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She's 15 and sleeping with an older man... what can I do?

Q.   my daughter is 15 and i just found out she has been having sex with a 26 year old man and i just don't know what to do she said they are in love but she is only 15 she don't know what love is please please please help me!!!!!!...

A.   29 October 2007: hi. Your daughter is classed as a minor under UK law, the guy that she is having sex with is an adult, if you wish you can report him to the Police, because she is protected by the criminal justice system. She is to young to consent to a sex... (read in full...)

How can I find the right guy?

Q.   Hey. well, it's been like 2 1/2 years since i had a relationship. I want to get back out there. I am ready, it's just, with the guys i've liked, it never works out. Like 2 summers ago, one guy was too far away, this summer, i lost interest i...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi Anon. You seem to be having a bad time of things at the moment, not to worry thou things will soon change, i believe even thou the net is a wonderful tool, and is great for meeting and making new friends, it is not really the place to meet boy... (read in full...)

I still have strong feelings for him, but don't know what to do.

Q.   I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email fr...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi. You did the right thing, there are a couple of things you should really consider before you commit anything to him, i know that when some woman are pregnant they loose their sex drive and some males go off with other woman for that reason a... (read in full...)

Worried about looking after our 7 month old granddaughter!

Q.   my husband and i are sixty and new grandparents. Our granddaughter is 7months old and my daughter and son in law want us to look after her for five days before christmas whilst they go ski ing. We are very anxious about the responsibility of taking ...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi. I understand the worry you are going through, i think you will cope very well with this situation, if i had choice of leaving a 7 month baby with you or a dysfunctional person, i would back you every time, you will make a wonderful job of l... (read in full...)

She's 15 and sleeping with an older man... what can I do?

Q.   my daughter is 15 and i just found out she has been having sex with a 26 year old man and i just don't know what to do she said they are in love but she is only 15 she don't know what love is please please please help me!!!!!!...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi lmewards. It depends on how far you are willing to go, the up side is in UK, there are laws to protect your daughter, at 15 years of age she is classed as a Minor, and is not legally responsible for her action, But a 26 year old man (Adult) ... (read in full...)

He likes sex with me but does not want to marry me.

Q.   i badly love a guy. according to him he is also loves me. he is working in a placement services. so he called me for a job in janubry but after that we didn't have any contact. in may he was again calling me for a job. after that we was talking on ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi Anon. I am sorry to say that he is using you for his own sexual pleasure, he has no intention of speaking to his parents, or any consideration for you what so ever, you do not really want to be in this relationship because it is going no where... (read in full...)

He's left me in the lurch - what do I do now?

Q.   my boyfriend friends convinced him that i've been cheating on him he has been suspicious ever since and accused me of many things that I wasn't doing at all. i never cheated on my boyfriend but he doesn't belive me. i'm now 7 weeks pregnant he left ...

A.   28 October 2007: Dear Anom I am very sorry to hear that you have been put into this situation, friends sometime through envy make up stupid story to their mates, because they are jealous of the relationship the friend is going through, he does not deserve either o... (read in full...)

I am so depressed when I'm not with him - please help me

Q.   Me and my boyfriend ryan are 15 and we have been on and off goin out with each other for about two and a half years. I have tried going out with other lads but i end up finishing with them because i like ryan too much. Just recently i went ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi Xsweetxcheeksx. You really do not want to bother with a cannabis smoking junkie, you are too wonderful a person to be worrying about this looser, must be something loose in his head giving you up for the weed, and some one who is old enough t... (read in full...)

We have oral sex but she doesn't want a relationship. What should I do?

Q.   my girlfriend broke up with me 1month ago.she say's she is not happy and I am not the one. we have been talking on the phone 3 times a week. We decided to go out we went shopping then dinner then to my house we had oral sex. But she still says ...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi TC. well what a position to be in you both love each other,are having a relation, wont commit to you, maybe you should keep your relationship going , she is not totally as yet able to take your relationship any further, i would not rush her... (read in full...)

Is there any need to get married over co-habiting?

Q.   Hi Whats are your views on marriage vs cohabitation. Is there any need to get married? Is marriage putting your money where your mouth is or am I just old fashioned? Thanks...

A.   28 October 2007: Hi anon. In my opinion, cohabitation is still a big step to take and i think is not as stressful as marriage, people seem these day to get on a lot better living together than getting married, do not get me wrong if some one wishes to get married ... (read in full...)

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

Q.   I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi Girz 2000. You and your baby are the most important people in the world, never forget that, it is very unfair of your ex to treat you this way and even thou he is the farther of your child, you both deserve to be treated a lot better, he is an... (read in full...)

