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How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?

Q.   Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ...

A.   7 April 2009: Re: miscarrying in the first trimester, I agree with the aunt who said that it's actually better if people know you are pregnant, because then if something awful does happen, you have their support and understanding, and proper recognition of what ... (read in full...)

How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?

Q.   Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ...

A.   7 April 2009: Tell him when he's in a good mood, yes - that is good advice. And make it a priority to tell him as soon as it seems a good moment, because every minute you know and don't tell him is a minute he will look back on as you lying to him - truly, they ... (read in full...)

What is OK after 9 dates?

Q.   its ok to let a guy grab my boobs, after 9 dates? i dont want him to think im a slut...

A.   7 April 2009: You're right - it doesn't just depend on how you and him feel (maybe you'd like him to do this) - you need to decide if you really like him, and if he's someone you want to be with, before you start getting more intimate with him. You've been out... (read in full...)

Write a poem for me...that I can give to my bf?!

Q.   Ok, as some of you may know I ran into problems with my boyfriend. Well ive been startled when he gave me a reason as to why he was not talking to me....he was writing me a poem. Now since I love the poem I think I should write one back. But i ...

A.   25 March 2009: eyes blue as the sky flashing by as you fly on your crazy board through the air wind gently stirring your blond hair my teddy bear : )... (read in full...)

I think he's gay and I want to break it off! How do I end this?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for a month now and I have always suspected he was gay. Here's why: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. 2. He knows nothing about cars or sports...I know way more than him. 3. He talks about how his male frie...

A.   24 March 2009: first thing ... why did you get with him in the first place? But ok, since you are now firmly stuck in his suicidal mind, this is what i think re: your list of proof: 1. He likes to get manicures and pedicures. older men who do this aren't ... (read in full...)

Opinions on women going braless

Q.   Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't ...

A.   24 March 2009: I think the mini-vests thing is a good idea. And be careful about that business that they 'won't sag' if you go bra-less - I'm not so sure. I certainly am not going to risk it with my daughter. She is going to have the most expensive, comfortable ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish because I want to be a mother?

Q.   I've been married for a year and a half together for four. I believe I'm ready to have a child, I'm in my late 20s and I want to be a mother. My husband is not ready. Throughout everything in our relationship I always have to be the submissive ...

A.   24 March 2009: I think he is, of course, being selfish and seeing things only from his point of view. He is also, though, it sounds, vaguely scared by the thought of the responsibility of a child - really quite a lot of men are like this. (they get over it by the ... (read in full...)

How do you become a 'posh totty"?

Q.   Ive al ways wanted to have a love life like a posh totty... weird i know. Does anyone have any idea how to become one?...

A.   22 March 2009: for a start, you aren't 'a posh totty' - you're just 'posh totty'. to be posh totty you have to be: - very rich - privately-educated - thin and pretty if you are missing anything from this list, you pretty much can't be posh totty. you ca... (read in full...)

Broke up now wants to marry me...Should I consider it?

Q.   I'm a female of 24 years old. I have 2 lovely childen by my ex boyfriend. Reason i broke it off with him was because he made another woman pregnant. It has been 2 yrs some months since we called it quitz. Now he has been aproaching me wanting us t...

A.   19 March 2009: Firstly, sorry that you have had all this emotional upset - it must have been very hard for you and the children. : ( On the one hand, yes, it would be much better for you to leave him behind and move on, because you're right, there will be a rou... (read in full...)

I've never taken a girl virginity before

Q.   I've been seeing my girlfriend for about two years now and I recently asked her to marry me. She's the same age as me (25) but she's still a virgin. She said that she has always wanted to wait for the right guy. I've been with her for two years and ...

A.   19 March 2009: the male reader is completely right. also, keep a sense of humour : )... (read in full...)

Why does my Dad have these pictures and texts? What do I do?

Q.   Hello, this is something i cannot talk to my friends about or my mum, havent told anybody. My parents divorced 13 years ago, as my dad met another women, they are now happily married and have had 2 children(seven and ten), i really love my s...

A.   16 March 2009: If DCGurl was my daughter, I would be having a DNA test.... (read in full...)

My sex drive is so low...I feel abnormal!

