How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello again,
thank you for you response, my heart really goes out to you, i now some of the things i said may have seemed a little harsh, i really was concerned that you were not coping, which i really understand, i was afraid for your health a... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hi Anon
Thank for your reply, it looks as if were not the only ones with this problem, hope your over yours, and life is better know without him.
thanks you.... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello mini Girl.
I am pleased that you have done the right thing by leaving him, he was really no good for you both, i am also sorry that he is using this, all your fault attitude toward you, (never learns does he) it will at this time be in your ... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: Dear Annon.
Thank you for you response, yes i do know what is its like. i found by wife in my bed with a younger bloke, thats why i Divorce her,the point i was trying to make was that is over now and to keep going over and over it is not doing he... (read in full...)
I don't know which way to turn, can you help?
Q. I am currently off sick from work, the reason, stress and anxiety. due to my boss, she just hates me and life has become so uncomfortable. I am being bullied and victimised all the time and dont know which way to turn. can anyone help....
A. 3 November 2007: Hello annon,
i would just like to correct one thing advise is ok, but i am a him not an her.
Thank you... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: hello again.
It is time you pulled yourself together,you really do need to see a doctor or some type of medical person, you keep going on about this 18 year old girl but she is not the problem right now YOU ARE, all the ifs, buts, and dont now... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello mini girl.
I am really pleased that you have had the courage to leave him, he would have in the end made both your live in a mess,
I wish you all the best and hope you both have a wonderful life with out him.... (read in full...)
Age differences and health problems
Q. Iam 28 years old and the man I love is 51 years old. Iam healthy but he has health problems: crohn's disease, arthritis etc. He has some pain almost everyday. If we were to get married would this be a problem down the road? He is financially stable ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
It depends what your motive is toward this guy, if your just there for the money then by all means marry him. his illness will not get any better over time, and he may end up in a wheel chair in the end, so must decide which is best for... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello again.
you have admitted that you have depression, for a longer period of time than i had realized, you could leave the situation if you wish but that will not help your depression in any way,you and your children need to be supporte... (read in full...)
After the break up I ended kissing another guy. How to tell him it was a mistake without hurting him?
Q. i just made the biggest mistake ever i broke with my borfreind 2 weeks ago and since then i have been feeling so sad , after that i was going out a lot maybe to try and forget what happened , the problem is that while i was going out a lot i ended ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
Do not blame you for one second, we all need a kiss and a cuddle at some time in our lives, after what you have gone through it was just one of those things.
When you see your friend talk to him, tell him that you like him as a friend ... (read in full...)
Is my vagina supposed to have a natural smell?
Q. this is so embarresing to ask. but i really dont know if its normal... is your vagina suppost to have a natural smell to it... not nessecarily bad all the time, but sometimes when i get hot and a bit sweaty down there, its starts to smell and ill go ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
Because this is bothering you i would go and see a female GP, there are loads of things that can do this and i dont want to list them because it is not fair on you to do so on a public media, also if you wear nylon tights, i would leave th... (read in full...)
I don't know which way to turn, can you help?
Q. I am currently off sick from work, the reason, stress and anxiety. due to my boss, she just hates me and life has become so uncomfortable. I am being bullied and victimised all the time and dont know which way to turn. can anyone help....
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
Stop worrying for moment I have an email address for you they deal with cases just like yours, you must inform them of all the events of that are happening to you, and you must inform then of your sickness due stress you are going through,... (read in full...)
I feel like I am just going through the motions and can't cope with the strain anymore.
Q. Hi - I think I'm just going through the motions of being with my partner. We don't live together and split up earlier this year before getting back together about 7 weeks ago. I was the one that ended the relationship - things hadn't been good sin...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
Its that old thing called Love,when you parted you must have decided that your relationship was over, then what ever reason you are together again,(my opinion only)on my life experience, when you leave a relationship most of the care and... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
I am sorry to hear that your life is not as happy as it should be, and the actions of your husband, you really seem to be going through post natal depression at this time, you should go to doctor and get yourself treated for this conditio... (read in full...)
Why did I do this to myself? Have I become the 'other woman'?
Q. I don’t know why I let this happen!!! I was married for 23 years he had an affair that he would not end so I filed for divorce. That all happened since May 2005. Divorce is final as of June 2006. I still love this man but he has chosen to live ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
He has done it to you again, he now think any time he feels like a sexual release then your there on a plate for him, he is betraying all the woman in his life, i cant believe after all you went through and the divorce, then you are so r... (read in full...)
