My wife feels sex is nasty
Q. I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...
A. 12 March 2009: Actually, I think what 'anonymous female' said may well be at the heart of it ...
when you have a baby/babies, it's like that area of yourself, as a girl, has been demystified ... nothing is secret any more. It's like wondering what is behind the ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 4 March 2009: I was also thinking of you yesterday (3 March). I can't help thinking you told yr parents and general force of opinion has led you to terminate the pregnancy. Whatever has happened, hope you're ok.
nxx... (read in full...)
I found another woman's panties in my boyfriend's glove compartment!!!!
Q. I was driving with my boyfriend to his apartment. I stopped at the durg store to buy some condoms but when I got back to his car I found someones elses panties! He knows they must of been there before but how could I not see them??? Then worst of ...
A. 3 March 2009: ask whose they were. sure he doesn't have a secret fetish?!... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?
Q. I am not a virgin and for the past two years I have been sexually active. I would also like to know if it's possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?...
A. 3 March 2009: Why do you need to get your virginity back? Will it be a problem for you when getting married, or something?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going to kill me! I just had sex with my ex!
Q. I had a one night stand and we weren't just kissing, I did not have a condom, I was not even planning to have sex, I was coming out of my job but worst of all it was my ex! My boyfriend is going to kill me. I am so afraid that he is going to find ...
A. 3 March 2009: well don't tell him then.
and make sure nobody else does!
what else can you do? no point telling him.
however, do you really want to be with him, if you are having one-night stands with your ex??????... (read in full...)
First Date Sex.... Now he's backed off?
Q. hey everyone...well i am 18 years old and i have met a 38 year old man who i am rather besotted with ....i've only met him once in real life but have been talking to him on the net for a few months now ..but we spent the whole day together and he ...
A. 3 March 2009: I think he feels bad - that you are so much younger - and feels maybe he shouldn't do it.... (read in full...)
Ladies, how do you feel when a younger man wants to have sex with you?
Q. Ladies please give some info… Ladies how do you feel when a younger man wants to have sex with you? Do you as an older woman feel youthful/ attractive when a younger man wants to have sex with you? What things needed to be present to consider sex ...
A. 3 March 2009: Younger men: have to say I prefer them to older men, but then I suppose one shouldn't generalise.
Answers to yr questions:
1. I feel happy.
2. Yes.
3. That he is hot.
4. Yes.
5. It's kind of refreshing, and makes you feel like a teenager.
6... (read in full...)
How many times a day at 18 weeks should I feel the baby kick?
Q. This may seem like a dumb question... I am 18 weeks pregnant and was wondering how many times a day I am supposed to feel the baby move? So far I usually feel a kick or two and sometimes it pushes up against my abdomen and it looks like I have a ...
A. 3 March 2009: You can generally only start to feel the baby kick by about 16 weeks, and these are v tiny movements and you don't feel them often (only when he/she collides with your sides!). It's the same at 18 weeks. I have friends who only felt it first when ... (read in full...)
She's 47, I'm almost 30, we have a child together, but can it work?
Q. Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay ...
A. 3 March 2009: ps
I think being together for your baby, and because you get on great, and find each other v sexy - well, these sound like the best reasons to be together!! Can't think of many better ones!... (read in full...)
She's 47, I'm almost 30, we have a child together, but can it work?
Q. Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay ...
A. 3 March 2009: Well, I think it sounds like a match made in heaven, in many ways.
Checklist:
- Do you find each other highly desirable? Yes.
- Do you have an amazing love life and sex dynamic? Yes.
- Do you get on well? Yes.
- Do you treat each other wit... (read in full...)
Horny before period?
Q. most girls get super horny a few days before their period and during it. and i was wondering if there is anything that one can do so that they can control themselves? i hate being horny and i want to be able to control myself and not go to may man ...
A. 2 March 2009: I don't agree that to walk up to yr adored partner and stick his hand into yr pants means you have a sex addiction. maybe it just means you like having sex with him??... (read in full...)
3 years and can't get pregnant!
Q. Do you think something is wrong i have been trying to get pregnant for about 3years and nothing happen yet and im starting to worry that i cant and i wnat a baby so bad please haelp me out please....
A. 2 March 2009: Three years is a while, yes. Have you been to the doctor's? You should just go and be checked out first, and go from there. You are very young, though, so it's really unlikely there's anything wrong with you. There could be something wrong with your ... (read in full...)
Weird pain in vagina
Q. okay first off i had a colposcopy done about two weeks ago. the thing is they won't tell me what's going on. All the doctor said was that i need to get a pap smear every three months. they were unable to do a biopsy because i am pregnant. I'm ...
A. 2 March 2009: Hey, you poor thing. This all sounds really crap, as we would say over here. Why are they not talking to you?? I really don't understand.
