When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 8 February 2010: You'll be fine, just keep going and remember you are in control of your own life.
If it's not going to work then that's sad but you'll find someone else.
Keep smiling!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I know if the sex was good or not?
Q. So I had sex with this guy last night. It was totally a one night stand and I'm not expecting anything out of it. I was just wondering, how do i know if he liked it or if I was bad? I wasn't laying there like a dead fish and when i gave him head he ...
A. 7 February 2010: It just meant he wanted you out and didn't want to cuddle afterwards.
If you do the one night thing then often the guys aren't going to be nice to you afterwards.
As long as you had fun and used condoms then who cares what he thought?
Good... (read in full...)
I didn't give my girlfriend space...
Q. Ok, me and my girlfreind broke up over something I did, not cheating or anything to do with girls but a lie about something important to her. I broke her trust badly. She said she wanted space but I was very upset because we had never had this kind ...
A. 7 February 2010: Well you screwed up this one didn't you?
Only time will tell if she will forgive you, but when she does call to meet up then I think you should just try and show her some respect.
Don't beg and keep trying to explain or get forgiveness. Jus... (read in full...)
I'm using an implant, can this fail? Since Christmas I've been feeling pregnant.
Q. Hey Aunts. Could Someone Help and end my confusion? i had Implanon (impalnt) inserted Early Last Year, Around June i think or before, The Thing is ive had light spotting since it was inserted but since Christmas/New year ive had no pe...
A. 7 February 2010: Hormones can do weird things and they can take about 6 months to settle in so this could be a new phase.
Head down to the family planning clinic and have a chat with the nurse. Most of them have drop in sessions so you could pop in before work tom... (read in full...)
Should she have been more honest, and was she a virgin for me??
Q. I have been married for 2 years and have been together for 4 years in total. One year into the relationship we knew we were going to get married and started having sex with each other. We were both virgins, and it was special knowing she had saved ...
A. 7 February 2010: Virginity is not as simple as a broken hymen any more.
If she ever rode a horse, fell out of a tree, or put a tampon in a little roughly, you could also say that she was no longer a virgin.
She got intimate with her ex and there was someth... (read in full...)
I need advice in getting over the past...
Q. It's nice to find a place like this... So, almost 2 years ago my fiance and I broke it off, after 5 1/2 years of being together, engaged for 2 of those years, and forcing it to work for 3. The break-up was bad, and it left feeling pretty b...
A. 7 February 2010: It's as simple as deciding to give it another go.
Get out there, avoid the internet, and join new clubs / groups / anything where there are people of your age.
Meet new girls, ask one out. If it's not going well within 3 weeks then split up wi... (read in full...)
Dating for 3 years and now I want to settle down. Am I wrong?
Q. We've been in a relationship for over 3 years. We've had our ups and downs but for the most part we've been pretty good and happy. We have a house and pets together. Is it wrong for me to want to know where its going? I told him I wanted to get ...
A. 7 February 2010: You've rushed into some pretty big stuff if you've only been together 3 years. Most people would get a commitment BEFORE they got into a massive joint debt.
Just start taking him past ring shops and pointing out ones you like and don't like.
... (read in full...)
I want to get out of the friends zone
Q. How do i escape the friendship zone and get my girl?!?!?!?!? I think that this girl i like just considers me a friend how can i change that? advice is most welcome kind people!...
A. 7 February 2010: Simple.
Stop being her friend, then she won't see you as one.
You just have to tell her that you really like her and if she's not interested then you have to stop talking to her for a while and take some space and time to get over her.
Tel... (read in full...)
Will it get easier even although his daughter is there all the time?
Q. my boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 yer old daughter, i try my hardest to be a part of her life, play with her when she is around and i know it sounds selfish but i still cant get used to being number 2. I know its never going to change, but i ca...
A. 7 February 2010: It's harsh but I would not be willing to wait 20 years to go travelling, and I would not be willing to be second all the time.
He chose to have a kid young, either because he thought it was a good idea or because he decided condoms weren't ... (read in full...)
The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!
Q. Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the on...
A. 6 February 2010: I feel EXACTLY the same way about you as kids.
I'm 27 and like going out and getting drunk and having a great time, and having a nice figure and going on holiday and sleeping in and eating take away or going out to nice restaurants.
Everyon... (read in full...)
If you haven't argued does that mean your not being honest?
