Why did he do that?? Am sooo upset :(
Q. am working temporary for christmas sales.. and this guy there.. i liked him when i saw him.. i thought it was mutual cos everytime i look up hes looking at me..but i ignored him.. so he came up to me and started talking to me.. we work toge...
A. 28 December 2009: You're asking why he chatted up another girl?
Well hun, he's obviously not into you in any kind of serious way.
You're probably pretty and fun to flirt with but that's all he's after.
Just tell yourself he's a dick and you are lucky you fo... (read in full...)
Will sex affect my relationship with my best friend?
Q. So heres the situation: me[im male 18] and my best freind [female19] both virgins. best freinds for 4 years before we dated. been going out for nearly a year now. We are both close to ready to having sex. I want to do what i need t...
A. 27 December 2009: If you want her to be your best friend forever then yes, sex will ruin everything.
If you want her to be your girlfriend, then sex will stop her from leaving you.
Being a boyfriend means you want to have sex with your girlfriend.
I... (read in full...)
How can I be happy on Christmas without my boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone! I started uni about 3 months ago and met my boyfriend in the first week! We have practically been living together since then. We've been sharing a bed for about 3 months bur I'm not a slut as I waited 2 months till we slept together! ...
A. 27 December 2009: You are going through teenage first love.
You are going to feel like demons are stabbing your heart every time you don't see him for 5 minutes.
Ride along with it and enjoy the pain, as the getting back together in the new year will be so much ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my bf I am not cheating!
Q. what do u do to let your boyfriend trust you and believe you are not cheating on him....
A. 27 December 2009: You can't. Give him some time and reassurance.
If he doesn't get over it then move on.
You can't stay in a relationship with no trust.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Commitment phobic boyfriend - do you have any experience with this?
Q. Hi, I think my boyfriend is a commitment phobe. Has anyone had any experience with this? How did you deal with it? I always thought it was something made up in the movies. Or that the guy just wasn't that into you. Anyone have experience with ...
A. 27 December 2009: Simple to solve this.
Tell him that if he doesn't want you there are plenty of other men that do.
Then leave him.
He'll either be round with a ring within 2 weeks, or you'll be able to move on.
Why waste time? Force him to make a decisi... (read in full...)
What does everything but sex actually mean?
Q. My best friend (a girl, but that's not alll thatrelevent) was telling me about her new boyfriend. We're very close. Anyway she told me tht her bf had said he'd do everything but sex with her. Not wanting to look stupid cos I like that this girl fee...
A. 27 December 2009: It means fingering, hand jobs and oral.
Basically every thing you can do to a girl without sticking your penis into her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Cyber cheated... Now my wife hates me!
Q. I did a really really stupid thing and cyber cheated on my wife, I met a girl through a chat room and for 3 months we sent dirty emails to each other and spoke on the phone a dozen times and emailed pictures of our privates to each and pictures of ...
A. 27 December 2009: So you've been trying to tell her that it wasn't really cheating????
Seriously, the LAST thing you want to do right now is tell her she is wrong and give excuses.
You say you would have ended things with this other girl anyway? Really? When?
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to wait until marriage to have sex!
Q. So wat do i do, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 years plus and have talked about having sex? She finally said she would talk to her mom about getting birth control. She has been avoiding it and so i reminded her that she should ...
A. 27 December 2009: Well if you want to marry her then wait for marriage. If you just want a girlfriend that you can have sex with then you should tell her that and move on.
Don't let her compromise her religious beliefs just so you can have fun. Especially if you d... (read in full...)
I really want to move on but how do I tell my husband?
Q. i really hav a mess sex life with my husband,i tried all i could,i tried to talk to him about counseling either but he keep on saying we don't we hav problem to take to counseling and he says that's just wast of money,we had been tryiny to make ...
A. 27 December 2009: You just have to tell him. You don't love him any more and you think it's time to end this.
If you are scared of him then do it with someone else in the house. Or in a public place.
You just have to be honest and get it over with. There is n... (read in full...)
Boyfriend still texting his ex behind my back. its driving me insane :(
Q. On christmas eve my friends and i went to a local bar where we knew our boyfriends were hanging out because we wanted to see our boyfriends for midnight. The only problem is, i walked in and he was talking to his ex. I never had a problem with this ...
A. 27 December 2009: If you tell a guy that you are not jealous of his female friend and he is ok to talk to him then he is going to talk to her. He will talk to her using face to face and also talk to her by text.
You clearly can't handle the fact that he's still fr... (read in full...)
Is there a probability that she is sleeping with others?
Q. I am still in a sexual relationship with a former partner. I suppose I get to see her once a fortnight or once a month. So far she has not been keen on us getting back together formally. My question is do you believe she have other sexual par...
