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writes:i am 18 and 27 weeks pregnant, there is a doubt that my boyfriend can be the father of my baby because i cheated on him with another guy. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a few days before receiving my next period, but this period was shorter and lighter and i am irregular. I cheated on my bf two weeks after and it was also unprotected, when my next period was due, it never came. Who has the greater chance of bein the dad??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010):
Human gestation period is 266 days from conception.
Do your sums while your waiting, then see what the paternity test says.
I did it once with a girl who told me she had fertility problems. She promptly fell pregnant. There was a hint that someone else could also have been on the scene a bit earlier.
The unpleasant thoughts that followed where the result of being irresponsible.
The baby is mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): abella: i had went for my friends for advise and they told me it was possible for me to be pregnant since it wasnt really a period because even though im irregular my periods would still be longer and not that light..so they told me if i was that i would miss my next due period, but in that waitin period i ended up havin sex with someone else...(by the way im the one who asked the question)
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Its really hard to tell with this one as both times were unprotected, but if you know your due date, then you can roughly estimate your conception date and since you said they are two weeks apart in when you had sex then that should help you a little. It's not definite though.
The only true way to tell who the biological father is is to get a paternity test.
I think you need to tell your bf the situation, I know you probably really don't want to, but he needs and deserves to know, especially since there is a baby involved now. Maybe think about that? Your choice.
Congrats on being a mommy by the way. I'm having my second baby, but I'm only seven weeks. Good luck sweetie.
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 December 2010):
 your very light period is a slight confusion in all this. You say you are irregular in anycase. It may not have been a period. Was it just a break through bleed, indicating you had just ovulated? Just a short time after you had intercourse with your bf. Sperm can survive inside you for a few days after entering you. So your BF's sperm may have been waiting waiting for an opportunity, able to instantly fertilise that egg as soon as it was released. So when you cheated, were you may already have been pregnant when this happened?
Very possibly
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): You simply cannot tell without a DNA paternity test. Either man could be the father.
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