Q.   I really worry that my sex drive is much less than other women...I know traditionally women have lesser sex drives than men, but I could happily go weeks without it. I do masturbate and to be honest find that better than sex with guys - because ...

A.   15 March 2009: oh, and ps As a woman your sex drive is also significantly affected by your hormones. Each week (practically each day) of the month you will have a different physical sex-drive due to the changing hormones. And, naturally enough, you will feel most... (read in full...)

My sex drive is so low...I feel abnormal!

Q.   I really worry that my sex drive is much less than other women...I know traditionally women have lesser sex drives than men, but I could happily go weeks without it. I do masturbate and to be honest find that better than sex with guys - because ...

A.   15 March 2009: I don't think you've got an abnormally low sex-drive - I think that sex is just on the back-burner for you. I suspect that it because it isn't particularly satisfying (you said masturbating was better than being with a guy) and I don't know if ... (read in full...)

Why does my Dad have these pictures and texts? What do I do?

Q.   Hello, this is something i cannot talk to my friends about or my mum, havent told anybody. My parents divorced 13 years ago, as my dad met another women, they are now happily married and have had 2 children(seven and ten), i really love my s...

A.   15 March 2009: I don't think you have anything to worry about. I know it's a bit weird for you - I don't know why he's got the pictures and texts, but from the details you've given, none of it really suggests anything really bad and that would threaten his happy ... (read in full...)

Baby names...

Q.   My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...

A.   15 March 2009: Flynn Owen is a really nice name. With the girls, I personally wouldn't go for Arizona as it's a state, wouldn't go for Ryann as ... I don't know ... I think because Ryan is a boy's name, and Ryann is a bit close for me. Makenna is ok... (read in full...)

Chance of pregnancy?

Q.   Someone please,help me out? (risk of pregnancy?) I'm with the most amazing person- we have been together for over 2 years now,but we have never had sex (I want to be a virgin until my marriage). However what we do is usually called 'dry sex'...

A.   14 March 2009: To be honest, I think yr risk of pregnancy is pretty much zero ... You are right about the closed lips. And if he didn't even ejaculate ... no, the odds are stacked completely against it! To be completely secure in your own mind, don't let ... (read in full...)

He says he can only be with me from 6-10 to celebrate my birthday. Am I being unreasonable in wanting more?

Q.   I reminded my boyfriend about my birthday just in case he forgot (it's my second birthday with him) and I know he has his son that day so I suggested we "party it in". This is a German tradition that involves celebrating the night before until at ...

A.   12 March 2009: So .. just to be clear .. his plans are to go back to his house and look after his son? Or does his son go home at 6, which is when he will come to your house, until 10, and then go somewhere else? If it is the first one, you can't be cross wit... (read in full...)

I feel cheated when my wife discovered anal sex from porn channel

Q.   For the past couple of months, my wife and I have been having a lot of sex. I mean a lot! I'm taking five or six nights a week. I'm not complaining about it by any means. I'm happy that the spark is still there but I did wonder where she had got the ...

A.   12 March 2009: i think she was SHY about it. women are. most women (unless they are hardened porn stars) ARE shy about it ... especially about liking or wanting it. so, although i think it is understandable that you would feel like she'd been doing something ... (read in full...)

I'm a nymphomaniac

Q.   Okay so im 17 yrs old and i just recently found out that im a nymphomaniac and in this serious relationship but dont really know how to tell my partner that i have it ive known for about a week 1/2 now and im pretty scared on the reaction ill get ...

A.   12 March 2009: i think I agree with everyone - how do you know your a nymphomaniac? And what does that mean? (what do you think it means?) If you just think about sex at least every minute, have a v high sex drive, would be happy to do nothing but have sex all ... (read in full...)

I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. Help!

Q.   20 years old and I just broke up with my bf because he was abusive. I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. His abuse has escalted!!! It has got so bad, I am constatnly shaking, feeling faint and dizzy, out of anxiety and fear. ...

A.   12 March 2009: sorry - hadn't read your later post. mine told me he had an incurable illness and was going to die in 6 months time. i believed him. i know. it's almost funny. almost. only my father was actually dying too, and had to have his leg amputate... (read in full...)

