Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 13 January 2010: It really shouldn't be this hard.
I think you just have to follow your heart. Don't play games and hint. Just tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he has noticed you are trying more.
Talk to him about how you are feeling and really just ... (read in full...)
Been out of the game too long.
Q. Here's the problem I was in a 2 year relationship. We had a very healthy sex life. She was beautiful and very experienced I was not but she taught me well. I am no stud but we got the job done. We have been broke up for almost two years now I have ...
A. 12 January 2010: Honestly, we girls are NOT THAT COMPLICATED.
I think you should make it a new year's mission to go out and start talking to a girl you don't know every week.
Just start a conversation. Say Hi.
If she shoots you down then it's not a big deal... (read in full...)
Same guy, same story, different day
Q. ok well me and this have been sleepin together for a lil over 9 mnths. and he lives 111 miles away from me.(at college) and weve grown distent.and i dont like it. we were really close friends before and now we really dont talk. we both hang out with ...
A. 12 January 2010: You fell for him, and now you're falling out of love with him again.
Most relationships have a use-by date.
It's not like you marry the first guy you have feelings for.
Just be honest and say your feelings have changed and you just wan... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my pregnant principal
Q. i think im falling in love with my principal. shes all i ever think about, theres not one day where i dont talk about her and i cant walk by her office without saying hi. She sometimes stops by my cafe. at lunch, i always have to go up and talk to ...
A. 12 January 2010: What's happening is that you are stuck in that horrible place between childhood and adult hood.
You have been hit with a MASSIVE dose of hormones. These things are going to make you grow a foot taller, and change your internal organs. They are... (read in full...)
At first I never liked him, and now I do, is this an infactuation?
Q. There's this guy who liked me for a long time, and while he was my friend, I never liked him. The thing is, i've grown to like him. There are things about him I don't like, but they don't matter. When i'm with him, i'm happy and comfortable. but it ...
A. 12 January 2010: Awwww he's worn you down.
That's how my first boyfriend got with me.
You'll go out with him for a while and all those things you don't like about him will really upset you and eventually you'll realise you could be with someone much better.
... (read in full...)
Really attracted to him but don't want to take it far unless we are in relationship
Q. Im 19 years old and Im scared to have sex....this guy I use to work, we had really good chemistry but things wasnt so good for me then so I quit my job and we lost contact....Recently Ive gotten back in touch with him and I would really would like ...
A. 12 January 2010: Caring guy is right.
You HAVE to let him know that it's relationship or nothing.
If you do anything with him now then he will never be your boyfriend. He will sleep with you and mess you around for years and then finally you will move on hea... (read in full...)
Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?
Q. Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? ...
A. 12 January 2010: You want to know if you can MAKE someone be sexually attracted to you?
The answer is no.
If there was a way to do it then there would be a lot less broken hearts in the world.
So short of discovering witchcraft you just have to move on fro... (read in full...)
How to get closure from the father of my child?
Q. I jus lost a baby recently about a month ago. He was going to b my first son. Well after he died, me n the father of the baby decided to stop talking to each other cuz he still continued to cheat n lie. I tried to get him to come to our baby's ...
A. 12 January 2010: It's something you just have to decide for yourself.
Take a day out somewhere and go somewhere new and far away. Go some where beautiful. Go for a walk.
Spend it by yourself and just let yourself relax.
At some point you just have to take a ... (read in full...)
He loves me but hes not going to leave the other girl
Q. I found out that my man is seeing someone. When i asked he said he love me although he is not going to live his gal friend. What should i do....
A. 12 January 2010: You dump him.
Why let yourself be used like this?
Don't you think you deserve better than this?
Every woman in the world can find a man who respects her if she looks for him and stops wasting time with losers like this one.
Good Luck!!... (read in full...)
I keep having bad dreams about people I love, or have loved, dying
Q. I've asked a similar question to this before, the situation has only worsened since then. I suffer from extremely disturbing nightmares, in which often a loved one dies. Usually it's my best friend/ex boyfriend that dies. It's been a variety ...
A. 12 January 2010: Well you can start by looking at any outside factors that might make these dreams happen.
Do you smoke? Drink caffiene or chemical (like fizzy drinks or coffee) drinks after 7pm?
Do you eat sweets (candy) or cheese or anything else after 7pm? ... (read in full...)
Best friend engaged but I love her!
Q. I have this problem. I have this bestfriend. We have been friends for 5 years. Well I've been in love with her for a couple years now and never admitted to myself. I have just got out of a relationship. And of course she's been there for me this ...
A. 12 January 2010: Well it's up to you.
You can either live with it and hide it well and continue being her friend. Or you can tell her and she'll either break up with her boyfriend (unlikely if she's agreed to marry him) or understand and give you time and spac... (read in full...)
