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8 March 2009: I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
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Life is too short for...
Q. I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
A. 26 June 2009: Thanks for the comments! Xxx... (read in full...)
Why do I go back to him? Do I just get lonely and go back to the ex because I can?
Q. Hmm, okay here goes. So I'm 17 and have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I'm the one who has done the breaking up in the past. We broke up at the end of august last year after being together 6 months, because by the end I ju...
A. 23 March 2009: life is way to short to spend time on someone who does not deserve it! you need to dump your boyfriend, he isnt worth the hassle when you have a boy ready to treat you like a princess!!
i would dump your boyfriend and then spend a week alone, d... (read in full...)
How long until we have sex?
Q. Hey, I just started seeing this guy. He seems very nice, and cool ... little bit of a party animal, but I don't mind. We went for 2 dates .. kissed .. and at the second one he did ask me, if he can come upstairs, but I said no ... he didn't push. ...
A. 23 March 2009: Only have sex when it feels right, wait a few weeks until you know each other quite well!x... (read in full...)
Is it ok for them to share a bed?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend's friend who is female is staying at his house... Before I met him I met him through her they were really good friends.. She used to tell me that she used to stay at his house and they shared a bed but didn't do anything. She ha...
A. 23 March 2009: Sleep over at his house!!! Get in his bed so she can't! No its not ok for her to sleep in the bed!!!!!! And if it was my biyfriend he wouldn't even be allowed anyone to stay over! Keep your eye on them!x... (read in full...)
Need help with overcoming past hurt to move into a great new relationsip
Q. I have been seeing a great guy for about a month and a half now, for some reason we started having these silly tiffs, and when things started getting a little out of hand we decided to give each other a some space to figure out what the root of this ...
A. 23 March 2009: I have been in the same situation and I can understand that when you are insecure it can be very hard to overcome! Me and my boyfriend sat down and just talked to each other! I explained what was causing my behaviour and said that I would try to ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin so this type of thing bothers me
Q. Hi, I am a virgin guy 24 years old. I was on a trip few months back to some outstation.It was a group of some people so it was a nice time. We all slept in a single big room each time. I usually sleep wearing a payjama without underwears. ...
A. 23 March 2009: do you not want to lose yor virginity?x... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry me and then has gone really distant!
Q. I recently got engaged on Feb. 26 and since then I've seen my fience all of four times, he only calls me when's he's at work or in the car. And the pervious Thursady he told me he was too tired to go out on Friday that things had been crazy busy ...
A. 21 March 2009: Tell him you need to talk! Be very firm with him and tell him that you want to see him more! Ask him why he is being distant! Communication is needed!!!! X
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Shaving pubic area and itchy!
Q. my girlfriend wanted me to shave my pubic hair off so i have and it itches down there now so have any of you got any tips please...
A. 21 March 2009: If you want it all of then wax it! Much better! If you just want to groom it then trim rather than shave and apply hair conditioner when in the shower! This will help with itching. X
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Should I stay with her?
Q. well its about my girlfriend, she has a hard time expressing her feelings, we talk but have a different sense of humor, i cant ask a serious question without getting a “your mom” joke, and i dont really understand her cause her mom doesnt let us ...
A. 21 March 2009: I would stay with her for at least the time being. Sit her down and tell her that you're goinf to have a serious conversation and there are no jokes allowed!! Tell her how you feel!! Make her listen and ask her why she doesn't open up. Listen to ... (read in full...)
He won't put label of b/f & g/f on us!
Q. i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be ...
A. 20 March 2009: Find someone else! I wouldn't be happy with this either! If he doesn't want to be commited to you then he's not worth the fuss. Give him an ultimatum and if he can't cope with titles then dump him and move on! Xxx
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Signs you are falling in love?
Q. What are the signs that you are falling in love? I meet this really cute guy about a month ago, i dont see him that much, he always use to look at me. So i went up to him and started talking to him. I see him sometimes during the work at a shop ...
A. 20 March 2009: You don't know each other enough to be in love. You can feel lustful towards each other though (lust-very strong feelings, lots of contact....) Its only when you know each other intimatly that you can say that you love each other. Ask him how he ... (read in full...)
