He thinks flirting is a joke, but I don't. Is there a future for us?
Q. Ive just started a relationship with a friend who I have known for a year. I think our morals/values r pretty similar. However the other day I was telling him how one of my friends flirts with another one of my frineds bfs all the time. My bf didnt ...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear Anon.
I think you are blowing this situation out of proporsion, every one has a different view on flirting, i believe every ant and uncle on this page, will give you a diferrent answear to this depending on there life exsperiance.
My opin... (read in full...)
He touched my bum - does that mean he likes me?
Q. i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he ...
A. 22 October 2007: dear Anon.
I think you should tell this guy that you are not interested in him, in the same way he is interested in you, but you only like him as a work mate and do not want to take it further than that,it sound as if he is trying to get you into... (read in full...)
I keep having discharge, what does it mean?
Q. i keep having discharge all the time does this mean anything?and when i had sex for the first time the discharge was quite bad what does this mean im so confused can you help me please ...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear Anon.
because you are so concerned about this problem, it would be in your best interest to go and see your doctor, if it is worrying you so much, best to ask for a female doctor, then you may feel more at ease to talk about your problem,... (read in full...)
How long will it take for this problem to fix itsself?
Q. I am a fifteen year old boy, my foreskin doesn't come back, I believe this is called phimosis. I don't know what to do, I dont want to tell my parents, it isnt a problem, i just feel uncomfortable with it. What can I do, and how long will it tak...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear anon,
the problem you have can only be treated by a medical professional, therefore i suggest you go to the doctor, and see what advise he gives you, at this stage if you are still not wanting to tell your parents then do not, but i think af... (read in full...)
How do I know how he feels?
Q. This boy and i have been friends for two or three months now. we met one night when we were drunk and we started making out but i did not sleep with him...he kept coming around so i eventually did. we hang out all the time (constantly) and he spends ...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear Anon.
I agree with my friend star9, it is time you both talked to each other to find out what is really going on, I would also not let him continue having a sexual relationship, last time some said to a friend of mine 'we dont have that co... (read in full...)
Was she just being bitchy?
Q. i recently went to town with my sister and she saw her freind and her freind said to her "has your sister got make-up on" i did have make-up but i only had a bit of eyeliner and a bit of blush on and mascara only on my upper eyelashes was she ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon.
I agree with the other Anon it is maybe, she though you were to young to be waring make up, i would not take this to heart, she could just have been surprised to see you waring make up, do not worry yourself over this, it is up to you w... (read in full...)
I'd try anything not to lose him, but I'm so confused
Q. Am v confused and I was hoping u could help out! My bf is 25 and am 23, we've been 2gether 2 years ago then we split up for like 10 month and then we got back 2gether last month! The problem is we both have a different life style, am the dece...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon. the things you have describe are typical of some one who is totally taking you for a long ride, and is no doubt cheating on you, you have given your love to him and he is not worthy of that, the things you have said he has and is doing... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying or jealous for no reason?
Q. Hi, I am 17, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been going out for 2 months now, and we have had few arguements even though we love each other alot and know it can work. Basically, what bothers me is shes really close with her boy mates, infact all ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon
Yes i agree with the comments Blazee has made,she should not be emotional blackmailing you by slitting her wrist,if she loves you as much as she say, she would not be hurting you this way, because she is kissing and messing about wi... (read in full...)
The great idea to ask her out.
Q. Ok so I'mn getting ready to ask out a girl that I really like and I've got a plan... So I get he rLocker Com and write her a note, give her a Necklcae and a Rose (Rose is her middle name). So sound like a good plan? ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear James.
I think you are what they say jumping the gun a bit, a better idea would be to ask her out first to make sure she will go out with you,if she accepts then on the first date i would give her a rose, on the second date i would give her... (read in full...)
I love her, but don't know what to do?
Q. i have a problem with my current gf. we have know each other for 3yrs but we have been going out for 8months.she told me that she fell in love the first time she saw me. but she has a 1yr old baby with an older guy.the guy comes to visits his baby ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon.
the problem is in no way yours, because she has a child it changes relationships, because the farther is back on the scene it complicates thing a bit, she cannot love you has much as she says or she would be with you and not spending... (read in full...)
Does a bloke only say what he means?