I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. Help!

Q.   20 years old and I just broke up with my bf because he was abusive. I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. His abuse has escalted!!! It has got so bad, I am constatnly shaking, feeling faint and dizzy, out of anxiety and fear. ...

A.   12 March 2009: You absolutely must talk to a friend or your parents today. Today. Now. You must also call the doctor's and make an appointment asap. If they say 'oh, in two weeks' time' - say 'no, I need to see someone today or tomorrow, as I feel desperat... (read in full...)

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

Q.   Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im...

A.   12 March 2009: you're right - i felt like a repressed brit as well - but then i began to see that actually, it was ok - and can you believe it - this morning, when i refused to climb up some v precarious ladders to the top of a building site, my partner did ... (read in full...)

My wife feels sex is nasty

Q.   I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...

A.   12 March 2009: Actually, I think what 'anonymous female' said may well be at the heart of it ... when you have a baby/babies, it's like that area of yourself, as a girl, has been demystified ... nothing is secret any more. It's like wondering what is behind the ... (read in full...)

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

Q.   Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im...

A.   12 March 2009: I think that if he was giggling and saying 'you deserved it', then obviously for him it wasn't a big deal. My partner is Polish, and he is also into rough and tumble type physical stuff. If his brother is around, he is always getting into playfigh... (read in full...)

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

Q.   Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im...

A.   11 March 2009: it sounds totally bizarre to me!!!! i think it's difficult to forget. especially if you have bruises. having said that, it could just be the kind of physical horseplay he is used to. he may not have meant anything by it. i think your choic... (read in full...)

Will he leave me if we have a child together?

Q.   Im months away from being 30 and for the last two years I've been wanting a baby. I already have 2 girls ages 10 and 12 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 yrs.Ive talked to my boyfriend and he seems to not have a problem with me havi...

A.   11 March 2009: Sorry, but have to disagree with Satindesire's question about why should you want another baby ... 1. You haven't got a child with him, and if you are in love and have been together for a long while and have a strong relationship, it's perf... (read in full...)

Is my penis a normal size?

Q.   I have a penis that is about 2 inches when not hard but when erected its about 4.5 is that normal? im 13...

A.   11 March 2009: omigod i just also saw you are ONLY 13 - i would have put it differently if i'd noticed that!! you have to completely and utterly ignore the tone of my previous post, PLEASE! from what i understand, you are still growing, and won't know your fin... (read in full...)

Is my penis a normal size?

Q.   I have a penis that is about 2 inches when not hard but when erected its about 4.5 is that normal? im 13...

A.   11 March 2009: What size it is when it is not erect is completely and utterly irrelevant to anything. I had a boyfriend with a much larger than average size when erect, but when it was resting lol it was just like a tiny one on a cupid statue, or one of those ... (read in full...)

Do girls have a scent "down there"?

Q.   I have been seeing this girl for a while and we are starting to take things a bit further, she wants me to perform oral sex which I am happy to do more than, I have never given oral before and am a little shy about what to expect down below, do ...

A.   10 March 2009: ps and on the scent thing ... well, i guess it's best to try when she's just come out of the shower or something, and i'm sure there's some kind of taste to a woman, but i imagine it isn't dissimilar to the taste of a man. well, yes, i can tell you:... (read in full...)

Do girls have a scent "down there"?

Q.   I have been seeing this girl for a while and we are starting to take things a bit further, she wants me to perform oral sex which I am happy to do more than, I have never given oral before and am a little shy about what to expect down below, do ...

A.   10 March 2009: what the ? is a dental dam???? you sound v sensible, satindesire. if i am just with one partner forever, i wouldn't expect him to use a plastic shield ... i can't imagine that. should guys also have their dicks covered up if they are having a... (read in full...)

Slept with b/f & friend during ovulation time

Q.   I slept with two guys around ovulation time. One is my boyfriend who always ejaculates in me and one was a friend. The friend put in his penis for a minute and didnt cum. Now I'm pregnant and dont know who the father is. I'm leaning towards my ...