Fingered..no bleeding
Q. i was fingered by one finger couple of times and i didnt bleed am i a virgin?? i'm really confused...
A. 20 March 2009: Losing your viginity means that you have has sex. If you haven't had sex then you are still a virgin. The fingers may not have gone far enough to break your hymen and that's why you may not have bled. Not everyone bleeds the first time they do ... (read in full...)
Kissing an' stuff!
Q. I'm 15 and meeting my man on Tuesday along with my friend and her man. I'm a bit nervous as my boyfriend is shorter than me and he wants me to snog him today... and I'm not sure how! Any help? Thanks x...
A. 20 March 2009: Well you could just sit down and do it! Then you're at the same height and it won't be obvious that he's smaller than you. Make sure you are ready, when you truly are the kiss will just flow and there will be no need to plan! X... (read in full...)
Lots of sexual questions
Q. Hi, I think I have an abnormally large clitoris. First question: is that okay? It doesn't look all that healthy... Second, it's extremely sensitive. So much so that every month or so my pubic hair starts to cause me significant physical pain. O...
A. 19 March 2009: Everybody is different!! I would go to a salon and have a full bikini wax! I know it may be daunting but as a beautician I see womens bits everyday! The beautician will think nothing of it and it will be over in no time at all! Waxing is the best ... (read in full...)
Why does he wear sunglasses and say "I don't want you to see what is in my eyes?"
Q. I just recently met a man who had approached me innocently, and i embraced him as a friend. The sucky part is, initially i was ok with being his friend, but im slowly starting to develop feelings, the part that is even worse, is that he is in a ...
A. 18 March 2009: He is a weirdo! Leave him alone and change ur number etc! X... (read in full...)
What should I say to her and can she legally try to keep my baby????
Q. I'm 17 and 7 months pregnant, my bf is 18 and both of our parents were shocked yet understanding when they heard the news. My mom and step dad have offered to help us in any wya they can. But last night I over heard my mom talking to a friend of ...
A. 18 March 2009: Tell her that you over heard her and tell her that although you asked for help you don't want her to take over. Tell her that you are the mum and she is the nana! As long as you are managing and looking after you baby she has no authority to take ... (read in full...)
Should I get tested or am I being paranoid?
Q. I have been reading posts on this site about cheating and one of the answers said about getting tested for aids. My husband cheated on me between 1992 up until February 2008 with different women(3) I never thought of getting tested but it's ...
A. 18 March 2009: Get tested! If you are unsure its better to be safe than sorry! X... (read in full...)
I had an affair and now my 15 year old daughter doesn't trust me
Q. About 2 years ago my marriage broke up, essentially I left my wife for another woman. It was a really bad situation where I felt deeply unhappy in my marriage, but instead of just leaving I started an affair, was found out and this bought everything ...
A. 17 March 2009: Well if you were my dad I wouldn't want any contact with you, I wouldn't trust you and I wouldn't even give you the respect of calling you dad! You are scum!!! Leave your daughter alone and let her get on with her life! If she wants to mke contact ... (read in full...)
Miserable and a Newlywed...what can I do?
Q. I got married in October of 2008. We are both young—in our mid twenties. 2008 was a whirlwind year for us. We both switched jobs, bought a house, and were on very different schedules, limiting our time together. When we did get together, we would ...
A. 16 March 2009: Stay with him and work through it! Talk about how you feel and you will ge through this. Try to re kindle what you had when you first met! Xx... (read in full...)
I've put my name down for a charitable game... But I'm nervous. Is it a good idea?
Q. Hi, My university is holding an event for Comic Relief tomorrow. This event requires some volunteers who will then stand in line while people place bids to go on a date with them, with the funds going to charity. I thought it would be fun so ...
A. 13 March 2009: Well done!! Xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Could I ask my ex if I can stay at his apartment, he has a new girlfriend!
Q. I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want t...
A. 13 March 2009: No no no no!!!! You have to be respectful of his current girl friend! If I was his current girl and you asked if you could use his place I woudbe going mad!! Find a hotel! X
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Help us loose our virginity without the agony!
Q. Im a 30yr old virgin male and in almost 6yr dating with a female virgin. All the time we try to have sex is like passing through hell for both of us, without any penetration, she always complains of hurting and pain. Please advice us what shall we...
