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writes:Hey my husband say we got to save money but we have money and he don't give me none at all what should i do
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (23 September 2010):
 I don't understand... do you have a job? Are you earning money of your own?
If you're earning your own money, then it belongs to you. The good thing about having a job is that you don't have to depend on him; you can earn your own money.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 How are you not earning your own money? Is there a reason you have to rely on him for money? You havent given much info...
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reader, Butterfly1992 +, writes (19 September 2010):
Is it your money? or his money? and get a joint bank account and like you wish says set a budget. spend money and save money. And check all the bank statements. sounds like hes hiding something
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reader, Miamine +, writes (19 September 2010):
 You probably don't have any more money to spend. You need to get a job so you can help him.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (19 September 2010):
 You should negotiate a budget that allows for a weekly spending allowance for both of you plus the ability to save money. You should also be able to see the bank accounts and know how all the money is being spent or saved. Tell him you respect his setting of the budget, and that you're totally in favor of saving money, but you want full transparancy of the family expenses.
That way, he's not telling you that you can't have any money, yet he has no accountability of his own.
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