Why has my cheating husband done this?
Q. Why is this? After my husband cheated on my and after almost a year of ending it. He started talking to her again with the excuse to see is they could be only friends. Then he stoped contact for a while and I found out what he did. He did not ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello again.
He was trying to have sex with you, just to see if he still had control of you, and try to bypass the situation he was in.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant this way?
Q. I would like to become pregnant but my hubby won't cum inside, he says not now we are not ready but I am so I got him off with a blow job then let him cum in my hand then I went in the bathroom in put it in my vagina. Can I get pregnant like that? ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
yes you may get pregnant, but do not forget that sperm does degrade, if it is in the the fresh air for to long, them little critters like to be in a warm moist environment, but i would consider what you are doing very carefully, if your hus... (read in full...)
We only met online, he tells me he loves sex to death and can't wait to have it with me. Should I be worried?
Q. I met this guy on a dating site and after exchanging photos and mails constantly,we are both in love and we will be meeting very soon.My only worry is that he talks about sex everyday and even tells me that he loves it to death. He also tells me...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
I think by what you have said that he only want to get his way with you, and then he will be gone, onto the rest of the females on the dating site,i think this guy is ill so you had better watch yourself, if you meet after all he has told... (read in full...)
Did he marry me as last resort?
Q. I don't know if my husband married me because he loved me or because I was all that was left. We've been married for two years. We started dating when I was 16 he was 19, I fell in love with him right away but didn't say anything. We had both just ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
I think you are creating a problem for yourself, were there is not one, if you are still in love with each other and do not have a problem, then why would you worry, you should live in the present not think in these terms, you both should j... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
i rely feel for you and your daughter,people who control their spouse are a kin to a play ground bully,they bully you enough so that you do not know your own mind, he his trying to convince you that no matter what you think, say, and do y... (read in full...)
My best friend and I became lovers, now he's back with his ex, its breaking my heart,help please!
Q. my bestfriend and i eventually became lovers after 10 long years of pure friendship.. however, our relationship as lovers did not even last a month.. i broke up with him on the 3rd week of our relationship because he was acting kinda cold on me.. ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
it is always sad when a partner leaves without telling you why they have decided to return to a former ex, it is such a shame that he is to much of a coward to put your mind at peace, after 10 years of friendship it was the least he could... (read in full...)
Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?
Q. Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
Age is not a problem as long as the person is of legal age in your city (US),i dont know your legal status on this, but i think you should check it out then you wont have a problem, in the UK there are a lot of people with an age gap and ... (read in full...)
Will sucking her breasts increase the size?
Q. Does male sucking females breasts enlarge her breasts or its doesnt affect size of her breasts??...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
Yes i believe you are correct stimulation of the breast can very slightly enlarge them, for example when you are in the mist of love making the breast enlarge due to stimulation and increased blood flow, i dont think there is any suggesti... (read in full...)
Why has my cheating husband done this?
Q. Why is this? After my husband cheated on my and after almost a year of ending it. He started talking to her again with the excuse to see is they could be only friends. Then he stoped contact for a while and I found out what he did. He did not ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
it seems that it is to late to nip this in the bug, you really need to set ground rule with this guy,you need to discuss this issue and tell him that this has to stop, it is hurting you and your marriage, your his wife and he should n... (read in full...)
The in-laws are moving in, and I fear for our relationship! Please advise.
Q. HELP!! So my girlfriend and I have some new "roomates" moving in with us. My gf's 24yr old sis and her 4yr old daughter. Her sis has had a rough divorce recently and is struggling financially. Without even asking me she insisted that her sis mov...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
There is an old saying, that blood is thicker than water, loosely mean family above all, she should have discussed this with you, but maybe there was a time factor for an answer and she did not have time to discuss this with you,if you dont... (read in full...)
Any ideas of how to finish with someone who won't take no for answer?
Q. I want to finsh with my boyfriend who I have been with for 17 months. The thing is I have tried so many times in the past but he manipulates me into staying with him. I'm fed up of the way he treats me. He tries to dictate my life and thinks he's ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
You really need to tell him you are not interested in him, and if he does not go away, then you will report him to the police because he is stalking you, you need to impress on him that you are not going to take this BS from him any more... (read in full...)
Just met a guy in a club, he wants me to go to his house this Saturday. What should I do?
