Confusion over the kids!
Q. Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 an...
A. 10 May 2010: We can't help if you aren't going to listen.
This man is a horrible user. He is going to continue to lie, use, cheat and steal from you. He will not change because why should he? You let him walk all over you like a doormat.
As soon as you kick... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...
A. 1 February 2010: There is WAY better out there for you.
There are men out there who will be so honoured to have every day with you.
Find them!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 13 January 2010: It really shouldn't be this hard.
I think you just have to follow your heart. Don't play games and hint. Just tell him how you are feeling and ask him if he has noticed you are trying more.
Talk to him about how you are feeling and really just ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 9 January 2010: HE'S TOLD YOU HE WANTS YOU TO TEXT MORE!!!!!
You've said ok, and you did.... ONCE. He's clearly seeing if you ARE willing to change or if this is going to be something that kills your relationship.
He must have been a bit annoyed if he ta... (read in full...)
Is my husband just using me???
Q. Me and my husband have been married about eighteen months now, our relationship is long distance as he works away so he views porn online of real life couples having sex. however he wants me to now go online and have sex in front of strangers too. ...
A. 7 January 2010: I don't think this is anything to do with love and respect.
This is to do with his fetishes.
If you want to do it then go for it. If you are not interested and he doesn't take that for an answer THEN it becomes about respect.
If he was using... (read in full...)
Is there any truth in the saying that to get a man to want you, to have to stop chasing him?
Q. Hi Aunts and uncles, I just wondered if there is any truth in the saying that to get a man to want you, to have to stop chasing him. I have been with this man now for number of years and every time he goes quiet I chase him and chase him, which...
A. 7 January 2010: Yep.
If you chase a man and nag him to stay with you then yes he will agree, because it's easier, it makes you leave him alone, and he gets sex / girlfriend on a plate. Plus he knows he can do pretty much what he wants and you'll forgive him beca... (read in full...)
Are we just really close or is it love?
Q. Dear Cupid, I want to know what this feeling is: I met a boy when i was 10 and for the last 9 years we've been best friends. In the past couple of years, i've found being around him different. We act the same around each other but i get a feel...
A. 7 January 2010: Could be either or to be honest.
If you don't find him attractive though, and don't have a bit of a "crush" on him then it's not going to work.
There needs to be the butterflies / crush side AND the best friend side for it to be love.
It s... (read in full...)
Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...
A. 7 January 2010: He's talked to you about this which means he still wants this to work... he could well have just ended it.
So make the effort. Text him just to say you are thinking of him when he is out with his mates.
Text him and see what he's up to and i... (read in full...)
Should I send her a letter trying to explain?
Q. I'm reposting since i didn't get any good advice! About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she want...
A. 7 January 2010: All your letter will say is "I'm sorry for looking at your texts.... But you did X, Y, and Z. As well as A, B and C."
I defy you to write a letter that isn't mostly saying "I want you to apologise."
She is in the wrong and I know you want he... (read in full...)
What are the symptoms of Thrush and Statitus for a male?
Q. Hi cupid could you tell me what the symptons of thrush and statitus can be for a male?...
A. 6 January 2010: Why can't you people use google???
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/infections/202887.html
first thing that came up when I put "thrush in men" into google.com.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We made out and now 2 weeks later I haven't heard from him
Q. Well i have been getting to know this boy for a really long time , we have been texting but he will never talk to me at school this boyy is so funny but hes one of the popular boys and he sometimes takes the p*** out of me . Anyway he texted me one ...
A. 6 January 2010: He had what he wanted from you so why would he get in touch?
If you want someone to be your boyfriend you don't just text them, and then get off with them.
They have to ask you out and earn their first kiss.
I think you've been used hun, an... (read in full...)
She cheated on me when I relocated.
Q. I meet this wonderful woman when I was eighteen right out of high school. I knew that she was the one that I wanted to marry. She is my all and everything. We have a wonderful relationship. We were open about our past. I told her everything about ...
A. 6 January 2010: Only you know what is in your head and if you have it in you to forgive her.
You have children and this was a long time ago.
Give yourself time and see how you feel. If you decide to forgive her then you can't hold this against her.
If you c... (read in full...)
My girlfriend keeps breaking up with me so she can go out with other men, what should I do?
Q. hello everyone, so my girlfriend cheated one me broke up with me saying it was my fault, then when i found out it was cause she was cheating on me i forgave her and we got back together. then she started a fight so she could go on a date with ...
A. 6 January 2010: Why on earth would you take her back???
Is this really all you think you are worth?
