I met a girl and she was amazing. I have a boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but wish to continue seeing the girl.
Q. I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
you should really make your mind up what you want to do,even thou you are having sex with another girl you are cheating on your boy friend, would not say that you were gay, rather you are bisexual,there is nothing wrong with this if you are,... (read in full...)
Why is it that at the age of 21 I've never had a boyfriend, been kissed or had sex?
Q. I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi,
this is a refreshing change to hear that someone has not done the things, that most people write and complain about, good for YOU,do not worry, you have not come across that special person yet, the one who will whisk you off your feet,and... (read in full...)
Should we / How do we talk about sex?
Q. I just told my bestfriend that my boyfriend (of 6 months) rubbed my boob while we were making out. She immediately asked how I felt about it and I told her it was just for fun at the moment I wouldn't let it lead to anything, sex isn't an option for ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi
In your case i would talk to your bf,and gently tell him that you are happy that he is your bf, (of course i am assuming that you are)and set a couple of ground rules, for example only, you dont mind kissing but you dont want him to make con... (read in full...)
Part of me tells me not to risk it, but the other part tells me too.
Q. I've been talking to this wonderful girl. We seem to get along well and we seem to be attracted to each other. The thing is that we plan on getting together on Monday where I will be driving up to where she lives. The plan on is getting a room and ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
the dangers of having unprotected is really a bad idea, sorry to say that pregnancy is not your only problem, i am not saying anything about your girlfriend, because i do not now her,the worst thing that can happen is that you may pick up ... (read in full...)
Someone that has never met me or talked with me, likes me.
Q. My best friend's 3rd cousin likes me. Ive never met him but she tells me he really likes me. Also he is 13, in grade 9 and I'm in grade seven and i just turned 12 today! Should i meet with him?...
A. 26 October 2007: hi Zena.
This is my opinion only,I think the first thing you should do is go out with him as a friend,wait to find out what his intentions are before you start dating him,there is a very big difference between being a close friend, and dating, ... (read in full...)
We were engaged, but we split. He has another girl now, will he ever come back to me?
Q. My fiance and i split nearly 2 weeks ago he sed he had to go and sort his head out he did it wen i was away the last night we spent together he sed he loved me and still wants to be with me all e did was kiss and cuddle me all the time. e went and ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
I think that you are asking yourself the wrong question,you should be asking why should i be taking this two timing engagement ring seller back, you must be a real glutton for punishment, first he wants you to end the relationship with you... (read in full...)
He says he is working but I see him online! I want this to work but feel he is lying.
Q. okay, back with my bf. he seems to be pretty honest, but he works at a fast food place (cuz hes 16. im 14-he dated a variety of ages so dont lecture meee please) well for someone who works 4-9 how could he be on myspace at 7?? i dont understand ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi Soft ball player,
I agree with tux, this problem is bothering you so much, when you see your boy friend next you should have a quit word with him, and ask what is going on, maybe your server is acting up but what ever the reason, for your own... (read in full...)
I'm not getting any younger, where can I meet someone?
Q. Friend's tell me I should try to get out and have fun but god at my age I don't really know where to go..Thinking about just taking more classes this semester. I mean I work in a bar and am in college, I find when I am home,I clean and worry about ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
I hate to say this but at your age,30 plus your still young, good grief woman, most woman from 30 onwards are in the prime of there lives, I think even thou you already have an active life, you should put some time a side get out there, e... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he's an alcoholic! I don't know what to do!
Q. i think my bf is an alcoholic he drinks every night when he gets home from work at about 4 o clock and if he hasnt got any hewill not go with out he will go and buy some please help i dont know what to do only good thing in this situation is he isnt ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
your bf, really needs to see Dr, councilor, he needs to join A.A. meetings, but the hard part is getting him to see that he has a problem, have you discussed this problem with him, if not try to, Alcoholics never admit they have a problem,... (read in full...)
Someone that has never met me or talked with me, likes me.
Q. My best friend's 3rd cousin likes me. Ive never met him but she tells me he really likes me. Also he is 13, in grade 9 and I'm in grade seven and i just turned 12 today! Should i meet with him?...
A. 26 October 2007: hi Zina.
I think you should make friends with the 3rd cousin, but lay a few ground rules down, make sure he is only after your friendship and not wanting you to do anything that you do not want him to do,have fun enjoy yourself but do not let your... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's 24, I'm unsure if this relationship will last.