Cut my losses now?
Q. so i met this girl at a party over the weekend, we have been talking alot since then and we are going on a date later on in the week, shes very cool and seems so chill and not fake, i really like her but i just found something out that may ruin ...
A. 12 January 2010: I'd date her until she moves but tell her you are not up for a long distance thing, or waiting around 5 months.
Girls just want to know where they stand so be honest about how you feel. Start with "I think you're amazing, and you're beautifu... (read in full...)
Been out of the game too long.
Q. Here's the problem I was in a 2 year relationship. We had a very healthy sex life. She was beautiful and very experienced I was not but she taught me well. I am no stud but we got the job done. We have been broke up for almost two years now I have ...
A. 12 January 2010: So if you want and prefer having a girlfriend to having one night stands then why are you making out with girls at parties?
Why not get chatting to a girl or three and ask one you like out for coffee?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill?
Q. should I get the morning after pill? I just had sex tonight w/o protection but he didn't cum inside. do you think I should?...
A. 12 January 2010: Yes. Get the pill. Why risk it?
While you are there, get them to explain about how to use condoms and ask for a chlamydia test as well.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Ex stole my jewelry?
Q. have a problem? my ex has said to me on phone after i discovered my jewellery is missing, i said where is my jewellery? his words where, "its down the pawn shop where i took my watch you know the one in so and so" i said where is my jewllery again ...
A. 12 January 2010: Phone tap evidence is a bit dodgy in UK courts.
You'd be better off talking to the officer who is handling your case down at the police station.
He will be able to tell you what the CPS will and will not take.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Crush Verses Obsession
Q. What is the difference between a crush and an obsession. When do you cross that line between having a crush on someone to having an obsession with someone?...
A. 11 January 2010: You can get over a crush... obsession means you end up doing stupid things that impact the rest of your life because of it.
This of it like addiction. Are you a regular drinker, but could happily have a few weeks on a desert island with nothing ... (read in full...)
His erection went soft. Did I do something wrong?
Q. Last night i attempted to have sex with a guy i really like, he was hard at first and then he was only semi-hard, so we couldnt do anything. Then to top it off my friend almost walked in on us and he said "Well that just ruined it all together" and ...
A. 11 January 2010: Well what was your best friend doing wandering around??
I get the feeling this was at a party or somewhere, and you had probably both had a drink.
Perhaps he doesn't want to just shag some girl, perhaps he wants a girlfriend?
Let him find a ... (read in full...)
What to do during a break?
Q. hi me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for 4 months and one day she said she wanted a break its been 2 weeks now and im just wondering what will i do i love her soo much and i did everything for her (well i think i did) like i got sold ...
A. 11 January 2010: If she's studying for exams etc then you have to throw yourself into something else.
Get out there and think about what you can improve about yourself this year. Push your career, redecorate your room, go swimming, see your friends.
If she'... (read in full...)
How do I get him to understand?
Q. First of all, thank you for reading my problem, it means a lot to me. I believe that i have a confident issue when it comes to my boyfriend and he thinks that i'm a jealous girlfriend. My boyfriend has a very close friend who's a female that i fe...
A. 11 January 2010: Why not compromise?
He can see her and text her all he wants BUT when he is with you on a date, he turns his phone off.
You get all his attention when he's with you. She can have him when you are done.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him think I'm not interested?
Q. hi guys ok so i really fancyone of my best mates hus a boy but i think he knows and it gets abit awquard around us when we're together, i dont even want to go out with him anyway cos if we did then broke up that would make things really weird ...
A. 11 January 2010: Talk about the other guy and just relax around him.
Just treat him like any of the other boys. Don't make any special effort or it'll make it worse.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does your cherry pop whenever you put a tampon in?
Q. Does your cherry pop,whenever you put a tampon in?...
A. 11 January 2010: Nope. You have one hymen. (A layer of skin across your vagina, slightly inside, have a look on google for more info.)
Back in the day, it would be broken by sex with your husband after marriage, because you'd have spent your childhood sitting ... (read in full...)
Does the amount of pre cum affect conception?
Q. When my man gets sexually excited he produces ALOT of pre cum.. I was just wondering whether this could affect the amount of sperm which is finally ejaculated thus affecting our chances of conceiving? ...
A. 11 January 2010: You'd have to ask a doctor.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I let my friend move in with me?
Q. Hey thanks for any advice i have a friend a girl that is having alot of trouble at home,she has been telling me about her problems and she recently asked if she could move in with me, she said she would pay rent even though i didnt ask, she has ...
A. 11 January 2010: If she's an adult and if you are renting your own place and you agree about rent and bill and who will pay what, then I don't see any problem.
You aren't going to be the first person to have a housemate.
