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8 March 2009: I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
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Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?
Q. I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...
A. 25 April 2009: Get a presciption for it. You can miss occassional periods, not every month! X... (read in full...)
Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?
Q. I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...
A. 24 April 2009: I work in a pharmacy. Ibuprofen doesn't stop your period. The only thing to do to stop a period is go to the doctor and get prescribed norethisrone (think its spelt like that) or if you are on the pill you can just take the next packet when you are ... (read in full...)
I just want this horrible pain gone and my friend back. Help!
Q. One of my best friends hates me! It started yesterday, after we had athletics, and he was taking the mickey out of my running. I got really annoyed so I lightly kicked him. He was laughing at the time, but I was still really annoyed. Then, after lu...
A. 24 April 2009: Why don't you approach him when he is on his own and apologise for hurting him? If he is alone he will more than likely accept and the two of you can be friends again. If you feel as if you can't do this then you will just have to ride it out. I ... (read in full...)
I have stomach pains and dark blood, after my b/f fingered me as I was just coming off my period, any ideas?
Q. hi, i wonder if you can help meee.. im 16 and my boyfriend is 17. yesterday he fingered me, and i was just coming off my period. there was some blood (ewww) and today ive been getting shooting pains in my stomach and dark blood, but im not sure if ...
A. 24 April 2009: Hmm, sounds weird! If it continues or happens again then go and see a doctor. It shouldn't happen after he fingers you all of the time, but this could just be a one off. Note down the date it started, the colour of the blood, whether it was heavy or ... (read in full...)
He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!
Q. Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How...
A. 24 April 2009: You can't stop him taking drugs! He needs professional help! Don't get involved with him! Trust me, I work in a pharmacy and I see drug addicts everyday, I know how they start and how it finishes! Stay away or else you will be ruining your life! ... (read in full...)
I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?
Q. Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think abo...
A. 24 April 2009: It may be pre-ejaculation fluid. It just happens as you get excited, its perfectly normal. For more info go on google and type in pre-ejaculation, you should get lots of useful information. X
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She said she feels trapped..and now I'm worried about her making poor decisions!
Q. Alright so I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. We live together and love each other. I have a 11 month old son and she doesn't have any kids. The problem is that I get him twice a week. Once during the week and once during the weekend. The ...
A. 24 April 2009: She isn't ready for responsibility yet, however, you have a son so you have to be responsible! Let her go, don't see her again, she sounds like bad news. Don't bring your son up with her around! X... (read in full...)
Woman says they've been having sex! Believe him or her?
Q. I have been dating this guy 4 a few yrs. hes alot older,we have 2 kids together, we were talkin marriage. 1 day this woman said they had been having sex.should i beleive her. he says it didnt happen...
A. 24 April 2009: Hmm, this is a difficult one! Has you boyfriend got the time to see a different woman? There are lots of factors that you need to consider here! I once slept with a man who had a girlfriend (I only found out after I did it) I wanted to tell her what ... (read in full...)
How can I come faster the second time?
Q. Sometimes I cum very fast. I do not know why, but after that it takes me a long time to be ready for a second orgasm. Why does this happen and does any one have any suggestions on how I can speed up? [re written by moderator.]...
A. 24 April 2009: It happens because you have used up the sperm which you had stored the first time you had sex. So when you come to have sex for a second time you won't have any sperm stored up, or you may have a little bit. There aren't any ways to speed it up, but ... (read in full...)
Suddenly she is not satisfied with our sex life. What happened?
Q. My girlfriend and I have had a really healthy sexual relationship up until this week. I was sick for the first half then Thursday we got in a fight about her having to work until 930 at night. Some questions arose about why she has been work...
A. 24 April 2009: Could she be cheating on you? We can't answer your question, only you can find out by asking her and talking, like adults! X... (read in full...)
Is he bi or straight?
