My girlfriend dumped ME, but she gets pissed when I go out or leave a comment on Facebook!
Q. Hey My ex gf broke up with me two weeks ago because she thinks she should be single but still tells me she loves me, doesnt want anyone else and doesnt want me to find anyone else. She also questions me if i go out anywhere and gets jealous if ...
A. 27 February 2010: "You're a nice guy and if nothing better comes along then I'd like to keep you as a plan B."
"I also miss having someone to ring and moan at who will tell me I'm amazing, but boy is it fun being single. So how about we keep in touch and I can ask ... (read in full...)
He didn't end his online message with a "x" does that me he isn't interested?
Q. Is he intrested or not? This guy at uni has been making moves for months to be honest monday and tuesday was great.. wednesday he added me on my uni email account and emailed me.. but i've looked at his reply and i feel hes not intrested. what do ...
A. 21 February 2010: You snooze you lose.
He's lost out for being a bit useless. There are a million guys out there.
Join some groups and clubs at uni and meet lots of people. You won't have to wait long for a guy with some maturity to ask you out.
Good Luc... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dumped ME, but she gets pissed when I go out or leave a comment on Facebook!
Q. Hey My ex gf broke up with me two weeks ago because she thinks she should be single but still tells me she loves me, doesnt want anyone else and doesnt want me to find anyone else. She also questions me if i go out anywhere and gets jealous if ...
A. 18 February 2010: You need to stand up for your self.
Send her a really nice message and tell her how you feel, but tell her you can't deal with all her mixed messages.
So ask her to cut contact with you if she is not going to get back with you.
If she d... (read in full...)
Hen nights/batchelor parties
Q. Ok, even though im not yet getting married because Im obviously too young right now. But I was wondering... Do the girls always go to male strip clubs and guys always go to girl strip clubs for the bachelor party or whatever? Cuz I always see that ...
A. 16 February 2010: The hen night I'm going to next week is at a day spa.
I have no interest in seeing a greased up steroid loving gym monkey taking his clothes off.
Shockingly, movies are not true to life. They just stick to the stereotype because real lif... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 16 February 2010: Head onto Google and do some research.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Permanent_Resident_Card
This page is a good starting point.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I feel like I cant be bothered anymore, has anyone else ever felt like this?
Q. i have just had enough with the struggle that is life. i've had enough of the constant frustrations and disappointments in life. i can't be bothered anymore. has anyone felt like this? how did you deal with it? how did you move on and start ...
A. 16 February 2010: It's called depression.
See your GP.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it common to have erectile dysfunction at 43???
Q. I'm reading all kind of statistics about ED. But I'm confused. My husband has had it since 43, and he heard it from the doctor, that is very common in that age. Yet nobody we know has that. How common is that? Are we alone?...
A. 14 February 2010: Put 40 over 40 into google.
It's a uk site that gives lots of help and advice.
Men who have it tend not to tell their mates about it... or their wife, or their doctor. They just get grumpy and say they are tired.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to take away my virginity...
Q. why would a guy who wants sex with me so bad initially, all of a sudden think that he wouldnt want to take away my virginity for he's afraid I'd regret one day, in case that he's not going to be my boyfriend? i told him once, love-making's sp...
A. 14 February 2010: Sounds like he knows what he wants and that's just simple sex. No girlfriend, just sex.
However, that doesn't mean he's horrible enough to use a girl who's in love with him and take her virginity.
If you want a boyfriend then you need to get ... (read in full...)
When is the best time to end it with him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about two months. I knew it was stupid to even get in a relationship because I'm moving countries in the summer. All along he's had moments where he's just really annoyed me. He never knows when he takes things to ...
A. 14 February 2010: Just end it.
I split up with my ex on valentines, because I realised we were both sat there feeling nothing pretending to be romantic. It made my mind up.
Just tell him straight. He's really not going to be bothered what day it is. You've said ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I tell him I want to stop having sex?
Q. How can I tell my friend I want to stop sleeping with him without him reacting badly? We have a FWB relationship I guess but we are unbelievably close. I'm worried if I say I want the sex to stop then the hugging, kissing, spending time together etc ...
A. 14 February 2010: Well you can't have all the boyfriend stuff but none of the sex, if he just wants the sex and none of the boyfriend stuff. You'd be using him as much as he's using you.
You need to tell him, boyfriend or nothing.
If he can't be your boyfriend t... (read in full...)
Should I cut off all contact and move away?
Q. I want your opinion about a family problem. I am the 3rd sibling of 5. As a child I was abused by my mother and later, by an older sibling. I was always the black sheep as we were growing up. I suffered a nervous breakdown and spent a number of ...
A. 14 February 2010: Well it depends if you "kick off" over little things on a regular basis.
Just because they didn't make plans in advance to your liking isn't a reason to throw a fit.