You are pregnant, and you are in pain, and they are doing stuff to you and telling you nothing. I'm sorry, b... (read in full...)
Painful sex and possibly pregnant.
Q. i may be pregnant i took like 20 test also this was my first time having sex what do i do oh ya it was so painful having sex...
A. 1 March 2009: ? is this a joke? you replied to yr own question, oh ya... (read in full...)
He came back after 2 months and has left again. I'm falling apart!
Q. I allowed him back into my life after 2 months. i even took care of him when he was sick. On Sunday he bought me gifts. Things seemed fine then four days laterhe drops me cold again. I am devastated. Why was I so stupid. Is there something ...
A. 1 March 2009: Hmm. I'm sorry, but I suspect that it is his problem - and a BIG problem. I suspect he builds you up, then the reality of being with you isn't quite what he wants it to be (well, what i mean is, he's great at wanting and hoping and missing, but when ... (read in full...)
Am I normal or just a sad, frigid freak?
Q. I am 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend. In primary school I had a few childish boyfriends, though of course these were only jokes. Since then I have only had one small relationship, a month, where we were only seeing each other so weren't ...
A. 1 March 2009: Oh, for goodness' sake. You are not a freak. You are not frigid. You are not abnormal. You are 16 and incarcerated in a CATHOLIC GIRLS' SCHOOL. Smile. You'll only be there for a couple more years. : )
Now listen. I was at a girls' boarding... (read in full...)
How far does the penis have to be in, in order to get pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a couple of hours ago, (the worst idea we've ever had) but when he comed he didn't fully pull out but he wasn't anywhere near totally in, it was as he pulled out he did. What are the chances of becoming ...
A. 1 March 2009: If he was not totally in but still in a bit, then you definitely need to take the morning after pill.
You can call yr doctor first thing, get an appointment and get it. Or you can go to a pharmacy and ask for a private interview and get it, I th... (read in full...)
Is it dirty to love giving my b/f a blow job?
Q. Is it dirty to love giving me boyfriend a blow job. Sometimes i just fantasize bout turning him on and giving him one say in a dressing room when we r out shopping. I just love giving him one and how it makes him feel and me. He says i turn him on ...
A. 1 March 2009: Being of the same disposition, I certainly wouldn't say it is anything other than a delightful thing to do, one of the most perfect ways of showing you, erm, like someone ; )
If you were walking around wanting to do it for every Tom, Dick lol and ... (read in full...)
What should I do here for the best? I'm so confused!
Q. Well I feel kind of silly asking strangers for help but I don't know what else to do or who else to ask. I was a single parent for a couple of years when I met my current partner, at first it seemed like the ideal relationship, he showed interest...
A. 28 February 2009: I have been in a similar situation. The first thing to remember is that it is actually not personal: Paul has a problem with your son because he is another man's child. Men do have this problem. Really quite a lot of men find it v hard to accept a ... (read in full...)
Are his thoughts as abnormal as he thinks they are?
Q. My husband and I seperated in January 08. I don't think he really has any problem but I need to support him so I am looking for advice. He has always looked at other women, and I have never had a problem with it, in fact I would point out attrac...
A. 28 February 2009: I think he's got various guilt complexes, and because he's actually a decent guy and a nice person, he keeps beating himself over the head about everything. It seems to me he's been very honest and open with you, and he cares about you deeply.
... (read in full...)
I would like to finger her, how do I bring this up?
Q. ok heres the situation..ive been going out with this girl for about 5months now..we both love to make out..i was her 1st kiss and 1st make out..whenever she comes over we make out all the time and she stradles me and all that stuff but i really do ...
A. 28 February 2009: If you do it slowly enough (and i mean real slow - like 1mm per minute) (seriously) then she shouldn't feel violated. It will be easy for her to indicate whether she's ok with it, or whether she isn't ready for it.
She's probably waiting for you ... (read in full...)
Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?
Q. Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...
A. 27 February 2009: Erm, I think 'letting' your friend have one sexual encounter with yr mum is a recipe for disaster if you couldn't cope with them having a relationship. Most likely they would want to do it more than once. Most likely it would last 6 months or so.
... (read in full...)
Will this help give me closure?
Q. So.. right or wrong I'm writing this letter to my ex and sending it via the internet. I wrote to him a few weeks ago, and we spoke for a while and then he just didn't answer me. The last thing I said was "I'm glad you're happy". That was a week ...
A. 27 February 2009: Hmm. It might give you closure, but I suspect that somewhere, subconsciously, you are thinking that he couldn't possible not respond to such an emotionally vulnerable plea. And then he won't reply, and then you'll still be upset about it.
I hav... (read in full...)
He wants to go on a trip without me and I don't feel comfortable about it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have just 6 months ago taken my husband back after a few years apart. We separated somewhat ammicably after he started seeing another woman (which only lasted a few months). It was hard but I got over it and we became friends a...