Cut contact, let her carry one and if she calls to get back with you then be dignified and tell her calmly that you deserve better, then hang up.
Get over ... (read in full...)
Can anyone advise me on ovulation?
Q. My husband and I are trying for a baby. I am really un educated when it comes to ovulation etc. My period came on christmas day and lasted for only a few days we had sex on the 28th 29th and 30th is this aroubd my ovulation period and therfore more ...
A. 6 January 2010: I just put "ovulation and getting pregnant" into google and found about a thousand articles by experts explaining it all.
Do the same and you should get some info.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he needs time.. what should I do?
Q. I met my boyfriend through work about 7 months ago when he was with his ex girlfriend of 1 year, 7 months. He broke up with her about 4 months ago and we started going out straight after. However he went through a stage where he said he needed time ...
A. 6 January 2010: So you admit you've made mistakes... and now he's asking for time and space and you texted him anyway telling him he would get dumped if he wasn't careful.....
Give the poor guy a break! If you can't cope after 24 hours without contact then... (read in full...)
Is oral sex considered losing your virginity?
Q. I am 14 and I want to save my self for marrage but I keep having sexual urges and dreams tempting me.and I think it oral sex would help but I dont know If its considered loosing your virginity please help me ...
A. 6 January 2010: Well it depends on WHY you want to save yourself for marriage.
If you want to be "pure" then yes, oral sex is not a good idea.
Stick to your hand till you are ready to do more.
If you want to wait for marriage because you are scared o... (read in full...)
Why would guys behave like that?
Q. Ok, to keep a long story short, i’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social life from what i see on facebook - clubbing, ...
A. 6 January 2010: It sounds like he's a bit indifferent to you to be honest.
Stop worrying about him and find a guy you DO like.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why can I only get turned on by my girlfriend? Porn does nothing for me and I'm starting to worry!
Q. Ok this may not seem urgent or even useful but at the moment I am in a very strange predicament, not serious or bad in anyway I do not think but never the less it is quite how should I put, well bugger it it is pure strangeness for me. My girlfriend ...
A. 6 January 2010: It's called "being in love." You may have heard of it.
You've realised that porn is a bit pathetic and a real girl who you have feelings for is actually far better. I wonder why you are so desperate to be turned on by women who AREN'T your gir... (read in full...)
Any ideas on a good emo haircut?
Q. Hi, this doesn't have to do with any relationship question, but im getting a hair cut soon, and I want one thats like scene/emo looking... So any ideas? Pictures? Or links? Cuz I can't really find any. Thanks. XX =]...
A. 6 January 2010: I put emo hair into a google image search and a million pics came up.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this flu bug???
Q. Hi, Sorry this isn't a relationship question, but I have had awful flu for nearly four days and it's really getting me down. I haven't been out of the house and not been at work and I feel lonely and miserable with a terrible cough and sore che...
A. 5 January 2010: Ginger and honey tea.
Warm milk with honey in.
Hot bath.
Paracetamol, up to 1000mg every 4 hours and NO MORE.
Fluids, rest.
Welcome to being human.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I want to add my teacher to Facebook!
Q. I tried to add a teacher that I think I love and I mean honestly love on facebook last year and he declined because he obviously wasn't allowed, but I didn't know that teachers werent allowed to accept students on the site, at the time. He said he ...
A. 5 January 2010: Just ignore it. That's what he's going to do.
He isn't going to think anything of it.
I know a few teachers and they get students trying to add them a LOT. They all get ignored.
You don't want some photo of you drunk in the street and ... (read in full...)
How do you know how to trust when different doctors tell you different things???
Q. How do you know how to trust when different doctors tell you different things, as well as pharmaists? My male doctor tells me that when you start on the pill you are not protected until you finish at least one full pack, if not 2 packets, just to...
A. 5 January 2010: It depends entirely on the brand of pill.
Read the leaflet that it came with and that should tell you. But you can use condoms for a month to make sure if you want.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I struggle to have a good conversation with women...
Q. I'm 22 and I struggle to have a good conversation with women. I talk to guys I know and they say they just click with their girlfriends when it comes to talking wih them. Most/all people seem to meet several/a lot of people that they can talk to ...
A. 5 January 2010: One rule, just keep asking questions and LISTEN to the answers. Pick up on something she says and ask another question.
You will find someone, you just need to find someone you can chat to as a friend rather than a potential girlfriend.
Stop se... (read in full...)
Advice needed. How can I get him to last longer?