A. 13 March 2009: Relax and don't put pressure on each other. Put a condom on, this may stop it hurting so much for both of you (it works for me) take it slow and just do it, once yu have done it it will hurt less the next time!! X... (read in full...)
I don't think I like my girlfriend
Q. Dear Cupid i am 25 year old and i just got into my very first relationship. we been together for 8 month now. i should be happy, but im not. i am kinda in this situation like in the movie "i think i love my wife" 2007 by chris rock. if you...
A. 13 March 2009: You can't stay in a relationship if you don't feel the way you think that you should feel! Talk to your girlfriend and see how she feels, tell her what you need from the relationship and see if you can work towards a soloution. If all else fails ... (read in full...)
Life is too short for...
Q. I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
A. 13 March 2009: Thanks vamp gal! A cool summary!x... (read in full...)
Why can't I be a sissy in public
Q. Well I'm a Sissy Transvestite and I've been going out in public dressed as a normal female since I was 13, I'm 50 now and I've been expressing a very deep part of my personality for the last 10 years. I love dressing up like a 4 or 5 year old little ...
A. 12 March 2009: I live in england so I don't know much about ur laws but if I saw u walking in the street I wouldn't have a problem, everyones different and unique! Just curious as to what sissy means though. Xx... (read in full...)
I want to no if I lost my virginity please help me
Q. Hi im a 15 year old teenage girl. about 3 weeks ago i had a experince with a 17 year old boy why i was drunk.I cant remember much but when i woke up the next morning i had throbbing pains in my vigina and i felt really sore.i keep having to go to ...
A. 12 March 2009: You may have done, or you may have just been fingered or something rough done to your vagina. Go to your nearest sexual health or conexions clinic and have an sti test coz you could have got an infection. X... (read in full...)
Life is too short for...
Q. I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
A. 12 March 2009: Glad you're in with a good crowd now, school can be so hard! Its a lot easier with good people around you! X... (read in full...)
Do people use this site to hook up?
Q. Hey there, Not necessarily advertising myself, but I was just wondering whether or not people use this site to hook up and 'get together'? Anyone?...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm sure some people must do, a guy asked me for my hotmail address once but I looked at his profile and he was like 40 with a wife and kids! X... (read in full...)
Is it normal for fiancee to look for nude pics on craigslist?
Q. I thought I was hot but fiancee is bringing me down! seems like he likes to look for random (and free) places to view naked pics of chicks. seems to happen daily to some degree and I also thinks he looks on his phone at work. he seems to especial...
A. 12 March 2009: Confront him, there is a problem here! Tell him your problems, tell him how you feel about each of them when they happen and then tell him wht you need. Resolve each issue wit a solution which both of you are happy with. For example 'when you look ... (read in full...)
I've put my name down for a charitable game... But I'm nervous. Is it a good idea?
Q. Hi, My university is holding an event for Comic Relief tomorrow. This event requires some volunteers who will then stand in line while people place bids to go on a date with them, with the funds going to charity. I thought it would be fun so ...
A. 12 March 2009: Well done! Its a great idea! Just wear a nice outfit and chat to some of the other contestants before you go on! They will be feeling the same, don't get too nervous, its supposed to be fun! Its for a good cause so I'm sure people will bid on you! ... (read in full...)
I start arguments with him for no reason. How do I fix it?
Q. i have the most loving amazing perfect boyfriend anyone could ask for and we have been though so much, i really comftable around him and he treats me like his little princess but the thing is i snapp at him for no reason i cause agruements when i ...
A. 12 March 2009: When you feel yourself about to argue or nag at him stop and evaluate why you are doing it. Is there something you want him to do to make it better? Tell him how you feel! Sit down and talk to him, agree before you start that there will be no ... (read in full...)
Can a hostess make exceptions to her own invitation?
Q. hi i have recently hosted a birthday birthday for my kid. i also sent out a 'no siblings please' note in the invitations with one or two exceptions wherin the siblings were close to my son. one of the parent cornered me so as to why there w...
A. 11 March 2009: Its your party so you do as you please! If the other siblings were closer to your child then its ok to make an exception for them! Ignore this horrible parent who is questioning you! X... (read in full...)