My crush has a gf, who I think doesn't deserves him! Should I forget him or wait?

Q.   MY friend has a question, and doens't have an acconnt, soo she is using mine: So i like a Guy, He's everything that i've always wanted in a guy, hes Sweet, Funny, Outgoing, fun, and just someone to talk to, hes my One of my bestfriends. we've ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi Mizz Simone. I agree with my other two friends, you will be getting yourself into a world of pain if you come between this couple, they must be happy with each other or they would not be together, the pain you will cause will never leave yo... (read in full...)

Suggestions: What would you do with your ex’s stuff? (in order to let go)

Q.   After asking for answer and help on a few websites. I reach the conclusion that I have to ditch all my ex’s stuff in order to let go. Also, not to mention my father is coming to London to stay with me. I don’t want my dad seeing all the men stuf...

A.   28 October 2007: Dear Wenders. Your sister is wrong, if the MP3 player and the chain do not have sentimental value then hang onto them, if you receive pleasure from using them. I think the correct thing to do with the clothes is pass them onto his friend, when... (read in full...)

Is she too old for me?

Q.   Simple question that has been eating at me for a few days. I met a great woman and have tons in common with her. we get along great, make good friends, talk for hours and just adore each other. We clicked instantly and i really like her. Only ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi. there is no reason why any one at any age should not go out with some one younger or older than them selfs, as long as you get on together and respect each other then there should not be a problem, it is a pity that other people always h... (read in full...)

Why do women stay with cheaters?

Q.   Why do some women stay with husbands who cheat on them....

A.   28 October 2007: hi. there are several reasons for this neither of them, i have ever been able to under stand, some woman for some reason seem to think if they leave a cheater, that they will never meet any one else and because of this they stay in a relation... (read in full...)

We don't see each other as often as we did in the beginning, do you think that is the reason why we have these silly arguments?

Q.   I am a 33 y.o. female dating a 28 y.o. male, our relationship for the most part is great, but there are times when we get into an arguement for seemingly no good reason and problems that he has with me would just come up, whereas when we are fine, ...

A.   28 October 2007: hi. When ever i have had an argument with some one i love,(which was very rarely) as long as uncalled for things have not been said, i have never stopped loving that person, most times a argument can clear the air and bring people closer together... (read in full...)

The last girl walked all over her. What to do.

Q.   Ok so i posted a question early about how i like my lesbian friend and she says she wants just friendship......Well here recently it has gotten ten times worse everytime we are around each other drinking hanging out or just chilling like me and ...

A.   27 October 2007: hi meforu. what a situation you have put yourself into, she could only be messing you about to see how far she can go with you, or it could be the weed thats damaged her remaining brain cells,or maybe she does fancy you, the only way to find out... (read in full...)

Does this age difference matter?

Q.   Hello Iam 28 years old and my boyfriend is 51 years old. Will this age difference create problems down the road if we want to get married?...

A.   27 October 2007: Hello cgmusteg. there is no problem getting married to a guy older than yourself, you will always get others who have a problem, but what do they know, if your both in love then that is wonderful,sorry to say this, the only trouble with an age g... (read in full...)

Do I need to stop this affair, how can I when I love him?

Q.   How can I stop this affair. Im so confused I've been having on off fling with a lad who is also my best friend, I'm in love with him. This would be great and would work perfectualy except he has a gorlfriend who I persuaded him to ask out around 2 ...

A.   27 October 2007: Dear Rose Thorn. I am sorry to tell you but this guy is not in love with you, if he as a girl friend, and wont leave her, then he does not love you, you really need to get away from this person, and the only way you can do that is to, tell him... (read in full...)

How long before these buises disappear?

Q.   hi...this is kind of embarrassing but ill say it anyways. My BF and i were in the back seat the other day and he started fingering me. He can usually get three fingers in but he wanted to try four so he did. The problem is it really hurt and felt ...

A.   27 October 2007: hi Anon. I really do not know what your boyfriend was thinking of, i think at this point three fingers would have been ample, you really need to talk to him and tell him what damage he has done to you, so that does not happen again. I think... (read in full...)

Should I abandon my morals to boost my self-esteem?

Q.   Hi there, I'm a Christian and seem to be have trouble in relationships. I seem to end up getting tricked and cheated on all the time. I'm honest and truthful, but seem to get tricked and played. I feel like I put a lot of effort and get little i...