Q. Is it true that if your in a relationship thats been going on for say 5 months, and you havent argued or disagreed or havent just wanted to be alone for a day. Is it true that one of you isn't being honest? I've read that if you havent done those ...
A. 6 February 2010: Nah, I've been with my husband for 5 years now and we hardly ever argue.
Yes, you need alone days and days with your mates rather than eachother, you need those a lot or you'll lose the romance.
But if you are capable of talking like adu... (read in full...)
Is a man gay if he crossdresses and uses toys on himself?
Q. Why do men use toys on themselves and cross dress and feel they are not gay? I can understand the feminine side, but the toys make me feel that I cannot satisfy him like a man could. I also have a problem with the deception and lies. A man ...
A. 6 February 2010: "A woman is nurturing and supportive...I never, never, never would have married him had I known in advance."
This is why he didn't tell you. Because he knows women are NOT nurturing and supportive. They are judgemental and refuse to marry you unle... (read in full...)
Her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections.
Q. Okay, i had a really close friend 2 years ago, and i had a MAJOR crush on her, but her super-conservative Christian views kept her from returning my affections. We kinda lost contact for 2 years, but then i tried to patch things up. It seemed to be ...
A. 6 February 2010: Unfortunately if she's one of these super conservatives, then she's probably been told that having a crush on a boy means she's going to hell.
She's probably really torn between her feelings for you and the things she's been brought up to believe.... (read in full...)
We live together and tonight he said sex is a meaningless act
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Recently it's like he's lost all interest in being intimate with me. Just tonight actually he told me that he thinks sex is a meaningless act! How could you possibly think that it's ...
A. 6 February 2010: If sex is a meaningless act then tell him he must think your feelings are pretty meaningless too.
Tell him you can't be with someone who thinks like that and go to your friend's house for a couple of days.
He will have some problem that's s... (read in full...)
My sister physically attacked me when I am 7 months pregnant!
Q. Im 7 months pregnant I still live at home with my parents and sister and lastnight I had a row with my sister and she physically attacked me. My parents are standing up for my sister saying that ' I shouldnt hide behind my pregnancy as a way of ...
A. 6 February 2010: Well if you are moving out anyway, and your family is turning their backs on you anyway, then what's stopping you going to the police?
You have nothing to lose and then can help you find a temporary B and B or a refuge until you can get your new... (read in full...)
My step dad is in the army and bosses us around like we are little soldiers.
Q. Well, i have a huge problem with my step-dad. It may sound ridiculous but i really cant stand him. Hes in the army and thats one of the problems. He works in a different town and is only home on the weekends for the most part. But when he is home i ...
A. 6 February 2010: Ok, to understand, I think you need to look at the situation from his point of view.
He's come in and suddenly been asked to be a dad to a teenage boy. Teenage boys are what he looks after all day and he sees his methods at work, and he sees how... (read in full...)
My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex.
Q. Help My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex. She tells me that if I do not pester her for sex then it might happen more often but I realise now after 6 months that th...
A. 3 February 2010: I agree with Angzw.
If everything you have said is true then you need to take some action.
Tell her you are unhappy and it's come to the point where you are considering the marriage.
You have to make her realise that she risks losing he... (read in full...)
Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?
Q. Is it possible for facial herpes to be passed to the genital region?...
A. 2 February 2010: Yes.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...
A. 1 February 2010: There is WAY better out there for you.
There are men out there who will be so honoured to have every day with you.
Find them!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Help I have a Frigid Husband
Q. I have been married for over 8 years, 7 of which have been totally void of love, sex and affection. I became pregnant 7 years ago and all attention was switched to my daughter. I am very angry with him for destroying my life as I have continued t...
A. 1 February 2010: So you haven't the strength to leave, but an affair is just fine?
Well you could always talk to him about having an open marriage. That would solve both problems.
I don't think just going off and cheating is a good idea. But if you ask him if h... (read in full...)
Ideas needed for a friends 21st.
Q. hey all, its my mates 21st birthday this weekend... due to family issues and commitments i cannot make her night out, but i was hoping to go round hers or something during the day tie and do something fun... this can include drinkin but not just a ...
A. 1 February 2010: Spa session!
Or bake a nice big cake.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I am supposed to get married in 2 1/2 months but I just got my sister in law pregnant!
Q. hi im master splinter . in about 2 and a half months im getting married BUT THERE IS ONE THING i need to get of my chest its my sister inlaw to be well about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went into hospital to give birth to our 2 child . i was there at ...
