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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a good guy friend I've recently reconnected with. We found each other online and after months of getting to know each other I felt we were going somewhere. We recently started talking and texting. I NEVER end texts with ttl, or bye or anything when it looks like the convo has ended I just let it end. All my friends seem to know this. I thought his last reply was a good end spot so I just left it. Now I haven't from him since, no online, no text, no call, nothing. After rereading the texts I think he may have taken my not responding the wrong way as he was sorta paying me a compliment. Neither one of us has ever voiced our feelings for each other, so if he's been busy and hasn't contacted me because of that I don't want to bother him and I'll just wait, but if I made it look like I'm not interested I want him to know I miss hearing from him.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (25 October 2010):
Its so easy to get your wires crossed over text message. Give him a call or arrange to meet him face to face. If he doesnt reply just send him a message saying if you offended him you really didnt mean to and you really like him.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 The last text was sent by him, your turn.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Hey I totally understand your situation cuz a similar thing happened to me..I don't really end the convos with ttyl or bye if I think the convo has a good end I just leave but many a times guys think we are not interested..well the guys usually text me after an hour and go like I am not exercising my fingers I need a reply lol..that is true tho if we want to end the convo have some work to catch up on we cld just say ttyl..I have begun to I hope u do that..cuz that is being polite and not makin the person on the other end wait..
All u could do now is send him a text sayin sorry fr the abrupt text last time,I hope ur doin good? Or something..all the best xxx
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Then send him a little "what's up" text. Just say hi and see if he responds.
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