A. 27 February 2009: That is GREAT! Sorry neither of you are getting a holiday, but I am really pleased for you that he would rather not go than upset you. : )... (read in full...)
I would like to finger her, how do I bring this up?
Q. ok heres the situation..ive been going out with this girl for about 5months now..we both love to make out..i was her 1st kiss and 1st make out..whenever she comes over we make out all the time and she stradles me and all that stuff but i really do ...
A. 27 February 2009: You do sound like a really nice guy, and it's very good that you want to talk to her about it all.
In a way, though, maybe you could just do it - obviously not straight out, but like people have suggested - just gently trying the next stage of... (read in full...)
An unmarried woman calls my husband very often, I'm not sure how far can I trust my hubby in this case?
Q. Hi My husband and I got married one year back and ours was a love marriage. My husband is generally of humorous type and mingles well with everybody at work. But recently, an unmarried woman calls him very often and he also talked to her ...
A. 27 February 2009: I think that you have to trust your husband. You told him you were upset, so he stopped taking her calls. This is very good. There isn't much else he can do.
I think she calls him so much because she likes him. I think he liked her, too, but only... (read in full...)
Do most men like to offer oral sex?
Q. Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...
A. 26 February 2009: well, according to these answers, you 20-percenters are more like 80 per cent ... sigh ... if only this were the real world ; )... (read in full...)
Do most men like to offer oral sex?
Q. Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...
A. 26 February 2009: Have to say I'm not quite sure where I got those figures from ; )... (read in full...)
Can you still have periods when you are pregnant?
Q. Can you still have periods when you are pregnant????...
A. 26 February 2009: Yes but it is pretty rare and most unlikely.
A bit of bleeding or spotting is more common in pregnancy, but that's usually to do with the instability of the cells on the cervix, and you wouldn't confuse it with a period, because it isn't anything... (read in full...)
Do most men like to offer oral sex?
Q. Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...
A. 26 February 2009: My considered opinion is this:
1. Most men feel obliged to offer this.
2. Roughly 50% of the male population offer it early on in the relationship, but as soon as things get comfortable enough for them not to do it, they gradually reduce... (read in full...)
My wife feels sex is nasty
Q. I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...
A. 26 February 2009: ps
oh, and i've just seen that yr max. age is 35 - you REALLY need to sort this out - you are WAY too young to be giving up sex!!!!! : )... (read in full...)
My wife feels sex is nasty
Q. I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...
A. 26 February 2009: oh dear. That is really hard on you, I think. It sounds like she has basically just gone totally off sex.
She is living in a child-orientated world, where everything is fluffy (kind of), and maybe, you know, she just can't cope with the juxtapos... (read in full...)
Does this mean I could still be pregnant?
Q. Ok so on february 16th, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. On february 18th i took the morning after pill. And now today i just got my period. It is right on schedule, neither early or late. Does this mean that i still might be pregnant...
A. 26 February 2009: of course you aren't bloody pregnant!
: )
So be happy, as I guess you didn't want to be.... (read in full...)
What do women 'really' want?
Q. I've come to the realisation that when women talk about they want in men, the words cannot be trusted 100% - sure they may be some truth in what they say but not entirely or either not at all. Actions and behaviour prove the opposite. Women ten...
A. 26 February 2009: The Number 1 any woman is with any guy is ... chemistry. This is (a) why often you might find girls with a total idiot and (b) why girls might not listen to the advice of others or even themselves. Chemistry rules, I'm afraid.
As we get older an... (read in full...)
Size and performance anxiety during sex!
Q. I have had substantial anxiety developing related to my marriage and sex. I was a little bit anxious when we were first married because we did not have sex with each other until we were married. I was rather anxious over size and performance, ...
A. 26 February 2009: oh. my. god. I CANNOT believe she did that to you! She is a monster and you should bloody well divorce her RIGHT this second!!
Sorry ... perhaps I am over-reacting ... but what she did to you was so humiliating and cruel, it is pretty much abu... (read in full...)
He wants to go on a trip without me and I don't feel comfortable about it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have just 6 months ago taken my husband back after a few years apart. We separated somewhat ammicably after he started seeing another woman (which only lasted a few months). It was hard but I got over it and we became friends a...
A. 26 February 2009: Wow. I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound quite right to me ... no, I don't think you're being unreasonable. I think the problem is that he is used to his freedom, and while he might have missed you, and that's why he wanted to get back with you, he is ... (read in full...)
I'm 27 and not interested in sex
Q. Why do i feel like this? Im 27 and not interested in sex! I have a gorgeous boyfriend of almost 2 yrs and we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. I do feel tired a lot what with lookin after my daughter all day so maybe thats why, but even when im ...