If you can't forgive the abuse then move, but don't let a little thing lik... (read in full...)
I feel neglected and stupid, I don't know what he wants from me?
Q. I have this friend in Afghanistan right now. I know he's been very busy and working hard. We talk on Facebook and recently added him on Skype. The other day he had poor connection on Facebook so he sent me a note on Skype telling me we should u...
A. 14 February 2010: The connection is crap, they have limited time, there are a million reasons why email is better.
Have you ever been on the phone / msn chat to someone who then says "Shit mortar attack! brb"
And then disappears for half an hour?
I have.... (read in full...)
Help peeps!!! How can I find out for sure if this guy at work likes me?
Q. I work at a supermarket in the floral department and he works in the produce department and they are in the same area. Hes a few years older than me and everyday he works he comes over to me and says hi and strikes up a conversation. Throughout the ...
A. 14 February 2010: Well start dropping some hints!!
Talk to him about films, gigs, music, stuff on in town that you would love to go to but your friends are busy / not into it. Point out that you have NO ONE to go with.....
If he doesn't take one of your hints an... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 14 February 2010: This update made my day.
Have a great holiday and tonight when you are having a big glass of wine, take a moment to consider how you've not had to get poo on your hands, and how nice and quiet it is in your nice house.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do I do when he isn't respecting my schedule?
Q. Dear Cupid I have got a bit of a beLATEd question for you...dating a seemingly wonderful man- EXCEPT he has serious problems lately respecting my time schedule. I cannot study around him when it's crucial to get things done (we're both med student...
A. 13 February 2010: Simple.
You need to set some boundaries and start saying NO.
Tell him to call before he comes over, and if you are going out with the girls then tell him that, and if he comes over then don't let him in.
Tell him you are on your way out and ... (read in full...)
If a guy rejects you but wants to be friends, do you stay friends?
Q. Hello , I would like to ask a question if a man you liked was not really intersted in you and asked to be friends with you. Would it be right to be friends with him....
A. 13 February 2010: You're going to try and spend as much time as possible with him and hope he changes his mind.
Chances are he won't.
You'll miss out on other guys because you are focusing on him.
He's trying to be nice, but you need to get over him, not clo... (read in full...)
I can't get away from him!
Q. I've been with a guy for about a month, we got on really well and he helped me more than anyone else after what happened with my last boyfriend, I really like him and I think he's amazing but I just can't get away from him sometimes, I feel tra...
A. 13 February 2010: Ah sorry, with all the bad ex boyfriend problems you hear on here, you just start to assume.
I think some of my advice still stands though. You just have to get it over with and tell him you don't want to be with him. It's horrible to do but you ... (read in full...)
I think I'm adopted, what do I need for DNA tests?
Q. hi there everyone i think that i am adopted but i am not sure i don't want to ask my parents because they may get upset if i am wrong and if i am right they may deny it. i was going to have a dna test but i was thinking that do i need my mum a...
A. 13 February 2010: Just tell them you need to see your birth certificate for a school project on family history.
If their names are on there, then you are not adopted.
Sorry hun, you'll just have to put up with the parents you have.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I can't get away from him!
Q. I've been with a guy for about a month, we got on really well and he helped me more than anyone else after what happened with my last boyfriend, I really like him and I think he's amazing but I just can't get away from him sometimes, I feel tra...
A. 13 February 2010: He sounds like a rebound and sad though it is, you just have to get it over with.
Tell him you think it all happened too fast and you love him and think he's amazing but don't want to lie to him. You are not and will never be IN LOVE with him.
... (read in full...)
Is there a way I can keep a good flow of intimacy while putting on his condom?
Q. About a month ago, I gave up my birth control pills out of health concerns. My boyfriend was fine with it and we've basically just been orally satisfying one another - which really isn't the same. We've spoke about trying condoms, but we tried them ...
A. 13 February 2010: We use durex and they are pretty good.
They also do a range of "fun" ones, like tingly minty ones etc.
I find the best thing to do is just to give him lots of stimulation, then put it on for him quickly and carry on with the fun asap.
The... (read in full...)
My husband bought a gift for another woman!!!
Q. I found out by chance that my husband of 24 years bought a work colleague a 'valentine' gift of a heart necklace this time last year. He actually ordered it on valentines day so it didn't arrive until at least the day or two later. He is saying t...
A. 13 February 2010: I think it depends a lot on the type of necklace and their relationship and the type of man your husband it.
In other words I think it's probably impossible for anyone who doesn't know you personally to judge.
If you husband is a nice guy and t... (read in full...)
How do I inform my daughter that I can hear her masturbating in her room?
Q. My 34 year old daughter's room is above mine. I've been hearing her masturbating. It wakes me up and I'm amazed she doesn't know it. How do I tell her to pick another time when I am not at home. She's been wondering why I have been sleeping on ...