A.   10 March 2009: I think it's much more likely to be the boyfriend. I would work on the principle that it's him, and then hope the baby looks a bit like him ... ; ) No, really - I would work on the idea that it is him. After the baby is born you will probably be ... (read in full...)

Confused in Iraq

Q.   So, Im a US soldier currently deployed to Iraq for the third time. I met my wife in 2006, shortly after returning from my first deployment. We had a very strong, and wonderful relationship. Right before I left in February of 07 for a second ...

A.   10 March 2009: Army Medic, thanks ... jeez ... I didn't know that. I don't mean to sound horrified, but it is like they own you. I suppose they have to do that, otherwise everybody might leave once they had wives and kids ... but surely, surely you can give some ... (read in full...)

Confused in Iraq

Q.   So, Im a US soldier currently deployed to Iraq for the third time. I met my wife in 2006, shortly after returning from my first deployment. We had a very strong, and wonderful relationship. Right before I left in February of 07 for a second ...

A.   9 March 2009: I don't know anything about being in the army, but I think you should leave it and be with yr family. They're more important, you know. Look, let's face it: something bad could happen to any of us anywhere, but it's more likely to happen in a con... (read in full...)

I'm not good at giving bj's!

Q.   Okay, so my borfriend and I have been dating almost 4 months now. I really love him, and he really loves me. He wants me to give him blowjobs somtimes. He has a bigger penis (biggest I've had anyway) I'm not very good at giving blowjobs, but the ...

A.   9 March 2009: OK. Yes, you can look all sorts of 'advice'/instructions up on the internet, but I guess if that's what you wanted, you would have gone there rather than coming here. Maybe you want some personal advice? Mine is this: First thing: yes, you have... (read in full...)

Cheated on for the 2nd time!

Q.   My husband has cheated on me for the second time. Yes I'm hurt but I love my man. I filed for a divorce a couple days ago but we haven't signed off on the papers yet. We really don't want a divorce but he is still seeing this other female, what ...

A.   8 March 2009: you should establish if he's willing to give her up and be with you. some men are capable of loving one women but having sex with a lot of others. other men might be unhappy or dissatisfied with their relationship, and are continuously searching for ... (read in full...)

Am I a candidate for becoming a lesbian?

Q.   Sometimes I spend 10 or 15 minutes standing naked before my full length door mirror admiring my beautiful body. I have shapely tits with perky nipples, a sexy ass, a flat stomach, shaplely legs with pretty little feet. It seems to me that I have a ...

A.   8 March 2009: oh don't be daft - seriously. loving your own body is essential for a good sex life. if you were lusting after other women and finding men repulsive then ok, yes, maybe you would be a bit of a cnadidate, but not if you just appreciate yr own body. ... (read in full...)

If I take the pill while pregnant will it affect the unborn child?

Q.   i have recently started to use the contraceptive pill so im not entirely sure if its the one for me, therefore i have the chance of being pregnant but not knowing it right now, if i carry on taking my pill and i am pregnant, will it affect the ...

A.   7 March 2009: yes, you nitwit - stop taking it.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is 12 weeks pregnant and says she needs a break from me!

Q.   My girlfriend is 12weeks pregnant, out of nowhere she tells me she needs a break from me. Just needed some advice on how to deal with this. Thanks...

A.   7 March 2009: That's really hard. When you're pregnant, the world does change, and it can be a scary time. As a woman, though, I would be more likely to keep someone close to me than send them packing ... so you need to talk to her and find out why she wants you ... (read in full...)

Why no oral sex from him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years and he's only given me oral sex 2 times. The first time wasnt until 2 years into our relationship and he finally said he wanted to do it. Before that he used to think it was gross, ...

A.   7 March 2009: Oh, this is a difficult one. I don't think you're a freak or anything like that - I think you're probably just fine, but combined with him not giving you the attention you need, it makes you feel awful. Even if you looked exactly like the porn ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Poll about size

Q.   Ok ladies I have been in a discussion with my girlfriend and many other females the age old question here goes . DOES SIZE MATTER ? IS IT THE LENGTH ? IS IT THE GIRTH ? IS IT BOTH ? I am just asking. Please do not assume i am a...