A. 26 February 2009: Hmm. I don't think there's anything wrong with you, and there are so many reasons why you might not feel like sex, but the main things needed for sex drive are usually:
1. That you aren't exhausted (and you must be tired a lot more now than you... (read in full...)
For anyone who has forgiven a cheating partner, how did you do it? How long did it take you?
Q. How do I forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me? How do I get the images of the two of them out of my head? A short background: My boyfriend broke up with me last March and slept with a girl that night. We got back together a day or two later...
A. 25 February 2009: Ok. Forgive, then forget - that's what everyone is saying. Basically, you need to re-arrange your thinking, because I'm sure you realise that keeping on feeling bad is getting you nowhere, and you need to knock this on the head, stop it, change it, ... (read in full...)
I'm 5 months along and I'm still not showing!
Q. Hi, I just want to know if there is anyone who is in my same situation or has been. I am 5 months pregnant and I have gained 15 pounds. the only thing that doesn't make sense is that I am not showing anything except a little pooch. How could I have ...
A. 25 February 2009: I always lost weight in the first 3 months, and then by about 5 months had put most of what i'd lost back on, but still only had a barely noticeable tummy ... so yes, it is totally possible. Did you lose anything in the first 12 weeks when you ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he followed through when all the signs say he likes me?
Q. I'd really like a guy's perspective on this please? Why would a guy meet a girl, tell his friends he likes her, give her his number, act like he likes her when he's around her but...not reply to her text asking to meet up or ask her out himself?...
A. 25 February 2009: If he is 'mature' and has no ex-wife and no children, then there also must be a reason for that. How mature is he?
You have to think that if a guy has got into his 40s with no baggage, then he has been avoiding life on some level ... or it has b... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his child, but suspect he's gay... I'm so confused!
Q. Me and my partner are about to have our first child, although he's very manly ie:- sports, beer, sex, the usual, I've seen a few times now that he has been on gay porn for straight guys and shemales websites. It makes me feel sick but I don't wa...
A. 25 February 2009: I don't think he's gay. Well, it depends what you mean by 'gay'. Gay - full-on gay - pretty much means that he only wants to have sex with men, and have a male life-partner, and doesn't want or enjoy sex with women or being in a relationship with a ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he followed through when all the signs say he likes me?
Q. I'd really like a guy's perspective on this please? Why would a guy meet a girl, tell his friends he likes her, give her his number, act like he likes her when he's around her but...not reply to her text asking to meet up or ask her out himself?...
A. 25 February 2009: I too think more info is needed. Does he have any family? Ex-wife? Children?... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 25 February 2009: Hope you are ok and everyone is being nice to you : )... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there
OK, now I have a bit of time to write ... :D
It made my day to read yr post first thing, because you are actually listening to what is being said, and taking it on board, and thinking about the consequences of what you do now. You don... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there : )
I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!)
but i will soon - ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 22 February 2009: Hi there : )
I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!)
but i will soon - ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 20 February 2009: I hope you're ok - you've gone all quiet ...... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 19 February 2009: Hi there.
Going and talking to your aunt is absolutely the best idea - go! Do it! I hope you have already.
As for your boyfriend ... sensitive as he may be, he is just scared, and needs to understand that he, and you, now have the power of lif... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 18 February 2009: ps
OK - just seen that Starfish said pretty much all the same as I did in about 5% of the words!! ; )
Wanted to add that Starfish is right - your BF will settle down and live with it, and it is a common reaction in young-ish men to freak out at... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 18 February 2009: Hi there
I knew it too ... I was certain, from what you said.
Ok. Here's the bit where you mustn't panic, or make any snap decisions. You are in the middle of your 7th week of pregnancy according to when your period started, which is why you... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 17 February 2009: ps
oh, and my advice for the actual practicalities of doing the test : ) ...
- Make sure you are somewhere kind of pleasant and relaxed, and not where someone is going to walk in on you(!)
- Take a deep breath before you do it, and another one ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 17 February 2009: I'm v glad if anything I've said has helped : )
You sound very calm and sensible and there's no doubt that whatever happens, you will be fine, I think. And also a good idea to focus on the classes and midterm and then do the test.
Let me know wha... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 16 February 2009: ps
And as for your dad - I understand, all too well - mine was a great dad, and loved me very much, but he had his views, too, and he went through the roof when I got accidentally pregnant. I was too scared to go ahead with something he was so angr... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 16 February 2009: OK. I think Starfish is totally right - if you are pregnant, it will all be ok - it always is. But, are you? For me I have to say that the strange tiredness - like, total tiredness where you really have no choice but to lie down - that and the ... (read in full...)
Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??
Q. In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...
A. 15 February 2009: i think the breast soreness is a possible strong indicator. i have had lots of months where i wanted to be pregnant and almost imagined i was, but wasn't. but the 3 times i HAVE been pregnant there was no doubt - i felt different, and the sore ... (read in full...)
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