How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello again,
thank you for you response, my heart really goes out to you, i now some of the things i said may have seemed a little harsh, i really was concerned that you were not coping, which i really understand, i was afraid for your health a... (read in full...)
Why do footballers wave at me?
Q. ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello Anon. when they started writing these letters in i believed the same as you, but when the letter keep coming in and over 25 people have advised them, then they still keep writing in ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom I want to live with my dad instead?
Q. Right now I live with my mom and step dad. I would like to go live with my dad who lives 2 hours away from my current house. The problem is i don't know how to tell my mom I want to move in with my dad... I know I really want to move in with my dad ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
The best thing to do is talk to your dad first to make sure that it is alright for you to live with him, if he says yes, then ask his advise about telling your mother, he knows your mother better than i do and will know how she is going to... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't comfort me when I am sad
Q. i have been with my boyfriend just under 3yrs,recently i was very upset crying uncontrolably yet my boyfriend just sat there and totaly ignored me,he said he loves me more than anything yet how can he sit and ignore me like that?if it was him ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
as a male i agree with you he should have cuddled you, but not all people are the same, he may have wrongly believed that if he had of approached you, he may have made matters worse, some guys think in this vain and will let you cry alon... (read in full...)
I'm embarrased because I have small breasts
Q. I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
you really dont want to worry about this, it is not really a problem, you are going on 15, people develop at different stages you will still be growing, i now it is a long way off, but you still have until you are 18 before you stop gro... (read in full...)
Does he want me just for sex, or is there a future?
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not read...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
Sorry sweet heart, it looks as if he does not want any relationship with any one, he is just out to get his sexual pleasure with any girl who is just around, sorry.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said he needs to sample the single life before we marry, now he's sleeping around, I love him but should I wait?
Q. Ok I am in an odd situation... I've been with my boyfriend since high school and we have a great relationship we don't have many big fights. We are both second year university students now and he and I have been talking about the possibility of ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
because this guy is cheating on you, it is better not to wait for him, if you did get married you would only divorce him if he continued in this vain, think its time for you to find some more loyal who cares and considers your feeling.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can be with him at 17 or not.
Q. I like this guy who is 32 but i am only 16 and we have checked the law and it says that we can be togeather when i am 17 but i dont know if its right? Is it right?...
A. 5 November 2007: Hello.
there is no such things as age, if you truly love some one and they love you back thats great, there can can be a small problem to consider, he is twice your age and that means when you reach 32 the prime of woman hood, he will be 64 ready... (read in full...)
Why is age of consent in UK lower than age to view porn?
Q. I was wondering why the legal age for sex in britain is 16 but most porn films are 18. It doesn't make sense. Does anyone know why this is? ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
In the old days when we had censorship you could not watch porn until you were 21+, now that things have changed a bit the censorship law changed, even thou the gov changed dropped the age of consent, they decided that 16 was not the appr... (read in full...)
It would make it worse if she found out from someone else.
Q. I hooked up with my friends boyfriend about two months ago while they were still dating, we did it twice and continued doing it even after they broke up. The deal was we would never ever tell anymore. I was at a party last night and I told about six ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
I believe now that you have told other people, it is time to come clean, there is no such thing as keeping secrets, people are very bad at it,would be better all round if you told them first, when it comes out the people involved will be ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can trust him
Q. hi am dating with a guy but he lives in the u.s.a ,he is an african and he wants to marry me but am not sure if i can trust him or not .... please help me...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
Because your home Country is Gambia, and your boy friend is in U.S.A, if you do not have friends or family in the States, then i would be concerned that you are leaving the safety of your home land, if he should fall out with you at any s... (read in full...)
I'm confused and love her so much.
Q. Hi Everyone. If it's ok, I need advice on a relationship I have been having. I am 14 years-old and a freshman in highschool. Basically, somehow now I have a relationship with my 25 year-old science teacher. I'm not complaining though because I ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hi RCN
As you may know the law in UK, states that a person under 16 is classed as a minor, over 16 is classed as an adult,what are the law in the same subject in USA or is it a state by state laws, it is to do with a private question i recieved... (read in full...)
I broke up with him, but I don't want to lose him. Do I take him back?
