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writes:What do guys want in a dating,marriage relationship? How do I get noticed by mr. right? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 I guess he'll notice you the same way you notice him? It will depend on what you are attracted to and want in a relationship, how you get along etc. I think most people will enjoy being with someone they are comfortable with, can talk to with ease and feel understand each other, the physical aspect of it I think comes second place for those who seek marriage.
I personally try to be a person I'd find attractive myself, for example I like an intelligent conversation, so I will engage in one and also read up on things so I will be able to hold a good conversation. I often start talking about a topic I find interesting, and if a person shares my interest it will be easy then to have a nice conversation going, which I find attractive. The clue is to not agree on every little thing, but to find the conversation stimulating. For me that is what I am attracted to. So I suggest you think about what YOU are attracted to, it can be many things, and make sure you maintain that same level for yourself if you want to be with someone of the same kind. For example if you are attracted to a person that is outdoors a lot it is relatively safe to assume that person would also be attracted to someone who is outdoors a lot, hence you should start going outdoors yourself. Just an idea.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 Like Aunty Honesty says, be yourself. Don't worry about finding Mr. Right right away and just let yourself be.
Concentrate on you and making you happy right now and Mr. Right will come along. Put yourself in the Mr. Right environment.
Men are usually just as nervous as women when it comes to dating and marriage and settling down with the house and the white picket fence with the two kids. Don't put pressure on yourself.
If you seem easy going and carefree then Mr. Right won't be intimidated by you and will approach you, although Mr. Right isn't intimidated by anyone. If you see a guy that you might potentially like or would like to talk to. Then talk to him.
We have come along way as women. So be bold and tell the world what you want.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 All you can do is be yourself, work on your self confidence so that you are happy and confident about yourself, walk with your head held high and smile at people. If you come across as a happy and easy going person then men wont feel intimidated to talk to you. And remember its not always up to the man to make the first move, so if there is someone you like, then you ask him out and get the ball rolling.
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