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Do we take things "further?" he's 13, I'm 17 and we fight all the time.

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Question - (22 April 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im a 17 yr old girl and my boyfriend is just 13 .. we are 2gether for 8 months...at first the age worried me a bit but now i really do love him ... but we do fight alot, i have lost interest in school work since ive been with him because when we fight hes all i can think about and nothing else ever matters ... evn tho the relationnship isnt perfect we do want to take things furthur , id this the wrong thing to do ? and could it cause me trouble .....?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

Run!!!!! Fast... Before you get yourself into a whole lot of trouble.. You are almost a legal adult.. He is a child!! This is not right!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

k thnkz X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

Wait a few more years, if you're still together. And when you are ready and he is old enough, use contraception! You don't want to end up like the couple ArmyMedic pointed out...What the kid said about being a father was beyond a joke really.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony aunthttp://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2233878.ece Do you remember this? I'm sure it made Irish Papers as well as UK.

There was national up cry, and most of the country wanted the girl involved arrested for statutory rape of a minor! The story has now gone very quiet which suggests to me some kind of legal action is taking place.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

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yah i no i think that sumtimes 2 we go 2 the same school i have 2 yrs left n school...and we were asked by friends to go wid each odr i dnt no y i did it at first nly 4 d laugh i supose cuz he is cute. but i do love him now. . . an he tells me he wants to be with me forever and things like dat i do believe him tho but yah i no hes nly young .. so im just confused myself 2 be honest XX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

personaly i think this is absoloutely rong.

okayy you love him yeaa, but you should of NEVER even gone near him.

hese only 13 !

not even in his last year at school and youve finishd alreadyy!!

your distracting yourself and your 13 year old from both of your educations (vice versa)

its good to see you are happy but you really need to think about this because the age is a very big concern chick.

hese young himself and probably doesnt know what he wants although he might say hese in love he might not be. :/

i hope you understand where im comingg from and i hope this has helped x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

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ok X

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntYes it is wrong! Its illegal!! And he's just a child! You should be ashamed of yourself! And why would you want to take things further when you argue all of the time? It doesn't make things better, it will make things complicated and ruin it! X

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