Q. Is it true that a bloke only ever says what he means and are there exceptions (e.g. like when he's playin you)?...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon.
if you are in a relationship and you both love, care , and respect each others feeling then i would say they tell you the truth. if you are in a relation... (read in full...)
He is telling me to move in with him, or its over!
Q. my ex wants me to move 35 miles away to live with him or its over. i have never left my mum as she has M.S and all my family and friends live here. His family live 35 miles away but he works with them 10 hours 5 days a week. He can drive and i cant ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon
Forgive me for saying this but if he is your ex what is the problem,i would have believed it was already over,i think you would be doing the wrong thing giving up your life, to move away with him, if he is trying to blackmails you over... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just hit me 'cause I wouldnt get him something from the fridge!
Q. my boyfriend has just hit me and smashed lots of things in the house because i would not get him something from the fridge when he was in the kitchen and i wasnt what shall i do,we are due to get married and dont think i can spend the rest of my ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon
you do not deserve to be treated in this manner, marriage to this guy would be a disaster, if you go ahead with this plan you will end up a human punch bag, for the rest of your life, people who hit woman are the scum of the earth, t... (read in full...)
Where is my Prince?
Q. Are there any good men left out there? Pretty much all the men I have ever met in my life have been terrible. They have all pretty much been uncaring, unromantic, unfaithful, shallow, and rude. Which makes me wonder, are there any decent guys still ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear Anon. there are plenty of good guys out there, i believe it is not the guys that are at fault, but you seem to be looking for something that does not exist in you or me, that is perfection,there is no such thing. I would not keep looking ... (read in full...)
Should I expect that my live-in bf know my middle name and birthday?
Q. I've been with my live-in boyfriend for 5 months. Should I expect that he know my middle name and birthday? Turns out he doesn't ( I know his) and he thinks I'm overreacting to be upset that he does not know these two things. Just looking for ...
A. 21 October 2007: dear Anon. I agree with my friends, i also find it hard to remember birthdays, dont know what goes on in my head some time,like Uncle Phil i fore got an old girl friends birthday, after the tongue wagging, and punishments she dealt out,even a... (read in full...)
What is this discharge I have suddenly developed? It only comes out during sex.
Q. I really hope you can help me on here, as I don't know who else to ask about this. For the past 6 months when my boyfriend and I make love, when he pulls his penis out it has thick white discharge on it from my vagina. When I have an orgasm, it is ...
A. 21 October 2007: dear Annon. think you are worrying about nothing, glad you went to Doctors thou,it is as you have said, you have orgasm and it is your own fluid, or it could simply be a mixture of your fluid and your boy friends sperm,this to me seems normal,by ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my best friend - I cant get her off my mind!
Q. so....i cant give up!......ive fallin for my best friend who is also a lesbian everytime i see her i cant describe it! its different then the last girl i liked, i just dunno theres feelings that scare me i cant describe them, like i want to protect ...
A. 21 October 2007: Dear meforu
you said you told her how you feel, and she replied she would not want any thing to mess up your friendship,i an sorry but she see you only has her best friend which is a good, to have some one who feels that way toward you, because ... (read in full...)
Cheated on and lied to. I feel I might never have forgiven him and don't feel womanly enough for him. Confused!
Q. I have been married for a little over 3 years. We have been together since highschool, we were each others first in everything. I love him and think the world of him. about 5 years ago he cheated on...when he was really drunk and hanging out with ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi Anon
he is not cheating on you because of your woman hood, he cheating on you because he knows he can do it, and get away with it, and then can go back to little his wife, who is sat at home waiting for him and treat her like a door mat and ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I love someone and he keeps going out with other girls?
Q. hi what if i love someone,but he keeps going out with other girls?and what should i do when he traveled abroad?because he will.. im really confused about what i should do. i need your help....
A. 20 October 2007: hi Confused girl 187
because he is seeing other girls, i think you need to find yourself some-one new,your love is a one way thing, you need some one in your life who is just for you, who will treat you better than he has,you need love, passion ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 months pregnant and I feel unloved, used and worthless!
Q. Im now 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend has become more distant as the pregnancy has progressed. I have tried absoloutely everything to 'fix things' from being as attentive as possible to accepting all the crap he puts me through (arranging to meet ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi Isolated
I dont care if he is at uni, he is what known in some circle as a dirty lousy, stinking woman chasing, mother and baby deserter,what a scum bag, how dare he leave you when your carrying his seven month child, and messing with other wo... (read in full...)