Q. hi.I am 16 years old gir,and I am going out with 24 old boy.I don't think that the year difference make our relationship immposible,there are another reasons.First reason that makes us separated for a time is that he is always on move.Today is in my ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
I wonder if you do love him or you are just court up like the other girls in the fact that he is rich and has a great car,i really do not think this relationship will work, i mean no disrespect to you, maybe because of his wealth he has alre... (read in full...)
I love him! BUT! He's still in love with his ex who doesn't love him, What can I do?
Q. im badly in love with a boy and weve done things together but he still loves his ex (who isnt interested in him). My mates dont like this boy so I havent told them how i feel about him they have no idea how i feel neither does the boy know i love ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
he is already in love with his ex,only a crazy person would get involved with this relationship, weather she loves him or not is nothing to do with it, he loves her and your coming in between that is a like a rail crash waiting to happen, ... (read in full...)
I want to meet up with this guy, is he blowing me off?
Q. Last week I e.mailed this guy I'd met vaguely through work colleagues, and asked him out for a drink. He mailed me back and we sent another couple of messages, and he said he'd phone at weekend. He didn't! I e.mailed him 3 days later, very ...
A. 26 October 2007: hi.
It seems that he is not man enough to tell you, that he is not interested, the reasons he has given you are very lame, would not bother any more your wasting your time and should be finding some one who does want to go out with you, dont was... (read in full...)
I really like him and he says he doesnt. Should I kiss him anyways?
Q. I like this guy and I sent him a note asking if he liked me....but he cheked no.....and i still really like him and so does my friend but he said he doesnt like her either......and I still realllly reaaaaaly like him....should i just go up to him ...
A. 25 October 2007: hi
bad idea babe, dont like to hurt your feeling but, if you do this, will only give you heart break, he will never let you live it down.... (read in full...)
Am I overweight, too skinny or just right?
Q. Look, Im 14 and Im 5ft1/61 inches/155cm and weigh 101 pounds/7 and a half stone. Am I overweight, too skinny, or just right? be honest please....
A. 25 October 2007: hi.
5 foot 1inch, 71/2 stone, yes i would say thats very good babe, dont go any lower. ... (read in full...)
He's treating me bad, and I don't know what to do.
Q. he was my fiance and my all life.i live in this world only for him i cant do anything cant eat or drink or get out until he called me. our love story spend 5 years and he loved me so much and was struggle for me with his family until he came to my ...
A. 25 October 2007: Dear Haneen, I am sorry that darkness has fallen up on you, it sounds as if your boy friend has sold you out,there is nothing you can do but hope and pray that you meet some one who will love you more, you must eat and drink for you have a wonde... (read in full...)
Is he mad at me?
Q. hi. i need advice i have this guy..i love him so much, i would think too that he did it the same..later this days i was ignored, he seldom do texting and calling me now unlike before he usually does, im really upset everytime i was ignored im ...
A. 25 October 2007: hi.
Before you get any angrier than you are now, you should if possible see him face to face and ask him why he has not responded to you, it is no good guessing what the problem is, until you find out the reasons why he is doing this to you.
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They both like me, I'm confused.
Q. HI, I have a problem. Never before in my life have I ever felt like this before, but now I do. I like two different guys and I don't really know why. I usually like one guy, or I have a boyfriend or something, but right now there are two guys I ...
A. 25 October 2007: hi.
I would not loose the friendship you have with the guy you have know for a long time, i think you should give the new guy a chance, found out as much as you can about him then compare the two guys , see what you have in common with each oth... (read in full...)
She bails without warning, Why does she act like this?
Q. Alright so I'm wondering what the deal with this girl is... Just about every weekend now for 5 weeks she's asked me to go out with her on the weekend, and every weekend she blows me off. We hooked up 5 weeks ago, and I hear she likes me, I lik...
A. 25 October 2007: dear JM 81690.
It sounds as as if she is playing you, you do not need this type of person in your life, you would be better off not talking to her because of the pain she is putting you through, you really do not want her putting your hopes up... (read in full...)
I still love my exboyfriend but he has a gf
Q. i am 15 year old i am still in love with my x boi friend but he has a a girlfriend now but he allways tells me he still likes me i dont no what to do no more cos sum tyms he aks like he still cers but uver tym he just pusshes me away he i feel l...
A. 25 October 2007: hi Babii Girll,
he has a new girl friend and i think hes more than likely to be happy with her, he does like you as a friend, that is why he clowns about with you, because he has a girl friend, i think you should be very careful what you in fact ... (read in full...)
The next day he played with my hair and didn't mention the gifts.
Q. there's this guy in my class. we've been ok friends. all of a sudden he starts ignoring me. then i asked him what went wrong. he said that this other guy i'm talking to is his enemy and we looked like good friends, so he didn't want to come between ...