Best get clearing so the spare room w... (read in full...)
Discretly ask boyfriend to lose weight?
Q. How do I kindly and discreetly ask my boyfriend to lose weight with me? I don't want him to lose a lot, but just a little, and I don't know how to go about doing it. ...
A. 11 January 2010: "I read somewhere that if you have someone who will lose weight with you, you're far more likely to succeed. I really wish I had someone who would go on a diet with me so I can look extra sexy for you this summer..."
Then follow him round making p... (read in full...)
I gave my boyfriend naked photographs and I'm regretting it! Help!
Q. I gave my boyfriend naked pics and a video of us. He keeps it in his laptop. I did as a private thing between he and I but lately every now and then he says thing like "they(the pictures)belong to me, and I can do what I want with them" I told him I ...
A. 10 January 2010: Unfortunately there is not a lot you can do legally, the damage will all ready have been done.
What you can do is get him to delete the files (and make sure he empties the recycle bin.)
You can do this the nice way... "sell him" a blow job ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend constantly thinks I'm cheating. What can I do to change her way of thinking?
Q. My girlfriend keeps thinking I'm going to cheat on her. Nothing I say or do works. We have been dating for 11 months. I really like her and she won't except that she has trust issues. If someone could help I would greatly appreiciate it. Thanks ...
A. 10 January 2010: This is really her problem unfortunately. She needs to get some self confidence.
You can try tough love and tell her that you can't take it any more and you'll leave unless it stops.
But she has to realise that her behaviour is just not accepta... (read in full...)
Lost interest in him
Q. I loved my hubby,like any thing...in the starting of our marriage.. but time flied and those time he didnt give me those pals of happiness I felt all he wanted that time was sex nothing else.... Now after 2 and half years of marriage life I feel I ...
A. 10 January 2010: Talk to him!
Tell him you are unhappy and you need more romance.
You need to put effort in too though and make sure you try and put some romance in too.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What did he mean...Did he mean he wants to be with her?
Q. Im pretty confused recently ive been out with my mate and a guy she likes.Hes a pretty nice guy. Shes liked him for a long time and she always thought he liked her, she told me why and i agreed. We all went out not long ago but i had to leave early ...
A. 10 January 2010: Well this is just going to be annoying if it carries on.
I think you just need to tell him that he needs to ask her out or to leave her alone.
Yes rejection is not nice, but do you want her to carry on following about like a puppy for the ne... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have 2 men sucking one nipple?
Q. hi, my question is .....is it dangerous tat 2 or 3 men sucking the nipple of one woman.does it cause any infection due to saliva...is it ok......
A. 10 January 2010: It's the same as having anyone licking any bit of skin. If they have a disease then it may get into your system.
You'll probably pass on a few colds and possibly the flu.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My ex won't talk to me because I talk on Bebo to other girls!
Q. Need Help ... Im in love with my ex we are still really good friends she still tells me she loves me. I still say it back but she read some of my comments on bebo and thinks i am flirting with other girls, i am not really. i just call them hun and ...
A. 10 January 2010: You are single to do what you want.
She's clearly not over you though so give her some time before trying to be her friend, and if you dumped her then you can't blame her for being jealous.
Take some space from each other so she can get over... (read in full...)
Daughter and boyfriend sponging off of us and we can't afford it!
Q. Our daughter has recently turned 18 and left school about 18 months ago,since she left school she hasn't worked or done any schooling.She refuses to get a job and comes up with every excuse in the book why she cant get a job or even look for one. T...
A. 10 January 2010: I'd start playing hard.
I bet they aren't too great at 6am if they drink so much. So bang on a CD at full blast, and head into their room to vaccume and tidy up, turn the lights on and open the curtains. Do this every morning.
If they leave... (read in full...)
Best way to dump a sensitive long distance boyfriend?
Q. Hi. Recently I figured I really need to break up with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship from the start, and although I've been able to handle it quite well so far, lately it's really been getting into me. We have been t...
A. 10 January 2010: I know he's not like that now, my point was that my ex BECAME like that because he thought it was the best way to stop me from dumping him once he knew I was unhappy.
As for your boyfriend, You don't say how old you are but it says 18 to 21 so I'... (read in full...)
I have a bucket list about sex
Q. so i'm young. but ive already done stuff, witch was a mistake i got caught up in the moment. and i really regretted it. but now i have this "bucket" list all these things i would like to do before i graduate high school. abd there are a few sexual ...
A. 10 January 2010: YEY!!!!!!
I'm so glad you've decided to wait.
And married lady gives an EXCELLENT point.
You don't stop making lists. I had a list of stuff to by leaving school, a list of stuff to do before leaving uni, A list of stuff to do by the time ... (read in full...)