Q. there is this guy,he is a gym freak,very concerned about his body, but at the same time he always looks at videos of Arnold flexing and other stars who r well built. He gave me some strange looks, given me some hugs, pinched my butt twice. He was ...
A. 24 April 2009: Everyone is individual! Why don't you just ask him? And its nobodys buisness really! ... (read in full...)
Funk on the chunk
Q. I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there ...
A. 24 April 2009: You could suggest showering together before anything happens? He probably doesn't clean it properly, the foreskin needs to be pulled back to remove any build up of smegma! Just tell him how you feel, I'm sure that he won't mind showering. X... (read in full...)
We watched sister & boyfriend having sex!
Q. last week my girlfriend and i returned home after a night of heavy drinking to walk in on my sister and her husband having sex in the living room ( i live with my sister). because of the awkwardness my girlfriend made a little joke about joini...
A. 24 April 2009: No! Its your sister! Its freaky even thinking of it! And why are you letting your girlfriend join in? Do you not care for her! This whole thing is sick and you should be ashamed of yourself for even watching! ....ITS YOUR SISTER! X
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I like him, he doesn't like me, but can I get him anyway?
Q. so there's this guy that i've had feelings for for about a year. in a nut shell this is our history: meet at party, and flirt alot. i develope feelings. he tells a friend of mine (without him knowing we were friends) that he has feelings fo...
A. 24 April 2009: Its great that you're going to the prom as friends, but that's all your going to be. He must not like you anymore as anything more than a friend. If he likes you then he'll tell you, if he doesn't then just leave it. And you're only young so its not ... (read in full...)
Is he protecting his wallet in fear she will take all he has or does he not want her to find out about us again?
Q. Here it goes: I met a man with whom I worked with. We both started having feelings for each other. He was married. We went to a friend's house one nite after work and kissed... that's it. He goes home that night and tells his wife that he's having ...
A. 24 April 2009: If there are kids involved I think its more about them this time! If he has children then I think he will be protecting them. And I would say its more about his wallet, but even if he doesn't want her to know about you there's no big deal, its none ... (read in full...)
"Boys don't work like that!!!"
Q. My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time snuggling and we haven't seen each other for the last week so I asked him if he was missing our cuddles and he said boys don't work like that. Is that right or am I overthinking things and being worried for no ...
A. 24 April 2009: He should have missed cuddles! My boyfriend misses them! Most boys do! He's obviously not into you if he hasn't missed your cuddles! Find someone better! X... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's "ex" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure.
Q. My boyfriend's "ex something" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure. This girl my boyfriend used to have a huge crush on during high school is returning to town. I fear that she's more perfect for him than I am. Let me exp...
A. 23 April 2009: He sounds devoted to you so don't worry about it!!!! If you do have a problem then tell him not to meet up with her! X
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How can I make my wife swallow?
Q. Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her n...
A. 23 April 2009: Demanding was the wrong word, apologies! Xx I'm so glad you don't bring up x's with her! Lol. Just talk to her, but before you talk let her know that this conversation is a 'no pressure' conversation! So then she won't feel as if the convo Is ... (read in full...)
They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.
Q. I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...
A. 23 April 2009: Becareful! If you don't start eating you can experience organ failure and die! Its a mental illness and if you think you have this you must tell your parents and get help! Its dangerous! I have saw the affects and its not good, its horrible when you ... (read in full...)
How can I make my wife swallow?
Q. Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her n...
A. 23 April 2009: Firstly...don't ever compare her to an ex girlfriend! If my boyfriend did that I would dump him!! Each person is different! Secondly, if she doesn't like the taste of cum (which most girls don't) then you can't make her swallow it! Why doesn't she ... (read in full...)
There are times when my boyfriend makes me feel so miserable, what do I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are so happy when we're together. but when we argue, it's a whole different story, he takes things out of proportion, and starts blaming it all on me, which obviously makes me feel really low. He shouts at me, he insults me and I ...
