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He loves me but hes not going to leave the other girl

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Question - (12 January 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A female Kenya age 41-50, *uth36 writes:

I found out that my man is seeing someone. When i asked he said he love me although he is not going to live his gal friend. What should i do.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (12 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntLet your own mind to speak. Let your own ear to hear. How? Don't worry ! I am showing you the way.

Well. First thing, you think him as your men? then first trust your own word, and say him "you are my men."

Now say with real confidence,'please tell me your joy of meeting other girl like me. I wanted to share your joy. If you trust me, then say.'

See, is he trust you in saying? Be honest then, in sharing, if he confidently start to say...and, you will truly learn about your own saying 'my men'. If he say honestly his joy, then ask him, ' can you share my such joy?' Don't be jealous, I am not.

This way, you will make your claim quite strait. simple. and easy to comprehend then confusing.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (12 January 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI agree, you should slam the door in his face.

He's a selfish pig, and I am sorry to say this, but you can't make him change.

You DO deserve better!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (12 January 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI agree, you should slam the door in his face.

He's a selfish pig, and I am sorry to say this, but you can't make him change.

You DO deserve better!

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (12 January 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, there are two choices here... either accept his behaviour and stop bemoaning the fact that he is cheating on you... or second option... get out of the relationship.

Sorry to say but if he loved you he would not be cheating on you.. you deserve better so show him the door!!

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (12 January 2010):

Aunty BimBim agony auntSlam the door in his face, and never open it to him again

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2010):

You dump him.

Why let yourself be used like this?

Don't you think you deserve better than this?

Every woman in the world can find a man who respects her if she looks for him and stops wasting time with losers like this one.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2010):

That means he doesn't love you, and is just using you. End all contact and move on before you get hurt. Don't waste your time on him.

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