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She's a virgin and I fingered her and now she's bleeding

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Question - (12 November 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, I have a real problem.

On saturday I fingered my girlfriend for the first time, and I went a little far. Also, I had a VERY VERY VERY tiny amount of precum on my finger, (less than a dab, and I didn't have a previous ejaculation). Anyway, sunday she started getting cramps and spotting. The blood was red, but then it turned to pink, and now its very brown. It's thursday and I'm getting worried. She has cramps that come and go, still bleeding but not much, nausea, headaches, and minor sweating. She swears up and down it isn't her period because she can tell. Oh and she's a virgin.

I don't know if that precum got her pregnant, I doubt it because she wouldn't get symptoms the very same day after.

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010):

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The bleeding is gone now, and the cramps are going away quickly. Thanks for all the help! :P

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

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Ok the bleeding is done. Hopefully all other symptoms will subside.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

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It's not a bladder infection, we just looked it up. She's still bleeding and the cramps are spontaneous. Although the spotting is starting to decrease slightly. Thanks for all the feedback guys, I really appreciate it. Although it remains still unsolved what is causing this. Perhaps tomorrow she will see a doctor.

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A male reader, KissPEPPER Australia +, writes (13 November 2010):

KissPEPPER agony auntSounds like your hands were dirty and you've infected her bladder, it happens, I bet you a million dollars that she's got a bladder infected

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A female reader, Sarahh._x United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2010):

Sarahh._x agony auntIf shes a virgin and shes never been fingered its likely you broke her himan if you went too far, thats whats causing the bleeding, however i think the nausia/headaches are irrelivent and could just be a bug she picked up!

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2010):

dmartin89 agony auntAh I see, sorry I misread.

If she is a virgin, the upper part of het vagina isn't used to such abraision, this could be the reason for bleeding.

If ir lasts for more than 3 days, tell her to go see a doctor.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010):

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The thing is, she knows it's definitely NOT her period, which is worrying both of us. There isn't any real sign of the cramps or bleeding to stop anytime soon.

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2010):

dmartin89 agony auntIt would be very very unlikely that you got her pregnant.

Women know their own bodies, if its her period, then it is.

Sperm dries out and dies when it comes into contact with fingers etc.

Even if you had a lot on your fingers, it still wouldn't be likely. The actual act of ejaculation propels the sperm into the cervix which helps it on its way.

Relax, if your girlfriend is still bleeding, its because she is on her period/

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