Q. my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?...
A. 5 January 2010: Well to be honest, you are going to be pregnant soon so it won't matter. Stretch marks are not sexy. He'll leave you for a new girl instead and it won't be your problem any more.
So you can solve both problems by not being an idiot and buying s... (read in full...)
What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex?
Q. What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex? And how common is that? My husband has no sexual interest in me. Well, I don't think he cares about anybody else, totally no interest in sex.. NOW, is it possible that he just shot ...
A. 5 January 2010: The most common reason is stress and or depression.
Find out what's on his mind and help make home a place that is free of work worries.
Cook up some nice meals, dress up nice, ship out the kids to some grandparent / friend / social services ... (read in full...)
I keep having these weird feelings... am I pregnant?
Q. I'm 16 and recently lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 7 months now, I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not but I keep having these weird feelings, could you guys help me out? I know the best way would be going to the doctors or taking a home ...
A. 5 January 2010: Virginity messes with periods. We get that all the time as a question here. If you've had a period then you are not pregnant. You were lucky. Buy some CONDOMS for next time, and don't be an idiot more than once.
As for the symptoms, well it sound... (read in full...)
I want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever!
Q. Hey i just want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever! Last year i suprised him and organised a fishing trip for him to go on. But i want to top this one. I've got a semi tight budget, but unlike last year i actually ...
A. 5 January 2010: If you are booking a couple of months in advance you can get really cheap flights to somewhere.
Have a look at what metal concerts are on or even festival tickets.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Will my moobs get bigger than my belly?
Q. Every year over xmas and new years I gain weight without trying. This year I gained more than ever and ended up 6kgs fatter. Although some of this weight has gone to my belly (which is a bit bigger) a lot of my weight has gone to my chest, which ...
A. 5 January 2010: Fat goes all over the place and it all depends on your genetics and how you've been sitting and everything.
If you want to lose them then you can resort to what all us girls do.
Get a tin of beans or something in each hand, hold them up in ... (read in full...)
Did that pain in my heart mean that much?
Q. I actually need your help. Im confused so much and Im seriously getting upset about it. There is this boy and don't stop reading this.. this isnt just some teenage matter. I fancied him for so long, like 2 years and i tried everything to get him to ...
A. 5 January 2010: You don't just decide to get over someone at Christmas and it all be fine by Jan the 4th!!
Of course it's going to be hard. But you just have to keep trying I'm afraid. You are going to go through several stages and weak points and lots of thing... (read in full...)
Should I call him and arrange to meet up?
Q. I met this guy at a training course through my workplace. He walked me to the station everyday over the 2 weeks and I felt so comfortable being around him, he was so easy to talk to and we had a lot in common. Each day, when we were around other ...
A. 5 January 2010: Just text him and ask if he wants to go for that coffee now he's feeling better. It's possible he thinks you aren't that keen if you haven't been returning his calls.
What is there to lose?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I might be the rebound? Please help.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been only dating for 2 months All of November and December but him and his girlfriend still talked during middle of Oct. He says im not the rebound but i think i am, he started dating me only a month after they broke up, but ...
A. 5 January 2010: No one can tell you what is in this guys head.
You have to take a gamble and either:
a) tell him it's got too deep too fast, you aren't happy about the fact you aren't allowed to ask for reassurance for fear of not living up to what he wants... (read in full...)
Confusion over the kids!
Q. Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 an...
A. 5 January 2010: If you want to stay with a horrible, cheating and probably violent man then that is your choice. Good luck with that. Don't tell me, he's really sweet sometimes, and makes you feel special when he says he's sorry for whatever.
But your children... (read in full...)
Is a condom enough to help keep me from getting the virus?
Q. I've met a guy who told me that he has genital herpes. He takes Valtrex, and hasn't had an outbreak in two years. I do like him but don't know if taking a risk to have sex with him would be worth it. He says he has only gotten outbreaks on his ...
A. 5 January 2010: My husband who's a medic says yes you are safe if you use condoms.
But it's up to you. It's a risk you have to be fully willing to take.
Only do what you're comfortable with.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...
A. 5 January 2010: I used to sleep with other men, but that stopped when I met my husband. I can't carry on and then just say "oh it's an old habit."
He needs to shut down that profile, change his email address and take you out a lot more or you need to dump him... (read in full...)
What can I do to regain her trust?
Q. She had emotionally cheated on me with this other guy... she had been lying to me about a lot of things. I didn't trust her, so I hacked into his email. She said she was done talking with him, but the emails showed otherwise. I confronted her a...