A. 25 October 2007: hi.
i now this may sound a bit strange, but when i read your letter i have come to this conclusion, he asked you if he was,good looking enough, and if he had a girl friend, he would sing her his song, think i have got it right so far.
why he ... (read in full...)
I want to meet him, but I also want to do the right thing.
Q. Dear cupid I am 29 and I met a really cute, sensitive and ravishing guy who said he was 18 online. We exchanged pics, spoke on the phone and chatted on Msn a lot. Then we planned to meet up next Sunday, and he suggested we could go for a walk in...
A. 25 October 2007: hi,
if this guy is seventeen then he is at the legal age of consent, you will not be breaking the law, he is accepted as an adult, so you have nothing to worry about on that score.
The thing that does bother me is that he lied to you about his... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm easy?
Q. Hi i'm 20 and i met this guy at uni...for the whole year we've been doing the whole eye contact, showing up at the usual places, small wave and a smile sort of thing and only at the end of the year we actually got together. We hung out and had a ...
A. 25 October 2007: Dear anon.
i think after a year of getting to know each other, this kiss will not be taken out of context, it was just two people sharing a moment together, maybe he wanted to ask you out earlier, but was not sure of your reaction, and when you... (read in full...)
I don't want to ask her again.
Q. what shall i do. I love this girl so much. I kept it to myself for a year now. And i've asked her out just as friends but she always escapes the situation without sayin yes or no. And i feel weird askin her again because i feel she doesn't wanna go. ...
A. 25 October 2007: hi.
i think the only way you can find an answer to your question, is to ask her again, if she does not answer you them say , i really do need to know if you will go out with me, or would you rather just we stay friends, depending what she will rep... (read in full...)
Any ideas as to how to get him to hug me?
Q. im 15 and the guy i like is 17, he can flirt with me a bit but we are genrally just friends, he doesnt know i like him as more. I used to be closer to him and he always used to hug me etc, but we have since grown apart. getting closer again i am won...
A. 24 October 2007: hi. maybe he is not sure weather to hug you, in case you do not want him too,so when you are some where to together just put your arms around him , give him a big hug, see what his reaction is, then take it from there. good luck... (read in full...)
Don't say give it time
Q. Hey im almost 16 i was with a guy who was 17 for almost 7 months. Due to reasons that were partly my fault he broke up with me about 3/4 weeks ago. It was a bit of a messy break up and we both said some nasty things. I've apologised and even tri...
A. 24 October 2007: Dear Anon.
Relationships are very complicated as you are aware, because you have been together for seven months it is harder for you to brake away emotionally, it is true that time will only heal your heart, there really is no other answer t... (read in full...)
Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship
Q. i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, ...
A. 24 October 2007: Dear Colieneeds.
Judging by the facts you have stated,I believe your partner is suffering from a depressive disorder, you should really have her treated for this condition, before she really gets out of hand and does something really destruct... (read in full...)
Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years
Q. I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds ...
A. 24 October 2007: hi.
i am sorry you are going through this stress right now, i can only suggest two thing to you, go to your doctor to discuss medication to calm your nerves down,it seems you are rightly anger by this situation, but do not keep getting angrier,... (read in full...)
The differences between males and females
Q. Why is it that men are nearly always responsible for crimes. Not just murders and roberies but also child abuse. Yet oddly the ones who can be the most vile are actually women (cat fights and veral abuse). Can anyone explain that?...
A. 24 October 2007: Dear anon
if your theory is correct then can you, tell me why there are as many woman in prison as there are men, do not know which part of U.K that you live but there are plenty of woman sex offenders, baby killers and the like in UK prison, ... (read in full...)
Can we get back together?
Q. Hi i really need some good advice. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a year and a half, then two months ago i broke up with him, although now i regret it so much becasue i was just confused and i didn't really know what i wanted. I told him ...
A. 24 October 2007: Dear Anon.
I would like to say i am sorry that you are so very up-set at this time,you are not the problem here, your boyfriend has made his own mind up about your relationship,you said he had told you 'He did not want to be in a relation... (read in full...)
Should I give him another try or do I just keep moving on with my life?
Q. I have been seeing a man for 9 nine months and about four months ago, after I told him I loved him, he told me that there was nothing between us except a physical relationship and that he liked me a lot but didn't love me and did not see that he ...
A. 23 October 2007: Dear Anon.
if this guy say he does not love you and never will, then that is what he will do, it seems that you are available for him when ever he phones, instead of going out and finding yourself a genuine boyfriend, of course he is going to... (read in full...)