A. 13 February 2010: Tell her you didn't want to say anything but that you hear her TV / Radio / laptop on at night and she must watch a lot of ghost films as you hear moaning and things and it sometimes wakes you up and / or gives you strange dreams.
She shoul... (read in full...)
How can I stop cheating on partners?
Q. Hey everyone.....Im 16 years old and I have this problem. My problem is that with every boyfriend I had, i've cheated on. I can never have a boyfriend and not cheat on him. Its something that i hate doing and I know its wrong but I cant help ...
A. 13 February 2010: It means you aren't ready for a boyfriend yet.
You've discovered what it's like to have boys like you and that's a good feeling.
It probably also means you don't think a lot of yourself so you need that feeling to reassure you that you are val... (read in full...)
Why is my boss telling me about personal information?
Q. I have had a crush on my principal for a while. I am a manager at the college he manages. He is married so I am not pushing anything. I too am in a relationship. I had a meeting with him recently and within our conversation he mentioned that h...
A. 13 February 2010: Maybe he sees you as a friend, and wanted to talk to someone about his problems.
Pain is a funny thing and it has been shown that (especially in men) if you stop tensing against it and actually accept the pain and think about how it feels, t... (read in full...)
The sex life of a male Taurean???
Q. I am a male, Taurus and I heard many rumors about this zodiac sign. Can i get some feedback about the sex life with a male, taurus please? Well girls would probably be the ones that could give true details, but guys can too. Thanks!!!...
A. 10 February 2010: Woooooo the stars are telling me you like big women who lactate.
Seriously, if you think the entire universe is rotating around purely to decide if you do it doggy style or not then you have bigger problems than your sex life.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
What is the best toy to masturbate with?
Q. to all the girls: whats the best toy/object to matsurbate with? give me any/all the suggestions you want :)xx...
A. 10 February 2010: A rabbit vibrator.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my wife being lazy and doing nothing! I deserve better, don't I?
Q. Right, I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I have been married for 10 years (together with my wife for 13 years), all in all we've had a pretty good marriage so far and I was pretty content. Until our new neighbours moved in. Now...
A. 10 February 2010: Tell your wife you are unhappy.
Tell her you want her to be more of an equal in the marriage.
Ask her what more you could do to make her happy and her life easier. How could you support her to find a job in life she would enjoy? (And I do... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?
Q. my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on ...
A. 10 February 2010: No but you could tell her NOT to call you.
Being hacked is not life or death, it's annoying. She did not need your help. She could have found someone else or emailed the help guys at hotmail.
Tell her you need to get over her and you need her... (read in full...)
I am not sexually compatible with my husband. How can I get him to stop being such a prude?
Q. (Mod Note - OP's own title) I can't say how glad I am to have found this site. I am a 28yo mother of three boys. I have always been very sexual. I can remember masturbating as early as 5 or 6. My first sexual incounter was with the little girl...
A. 10 February 2010: Wow.
It's clear something needs to be done.
Sex is really important in a marriage and I wonder why you weren't open with each other about your levels of sexuality before you got married and had kids.
I think you need to head to a counse... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?
Q. my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on ...
A. 10 February 2010: Well if she marries a creep then it's her choice.
What you need to do is cut contact.
You still haven't and you are still doing things in the hope she will be greatful etc.
Just move on. If she calls again then tell you need her to stop cal... (read in full...)
Am I losing interest in my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. He says he loves me and he never wants to lose me and wants me to tell him I love him but I just can't find the words. Lately I feel like I'm not as into him and I think about other guys and how my ...
A. 10 February 2010: Breaks are no good, it's just hurtful and causes more problems down the line.
Yes, he's saying words like "love" and "forever" because he's never felt this way before. But that doesn't mean you're the only one he's ever going to feel this way abou... (read in full...)
My husbabd can go months without touching me so I ended up having an affair with my best friend. I don't know how to deal with the guilt of lying tho!
Q. I have been married for nearly 5 years. My husband is 10 years older than me and he is a good man and great husband but we have no intimacy. He can go months without ever touching me and I know he is not having an affair. I have tried talking to ...
A. 10 February 2010: Wow, just read puzzle solver's answer.....
I think he's missed the point of marriage and boy is he missing a BIG ONE.
My husband suffered depression and went off me completely and it hurts SO MUCH. Even if you know it's not his fault.
Part o... (read in full...)
He flips out everytime I mention our future!
Q. I've been in a committed relationship for three years and my boyfriend and I live together. I've never, ever rushed him into anything or put a time line on our relationship, but whenever I try to just approach the topic to just see if we want the ...
A. 9 February 2010: I think he's made it clear. He's not interested in talking about it, so he's not interested in doing it.