Q. ive been out with a guy that i met in a club, our date was good. now he wants me to go to his house on saturday. what should i do?...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
I think this guy is pushing you to fast to be inviting you to his home, as my friend waterloo sunset has said, this guy could be a rapist or a murderer, you really need to keep meeting this guy in crowded areas for a few months, get to k... (read in full...)
How can I save our relationship?
Q. my boyfriend said last night that he has gave up on are relationship, due to me being jealous and always saying he's cheating.i suffer from depression how can i save my relationship....
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
You should not be thinking about your relationship at this time, the main thing to do is put all your thought into your self and try to over come your depression or at least get it under control, then you will be able to see and think mo... (read in full...)
My husband wants a threesome but says will respect my decision. Is he going to be satifsfied with just me?
Q. My husband of 9 months has suggested the idea of wanting to watch me have sex with another man, or having a mfm threesome. My husband and his x-wife had this kind of sexual relationship and he said it brought them closer together sexually. Fant...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello WVA.
I believe this is a dangerous road you are going down, a fantasy is one thing but the reality is another, i can see your concerns about this event, and you are justified to have your doubts, i personally cannot see why he is trying t... (read in full...)
Would it be best to involve Social Services in theis situation?
Q. I was just wondering if this was for the best? My Mom used to have a habbit when I was younger, Im now 16 and she is past all of that :) However, she is looking after one of her friends daughter. They havent mananged to stop using drugs. Th...
A. 1 November 2007: HELLO.
I believe the baby would be better off staying within your family unit, but if your mum and you are unable to cope, then social services would be the better option, i have not dealt with social services for a while but believe, they wil... (read in full...)
Should I try going out with him, or move on?
Q. so i'm 15. and theres this boy weve been close friends for 1 1/2 yrs but we've known each other for 3. anyway, we started talking in may, in june my bday month he said he was gonna give me 2 gifts that i couldn't physically keep,{i thought a kiss ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
If there is another girl involved then it is time to move on, he has had 3 years to ask you out but when he had the chance he did not, he asked some one else, and i wounder if the other gf left him because he was doing the same with her... (read in full...)
We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!
Q. I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
The first thing to do is stop panicking, pull yourself together, chill out your getting to carried away over nothing, you should sit down with her(not in bed)and talk to her, try and find out what the problem is, that is of course if there... (read in full...)
We plan on getting married, but he's unhealthy, how can I get him to look after himself better?
Q. I love my boyfriend. We actually plan on getting married and have picked out the ring. The only problem is that, I can't stand the way he treats his body. He smokes, even though he's been trying to quit for a over a year, he drinks a lot and ...
A. 1 November 2007: hello.
i can see that you are concerned about your bf health that is a good thing, i dont understand why you are suddenly thinking about the bad things, is he not the same person you fell in love with, when you first met he must have been the... (read in full...)
I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate
Q. If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
there is no time limit for this question, provided you both now what you are letting your selfs in for, and for example make sure this is not only a one night stand, or he is not married,and make sure he is not just using you for sex,if t... (read in full...)
My hubby and I have had a great sex life, now he's getting a bit unconventional, what can I do?
Q. My husband has a very active imagination when we have sex, he always has. His chatter has always been part of what I enjoyed during sex. But lately he's been acting out some of his sexual fantasies. I don't know what to think. He pushes his ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
i think that you have to let him now that his games has gone to far, i think that you should talk to him and make him realize, that you are not happy with this situation and do not want to continue in this vain, if he still continue... (read in full...)
I got dumped, now I've met another girl, but is she right for me?
Q. Hi. Please help me with my problem. I was dumped a few months ago by my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, and I've found it very difficult to cope with. Recently, I have met a new girl. She's very nice. But there are a few things about her that makes ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello
I think you are being a bit picky, you really need to step back a bit, if she does not get on with her parents fine, some family never get on this is the way of the world, do not think that she deserves to be loved by you especially as she h... (read in full...)
My boss is flirting with me, he's married, I am flattered but I know its wrong , how do I get rid of these feelings for him?
Q. I started a new job about 8 weeks ago. I noticed my boss giving me eye contact. He then gently touched arms with me a few times and I was flattered by the attention. My job involves being out at night in a club together and one night he was ...
A. 1 November 2007: Hello.
I am sorry for your loss, i think you should tell your boss that you have lost a partner, and you are not ready for another relationship, also inform him that you do not date married men any way, if he persist on this course of action t... (read in full...)