A. 26 December 2009: You are asking what the possibility is?
Well that depends on a lot, how high is her sex drive? How pretty is she? and how good are you in bed?
You only want to know this so your male pride can either be satisfied / destroyed. Either way, know... (read in full...)
No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?
Q. I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ...
A. 26 December 2009: Sounds like you aren't very well.
Go to a doctor. There are worse things out there than pregnancy.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm so through with letting people into my heart
Q. Ok I've got this computer till after Christmas. I am 19 not a manwhore (3 partners) and have been in a relationship with a long time friend of 12 years for 1 year and we have a daughter which is now 6 months. My mother died when I was 15 and it was ...
A. 24 December 2009: So you know you've got problems, but refuse to take medical help for it.
You sit and get stoned and do nothing around the house. You make her miserable with your jealousy and you don't like her enough to want to be her friend?
You're also b... (read in full...)
Is there a condition where people consider themselves blameless no matter what?
Q. My boyfriend confuses me. We fell madly in love and we've been through heaven and hell together but it made us strong. But he is very manipulative and spiteful. We argue and he always manages to turn it around on me somehow even though I know I ...
A. 24 December 2009: Yes, the condition your boyfriend has is that he's a HORRIBLE PERSON!
The reason he does this is that you LET HIM.
It's far easier for him to just blame you and then make you apologise and suck him off. Why should he be nice when he can do t... (read in full...)
How can a woman stay with the man she's with, if someone better comes along?
Q. If women are turned on more and more as a guy gets more confident, wealthier, higher in status, famous, stronger, bigger, wittier, etc, how are they able to fall in love, and have a relationship without feeling like going off with a guy who is ...
A. 24 December 2009: Mostly because we are not apes.
We have a brain, and we actually LIKE the guy we are with.
It's not all about getting higher in the pack order and finding the best man to father our children any more.
Look up evolution and see that w... (read in full...)
I need someone who loves me back!
Q. Im donr beying alone. Im done beying depressed and feeling sorry for myself..i need my own life from my parents. And i wanna be in a relationship someone,some one that trully cares about me and i care about them. I dont care if it's a girl or a ...
A. 24 December 2009: Welcome to being an adult!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I've had genital warts, what do I say if she says she's on the pill?
Q. i want to have sex with someone but i have had genital warts before. its advised that i should wear a condom all the time, but what if she says 'im on the pill its fine you dont have to wear one?' i dont want to tell her ive had the warts before. ...
A. 23 December 2009: If you've had them and been to the doc and been given the all clear then oral sex should be fairly safe. But it would be polite to warn your girlfriend about it so she knows what she's getting into.
As for casual sex, "I'm on the pill," means "I... (read in full...)
Still bleeding 3 months after giving birth, should I be worried?
Q. I just had a baby sept 28th and has been 3months and i have had a problem i am stil bleeding i dont remember bleeding this long with my other 3 kids.i got a depo shot before i left the hospital should i be worried about all this bleeding...
A. 23 December 2009: It could be the depo shot making you go crazy down there.
I went on one pill and it gave me permanent period. (Very effective as a birth control because I would never have sex!)
Go and talk to the doctor.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We show each other our private bits, is this wrong?
Q. there is this girl but im not dating her. we do this thing where she shows me her self exposed i mean breasts and all that and i show her things like my penis is it wrong for me to encourage her to do so. i am being mature about this so your c...
A. 23 December 2009: That sucks but at least you now know.
Did you tell her you wanted to date her or did you just tell her you wanted to stop doing stuff together?
If she thought she was getting dumped she may have lashed out and said something hurtful.
If y... (read in full...)
Made to feel bad for not wanting anal sex??
Q. Hi there, I just wanted some advice! I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. He's a gentleman, charming and does everything under the sun for me. There's just one thing that's concerning me. I first let me boyfriend try anal sex about ...
A. 23 December 2009: You have to tell him that you are sick of feeling pressured about this and it's putting you off him all together.
You talk about how he might feel unwanted, it can't be very nice for you knowing he's only ever THAT kind of sex, not You.
You hav... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? We had sex but no intercourse
Q. Could I be pregnant? We had sex, but no intercourse. We both had our underpants, but hes penis was right in front of my vagina, when he orgasmed and everything was very wet... I'm right in the middle of my cyclus, so if we had intercourse, the posi...
A. 23 December 2009: Go and get the morning after pill. You can take it up to 72 hours after sex.
Your chances are low but it's better safe than sorry.
Also, you should think about going on the pill / coil / etc if you have a boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I know if he still loves me or just after the sex? Is there hope in this?
Q. This weekend was a crazy one. I was still in contact with my ex for like twice a month since we broke up 8 months ago. At first we were treating each other like enemies but later we quit and started being friends. 4 months after our break-...
