12 years to a beautiful woman who i loved dearly, something i always thought was mutual. we had about 5 years together before we both decided to start a family, and were overjoyed when our first child was born in ...
A. 27 May 2009: wow. that is an astonishing tale, and you have been extraordinarily unlucky, and your children. having said that, this sort of thing often, i am afraid, happens to women - it just seems so shocking when it happens to a man.
she has betrayed... (read in full...)
I'm the other woman..who got her married man. But now it's all going wrong! Help!
Q. I fell in love with a married man 5 years ago who was funny, attentive and loving all the time and spent most of his time with me including weekends and holidays. He did finally leave his wife who has move on and got remarried with a new child 2 ...
A. 27 May 2009: Don't listen to the idiots judging. Thousands of people get divorced and then have a new relationship, if not millions of people. If you're of a certain age, you're likely to have children. So many people have complicated family lives and ... (read in full...)
I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying
Q. Ok, here's my problem: I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying. It's gotten to the point where I can't relax at all if my mum or brother leaves the house. I'm not sure why I feel like this... I can't pinpoint the ...
A. 27 May 2009: ps
just seen that someone here said you might need medication - I think you should tell them to absolutely bugger off with that, as you DON'T need that - you just need psychological therapy to re-train your thinking, and get rid of the bad habi... (read in full...)
I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying
Q. Ok, here's my problem: I'm irrationally scared of one of my family members going missing or dying. It's gotten to the point where I can't relax at all if my mum or brother leaves the house. I'm not sure why I feel like this... I can't pinpoint the ...
A. 27 May 2009: I am so sorry - this sounds horrid, and you're right, you have sort of developed an anxiety disorder. I am certain it is the effect of your brother's melodramatic threats. And your problem now is that although you know that rationally he isn't going ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wonder about my boyfriend after his "jokey" ways.
Q. hi, i just found out im pregnant, im 19 and not in the best economic position. ive not been with my boyfriend for long but its grown into a great relationship and feels like we've been together a very long time. We've really been getting along and ...
A. 27 May 2009: I don't know what it is with men, either. I think there are kind of two types with pregnancy. Well, maybe more. There are those who behave as we would think normally - they are happy, they love you and the baby, they look after you, they are ... (read in full...)
Married to the Mob
Q. I was married to a man whom I felt I no longer loved, so I divorced him and a couple years later, I met whom I felt was my dream lover. He swept me off my feet for 3 years we dated then finally I agreed to marry him, well almost immediately he ...
A. 26 May 2009: I am so sorry. Firstly, you haven't done anything wrong - in fact, you have been loving, and have trusted, and have entrusted yourself and your children to the care of a guy you truly believed deserved your love and trust. That he turns out to be ... (read in full...)
I have fallen head over heals for a straight man who is 26 years old and with eyes that can melt butter.
Q. I have fallen head over heals for a straight man who is 26 years old and with eyes that can melt butter. We were to go out for lunch sometime, swimming on a day and date he picked but he backed out. I mean this man is gorgeous and I really want ...
A. 26 May 2009: He's straight - that means that however much you fancy him, he won't fancy you. It is the same if, for example, a straight woman falls for a gay guy. Basically, it is tough, and that's it.
You need to find someone else who is gay. I think you shou... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 26 May 2009: hey there ...
you have got someone with you - me! I am listening, and thinking of you, and would give you a hug and make you feel better, if I could.
A very similar thing happened to me, at your age, too. My father said/did the same thing - said t... (read in full...)
Can pre-ejaculation cause pregnancy??
Q. if one has sex,but ejaculation is not done ,then does a women has chances to be pregnant without ejaculation.or is it natural that even if ejaculation is not done,then too sperms are released into a females body.plz help..!!...
A. 23 May 2009: I have read a lot about this fluid they are all taking about, and this is what I learnt:
If a man put his penis inside a woman and takes it out before he ejaculates, yes, she can become pregnant, because ... when the penis is getting ready to... (read in full...)
I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?
Q. I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))...
A. 23 May 2009: 1. Are you sure you're gay? (sorry - you probably are, which is why you are writing, but there's still debate as to whether this is a biological thing you were born with, or the result of your upbringing, or a combination of the two).
2. Followin... (read in full...)
I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?
Q. I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))...
A. 23 May 2009: 1. Are you sure you're gay? (sorry - you probably are, which is why you are writing, but there's still debate as to whether this is a biological thing you were born with, or the result of your upbringing, or a combination of the two).
2. Followin... (read in full...)
Why does vaginal flatulence happen? How can I make my vagina smell nicely?
Q. Why does farting sounds come from vagina even not during sex. will these sounds disappoint boys?pls suggest. also tell me how can i make my vagina smell pleasant?...
A. 23 May 2009: Some sort of noise like that is just a noise - there isn't any smell with it. To be honest I don't think it should happen unless during sex (when it happens because air is pushed up into the vagina), but I'm not a medical expert. You could go to ... (read in full...)
What would make a friend that was so close suddenly not talk to you?
Q. What would make a friend that was so close suddenly not talk to you? This guy that liked me was close and we were just friends until one day he was silent. I think something happened but if he doesn't want to talk about it I can't make him. I will ...