Why doI feel like this? Totally confused & anxious
Q. i just meet this guy. he was acting like he liked me. i was a jerk because he reminded me of someone i hated[the looks were very similar, i coulda sworn it was him but it wasnt]. but he kept acting all flirty. [i wasnt a complete jerk, but i was...
A. 11 March 2009: Just play it cool, if he likes you then he'll make the effort! X... (read in full...)
My g/f went ballistic seeing that I had my ex as a friend on an Internet profile!
Q. About a year and a half ago I ended a relationship with an ex amicably after we both went separate directions in our lives. It was a relationship where we both knew it had a limited life, as she went abroad for a long period and I moved to continue ...
A. 11 March 2009: Me and my boyfriend have been through the same sort of thing! The best thing that you can do is to get rid of facebook- I know it seems extreme but it causes so many agruments! And she will be checking ur profile often now! I would get rid of any ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a normal size?
Q. I have a penis that is about 2 inches when not hard but when erected its about 4.5 is that normal? im 13...
A. 11 March 2009: Sounds about right! If you are unsire then type into google -average penis sizes. There will be lots of info on here! Xx... (read in full...)
Any advice on different games we could play using lube?
Q. I have vaginismus so my boyfriend and I can't have intercourse. We do other things, we just can't have penetrative sex because it hurts me too much. For a bit of fun tomorrow (so really need a quick answer!) we're going to buy a bottle of lubricant ...
A. 10 March 2009: If its flavoured you could lick it off various body parts! Or think of a board game you could drag out and incorporate lube into this. Or make cards with a body part on each one,turn them face down and take in turns to pick! X
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Life is too short for...
Q. I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
A. 10 March 2009: True artian! Life is too short to worry about things, this is something I'm trying to drill into my younger brothers head! He has just started high school and he worries so much about little things! X... (read in full...)
Morals
Q. A bird with inadequate wings that uses another bird's wings to fly is taking a great risk. A bird that decides that anothers wings are unsuitable and ditches them whilst in flight is a dangerous bird! A bird that uses anothers wings and takes ...
A. 9 March 2009: This is nice!! Did you make this up yourself or have you heard this? Xx... (read in full...)
For all those teenagers worried if they may be pregnant/got their girlfriend pregnant...!
Q. After reading many posts on this website recently from worried teens about whether or not they are pregnant, I would like to offer some advice to you all. 1. If you have had a period after the incident then it is highly unlikely you are pregnant...
A. 9 March 2009: Very clear and precise, to the point. Good to read! Well done on writing this! Xx... (read in full...)
Life is too short for...
Q. I've realised something which has taken me around 18 years to figure out...I'm writing this article as theremay be some people out there who still haven't figured this out! 'Life is too short' is the best expression ever, it can help you to make des...
A. 9 March 2009: Its not late at all, I'm 19, I think people start to learn about life at this age because you have gone through high school and realised that all of your problems were petty. Then you think, 'I've realised that my issues in high school weren't worth ... (read in full...)
Have you ever been there? Losing the love of you life and there's nothing you can do?
Q. Hi, i tried to talk with my friends and family but i dont think they quite understand what i am feeling. so heres the story i started to date my ex boyfriend when we were 15 at first i thought it was a relationship like any other but i was wrong our ...
A. 9 March 2009: It may be hard but you need to move on...it may seem like you can't butyou really can! As time passes you won't feel like you do at this time and you will find someone else who you can be with full time! X... (read in full...)
I found spot of blood..did I rip my hymen?
Q. i fingered myself and i saw a tad of blood on my fingers my period is due soon but i dont know weather i have ripped my mymen or its just period blood please answer if you have any ideas. if i have it has fot its ups and downs but......
A. 9 March 2009: And you can book a doctors appointment and they won't tell your mum and dad as everything is confidential! You can get the number of ur doctors by phoning 118 118 and telling them the street name of the surgery and the area that you live in! X... (read in full...)
I found spot of blood..did I rip my hymen?
Q. i fingered myself and i saw a tad of blood on my fingers my period is due soon but i dont know weather i have ripped my mymen or its just period blood please answer if you have any ideas. if i have it has fot its ups and downs but......
A. 9 March 2009: It could be both, if you have any problems then go and see a doctor! If you are ok then you shouldn't worry! X... (read in full...)
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