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Is cum and sperm the same thing?

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Question - (19 October 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2009)
A age 22-25, anonymous writes:

what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets you pregnant??i might sound totally dumb but he asks me if he can come in me but i dont want babies im onli 15 can ne one explain it to me?

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A male reader, joshi Australia +, writes (4 November 2009):

well not exactly. sperm is an ingreadient in semen better known as (cum). so sperm is the little tadpole looking things that get u pregnant and cus has sperm in it but can not really get u pregnent...but always use a condom!

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (21 October 2007):

Sandman agony auntAhem.

fanny...

buttocks: the fleshy part of the human body that you sit on; "he deserves a good kick in the butt"; "are you going to sit on your fanny and do nothing?"

female genitalia: external female sex organs; "in England `fanny' is vulgar slang for female genitals"

wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

fanny...

vagina (same meaning as in British English), unlike North America, where it means buttocks. (The item known to Americans as a "fanny pack" is a "bum bag" in Australia).

en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Appendix:Australian_English_terms_for_body_parts

So. To us all giving different meanings for what "fanny" means, I guess we're all right! But the original poster has posted that what she meant by "fanny" was vagina so....

Just depends on what side of the ocean you're from I guess. Have a good day!

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, Mushgirl United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2007):

Mushgirl agony aunt'fanny' means vagina in england, but it means butt in america. quite confusing. my American friend once shouted loudly across the canteen, "get your fanny over here!"... that resulted in quite a few stares.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

To Sandman and peoriaman

fanny actualy means vagina not anal or butt

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A female reader, isolated United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

Yes if he cums spunk sperm are all the same thing and it gets you pregnant. At your age i was pregnant with my first child after stupidly agreeing for my boyfriend talked me into sex without a condom. You will always believe it wont happen to you but the majority of the time it does. Im now struggling through a law degree with my child and he ....is nowhere to be seen. Always use a condom and do not let him talk you out of it if he tries he really does not respect you and he will be one of those guys that runs of the first sign of a baby. Take care and be safe.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

no when he says "fanny" he actually means my vagina. thanks for all your answers. much apprieceited =]

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (20 October 2007):

Sandman agony auntOkay. Cum and Sperm are NOT the same thing. "Cum" is a derogatory or slang term for "semen". It is also a slang term given for the act of orgasm/ejaculation. Semen is the name given to the fluid a man emits when he ejaculates (or cums). Sperm IS what gets you pregnant but is also an ingredient of semen (cum). If you get cum/semen in your vagina, you are more than likely putting yourself at risk for pregnancy because his cum/semen contains sperm which is what gets you pregnant.

You said your boyfriend asked if he could "cum in your fanny"? I'm assuming by "fanny" you mean "butt" which also tells me that if he's asking to cum in your "fanny" then you're engaging in anal sex which is far more riskier than vaginal sex in terms of catching an STD. However, if he does cum in your "fanny" or your butt, then the risk of you getting pregnant is very low. It only becomes a problem if his semen (which contains sperm, remember?) runs out of your butt and down into your vagina which increases the risk of pregnancy. You cannot get pregnant through anal sex.

I agree with Abacadaba. If you have to ask these questions, you probably shouldn't be engaging in sex yet anyway. PLUS, I'm sure 15 is not legal age for sexual consent. PLUS, you need to focus on school and your future career. If you get pregnant now, it WILL be much harder to reach your goals if you have a little baby to take care of. PLUS, sex should be reserved for marriage anyway.

Hope this helps.

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A male reader, Dextro69 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

Dextro69 agony auntCum, Spunk, Sperm, Jizz all the same. yes you can get pregnant if you let him cum in you.

Sorry to be rude but having to ask that question says to are not mature enough to handle a sexualy relasionship and what it can bring.

If you do go ahead USE COMDOMS and go on THE PILL

Condoms and the pill are FREE here in the uk just pop to your family planning centre. you normaly get between 6 and 12 condoms a time. been under 16 you will need to have a proper talk with them but they will show you how to use the comdoms they also are not alowed to discuss anything with your parents

remember comdoms and the pill are over 99% effective but not 100% the only 100% way to make sure you DONT GET PREGNANT IS NOT HAVE SEX

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (20 October 2007):

Danielepew agony aunt"Cum", "spunk" and semen are the same thing: semen. He is asking whether he can ejaculate inside of you. I think it would be very wrong to let him do it. You are too young to become pregnant. I think you should also wait a little to have sex, but, if you do, never do it without a condom.

Take care.

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

Abacadaba agony aunt'cum' contains sperm, seriously if you dont know whats the difference then you shouldnt be having sex. If you do have sex, ALWAYS make sure a condom and/or the pill is in use (pill if your sure neither of you have any STD's, and condom if your sure, but better to use both) Dont let him cum inside you, its a very risky thing. My Sister had a baby aged 19, and its changed her life dramaticly, remember, a baby needs to be taken care of 24/7, you dont get a weekend off, you dont get a half term holiday. Seriously think before you do anything, if you need any 1 to 1 advise or havent understood anything ive said then PM me, last thing i want to see is sombody get pregnant by accident.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi

who missed sex education 101, were you off school that day, when someone said the remark that you made, it means he does not want to wear a condom, wants to put his penis inside your vagina and eject his sperm into you, why some one of 15 would want a person to do that to them i dont now, firstly there will be a baby, secondly if he has a horrible infection nasty STD, then you and the baby will get it, OUCH!!!, some one your age should not be be having sex with or without a condom, you should be enjoying your child hood, because when you grow up you will wish you had been more careful in your life, and baby's could be more than one, are murder to look after if your not a mature person.

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