Need some assurance that my time will come
Q. Hi Everyone, I am an 18 year old male living NE Philadelphia and I have a few questions coming across my mind. Recently I moved to a completely new city and somewhat started a new life. I started making friends around my neighborhood and...
A. 23 October 2007: dear Drue.
You have all the time in the world, there are loads of woman out there waiting for you, as my friend 'blue eyed angel' has said get yourself out and about were the girls are, clubs,dances, or volunteer for some project in your neighbou... (read in full...)
I love him, but I don't think I want to be with him. Please advise!
Q. I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...
A. 23 October 2007: Dear Anon.
thank you for your reply, it is nice to know we may have made a difference,i can now see by the reply you gave, that love is not the only problem that is affecting your relationship, i have always believed that once a relation... (read in full...)
I am 12, he is 28. We are in love and he says he wants me to move in with him as soon as I am 16.
Q. About a month ago I met a really sweet guy at my aunts wedding. I'm only 12 but i look alot older and people tell me i am a lot more mature than my age. He's 28 and he works with my aunt. Pretty much everyone in my family knows him and they all seem ...
A. 23 October 2007: hi Anon.
When you are in love it is the most wonderful feeling in the world, i know this because i have had all the feelings that you have know for another human being, but i was 22 then and a mature adult, and knew my own mind, i am afraid y... (read in full...)
Why would he be such a monster?
Q. What makes a guy who want to have sex with a girl but she refuses and instead he forces her to do oral sex instead. What are the implication or reasons for his action....
A. 23 October 2007: hi anon.
these type of people are wont take no for an answer, these are no good people to be with, do not understand why you did not just walk out, he is a bully and will not not take any notice of any one or their feeling, get away from this per... (read in full...)
He's got a great personality, but not great looks. Should I give him a chance?
Q. Hi i have a big problem as this guy likes me i told him that i liked him too, but i dont i was drunk when i said it now he never stops ringing or texting or IM me. I want to give it a try with him hes got the best personality ever but his looks are ...
A. 23 October 2007: hi anon.
Looks are not everything in life, and finding people when you are drunk is not the best way to start a relationship,if you have no feeling for this bloke, it is best you come straight out and tell him, he is wasting his time, or he will ... (read in full...)
I love him, but I don't think I want to be with him. Please advise!
Q. I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...
A. 23 October 2007: hi Anon.
Because of the break up that you have gone through, you have lost your feelings for your bf, but something must have happed with your emotions to break up in the first place.
It seem that you like him in most area of your relationshi... (read in full...)
I will let him touch my breasts but am worrid this will not keep him happy enough and he will leave me!
Q. I am seeing this guy i really like there was this story where he fingerd my friend befor we were seeing each other becoz of the fact i am 13 and he is 15 i am worrid that he wants to have sex but i am not ready he keeps on putting his hands on my ...
A. 23 October 2007: hi Anon.
Good for you a person who nows her own mind, if you are not ready for him to take your relationship any further than hugging or kissing, then that is up to you, you should talk to your bf and set some ground rules, make sure he understa... (read in full...)
Do you think I should txt his ex and tell her to back off?
Q. my bfs ex constantly txts him at least 4x a week, i have looked through his phone on occasions because i'm convinced he still has feelings for her. He has tried to reassure me that they are not right for each other, but if this is the case why all ...
A. 23 October 2007: hi Hotty.
Because you have spoken to your bf, and he was angry with you then i believe it would be a bad idea to text her,this will not help the situation, the end result could be that he will leave you.
I do not blame you for having trust iss... (read in full...)
Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girlfriends, etc? Is it the release of oxytocin?
Q. Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girl friends, etc.? I've read and heard in the news a lot lately about how the neurotransmitters (oxytocin) released by the brain in women to bond wi...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear Anon.
you have fallen for the rubbish that the media puts out, if they do not now the complete story then they will make it up
men and woman all have the same emotions,if i tell some one i love them, then i would mean it with all my being... (read in full...)
He thinks flirting is a joke, but I don't. Is there a future for us?
Q. Ive just started a relationship with a friend who I have known for a year. I think our morals/values r pretty similar. However the other day I was telling him how one of my friends flirts with another one of my frineds bfs all the time. My bf didnt ...
A. 22 October 2007: Dear Anon.
I think you are blowing this situation out of proporsion, every one has a different view on flirting, i believe every ant and uncle on this page, will give you a diferrent answear to this depending on there life exsperiance.
My opin... (read in full...)
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