A. 23 May 2009: Someone might have said something to him about you. The thing that definitely would stop him talking to you (as a bloke - they are very very proud) would be if someone told him that you had laughed about him behind his back, or said you didn't like ... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 21 May 2009: hey, i hope you're ok ... please write and tell us you are!
have just read all the posts since i asked you way back about what happened. and i am the one who Star gave you the link to.
you and your friend are right - if you had an abortion aga... (read in full...)
Over a year later and I'm still not over her
Q. Over a year later, and a few women after I'm still not over her. I feel nothing when I kiss "new" women. The only relationship that I've been able to salvage from dating is one friendship. Two women have "confessed their love" for me since her, but ...
A. 15 May 2009: I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I don't think you should be harsh on yourself - you should be as kind to yourself as possible. I don't think you should force yourself to cut her out completely, but I think you should try to exclude ... (read in full...)
My wife pregnant by lover from open relationship I encouraged
Q. my wife is pregnant by her lover I encouraged an open relationship, she now wants to move in with him, H e is black and big I am white and 5'5 inches tall....
A. 15 May 2009: So what's the problem? You haven't really explained what that is.
Do you not want her to go with this man? Do you feel humiliated that she wants to be with someone taller than you? Have you two got any children together?
To be honest, I imagin... (read in full...)
I think its impossible for me to be pregnant!
Q. My partner has been on holidays for almost 4 months, so we havent had sexually intercourse for a while. He got back a 2 weeks ago. I am now 9 days later havent had a pregnancy test not sure if i want to. i was talking to my partner about this and we ...
A. 15 May 2009: When is the last time you had sex with him, and what happened?... (read in full...)
I destroyed any chances of being with him again
Q. I'm going to apologize first because this is long but I am very desperate now so please help me. My ex and I were together for one month. That one month was amazing. We connected at first site. Long story short it was special. It was a short but ...
A. 12 May 2009: ps
It's not that you've destroyed your chances - he's destroyed his!... (read in full...)
I destroyed any chances of being with him again
Q. I'm going to apologize first because this is long but I am very desperate now so please help me. My ex and I were together for one month. That one month was amazing. We connected at first site. Long story short it was special. It was a short but ...
A. 12 May 2009: I'm sorry but he sounds to me like an absolute monster, very controlling, and incapable of a normal, warm, loving relationship.
What did you do? You got drunk, yes. Better not to have done, but it's not as if you had sex with a football team or ... (read in full...)
Completely devestated that g/f left me
Q. Going to be a semi-long story but here it goes. Basically, almost 2 months later I am completely devastated that my girlfriend left me. We were together for 2 1/2 years, almost 3 years it would've been this June. Now, the reason for the break ...
A. 12 May 2009: Firstly, sorry you feel so bad - it is a pretty difficult time for you now, but remember that it won't always be like this - you'll get through it and be happy again, whether with her or someone else. I tend to think it will probably be with someone ... (read in full...)
Wondering what this could mean, if anything?
Q. hi aunts, this is a bit af an odd question and i aint guna make it to graphic, i have never had regular periods but the last 2 years i have had one every 5 weeks, however my last one came at 7 weeks then this one at 5 again but the last 2 havnt ...
A. 10 May 2009: Periods go in sort of cycles - you might have two years where they come every 5 weeks, then 3 years where every 4 weeks, then 6 months every 4.5 - well, that's what I've had, anyhow (and I am perfectly fine and have had three children, so obviously ... (read in full...)
Sex just isn't happening!
Q. Hi! I lost my virginity a few years back with a randomer, didnt use a condom and it just kinda slipped in and worked the way it was supposed to! Since then my experience has been pretty much non-existant. Ive been with my gf now for a few months...
A. 9 May 2009: Forget the bloody condom. It's an awful thing. I know everyone says to use them, but if you've only had sex once, and she is a virgin, you could just go quietly without her knowing and get yourself checked out, to make sure you don't have any STDs ... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband, but I like him very much. Should I leave?
Q. I don't love my husband, I like him, but something has died. He's still my best friend but we've grown apart. We've been married 29 years and have no children of our own, but two sons from his first marriage - he was widowed. He's 19 years older ...
A. 9 May 2009: I think that given your stage of life, and the fact that he doesn't seem to see you as a sexual partner at all now (having gone elsewhere, and still attempting to do so), then you deserve much much more joy in your life.
It's not as if you are ... (read in full...)
I am in such a mess ! I just need someone to point me in the right direction!
Q. please help. i am in a relationship which is so wrong. my partner is really hurting me mentally, physically and financially. we live together with our son who is 4 and im so scared he will turn out to be just like his dad. i know i have to leave, i...
A. 9 May 2009: Ok - first thing, you WILL be able to survive on your own, because there is a huge amount of support, financial and otherwise, for women with children who end up on their own and need help. Please don't think you won't survive - you totally will. I ... (read in full...)
Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!
Q. I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think ...
A. 5 May 2009: ps
and how pregnant are you? if you already have a slight bump, i very much doubt you can have an abortion now (and you haven't talked about wanting an abortion, either) (i am pretty against them as i had one when i was young, and have always r... (read in full...)
Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!
Q. I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think ...
A. 5 May 2009: You poor, poor thing - you need someone to talk to, and help you. I'm sure this will all be sorted out.
I know you think your parents will be mad, but don't you think they'll get over it? And as for which boy is the father - that you can only tel... (read in full...)
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