A. 1 February 2010: The only man who can possibly help you is Jeremy Kyle.
Tell them all and then I hope you have a good job, because you are going to have to pay her back for her half of the wedding and then a LOT of child support payments as well as 3 homes, 1... (read in full...)
My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex.
Q. Help My wife has gone nuts. She claims she loves me etc but there is no affection much beyond a peck on the cheek and no sex. She tells me that if I do not pester her for sex then it might happen more often but I realise now after 6 months that th...
A. 1 February 2010: Have you tried all the usual stuff, romance, massages, nights away?
When was the last time you took her out for dinner?
If you have tried it all, then you just have to sit her down, out side of the bedroom and ask her what's wrong. Be calm a... (read in full...)
She wants a break, ...but then cries and text's me. Does she want to start seeing me again?
Q. about a week ago, my girlfriend of two months told me that she wanted a break. that she needed time and space to prioritize her life. she told me she still loves me and still cares about me. we even shared tears over it. the day of and the day after ...
A. 1 February 2010: I think you need to be strong so reply and say "does this mean you are ready to be together again?"
If she says anything else but yes, then ask her not to contact you until she knows for definite.
All it will do is get your hopes up.
Goo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend became violent and doesn't tell me what is the matter. Can you help me?
Q. hi. my boyfriend is a very nice person and is very caring. recently he has been quite violent and aggresive. i dont know whats wrong. ive asked him and he says nothing is bothering him. can anyone help me please. ...
A. 31 January 2010: I know you don't want to leave, no one ever does. That's why so many women get killed every year.
What I'm saying is that if you hang around nagging at him or trying to be extra nice then it WILL NOT WORK. He'll just get worse and worse.
... (read in full...)
My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?
Q. My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...
A. 31 January 2010: This is awful, but unfortunately you have to put the kids first. Social services get very jaded and see women letting real abusers back into their children's lives, so they will be watching you carefully and half expecting you to do the same.
... (read in full...)
I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?
Q. How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad ...
A. 31 January 2010: 40% of men have troubles. There is lots of help out there.
Try this website:
http://www.40over40.com/
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend became violent and doesn't tell me what is the matter. Can you help me?
Q. hi. my boyfriend is a very nice person and is very caring. recently he has been quite violent and aggresive. i dont know whats wrong. ive asked him and he says nothing is bothering him. can anyone help me please. ...
A. 31 January 2010: If he's not willing to talk to you then you are not going to help the situation by being there.
Clearly, you are just going to be his punching bag and add stress to him, what ever the matter is.
So tell him you love him and will wait for hi... (read in full...)
Why does my ex go out of his way to put me down?
Q. My ex bf broke up with me. Why would he continue to to contact me and put me down for being who I am etc? And then suddenly he would start sucking up and being nice to me by complmenting etc and inviting me to social events? Hes been doing this for ...
A. 31 January 2010: No one knows what's going on in his head... But I think your real question should be why you keep taking his calls and texts?
If he's been horrible to you then cut contact.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I give her space or give into her commitment standards?
Q. Hi All, Ok, here is my problem... I was in a relationship for a over a year. She has a son and was never really happy with the level of commitment I gave. I wanted to take things slowly and she wanted me to move in. She broke it off 3 or 4 weeks...
A. 31 January 2010: She's looking for a man to come in and be a father to her child. She's not looking for a boyfriend, she's looking for a husband.
She's made it clear what she wants so you have to either take it, or let her find a man who is willing to move in ... (read in full...)
Having problems with my girlfriend!
Q. For the last several weeks, every friday I ask my girlfriend of 5 months, if she wants to hang out after school, and each time she says yes. so i go home, get all my important stuff done, and then return home to get ready and change. after all of ...
A. 31 January 2010: You have to be honest with her.
Ask her why she KEEPS standing you up like this.
If you just ask her why she is doing this then she might realise she's hurting you and be a better girlfriend.
She sounds a bit selfish to me, she's happy to ha... (read in full...)
Why are my periods irregular and could I be pregnant?
Q. i am 13. i started my period when i was 11, but i still have irregular periods. the other day me and my boyf had sex but we used a condom. as my period hasnt come for about 6 weeks i am now scared im pregnant :S why are my periods still irregula...
