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Is he using shy as an excuse to not take things further?

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Question - (22 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2009)
A female Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This guy at school and I have been exchanging some pretty heavy flirty emails over the last few days (I've known him about a year). I wasn't sure what to think of it all and caught off guard by it. At class yesterday, I decided to tell him that I am attracted to him and not sure what to think of all of this and the emails had me thinking. His reply to it all was that he is very shy and also flattered that I think that way about him. That's how it was left. Is this his way of rejecting me? Where do I go from here or is it his move now?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

He told me over email that he had been fantasizing about me and wanted to know when I would initiate things and I didn't tell him when. That's what led up to the conversation I had with him and I'm not comfortable being the initiator. If he really liked me, he'd initiate right?

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntDon't try and take it further, he obviously isn't interested at the minute. He may be scared of taking it further or he may not like you in that way. Just leave it, if he wants you then he'll do something about it! X

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