A.   27 October 2007: hi. do not give up your morals or your faith, in the trying times of daily life why would you want to give all this up, for all you now god could be testing your faith right now, if it is a test of faith then it would not be a bright idea. ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend keeps allowing his mother to interfere to the point she does things to destroy us saying it's in his best interest?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and he has allowed his mother to interfer to the point we haven't been able to get married and we don't live together any more. She does things to destroy us and tells him it's all in his best interest. ...

A.   27 October 2007: HI Anon. sorry to say men like this are are usually (where i live) called Mommy's boys, they are terrified of there Mothers and what there Mommy says goes, they will never ever leave there Mother and do whatever Mommy says, you are up against ... (read in full...)

He likes me, but won't let go of his ex.

Q.   hi, good day to anyone who is reading me. i wish there is anyone out there to give me suggestions to solve my problem. my problem is i met this guy in a chat room, and after that we grew really cloze. At first it was only friendship but i think now ...

A.   27 October 2007: hi elyna. this situation is made harder because he will not move on from the old relationship,Because his thoughts are still with his ex and he wont move on, sorry to say it is doubtful that he can be in love with you, because he is still in... (read in full...)

Do you think she cheated on me?

Q.   I have no idea why this is bothering me so much. Usually this type of thing never bothers me, and I do not know why it is bothering me now. My girlfriend has always acted bi-curious, and it never bothered me. She would tell me things, like, he...

A.   27 October 2007: hi. sorry to say if you are in a relationship and one of the party has a relationship with another person, no matter which of the sexes it may be, then that is cheating plain and simple.... (read in full...)

I left him, and now he won't take me back! I want to make him crazy about me again. Please advise!

Q.   Please will a guy help me out with this or a girl which has had a similar problem, i'd really appreciate it i need your help! I initially broke up with my ex two months ago. Since then I've realised it was a huge mistake, but now he says he doesn't ...

A.   27 October 2007: hi. from my point of view, it would be very difficult, because if i was in a relationship, and my partner suddenly ended it, all the trust and love i had for that person would just vanish, the pain and suffering would prevent me from going ba... (read in full...)

Am I just a late bloomer or do you think it could be something else?

Q.   Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. I've also never had a 'normal' relationship. I was never interested, but it got weird recently seeing loads of girls my age involved in them. I had one once, but it lasted a week and I hated it. This prob...

A.   27 October 2007: hi. good grief what a lot of stress for some one your age, (I wonder if you can tell me what a normal relationship is, because even i do not now that,) you need to chill out babe, calm down go out enjoy yourself, you have plenty of time in your ... (read in full...)

I'm not convinced he really loves me... Should I stay with him?

Q.   I have been with my partner for 5 years i'm 33, he's 40 and got engaged last christmas. We have had a very happy loving relationship in this time apart from one incident on his part with another woman about 3 years ago. I forgave him and we moved on ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. it would be best if you moved on, he is giving you classic signals that your relationship is about to end, when there is talk of splitting up, and then he suddenly announces that he no longer loves you this is when a relationship is on its l... (read in full...)

Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me?

Q.   Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me? Is it a common thing that if you've told your feelings for another guy over msn and that we were very expressive, yet in person he seems nervous (maybe awkward, or defensive)? He seemed so enthus...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. I do not now why he is acting this way towards you, you've told him how you feel but he does not react to you, and you paying for the date, does not make sense, i think you are going to have to talk to him, try find out what his problem ... (read in full...)

Should I just leave it and get over it?

Q.   Okay so basically I like this guy, and he was going to ask me to prom, but because his mate wanted to ask me aswell, he laid off. Then about a month later (in july) he told me he was going to ask me but didnt because his mate said he wanted to ask ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. I think you should go for it , tell him how you feel, get him to take you out, enjoy yourself, have a really great time, and enjoy every moment together. hope it goes well for you. ... (read in full...)

Do I have the right to stand my ground??

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm the kind of guy that i don't care where my gf goes im in anohter country and i have been away from her for over a year. I'm back in 2 months but i don't think i can get passed this next obstacle. She wants to go to a Hallowee...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. boy do you have a high opinion of yourself,if she takes any notice of you then she must be the dumbest person on the planet, i do not now why she is even with you, i have a better idea let her go any ware with anyone, let her get on with her... (read in full...)

What is the right age to start having sex?

Q.   What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. I think 16 is a good age to start a sexual relationship, any younger than that and your body and mind are out of balance, yes i now its a pain adults always telling you that your to young, but believe me they are right, at 16 your mind and... (read in full...)

Do I wait for her?

Q.   Dear all will it be worth waiting for a women that I still love and she love aswell but she need to be alone we are both thinking about each other every second of the day and dont now how it will end? Take care Marco...