A. 23 April 2009: Trust me...he is not going to spend your life with you! You are too young to say that! And he sounds like a horrible boyfriend! Dump him and find someone who really likes you. If you decide to stay with him then just don't apologise or speak to him, ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my appetite...
Q. I feel myself losing appetite. Is this normal?? When winter comes I know I eat a lot but since it's getting warmer, I find myself eating little bits of food. ...
A. 23 April 2009: I have the same thing. I find heat really does supress my appetite. I drink lots of water and I stick to light foods like salads! X... (read in full...)
Stretch marks!
Q. I've said this before but I'm going to say it again so that I can get as much help as I can get. I have stretch marks on my boobs, they aren't even big, only a size B and I'm size 10 and have been for a long time, so I haven't gained or lost weight. ...
A. 23 April 2009: Everyone has stretch marks, its just a sign of rapid growth! Puberty can cause them! Boys won't mind, they probably won't even notice. Persist with the bio iol and maybe go to the doctors if they are really bad! X... (read in full...)
Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...
Q. Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...
A. 23 April 2009: Whatever you do, do NOT take him back!!!!!!!! You may feel needy at the minute but this will pass with time! You don't need a cheater to hug you! Nobody needs a cheater! This is one life lesson which must be learnt! If you need someone to talk to ... (read in full...)
I thought it was just a stupid crush....
Q. I've had this crush on my brother's best friend for years now. He's 18 and I'm 13, and he has a girlfriend so I know it's never going to happen, obviously. But recently I think I might be falling in love with him. I'm becoming obsessed with him, and ...
A. 23 April 2009: Eceryone goes through this sort of thing. I fancied my best friends older brother and he had a girlfriend. Its a part of growing up and no body can tell you how to get over someone, you need to find your own way of coping with it as this is a ... (read in full...)
Am I worrying unecessarily over a lack of affection?
Q. Hi! Me and my gf have been dating now for just over 2 months. Things have been going very well and we seem to really click. Although having dated girls before, this is my first real relationship and the same can be said for her, although she is p...
A. 23 April 2009: She doesn't sound as if she wants the same thing as you do at the minute. She seems like she needs a lot of time to herself. If you can't deal with what she wants then it would be best to end the relationship and find someone who will be the same as ... (read in full...)
He is scared to meet my dad, how do I introduce them?
Q. I am recently separated..about 8 months and my boyfriends is divorced. I am 36 and he is 42. I have met his parents, but he has not met my dad. (mom passed away several years ago) I have tried to arrange meeting times, but something always comes up ...
A. 23 April 2009: I'm agreeing with old guy! You are adults but you sound like you are teenagers! You have been through a divorce so how come you are still shy about these things! Go out for a meal! And tell your boyfriend to grow up and be a man!x ... (read in full...)
Loving them both, and can't risk losing them both!
Q. I have been on and off with my girlfriend for 4 years. Each time we break up feels like the end of the world. 6 months ago I met a woman that has taken my breath away in every way. Now I find myself loving two women. I can not take losing them ...
A. 23 April 2009: Stay with your current girlfriend! Do the right thing and ditch this new girl! X
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Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worri...
A. 23 April 2009:
I have had the implanon before! It worked great for me. Its normal not to have periods on it, but you should go to see a doctor! X... (read in full...)
Our break ups seem to be related to her monthly cycle
Q. The first 4 months of our relationship my girlfriend was on the nuva ring birth control. She let me know early that she hated it and that she gained weight and lost sexual desire while on it. She is 24 and has two kids already from a guy who is ...
A. 23 April 2009: Well it does sound like hormones, it could even be depression! She needs to see a doctor and get help! If she does ask to see you again then don't agree to it until she gets help for her hormones! And she needs to sort out these swings of moods out! ... (read in full...)
I can't be with him, but I can't stop thinking about him!
Q. Like I'm totally like this guy I can't be with. He is my soon to be stepbrother. He's 17 and so wonderful and cute! I know we can't be together but I can't seem to get over him. He (and I) flirt, usually unintentionally which doesn't make things any ...