Some men need a kick up the bum, and some are actually happy to just stay single forever. Either way, we girls have certain things that mea... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!
Q. me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was ...
A. 9 February 2010: My first boyfriend said this too.
But then he was happy to let me deal with anything that happened to be in his pants.
Basically, young boys are squeemish, they like to get but not to give. Also, they don't really know what they are doing s... (read in full...)
He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?
Q. ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem.....
A. 9 February 2010: 8 times in 5 months is Not enough if you are trying to get pregnant.
If you don't have a sex life now then how do you know you are going to be able to stay with this guy for the next 20 years?
If you both just love eachother but don't like s... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend such a control freak??
Q. Why are men such control freaks? I can't stand it! My boyfriend is so bossy it drives me nuts. Yet God forbid I ever make a suggestion about anything he hasn't thought about in that "brilliant" mind of his, and I am "nagging" him! WTF! How do you ...
A. 9 February 2010: No they are not all alike, you just keep staying with bad ones.
Most guys are NOT like this.
How to solve your problem, DUMP HIM, and if you meet a guy who starts bossing you about then dump him before he becomes your boyfriend.
If... (read in full...)
He is waaay too clingy for me!
Q. Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, ...
A. 9 February 2010: The only reason he will have no friends is because as soon as a girl comes along he cuts off all contact with them and follows her round like a pathetic puppy instead.
Tell him to call his old mates up and if he says he doesn't have any then tel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I am not "freaky" enough. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend Thinks Im Not "Freaky" enough. I think he going to break up with me for that. How Can Isave This Relationship?...
A. 8 February 2010: Why would you want to save a relationship where he would dump you for something so stupid?
Get some self respect and find a man that wants to be with you for you, not for how far you'll go in the bedroom.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do you think of my Valentine's Day gift idea?
Q. I have only been with my boyfriend for 2 months so for valentines day we both decided not to do anything over the top. So for him I fought that I could get him a teddy with a rose and then get him a necklace and put it around the teddies neck. What ...
A. 8 February 2010: Are you sure you're dating a boy?
Teddies and roses are a bit fluffy for my taste but if he's into jewellery and all that then go for it.
Spray some of your perfume on the bear so he can smell it as he goes to sleep.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He is waaay too clingy for me!
Q. Ok so my bf for 3 months almost 4, hes getting a little clingy, and i dont blame him. i use to be clingy, but i mean i wouldnt have a problem with it if it wasent constant. he says i love you waaay to much, i try to give him hints that i need space, ...
A. 8 February 2010: You need to give him a kick up the bum but that's the only way he will learn. You don't need to break up over it.
You just need to tell him to give you space and go out with his mates instead of calling you.
Tell him to go on a boys day out, so... (read in full...)
What to do with the engagement ring after breaking up?
Q. Hi! I was engaged 5 years back, and he got me a diamond engagement ring. Things didn't go well and we split up, but I kept the ring when we moved apart. We did have a small discussion about it, but he said he wanted to wear it and I didn't like the ...
A. 8 February 2010: The ring is basically a damage deposit, and proof that he is capable of providing the right kind of life for you.
Back in the day, you got engaged and your family started paying for the wedding.
If he breaks it off then the ring pays for an... (read in full...)
When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 8 February 2010: You'll be fine, just keep going and remember you are in control of your own life.
If it's not going to work then that's sad but you'll find someone else.
Keep smiling!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?
Q. my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on ...
A. 28 January 2010: How can she "acknowledge" your feelings? What do you want her to say? "Oh gosh, you still haven't moved on? That's lovely!"
Don't send her a text, if you have tried your best then you can walk away with a clean conscience.
Tell her to find some... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?
Q. my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on ...
A. 27 January 2010: Because she's seeing SOMEONE ELSE!
She probably still cares about you and may still find you attractive, but that doesn't mean she wants to be with you.
She probably doesn't know how she feels and doesn't really want to chat about it with yo... (read in full...)
He didn't end his online message with a "x" does that me he isn't interested?
Q. Is he intrested or not? This guy at uni has been making moves for months to be honest monday and tuesday was great.. wednesday he added me on my uni email account and emailed me.. but i've looked at his reply and i feel hes not intrested. what do ...
A. 15 January 2010: Caring guy has spotted it!
What he said was "let's meet up so I can show you..."
Men often don't use X's at the ends of texts. Same way they don't scream and hug you when you show them a new pair of shoes.
He's probably trying to look ... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 21 March 2009: You moved in together really quickly. Have you ever tested your relationship? Spent time apart? Had sleepless nights and money worries?
How do you know that it isn't just all too easy at the moment?
Most relationships last about 3 years so... (read in full...)
When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 25 January 2009: You are a child going through her first crush.
It's scary and you will be silly. You'll look back at this in a few years and laugh.
Enjoy your crush, and keep working hard in school.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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