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writes:hi i have been split from my husband for 6 months he wants me back and we have been seeing each other again for 3 months but i cant make my mind up whether i want to go back .i dont want to lose him completely but i just cant make my mind up .any suggestions what i could try to make me realise what i want . Reply to this Question
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reader, AMEE +, writes (20 October 2007):
AMEE is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for your advice .i have been with him for 16 yrs have you heard the saying you can love someone but cant live with them ,thats how it is with me he is so hard to live with .he as good points ,hes worked all his life but he asked me once what i liked about him and i could nt think of anything to say .but i am finding it so hard to make the break .i have ms so whether this as anything to do with it i dont know . i have four grown up daughters from my first marriage that husband slept around so that was easy to give up on so why is this one so hard ,thanks for your reply . sue
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Hey - try these: (1) If you won £1million on lottery next week who would you be with?
(2) If you could have a magic wand and change one major thing about your husband, what would it be?
(3) Ditto = yourself.
(4) If you are diagnosed with health condition next week which will mean you have just three years left to live normal life, what would you do?
(5) Imagine you can have two lovers in your life - what would you want in the 2nd ?
Please let me know if/how this helped.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (20 October 2007):
 hi
that depends on the relationship you had before, you must consider why you split in the first place, does he love and respect you more now, do you love and respect him more now, it is really a hard question to answer because i dont now you both, but you must consider are you both getting back together because you love each other or is it because your both lonely, maybe you should get together and talk all your feelings through and see if anything has changed between your selfs, then you will be able to make your minds up together, what the right thing to do is.
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