A. 23 April 2009: Why can't you be together you are only STEP brother and sister! There is nothing wrong with it, its not illegal and you haven't grew up together so its not like you view each other as siblings! X... (read in full...)
Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?
Q. i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that...
A. 23 April 2009: I have very good manners towards the people who deserve them! People like you don't deserve good manners! You are probably a nice person however, what you did was wrong! ... (read in full...)
Should I go for the new girl or stay in my shaky relationship?
Q. I have been in a long term relationship (5 years) with a woman and I have recently met another woman that has given me all these strange feelings, i dont if you would call it love, but i cant stop thinking about her and im longing to be near her so ...
A. 23 April 2009: You are feeling lust and excitement however don't leave your girlfriend! These butterflies in the stomach don't last forever and they will wear off! Remember when you had them when you met your girlfriend!! Stay with her and be true to her! You have ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff
Q. I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( ...
A. 23 April 2009: I would just keep saying no! And say it like you mean it. Tell your parents what is going on, they may be able to help! X... (read in full...)
Is he using shy as an excuse to not take things further?
Q. This guy at school and I have been exchanging some pretty heavy flirty emails over the last few days (I've known him about a year). I wasn't sure what to think of it all and caught off guard by it. At class yesterday, I decided to tell him that I ...
A. 22 April 2009: Don't try and take it further, he obviously isn't interested at the minute. He may be scared of taking it further or he may not like you in that way. Just leave it, if he wants you then he'll do something about it! X
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Is she trying to break us up or what?
Q. Well recently my gal cheated on me! when she told me what happened she told me she had asked her sister for advice and the sister adviced her to cheat on me! my girl and i are still together but recently i was contacted by her sister who has never ...
A. 22 April 2009: Well, the sister sounds like she likes you and did try to split you up! I think you should stay away from the both of them as there will be a lot of problems!! If you go out with her sister then you will loose your girlfriends friendship! I can't ... (read in full...)
She's best friends with her ex and even told me she has feelings for him!
Q. My girlfriend has been hanging around her ex-boyfriend a lot more then usual. She goes to see him a lot when he is practicing sports. She tells me that they are best friends and would want nothing more then that. But, today she admitted that she has ...
A. 22 April 2009: She likes him and so this is a problem. You can't continue a relationship with someone who likes someone else! You're always going to feel like 2nd best so dump her and move on because you deserve better! X
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Do we take things "further?" he's 13, I'm 17 and we fight all the time.
Q. Im a 17 yr old girl and my boyfriend is just 13 .. we are 2gether for 8 months...at first the age worried me a bit but now i really do love him ... but we do fight alot, i have lost interest in school work since ive been with him because when we ...
A. 22 April 2009: Yes it is wrong! Its illegal!! And he's just a child! You should be ashamed of yourself! And why would you want to take things further when you argue all of the time? It doesn't make things better, it will make things complicated and ruin it! X... (read in full...)
I love her but no sex!
Q. my girlfriend does not want to have sex with me and i love her. what should i do? Is there anything I can do or say to make her change her mind?...
A. 22 April 2009: No you can't make her have sex! ... (read in full...)
She seems to have time for friends and other strangers, but not for me...
Q. Hey guys, I not sure about a thing here; Am I being too jealous? My girlfriend seems to have less interest in me. She didn't call, or send me a message on facebook for 2 days. Usually we talk every day, But she messages this other guy; Finishing ...
A. 21 April 2009: Omg why did you stay after she cheated? This girl is not to be trusted! Confront her! X... (read in full...)
Fancy dress ideas.
Q. Hi, I was just wondering if anyone had any fancy dress costume ideas, they're having a fancy dress day at college on Friday and I have no idea what to dress up as. All comments wellcome, thanx x...
A. 21 April 2009: What has this got to do with love or relationships?... (read in full...)
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