Does my unwillingness to mess araound with boys make me more of a catch?
Q. loads of people in my year are doing loads of stuff with a boy one of my close freinds has wanked off two boys is she a slut? i think she is but other people say shes not and we are only 14 is there somthing wrong with me or am i the only sane one ...
A. 20 October 2007: Hi
your friend is not the word that you used, she has every right to do what she does, has you have the right not too,what a name to call your closest friend, SHAME ON YOU,... (read in full...)
He doesn't ejaculate during a blowjob!
Q. I love giving my boyfriend oral but I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards as he has never cum during a blowjob. He definitely reacts to it and it makes him quiver and there is a climax of pleasure but nothing ever comes out. I usually ...
A. 20 October 2007: Dear girl who needs help,
every one act different some need more help than others to sperm, there are two ways you can do this one is to use your hand as well, and the other you may not like but a friend told me she does this to help,when he is w... (read in full...)
I falsely accused my husband of cheating.
Q. I accused my husband of 6 years of cheating on me, because I saw a phone number I did not recognize. I did not ask him first, I just jumped the gun. What can I do to earn his trust back and get over my own trust issue?...
A. 20 October 2007: dear Fleabop.
I have been there myself, you are thinking in the right direction, even thou it is hard for you, try very hard to stay calm do not bagger him or it will end in another blazing row,give him two or three day, then i would,if you are ... (read in full...)
Is a female who performs oral sex still a virgin???
Q. I have a curious question, if a female did oral sex once but she never had any sexual intercourse before, Would she still be considered a virgin?...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
it is possible that she is a virgin,there is no way to tell if she is or not medical science doe not have an answer for that yet,i only way to find out is ask her if she say yes,then she must be, take her word for that. ... (read in full...)
My neurotic sister is causing problems. What can we do?
Q. My 88year old dad died almost a year ago. My younger sister (45years old) took it very hard (she's neurotic anyway). We have a great deal of property that belongs to us all (Dad had 4 children) my sister will not cooperate in the selling o the ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
if you go to court in the future, the estate will end up in testate, which means the only people who can make money out of this, is your solicitor and the courts, and could go on for about 50 years,if your sister is neurotic or not, she is s... (read in full...)
I hate my family life. What can I do?
Q. I hate my family life im 13 and there are so many family problams I hate everyone in my family there so unfair and horrible. I want to leave home. I have a week off school for half term and i would rather go to school just to escape! What can I Do?...
A. 20 October 2007: hi anon
Sorry to hear that things are not going well for you, i dont now if this will help you, but most people at your age group feel the same as yourself, even me, when i was your age, things like, you cant go out with your mates, you got to t... (read in full...)
He's got a car - should I go and meet him?
Q. Moderator's note: This is the same young lady who asked a few posts ago about having sex with her 16 year-old boyfriend!! (or at least - it's from the same computer) well. theres this guy and i like him right hes ok n hes fit n stuff but ive on...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
bad news for you, you are 13 to 15 years old and you want to go off in a car,with three blokes who are older than you,i have news for you, (you now i get fed up of saying this, and one day no one will ask this any more)you are a MINOR under th... (read in full...)
Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
what a mature person you are, you said in your letter it is a good idea to keep quit for now, and wait to see if his is new relationship works out,if not then you will tell him how you feel,very good, well done.
sorry to hear about your ... (read in full...)
I falsely accused my husband of cheating.
Q. I accused my husband of 6 years of cheating on me, because I saw a phone number I did not recognize. I did not ask him first, I just jumped the gun. What can I do to earn his trust back and get over my own trust issue?...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
could you send more information example is your husband still with you, is he giving you silent treatment, things on that line, if you do not mind, because of the time may no answer until late afternoon/evening sat sorry.... (read in full...)
I lied to her and lost her trust, what can I do? I still love her and want to marry her
Q. I messed up really bad recently in my 3-year relationship. During those 3 years, we took a break for 4 months and I had a little bit more fun then I led her to believe. She asked me over and over again if I had done anything at all and I denied it ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
i am sorry now that you have broken her heart,with disloyalty then there is no going back, if you forgive the saying (not even when hell freezes over) once you have broken that bond and trust between you, there is no turning back you will be ... (read in full...)
He's got a girl, but wants to chill with me. Should I let him?