A. 5 January 2010: Wow, she's done a number on you!
She's lied to you and carried on emotionally cheating but rather than you splitting up with her, here you are wondering how you can apologise?
You were justified in hacking her email because she was lying to you... (read in full...)
Whenever it comes to arranging to meet me he always has an excuse, is he playing games with me?
Q. im really confused i have been texting this bloke for 2 months now and have seen him twice but when ever it comes to meeting again he changes the subject and tells me he has crazy stuff going on but is still texting me. im new back to dating as only ...
A. 5 January 2010: He may have a busy life, but that just means he doesn't have time for a girlfriend and just wants someone to text.
So move on. Why waste your time?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I want to help my friend but I don't know who is in the right in this situation!
Q. In June 2008 my friend accused his mum of having an affair with her best friend. This caused close family members to all fall out. At this time my friends mum said she wasn’t having an affair but then in may 2009 my friends mum admitted having an ...
A. 5 January 2010: Your friend will always want his mum and dad to be together as that is what all children want of their parents.
However, his mum has a right to be happy. And she can't stay in an unhappy marriage, just because her son, who doesn't live with her... (read in full...)
Does he think am a SLU*T?
Q. ive been texting this guy.. hes real sweet and sexy.. and ive been proper flirty..cos am like that naturally.. now am scared maybe he thinks am easy cos he just asked for exclusive pic and i text him i dont do them kinda pics.. i t...
A. 5 January 2010: No he thinks the absolute opposite.
He's annoyed that you won't send him a naked photo (something most clever girls would never ever do) so he's trying to make you feel bad.
He's not sweet. He's a moron and you are well shot of him. If he was s... (read in full...)
My husband has virtually no people skills and I am growing tired of it!
Q. Here's one for you. My husband treats me and the kids like gold. No complaints there. He treats our extended families well and also my friends. Notice I wrote my friends - he has none. He's a prick to pretty much everyone else in the world. ...
A. 5 January 2010: I think you need to ask him why he has to antagonise other people so much.
WHY does he feel the need to do it? Is it a defence mechanism, that no one will pick a fight with the mad snarling dog? Is it because he thinks he's better than them so ... (read in full...)
Is this real or just a crush?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months thing were great until I found out not only is she still texting her ex but apparently she stopped seeing him only two weeks before she started seeing me. Their relationship ended because he showed ...
A. 5 January 2010: The signs are not good.
Using "because I'm still bitter about it" as an excuse to see him is the most rubbish excuse I've ever heard.
I think you need to keep your dignity now and tell her that since she is clearly not over him, then you do... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont tell me she loves me or show any affection towards me, what should I do?
Q. My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing ...
A. 5 January 2010: If you have no contact with her then she is not your girlfriend, she is just your friend.
Ask her if she would be happier with you just as a friend and then if she says no, then ask her why she doesn't want to be with you properly.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
I made a mistake whilst my girlfriend and I had split up, now there is a chance she could find out! What should I do?
Q. About a year ago, my girlfriend, of about a year at the time and i, broke up, i stupidly got drunk to deal with it and slept with a girl who id been friends with and known for a while. I hated myself for it after and my girlfriend and i got back...
A. 5 January 2010: Well first off, you were broken up. Unless she promised to get back with you or you both promised to stay faithful, then you were a free man at the time.
Secondly you need to figure out what the chances are of her actually finding out.
Do you ... (read in full...)
Our whole relationship has been one big lie! Help!
Q. i recently found out through a friend that my girl friend of 3 years has a AdultfriendFinder sliver membership, according to her profile shes been with 10 guys off there in the past year and also had a 3some, she has videos up using a toy that i ...
A. 5 January 2010: I know a few other people are telling you to go and have a big shouting match and confront her about this.
But I would simply call her and tell her you know about her web accounts and you never want to hear from her again.
Keep your dignity. Si... (read in full...)
Can I get birth control without my parents knowing?
Q. Is it possible to get a perscription 4 birth control w/ out my parrents finding out? Do doctors always tell ur parents about that stuff?...
A. 5 January 2010: Depends what state of America you live in.
Ask google.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm lying about my bra size. Should I be pissed?
Q. My boyfriend doesnt believe I wear a size d or double-d bra, I know he was just saying that because he wants to see my boobs, but for some reason I got really pissed about it. Is it normal for me to get mad at him?...
A. 5 January 2010: Yes, he's accusing you of lying and also trying to manipulate you into showing him your boobs.
Tell him to try a bit of romance rather than acting like a 12 year old.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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