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writes:Please help me...Before a boy relli flirted with me at my birthday party. We dance to the last song and he span me around and we dance really romantically. Before the Party people said he has changed around me. The party was in the half term of school... we went back to school today. He ignored me for the morning. Though I did not see him much as we had different lessons. Then in third period, English.. he wrote in his diary I love Shan x and I smiled at him. My friend put a ring in his book and gave it to him, saying it was from me. And made me wear the other one. He wore it for all of the lesson. Then I asked if he was on the bus.. he smiled and said yes.. but then said noo sorry. After... He didnt speak to me much.. and didnt really want anything to do with me. He was really onto me at the party and was hugging me and everything. Im really confused and upset because I really like him. Does he not like me? is he scared? Or Shall i go for it?
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 I am assuming your name is Shan. Dancing with someone and being around them at a party does not mean they love your or are in love with you.
It was just a dance, he danced with you. I get the feeling that to him it was just that. And people are trying to make him have something with you that perhaps he isn't ready for or rather not have. Both of you are really young and he is maybe shy or just rather be on his own path, not to hook up with anyone.
Don't push it with him if you value a friendship with him. You might lose your chance of anything more and possibly ruin a friendship. Give him a chance to come to you if he wants....if you push he could avoid you and you will feel worse.
Take your time
Hope this helps
Ana
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Trust me, he really likes you ... he too is just a bit unsure about how to go about this. Just enjoy this period before everything happens - where every look and gesture is so important and exciting :) ... it is a wonderful time.
I am sure something will happen. Just be there and it will. Don't 'do' anything special - just respond, and keep faith :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): Ask him why he is being like this. He seems to be showing mixed feelings. He may of flirted with you because he had no one to go to or he might of liked you but thought you was rushing things. Give it a few daiis and see how it goes and in 4-7 daiis ask him out, its worth a try but give it a few daiis.
Hope this helps. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): JUst say that you like him and ask him if he likes you back .
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