A. 22 December 2009: Call his bluff.
Tell him you can't do this and be used and cut contact with him. Tell him it would really destroy you to continue with a "just sex" thing and you NEED him to leave you alone so you can find someone who loves you.
If he was aft... (read in full...)
What does it mean if your ex bf contacts you through a friend after you ignore them?
Q. My ex bf dumped me a little over 2 months ago and I`m still in the process of trying to move on and get over it. We were both at a small party recently and I chose to ignore him when he once tried to talk to me, enjoyed myself, and had a great time. ...
A. 22 December 2009: Satin's right, it could be any or all of the above.
Anything from "He was drunk and hoping for a shag since the girl he really wanted didn't show up." right through to "He's realised he wants to marry you and that's his way of proposin... (read in full...)
Is it likely I am pregnant?
Q. My menstrual cycle is generally pretty regular, usually from around 29-34 days in length, averaging at about 33 days in the past 9 months. My last cycle was 34 days, and i had sex the night before it started, where my boyfriend came inside me. The ...
A. 22 December 2009: Manic phases can get you in a lot of trouble.
Get yourself on the pill asap. The hormones may help even you out as well. I found it did.
Get yourself to the family planning clinic and get sorted. Please don't put yourself in danger.
Good ... (read in full...)
She wants me to do things in bed that I disagree with
Q. Ok I have a major problem. I have been dating this new girl for 3 months now. I have always been known as the sweet guy and I am very repsectful towards women. The thing is my girlfreidn is kinda kiny when it coems to sex. Which I think is fun but ...
A. 22 December 2009: It's your choice.
Both partners have to be happy doing something experimental.
You could always get her to explain WHY she wants you to do it. Some things sound really weird until they are explained in a certain way.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so lazy, I feel like his mother!
Q. my bf seem so lazy all the time and im starting to feel like his mother. when i ask him to do anything he take weeks to do it. for a few examples i asked him 7 weeks ago if i left one of my fave tops at his and he still not looked, 8 months ago i ...
A. 22 December 2009: I think you need to figure out what's stopping you from leaving him.
Is this really the best you think you can do?
Yes I'm sure he's lovely in other ways but there are a million other men out there exactly like him BUT who can get their acts t... (read in full...)
He's been full on hot, now gone a bit cold, wtf? But tells me he wants to be with me...
Q. Ok - to cut a long story short - Dating guy, taking it slow as both recently-ish out of relationships. He's a nice guy who's been completely and totally f***ed over by his last 2 GF's. I'm a nice, normal girl. All is going well, both of...
A. 22 December 2009: Give the guy a chance, see if he gets back to me and organises to see you etc.
If he doesn't get back to you or you get the feeling you are getting messed about then walk away.
It's not worth your time to have someone playing games.
Good L... (read in full...)
Is it likely I am pregnant?
Q. My menstrual cycle is generally pretty regular, usually from around 29-34 days in length, averaging at about 33 days in the past 9 months. My last cycle was 34 days, and i had sex the night before it started, where my boyfriend came inside me. The ...
A. 22 December 2009: If you've had a period since you last had sex then you are not pregnant.
However, you should NOT be having unprotected sex. It's too risky and having a kid would ruin your life.
Get on the pill or the coil or something else to protect yourself... (read in full...)
We show each other our private bits, is this wrong?
Q. there is this girl but im not dating her. we do this thing where she shows me her self exposed i mean breasts and all that and i show her things like my penis is it wrong for me to encourage her to do so. i am being mature about this so your c...
A. 22 December 2009: You have to figure out what she wants from this.
Is she just after a bit of fun and curious to experiment?
Or is she doing this because she thinks it will make you like her? Is this her way to get you to be her boyfriend?
If you want to ... (read in full...)
I found porn on his computer, why does he need it??
Q. hi should i be worried , i stayed round my boyfriend house and was on his computer when i noticed a porn website that he vists should i say something to him , or keep quiet about it and why does he look at this when he has me as his girlfrie...
A. 22 December 2009: Why do you need McDonalds when you could go and buy a beautiful venison steak in red wine sauce?
Sometimes, a guy wants a crafty wank and he LOVES YOU so doesn't want to think of you while doing a cheap dirty thing.
Porn is like junk food. ... (read in full...)
I asked him if he was gay and he stopped talking to me
Q. ok so here is my problem... so was in a realationship for 7 months... i actually had real feelings for this guy... we stopped talkin on my birthday in nov.. cause i heard that he was gay.. when i asked him about he told me he wasnt gay and that i ...
A. 22 December 2009: Just text him and ask him if things are over and if he has any intention of talking to you again.
Just ask him straight out.