A.   5 March 2009: ps oh, and goes without saying that any one that is fully alert and responsive at all times is bound to become a favourite ; )... (read in full...)

Ladies: Poll about size

Q.   Ok ladies I have been in a discussion with my girlfriend and many other females the age old question here goes . DOES SIZE MATTER ? IS IT THE LENGTH ? IS IT THE GIRTH ? IS IT BOTH ? I am just asking. Please do not assume i am a...

A.   5 March 2009: Size only matters if it is VERY extreme, and even then, arrangements can be made, shall we say. In my (humble) opinion, length is almost preferable if average, but how it feels is very much to do with what yr guy does with his hips. There is defin... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   4 March 2009: I was also thinking of you yesterday (3 March). I can't help thinking you told yr parents and general force of opinion has led you to terminate the pregnancy. Whatever has happened, hope you're ok. nxx... (read in full...)

My wife feels sex is nasty

Q.   I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...

A.   26 February 2009: ps oh, and i've just seen that yr max. age is 35 - you REALLY need to sort this out - you are WAY too young to be giving up sex!!!!! : )... (read in full...)

My wife feels sex is nasty

Q.   I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...

A.   26 February 2009: oh dear. That is really hard on you, I think. It sounds like she has basically just gone totally off sex. She is living in a child-orientated world, where everything is fluffy (kind of), and maybe, you know, she just can't cope with the juxtapos... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   25 February 2009: Hope you are ok and everyone is being nice to you : )... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   22 February 2009: Hi there OK, now I have a bit of time to write ... :D It made my day to read yr post first thing, because you are actually listening to what is being said, and taking it on board, and thinking about the consequences of what you do now. You don... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   22 February 2009: Hi there : ) I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!) but i will soon - ... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   22 February 2009: Hi there : ) I can't write back properly now as my own baby is waddling around the kitchen looking for mischief (currently removing all the most unsavoury articles from the bin (trash : ) and testing if they taste nice !!) but i will soon - ... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   20 February 2009: I hope you're ok - you've gone all quiet ...... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   19 February 2009: Hi there. Going and talking to your aunt is absolutely the best idea - go! Do it! I hope you have already. As for your boyfriend ... sensitive as he may be, he is just scared, and needs to understand that he, and you, now have the power of lif... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   18 February 2009: ps OK - just seen that Starfish said pretty much all the same as I did in about 5% of the words!! ; ) Wanted to add that Starfish is right - your BF will settle down and live with it, and it is a common reaction in young-ish men to freak out at... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   18 February 2009: Hi there I knew it too ... I was certain, from what you said. Ok. Here's the bit where you mustn't panic, or make any snap decisions. You are in the middle of your 7th week of pregnancy according to when your period started, which is why you... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   17 February 2009: ps oh, and my advice for the actual practicalities of doing the test : ) ... - Make sure you are somewhere kind of pleasant and relaxed, and not where someone is going to walk in on you(!) - Take a deep breath before you do it, and another one ... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   17 February 2009: I'm v glad if anything I've said has helped : ) You sound very calm and sensible and there's no doubt that whatever happens, you will be fine, I think. And also a good idea to focus on the classes and midterm and then do the test. Let me know wha... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   16 February 2009: ps And as for your dad - I understand, all too well - mine was a great dad, and loved me very much, but he had his views, too, and he went through the roof when I got accidentally pregnant. I was too scared to go ahead with something he was so angr... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   16 February 2009: OK. I think Starfish is totally right - if you are pregnant, it will all be ok - it always is. But, are you? For me I have to say that the strange tiredness - like, total tiredness where you really have no choice but to lie down - that and the ... (read in full...)

Am I... or am I not... Pregnant!!!??

Q.   In October I got my period at the end of the month, in December I got it on the 15th, and in January I got it on the 5th. It has been so irregular because I recently went off the pill (in September I would say?) I got another prescription for...

A.   15 February 2009: i think the breast soreness is a possible strong indicator. i have had lots of months where i wanted to be pregnant and almost imagined i was, but wasn't. but the 3 times i HAVE been pregnant there was no doubt - i felt different, and the sore ... (read in full...)

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