Q. I recently discovered that my boyfriend posted an ad on an online personals column. I broke up with him. I don't want to lose him. I am losing my mind. He says he loves me. Should I go against the advice of all my friends and my ther...
A. 4 November 2007: hello.
If you have seen a therapist about your problem, then i would go by what ever suggestions that he has made to you, i dont think that any on this site would say anything against advise a therapist has already given, so i am unable to help ... (read in full...)
Is my previous guy self-harming or just seeking attention?
Q. Hey, this is just some thing thats been playing on my mind. Yesterterday I saw a previous boyfriend at a club i do, he had blood all over his hands and i asked him what was wrong. He said he was really depressed and cut himself, due to all his f...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
Self harming is an actual illness, there are different reason why people resort to self harming, your friend needs medical attention for this condition and must be seen soon by a Doctor or a councilor, this is not a a simple question... (read in full...)
Why do footballers wave at me?
Q. ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing ...
A. 4 November 2007: thank you again.
sorry that you seem to be as upset as you are, if you have a real problem, something that is giving you grate concern in your life, that affect you deeply, write back to me on this page and hope fully we can discuss it, i dont wan... (read in full...)
Have I gone too far?
Q. Hi i'm 20 years old, happily engaged to an amazing girl and have a daughter that I love so much. I work behind a bar in a busy nightclub and recently a new girl has started her and no matter how hard I try I cant keep her out of my head, and with ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
Some times when people work together they grow attached to each other, which is not a bad thing, but you both seem to have taken this a stage further, horse play is not really a good thing between work mates or friends, because of the resp... (read in full...)
Should I keep holding on to him when he's with this other girl?
Q. I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He tells me that ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
I now it is difficult to be in this situation, but you must remember that you did break up for a reason, then he has another GF, who he is still with, sorry to say you were right, when in your letter you said, 'he is with this other gi... (read in full...)
He won't help himself!
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. we have not had sex for almost 6 mos. I do not know if I should leave him or what. I have tried to talk to him about it but he won't talk. he has gained some weight since we started dating but he ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
Because there are problems in your relationship in stead of talking them through, he has taken to comfort eating, i must admit it is the first time i have heard a man do this?, you really do need to talk about this, instead of facing h... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my brother is 17, what should I do?
Q. i m 16 years old. my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do....
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
Has my friends have said you really need to tell your parents, this behavior is not normal for your older brother to be saying this to you, he really needs help, dont keep it to yourself you must tell some one.... (read in full...)
Are relations about sex or love?
Q. earlier my families were planning for me to have arranged merraige and now they seem like they drop the subject as a result i stayed vergin till now. the thing is i don't know how to choose the first guy to have sex with plus my past ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
i think when you meet some one you really admire, and you get on really well together, and you have a lot in common, the first emotion should be love, when you are in love with some one it is the greatest felling in the whole world, t... (read in full...)
Should I hold on when he has another girl?
Q. Dear Cupid, I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
You may not believe this, we receive letters like your every day, and i find it sad that people can treat people in this way, he already has a girlfriend, and for some reason he want sex with you and that is all, nothing else, he is tryin... (read in full...)
Why do footballers wave at me?
Q. ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing ...
A. 4 November 2007:
I have only been on this site for two weeks plus and in the logs on machine it say,me and my mate stood at school gate near foot ball ground, a bus went by people waved at us what does that mean
me and my mate stood at school gates two bloke wa... (read in full...)
I am miserable, should we go for counseling?
Q. I have been with my partner for seven years. We got into a civil partnership last year. But everyday I wake up, I have more and more doubt about this relationship and I feel more and more distant from him. He goes down to a local pub every nig...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello
I am sorry that you are having these problems, it is not your fault, when people become partner they should take the relationship seriously,it seems in your case he is not, i believe that couples should share there duty's together, but he s... (read in full...)
What's going on in his head.
Q. I met a guy about 6 weeks ago, and had a fantastic evening, just seemed to get along great... we have been randonly texting since, he decided not to talk to me for a while, but we met up again a week ago.. We seemed to click an start where we left ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello Carley.
In agree with Anon, this guy sounds like a player if you get involved with him he will ruin your life, he will get everything he can out of you, he will use you in a sexual way, then when he feels like it he will break your heart an... (read in full...)
I need help finding my biological father.