A. 31 January 2010: The only way to find out is by taking a test.
If you have underage sex then you risk ruining your education, social life etc. That's why they made it illegal.
Take a test and if it's negative then maybe go and have a chat with your GP about yo... (read in full...)
What can I do with a mate who wants to replace my boyfriend?
Q. i dont really know how to explain this so im just gonna come out with it. me n my mate are really close like brother and sister recently he has split up with his girlfriend n recently he keeps asking for things like blow jobs sex and other things, ...
A. 31 January 2010: You can't because you are not just friends. He is not your friend. He is a guy who wants to be in your pants. There is no level of friendship there now because he has crossed the line.
You have to be strict with male friends. If they cross th... (read in full...)
Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend
Q. k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns ...
A. 31 January 2010: So don't go near her again!
Simple as.
Sounds like she's using him and he's not been clever enough to dump her yet.
She's going round doing what she wants and has a nice plan B in her boyfriend. Not a nice girl. She may just want to dump hi... (read in full...)
Why do I always end up just being 'the friend' when I want more than that?
Q. Why am I one of those guys that women want to be friends with but nothing more? Of my ten closest friends, nine are female. They all say I would be a great catch. I have asked them, seriously, what I could do to make myself more appealing but ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think Katyayni has a good point.
At what point do you tend to make a move on the women you like?
We don't want you to try and get into our pants on the first date but holding hands, and a kiss will show your intentions.
You do NOT want... (read in full...)
What would woman think of me defending my girl's honour like this?
Q. Ok this question is directed towards the women. I just want to know, if you're a guy is it ok to punch another man because he said something about his girlfriend. What do women think of that....
A. 31 January 2010: Personally I don't want to date baboons and I think a man that can be physically violent that easily could also have serious problems.
I don't want to deal with serious problems. I want a boyfriend, not a DIY project.
I have had someone insu... (read in full...)
Should I take police advise and sue my ex?
Q. I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...
A. 31 January 2010: You should press charges.
If it comes out in court that he makes up his results then that's just something that will happen.
You can't think about you or him here, you have to think about the next happy girl who wanders into his life and how... (read in full...)
Period cycles...please clarify for me.
Q. hi okay this is a question about periods and period cycles. Considering my age i really should know this but honestly i am don't have a clue. Someone asked me a while ago how long is my cycle and i answered 34 days however i got to thinking abou...
A. 31 January 2010: You normally go from the day you first start your period, to the day you start your next period.
The average is 28 days for women, but that's only an average. It can be more or less with no problems at all.
Just put a red blob in your diary wh... (read in full...)
What did she mean by saying "I don't know you?"
Q. Ok! I have a personal problem I want to ask you guys. When I was in high-school, I was single throughout. One day I remember I asked this girl for her telephone number. I didn't know much about her, but I knew her name. I just thought she was ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think you need to talk to your female friends about this. They know you and can be honest.
It could be that these girls who turn you down just think you are coming on strong because of the way you asked for their number.
Talk to your friends ... (read in full...)
I quickly ruled him out, but now am wondering if I was too harsh
Q. There is this guy that is interested in me, however I have ruled him out on after two dates, an informal meeting, and two chats online. He gave me a pretty tough first impression to get over as he didn't seem like he cared about others feelings or ...
A. 31 January 2010: I think you know the answer.
You've been out with a jerk, but are wondering if he's better than nothing.
But to justify this, you are doing what all girls do and saying "he must be a complete moron because deep down, he's in pain. I MUST HEL... (read in full...)
How do I cope when I see history repeating itself ?
Q. Oh my god, this is so petty, but I'm reliving memories I just don't want to relive at all!!!! A few years ago, my boyfriend and I partially broke up because he met this girl who got to a part of his soul. It wasn't the only reason, but she ...
A. 31 January 2010: I have to wonder why on earth you choose to stay with men who tell you so openly that they like other people.
I feel all your problems could be solved with a little self respect, so that when they say "I find her intriguing" or talk about finding ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...
A. 5 January 2010: I used to sleep with other men, but that stopped when I met my husband. I can't carry on and then just say "oh it's an old habit."
He needs to shut down that profile, change his email address and take you out a lot more or you need to dump him... (read in full...)
When I see him now I run away
Q. When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...
A. 25 January 2009: You are a child going through her first crush.
It's scary and you will be silly. You'll look back at this in a few years and laugh.
Enjoy your crush, and keep working hard in school.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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