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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm young but I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. Couldn't secure a scholarship to study in the top college and hence am still at my hometown. I'm unattractive with acne. I am penniless. I'm very upset with where I am now and how broke I am. I know some kind folks would make me feel better by comparing how much luckier I am than them but that's not what I want to hear. I am just very upset now. What should I do???
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reader, cute angel +, writes (13 July 2012):
 Well I think first off you need to set your priorities right!!what do you want to do In life?
Your in the age group of 18-21 I see so its still not too late to get a college degree..if you can pay the tuition feesthen get a degree if not I would suggest work at a place,may be at macy's,supermarkets or even babysitting kids,work for a year or two save up money and invest..
You need to work to survive,you have to pay your bills,so rather start NOW before it too late..
Good luck x
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 Sounds like it's time to set some goals. What do you want to be doing in 5 years? What things do you need to put in place to get there? To build your confidence, set yourself small goals every day, things that you know you can do. When you achieve them, you'll get a real sense of achievement then gradually you'll be able to expand your goals. You're not useless, just lacking confidence.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 What do you want to hear?
are you depressed? it sounds like it. It may be hormonal. it may be situational. it may be chemical or it may be a combination of all of the above.
best advice... see a medical professional, get a medical work up and a psych eval to determine if some therapy and medication is in order.
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reader, IamJess +, writes (12 July 2012):
 Possibly go out there and find a job/career something that will make you happy because you'll be earning money.
There's always things for acne too, go to your doctors, theres tablets that stop it and creams, and obviously make-up.
Don't be down because you feel like you aren't going nowhere in life, you can change that, and your young you need to enjoy yourself, don't need to be focusing on major things like long term at the moment.
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