Q. I met this boy at this party named peter.....ever since then weve been wanting to hang out.At this time he didnt have a gf.....now hes back wit the same girl.....Hes a really sexual person and his girl gives him everything he wants ...he knows im ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
sorry not a good idea the very last thing you want to do is get between a bf and gf, you have got to consider the feeling of his gf if you were in her shoes would you like it if he went out with some-one else,even thou his girl friend gives hi... (read in full...)
I think I am getting addicted to pills!
Q. Hey, im just an average girl. And a while back I accidently took 7 pills before a game because I was in a lot of physical pain. well, i will admit that i did something very carless. i kept doing it. and so far 7 pills turned into 10, and the ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
do not panic,you can do one of two thing go to the A&E or go and see your doctor, the pills you have taken may be causing damage to your body, the shaking is due to the reaction of the over dose of pills you have taken, please see some one as s... (read in full...)
I'm unsure if I should stay with my boyfriend or move on to an older, mature guy.
Q. should i finish my boyfriend of 14 months to go out with a hot guy thats older, more attractive and more mature?? im 15 and have been with my 16 year old boyfrind for 14 months but a guy i met a few months ago asked me to go out with him. we meet ...
A. 20 October 2007: I am depone 1
sorry to be a bore, but this young lady seems to be asking us (at the age of 15 years if it is OK for her to go out with a adult male)by UK law it is illegal for her to have a sexual relation ship with an adult male, because she is c... (read in full...)
I'm unsure if I should stay with my boyfriend or move on to an older, mature guy.
Q. should i finish my boyfriend of 14 months to go out with a hot guy thats older, more attractive and more mature?? im 15 and have been with my 16 year old boyfrind for 14 months but a guy i met a few months ago asked me to go out with him. we meet ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
I would be care full at your age wanting to go out with a guy who is older and more mature than yourself, 15 years of age it is not a good thing to get involved with an adult, you would be wiser staying with your 16 year old boyfrien... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?
Q. How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
I think if you ask a question like this one then you are not, at your age you get all sorts of feelings most of it is growing pains,changing from a child to an adult, when you get older and mature, then you will know what your true feelings... (read in full...)
Any suggestions to find out what I want?
Q. hi i have been split from my husband for 6 months he wants me back and we have been seeing each other again for 3 months but i cant make my mind up whether i want to go back .i dont want to lose him completely but i just cant make my mind up .any ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
that depends on the relationship you had before, you must consider why you split in the first place, does he love and respect you more now, do you love and respect him more now, it is really a hard question to answer because i dont now you both... (read in full...)
Is my penis a normal size for a 13 year old?
Q. err hi i was wondering if this is normal im 13 and my penis is 5.4 inches long i mean i think thats good but is it ok to be so big so young?...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
do not worry about that wait until your eighteen then you will know,you are still a growing person, still going through the changes in your body, when i was your age i had a lot more on my mind than that and so should you,in fact you should n... (read in full...)
I have everything I ever wanted. So why am I unhappy?
Q. what is wrong with me ?. i have just moved into my first home with my partner, i have a beautifull house a wonderfull partner a supportive family and a good career ahead of me but im so so lonely and down. i feel so lonely i have nothing to compl...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
when i read letters like your, i always say go and see your doctor, because the human body seems to take a lot of stress these day with the busy lives that we lead, most people have written back and said there ok after seeing there GP, so m... (read in full...)
Is cum and sperm the same thing?
Q. what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi
who missed sex education 101, were you off school that day, when someone said the remark that you made, it means he does not want to wear a condom, wants to put his penis inside your vagina and eject his sperm into you, why some one of 15 wo... (read in full...)
I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum
Q. I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...
A. 19 October 2007: hi
the way i see it is he is a male adult, and your still at school,you should not have bj him, but because he is an adult he should have know better than to put you in that situation and take advantage of you,i now for a fact that this person s... (read in full...)
My gut says he's cheating but I don't want to believe it
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years is also the father to our 1 year old daughter. Ive always been scared that he would cheat on me. A couple of months back I checked his email and a girl wrote scandoulous things to him saying how she missed sleeping with him ...
A. 19 October 2007: hi
afraid to say i agree with my other two friend,there is something strange going with these text messages but without proof you really cant say he is having sex with any one, please dont be too get to upset you must think about yourself... (read in full...)
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