Q. hiya! Well i really need your help, you see i want to find my biological father bt i dont have any idea as to where i start! I'm not sure i want to ask my mum incase she gets upset. Please help! xx...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
This is a very hard task for you to take upon yourself, it is very difficult to find some one who is not looking for you, i do not want to hurt your feeling but some times there are reasons they cannot:they may have passed away and your mot... (read in full...)
Why do footballers wave at me?
Q. ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing ...
A. 4 November 2007: Hello.
you want like what i think, in the past eight days you have written in with three, stories of men waving at you, the story about people taking your photograph, there was a third one but i cant remember at the moment, you two must have a g... (read in full...)
What do I do, what is she thinking?
Q. I've got a scenario i hate... When i'm at work there's this girl i like and we've been friends for a while, but we've got on so well i really like her. Only thing is she's got a bf who is supposed to be marrying her in 2 years. We laugh a lot and ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
some times woman like to have a close mail friend, and men always think this is some kind of come on, she must really enjoy knowing that you are there for her, but i am afraid that is as far as it will ever go, if you value her friendsh... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling this way so I don't destroy a friendship.
Q. I am a non stereotypical (that is non-queer culture scene) gay 21 year old guy and I am completely in love with my straight, albeit open minded, best friend. We kissed once, but he has a girlfriend and prefers women. We often speak about how I feel, ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
i think because your friend is straight and has a girlfriend and he admires woman,i am afraid he see you as a good friend, you will either have to accept that he wants a relationship with woman, or you will have to break your friendsh... (read in full...)
What is he waiting for?
Q. hey cupids, i know this guy likes me im sure we flirt a lot through texts and msn even in school, wich funny because people are getting suspicious and some already jealous. But the problem is ive waited enough and i feel sooo stupid when he asks me ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
I think he likes you, he see you as a very good friend, but i think deep down there could be there could be a bit more, why i think you should be cautious thou, because he has turned you down once,(his big mistake)i think the only way for ... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hi Anon
Thank for your reply, it looks as if were not the only ones with this problem, hope your over yours, and life is better know without him.
thanks you.... (read in full...)
It's easy for everyone to say just get rid of him.
Q. Hey. My boyfriend and I were going out for 7 months and he finished me. We'd split up twice before but this time it was different. Everyone said he'd cheated on me. He admitted it to his friends but denied it to me. The friday before we split up...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
I see your problem it seems that you are in love with this guy, and all he does is treat you badly,I now it is hard for you to give him up, but sweetheart, he is no good, he is cheating on you, standing you up, and totally an immature... (read in full...)
Is this a deal breaker, or not?
Q. Hi, I think I'm falling in love with my girl, but I am afraid that eventually she will end up hurting me indirectly because she is often cold and unaffectionate. She says it's unintentional, the way she is, and perhaps she will change as we grow ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
It seems that you are falling in love with her at a faster rate than she is with you, it would be a good idea to slow down, be the best friend that any one could be to her, and in time things may change between you, but if you have any rese... (read in full...)
Is she waiting for me to make a move or not?
Q. This is a long story but I will paraphrase the best I can I have been friends with this girl for almost 13 years and have had a thing for her for almost 8 years. We lost touch for a few years but have got back together almost 1 year ago. Things...
A. 3 November 2007: hello.
If she has been out of a relationship for only a couple of months then she will be weary of starting another relationship, especially if she was hurt during this time, i think you should consider yourself very lucky that she is kissing ... (read in full...)
I want to make my family work, but I don't know if I can anymore.
Q. I feel torn right now because one minute I want to leave my husband and the next I don't want to break our family up. We have been together 14 years and have 4 children together. We argue way too much and don't see eye to eye. We don't make eno...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello dtks.
I come from a large family and know what you are going through, finance is always a worry , trying to make ends meet is difficult,I really think you should tell your husband that you are not happy that he keeps running to his friends ... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello mini Girl.
I am pleased that you have done the right thing by leaving him, he was really no good for you both, i am also sorry that he is using this, all your fault attitude toward you, (never learns does he) it will at this time be in your ... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: Dear Annon.
Thank you for you response, yes i do know what is its like. i found by wife in my bed with a younger bloke, thats why i Divorce her,the point i was trying to make was that is over now and to keep going over and over it is not doing he... (read in full...)