A.   26 October 2007: hi Marco 1. This is a hard question to answer, but will give it a go,it depends on a couple of factors:1)how much you really love each other, 2)why she feels she need to be alone,3)has she met some one else and having a trial get together... (read in full...)

Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world?

Q.   Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world? I ask because it feels like I've lost the most gorgeous woman I'll ever meet. She split with me some months back after 3 years together, and now I don't think I'm ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. yes the feelings you have are normal,i am a lot older than you and still remember the first girl i went out with, the first time we kissed and other events, when at your age i to believed i would never ever meet any one like her again, l... (read in full...)

My best friends mum

Q.   i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. you are heading for a boat load of trouble, going down this road, all the problems you are going to cause long lasting damage, and believe me you wont come out on top of this, it is one thing day dreaming about this woman, but in the real worl... (read in full...)

I have an abusive brother. Why doesn't my mum listen to me and do something about it?

Q.   Well, I know this is probably wrong to say, but I hate my brother...I mean REALLY hate; I can't stand to be around him. He's physically abused me 3/4 times 2 when I was alone with him, he mostly strangles me and chucks things at me with force, h...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. i am very sorry that you are having these problems, maybe you should talk to some one at school about this problem, a teacher or a school councilor if you have one, this is not a normal behavior for an older brother. the physical and... (read in full...)

Me and my pal tricked him into exposing himself on the webcam. How can I trust him again?

Q.   i'm 19, and the guy i was seeing is 21. we used to be good friends before all this. we started speaking on myspace after not having contact in a while.we sent flirty emails and texts and met up the following week. he came round mine and we kiss...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. I believe he had what was coming to him, and i am glad that you showed him up for what he really is, so do not feel bad about that,if he was your friend, he would not have played with you emotions in this way. You are really better of... (read in full...)

Should I just be myself?

Q.   I am seeing this guy i really like i saw him last night, he was fine with me, all chatty but when i got on MSN he ignored me, so i asked him what was wrong he said that i speak to him alot on msn but when i see him in real life, i am all shy a...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. when you are in a relationship communication is very important,i do not understand why he wants you to shout louder,if some one is trying to change you, and do not forget your only 13 (you are already having a lot of changes going on in your ... (read in full...)

He wants me but I don't want him.

Q.   to cut a long story short basically i went out with a guy during our summer holidays [around july/august time] and we split up due to non commitement from him. but now it seems he wants to be back in my life. my question is what to do as i am no...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. the only thing you can do is tell him out right,that you are now in a loving stable relationship, and are very happy and you can see no point in him trying to get back to you, he is wasting his time and you would prefer that he find himself ... (read in full...)

Is this a mid-life crisis?

Q.   i am very attracted to a young lady working in my office as an intern.i call her to my office on any excuse i can think of. We do have long conversations about any topic that comes up.We do enjoy talking to each other i believe. My problem is how to ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. no i do not think you have the mid life crises, i think you have what they call: flushing my whole life, job, career and marriage down the toilet crises,in one easy lesson. have you ever heard of the domino affect, in your case it would wo... (read in full...)

How can we fall asleep together comfortably?

Q.   okay i have a great realtionship with my girlfriend, but the problem is cuddling. she always want me to cuddle up to her before falling asleep, and i love it aswell. but we can never seem to find a comfortable position. any advice of good positions ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. What a wonderful thing to hear people who love to cuddle each other, you both must have a wonderful relationship, i used to love doing the same years ago and found it to be trial and error situation, my girl friend laid with her back to me ,... (read in full...)

Does he think more of his playstation than of me?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for four months and i thought everything was going great. At the moment he is currently temping for work so could be let go at any time. I dont feel like we're in a proper relationship. He's told me he loves me and woul...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. Your boyfriend sound a bit selfish to me,it is not nice being treated this way,he is putting his play station above your relationship, and with him sulking it makes matters worse, you will have to talk this over with him properly and ask him ... (read in full...)

I met a girl and she was amazing. I have a boyfriend and don't want to break up with him, but wish to continue seeing the girl.

Q.   I have the most perfectest boyfriend ever. We are really happy together and want to bring a child in to this world. Recently I went out with old friends and I met a girl, We had a lot in things in common, She wasnt gay niether was I. We kissed then ...

A.   26 October 2007: hi. you should really make your mind up what you want to do,even thou you are having sex with another girl you are cheating on your boy friend, would not say that you were gay, rather you are bisexual,there is nothing wrong with this if you are,... (read in full...)

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