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writes:Does anyone find dating and getting into a relationship easy?I'm 22 and although I've flirted with loads of women and made out with several in nightclubs. However I've only dated 5 women and had a relationship with 2. It does seem difficult for me to get a date with women as I only seem to connect with a few women and even then its usually bad timing with them (either just gotten into a relationship, gotten out of a long term one or not looking for a boyfriend yet).Does everyone else find getting into a relationship difficult?
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (22 August 2010):
 It is possible to meet the right person at a club...I married someone I met at a nightclub. It is rare though. I think most people go to clubs looking to dance or have a fling. If you are looking for a relationship try joining a gym or a social club with like-minded people. You may also just accept that single life is for you right now. You obviously attract women as you have had some success in clubs. It maybe that you have to wait a while to find a woman who is willing to date you in the long term.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Of course. Meeting girls and getting the chance to attract them can be difficult, more so when you aim for higher quality women. Sometimes we meet nice girls when we're not looking or feeling our best, other times there's just a run of bad luck.
It's basically a numbers game; the more women you meet, the better your odds of finding a good one. Every guy has a different success rate, but in the end, a rejection is just a way to avoid wasting your time and move on to the girl who's right for you. Better to try and fail than not try at all, right? Learn to embrace rejection and life gets much, much easier.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Making out and meeting men in a nightclub is NOT the way to meet men for a relationship! Sex yes..commitment no.
I met my boyfriend of 2 years on-line, I recommend it to anyone. I used a site called plentyoffish.com
The nice thing about on-line dating is that you get to know a person before you meet them. You get to know what their intentions are before you get into anything. I went on about 10 dates before I met my boyfriend, some good, some bad but I knew when I met him that he would be in my life for a long time.
I've just set one of my friends up on it and she has her first day Teusday.
Its worth a go. Let me know your thoughts :-)
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