He can ignore me for days and speaks only when it suits him! I feel unloved and used.
Q. oh someone please please give advice as soon as... i am in a relationship with a man for 1 1/2 years. In the beginning he moved in and did pay his way for 3 months, he lied about a lot of things and it has now ended up with his family hating me a...
A. 3 November 2007: Dear annon.
I am sorry that you are suffering through this problem, this guy is a total looser why are you putting up with him and his family treating you this way, there is NOTHING wrong with you, he is the one who is ILL, how can another ... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me, feeling humiliated I was successful while he was not. How do you forget your first love?
Q. Dear Cupid my boyfriend broke up with me for a reason that is way unbelievable, his reason was I had a future and his life was a trash, because of this I humiliated him, but then I apologized; after this I heard from my friend that he was cour...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
They always say that revenge is a dish that is better served cold, and i have always believed that the person who made this statement must be very bitter and twisted, why at your age are you asking for this information, you are lucky th... (read in full...)
I don't know which way to turn, can you help?
Q. I am currently off sick from work, the reason, stress and anxiety. due to my boss, she just hates me and life has become so uncomfortable. I am being bullied and victimised all the time and dont know which way to turn. can anyone help....
A. 3 November 2007: Hello annon,
i would just like to correct one thing advise is ok, but i am a him not an her.
Thank you... (read in full...)
Does he fancy my best friend, does he fancy me - or both of us?
Q. i am 11 years old and this boy used to fancy me untill i said i didnt fancy him and now he fancies my best friend-but the thing is-he still comes to me and my best friend and annoys us.sometimes he even follows us around.in most classes,i sit next ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello.
Because you have turned him down sorry to say it looks as if he is more that likely trying to go out with your friend, you really need to see how he acts with your friend when she is on her own, then you will now through his reaction... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 3 November 2007: hello again.
It is time you pulled yourself together,you really do need to see a doctor or some type of medical person, you keep going on about this 18 year old girl but she is not the problem right now YOU ARE, all the ifs, buts, and dont now... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 3 November 2007: Hello mini girl.
I am really pleased that you have had the courage to leave him, he would have in the end made both your live in a mess,
I wish you all the best and hope you both have a wonderful life with out him.... (read in full...)
Age differences and health problems
Q. Iam 28 years old and the man I love is 51 years old. Iam healthy but he has health problems: crohn's disease, arthritis etc. He has some pain almost everyday. If we were to get married would this be a problem down the road? He is financially stable ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
It depends what your motive is toward this guy, if your just there for the money then by all means marry him. his illness will not get any better over time, and he may end up in a wheel chair in the end, so must decide which is best for... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 2 November 2007: Hello again.
you have admitted that you have depression, for a longer period of time than i had realized, you could leave the situation if you wish but that will not help your depression in any way,you and your children need to be supporte... (read in full...)
I don't know which way to turn, can you help?
Q. I am currently off sick from work, the reason, stress and anxiety. due to my boss, she just hates me and life has become so uncomfortable. I am being bullied and victimised all the time and dont know which way to turn. can anyone help....
A. 2 November 2007: Hello.
Stop worrying for moment I have an email address for you they deal with cases just like yours, you must inform them of all the events of that are happening to you, and you must inform then of your sickness due stress you are going through,... (read in full...)
How can I get over his betrayal with a teen lover?
Q. I'm depressed and upset about my husband and his affair with an 18 year old girl. I've stressed about it since I found out 4 months ago. I can't stop thinking about it and crying. I had my new baby 6 weeks early due to all this trauma. The birth was ...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
I am sorry to hear that your life is not as happy as it should be, and the actions of your husband, you really seem to be going through post natal depression at this time, you should go to doctor and get yourself treated for this conditio... (read in full...)
My hubbie is controlling, we have a 4 yr old daughter, if I leave it will be all my fault , or so he says, help me!
Q. I have been married for 7 years now and I must say my life with him has been a roller coaster. I have never really felt "in Love" with him.(this I think was because of my age when we got together and the fact that I was very insecure) Sex is awful...
A. 2 November 2007: hello.
i rely feel for you and your daughter,people who control their spouse are a kin to a play ground bully,they bully you enough so that you do not know your own mind, he his trying to convince you that no matter what you think, say, and do y... (read in full...)
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