If not then assume it's over and that he's got problems.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He broke up with me 3 days before Christmas, Help!
Q. Yesterday my boyfriend came home from a ski trip. When he came back he told me we should break up. He said that the reason was that he felt like more of just a friend then a boyfriend and that it was better for him. I told him we can try and fix it. ...
A. 22 December 2009: One of my male friends wants to break up with his girlfriend at the moment.
I told him he couldn't break up with her just before xmas.
He said that it was either "just before Christmas which makes me a bastard. Just after New Years which make... (read in full...)
I need help making sense of the events, which caused our break up, help!
Q. My g\f (now ex) was not jealous, possessive, aggressive and didn’t mind me seeing friends\family but was so controlling in other ways, especially domestically. I couldn’t wash up properly, clean properly, make the bed, i was clumsy, a grot etc. If ...
A. 22 December 2009: Her condition was that she was a selfish spoiled little girl.
Your condition was that you were an idiot for hanging around so long.
If someone makes you unhappy then LEAVE!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it the winter blues that have me wanting to stay home with a mug of hot chocolate and a longing for someone to cuddle up with?
Q. My problem is i cannot seem to find a nice or decent boyfriend. i really want a guy i can settle into a relationship with for a while now, i have done a lot of dating (i know im still quite young but i have been with quite a few guys) (please do...
A. 22 December 2009: Well you say that you'll dated a fair bit but I'm guessing you've been dating teenage boys. Are you really surprised they've been sex obsessed idiots?
Keep trying and DO NOT sleep with them until you have dated them for a few weeks.
You nee... (read in full...)
Should I get back in touch with my ex?
Q. Hello! I need advice as to whether I should get back in touch with my ex! Please let me know what you think... I dated this guy for only 4 months last year - we broke up about 15 months ago now. It was the first gay relationship for both of us –...
A. 22 December 2009: This is pretty much exactly the same as a recovering alcoholic asking if he can have just a glass or two of champagne on New Years Eve.
Yeah, a one off coffee with this guy will PROBABLY be ok.
But then you'll want to see him again the next w... (read in full...)
I tried to get over my best friend and I can't!
Q. i am 15 and in love with my beast friend, He dosn't know this and i really want him to love me back but the only problem he is gay, and i have tried to get over him and date other guys but i just cant, what shall i do? x...
A. 22 December 2009: All you can do is keep trying to get over him.
Spend a bit less time with him and WANT to get over him.
Think about him doing unattractive things.
It's sad but the only solution.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is this wrong? That I asked her for a kiss?
Q. If you ask a girl if you could kiss her and see where it'd would go. Is that rude? I thought this girl was going to end up giving me another chance to be with her.. So when I dropped her home.. I gave her a hug, and very gentleman like, grabbed ...
A. 21 December 2009: "I'm just going to try this." sounds like you were just going for it for the hell of it.
But to be honest, I think your main problem is that you have entered the friend zone.
You haven't told her how you felt so now she just sees you as a fr... (read in full...)
Fluid comes out after anal..is that normal?
Q. I have had anal a fu times,n a fu times ther has bin light brown liquid come out after that is that normal?and what is it? And also Where can i buy ben wa balls?...
A. 20 December 2009: 1. Sperm mixed with poo
2. A sex shop.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do girls like it when a guy gels his hair?
Q. I have a odd question, In general do girls like it better if guys gel their hair,or if they just wear it naturally? guys who gel their hair it may look neater but at the same time im not sure if girls think its a turn off because a guy spends som...
A. 19 December 2009: I personally don't mind a bit to keep it neat but would hate it to look too messed about with.
I used to live opposite a couple who would leave in the morning, check their reflection for 3 minutes in the shop window next door, then check each oth... (read in full...)
He calls me his best mate but we sleep together!
Q. Dear all, Im still sleeping with my ex bf, we been split up a year october just gone and since may we have been sleeping together, we have to do it in the cars so no one will see us, And it seems o be happening more and more recently, But what...
A. 19 December 2009: Sweetie, I hate to tell you this but men LIKE sex. They also LIKE kissing and EVEN kissing necks.
He's not going to stop finding you attractive, so if you let him have some sex every now and then, well great!
However, NONE of this means he wa... (read in full...)
He wouldn't want to be with me if he knew about my debt!
Q. theres a guy i really like but i have a major problem i know he likes me and theres the possibility we might start dating but im very scared because my previous ex left me in serious financial trouble and although im sorting it i would be mortifie...
A. 19 December 2009: Yes you are in debt, but it's not like you spend it all on shoes and handbags.
You are sensible and are getting this sorted out.
The only thing you did wrong was letting your ex put you on the paperwork.
So yes, you are a bit poor for a few... (read in full...)
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