I got pregnant, we got married, he treated me badly, now years later he is trying to mend things, but I don't love him, is there any hope?
Q. I'm extremly confused!!!! Been married for almost 13 yrs. and been together for 15, I had gotten pregnant 5 months into relationship, so i guess i thought it was right thing to do to get married, I thought i loved him, i think i did but i was 19 ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello NDwings.
I am sorry that you have had to go through this metal cruelty for such a long period of time,i believe that you have gone through enough in your life with this so called man, and you have tried to put things right between you,but ... (read in full...)
I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?
Q. i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello.
Sorry about this but i have read your letter and i am a bit confused myself,if i get this wrong please do not shout at me, OK.
If the 28year old guy is having sex with you, and talking about his girlfriend, not a good sign, you are ge... (read in full...)
Should I surprise him by booting him out?
Q. is this mean.. my boyfriends at work and i want to move him out..i will rent apartment, put his things in there and leave it at that..tonight i want to take my keys off his key ring, take my car key off his ring and put a note on door when he comes...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello.
AT last a woman a kin to my own heart what a wonderful idea, i wish i had a plan like that years ago, but coming back to the real world, as much has i love your idea,it would not be the right thing to do, you need to see him face to face ... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we hav split up a few times because he lies about the girls he has been with when we have been on a brake, i make sure that im completely honest with him as i no the truth always comes out.We are ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello Tricky Flicky.
Do not worry your Not paranoid, you are suffering from a condition called (i now this guy is a dirty cheating, lying, unfaithful, breaking my heart, making me cry, he is a plank syndrome)your mind is telling you that he is no... (read in full...)
Should I deal with the problems or end the relationship?
Q. Ok so here I go...this is hard to explain but ill try my best. Feel free to ask me any questions if you arent sure of something or if i left somethign out. Im confused about my relationship with my bf who I have been with for 1 month. We knew e...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello.
You need to leave this guy now, he really really does not want you as his girl friend, you have no basis for a relationship, you have said as much yourself,if he still wants to be on the dating scene were does that leave you, why do you t... (read in full...)
I've given him £6000 in total which he spent on debts and drugs and now he has disappeared...
Q. i dont know what to do and am deepl upst. i will try shorten the story. i was with this wonderful guy, for a year was all perfect, then one day i heard nothing from him at all just stopped calling visiting nothing, i went through torment and ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello.
I am really sorry for the problems that you are facing, it seems that you have fallen for one of the oldest cons around, he know how you feel about him, he has a girlfriend, and knows that you are there to bail him out with money every ti... (read in full...)
My fiance accuses me of cheating, he's also immature, how can I cope?
Q. My fiance is always asking me if i'm with someone else and it sucks because i am always so honest . I feel as if it's his past that makes him insecure (his player lifestyle)..well sunday i went over to talk to him about it..and again he began with ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello. I am sorry to hear that you are having a bad time with your bf, he is not a nice person for a great girl like you to be with, he has made it clear that you are not loved by him, he is just using you as a play thing that he can just throw a... (read in full...)
She says I need to open up more, my mum says its a modern thing, who's right?
Q. I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships. I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a so...
A. 31 October 2007: hello.
No matter how much you want this woman, to be telling her all your private business, and for her to pass it on to her friends, is no way to start a relationship, you do not want to be the gossip of you town or village, you said she had a co... (read in full...)
I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?
Q. hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...
A. 31 October 2007: Hello Anon.
I am sorry to hear that you have gone through this terrible event, at such a young age, my heart goes out to you, i do not know if you have seen a councilor, if not then that would be a good place to start.
the only way i now how to... (read in full...)
I come fourth in his order of priorities. Shouldn't I be first?
Q. we broke up and now he said when were together for the last 2weeks i wasnt his top piority , he sed his life was in the order of Job , Mates , Football , Me and then he asked for me back i asked why he said that "because everything else was dragging ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hello shoe_lover.
Glad you wrote in, lets get you cheered up, bad news he lost you because you came 4 on a list what a plank, you should have been number ONE, if you are in a relationship you should ALWAYS, ALWAYS be the number ONE on lists, i... (read in full...)
I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?
Q. Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hello Jessie.
Do not blame you one bit, time for you to go out and enjoy yourself, if your boyfriend has been away for over a year, then you deserve to treat yourself,i really do not know how your going to manage for another 6/7 years, i hope all... (read in full...)
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