Religion: How would I chose between the man I love and my family?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, i turned 18 a couple of weeks ago, i know i love him and that he is the only person i would ever want to be with, i know im young and do understand that the committment is huge but you cant help how you ...
A. 9 January 2010: You have to follow your heart.
Some people would choose their family and some would choose their boy. Some would feel they made the right choice and some would regret it afterwards.
As you say, you are only young so give it time. What you h... (read in full...)
How do ever find love again after your first love?
Q. hey, i was wondering do you ever find love after your first one? i havnt really stopped thinking about her over the last year, and i feel stuck and frustrated because i dont want to go against my feelings for her and meet someone new, but i know i ...
A. 9 January 2010: If we all did that, there would be many many many many many more single people in the world and the human race would be dying out.
Of course you move on from your first love.
You just have to choose to WANT to move on. You are happy to be in a... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of calling off the wedding! I'm tired of his moods!
Q. Hello We are getting married this July and been together 15mths. We have a house together. Things have always been turbulent in our relationship. When we met he got made redundant and had to get a job on less money miles away so he has to get...
A. 9 January 2010: He may be depressed but guess what? You are not a mental health nurse.
You putting up with his abuse isn't helping anyone, least of all him.
Move out and split up from him. Then he can move closer to his job and be less tired, and get some hel... (read in full...)
Girl wants to have unprotected sex with me and I'm only 14!
Q. I am 14 and a girl i kno wants me to hav sex with her i am about 5 inches when erect and uncircumsised i am a virgin and she is not ... she wants to do it unprotected and hav a kid ... confused :S help pls...
A. 9 January 2010: Wow, she wants 20 years of your life and you are considering it???
You are seriously ready to start changing nappies, thinking about scans, putting all your money into baby food?
Don't you have any friends? Don't you want to go out and have fun... (read in full...)
Is giving her a full kiss on the mouth cheating?
Q. my partner danced with another girl at a family wedding, whilst i was pregnant and he didnt really acknowlege that i was there as he was so drunk, (he did ask me to attend and everything was ok until he got drunk) then he kissed this girl i dont ...
A. 9 January 2010: You don't like it and don't find it acceptable so that's all that matters.
There is no grand rule book of "what is and what is not cheating."
You were pregnant and he acted like an idiot, and then acted in a horribly disrespectful wa... (read in full...)
Ladies, here's something for you. I want your opinions on this?
Q. Is it true that you girls will never forget or always feel something for the guy that you "never got"? The one that you knew you loved but he never asked you to be in a relationship. Do you still think about him even after you're in a new ...
A. 9 January 2010: Yeah, I always think of my previous "ones who got away."
I mostly think "What on EARTH was I thinking wasting all that time on HIM??? Urgh."
Then I look at the one I am with now and give him a kiss because he is SO much better.
Good ... (read in full...)
We said we'd wait a couple of years to have sex but he's talking about having it now after a couple of months.
Q. when my and my boyfriend hooked up we decided that we were going to date for a couple of years before we thought about doing anything sexual...its been two months and we have done everything but have sex and he said he wants to if i want to but he ...
A. 9 January 2010: He's said he'll never force you? How nice. "I promise I'll never rape you!!" How romantic. You should get him to promise never to stab you as well. Just to be sure.
Of course he wants to have sex after a couple of months. He's a teenage boy and ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 9 January 2010: HE'S TOLD YOU HE WANTS YOU TO TEXT MORE!!!!!
You've said ok, and you did.... ONCE. He's clearly seeing if you ARE willing to change or if this is going to be something that kills your relationship.
He must have been a bit annoyed if he ta... (read in full...)
Best way to dump a sensitive long distance boyfriend?
Q. Hi. Recently I figured I really need to break up with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship from the start, and although I've been able to handle it quite well so far, lately it's really been getting into me. We have been t...
A. 9 January 2010: I'm a bit of a long distance expert. Not through choice! It's a horrible horrible place to be.
My first boyfriend was just like yours. So I stayed with him, and stayed miserable, and tried to tell him how I felt but that just made things worse as... (read in full...)
I have a bucket list about sex
Q. so i'm young. but ive already done stuff, witch was a mistake i got caught up in the moment. and i really regretted it. but now i have this "bucket" list all these things i would like to do before i graduate high school. abd there are a few sexual ...
A. 8 January 2010: Awww, we all had those lists. Mine included marrying the guy who presented Blue Peter and learning guitar to start a band.
I still haven't done either of those things and I'm 26.
Lists are great to make as a giggle, but it's not a binding co... (read in full...)
Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 7 January 2010: He's talked to you about this which means he still wants this to work... he could well have just ended it.
So make the effort. Text him just to say you are thinking of him when he is out with his mates.
Text him and see what he's up to and i... (read in full...)
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