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30-35,
*xx-mizzy-xxx
writes:heyy guys right yesterday me and my boyfriend was all alone at home and we were kissing and huggin and stuff like that then he pulled up my skirt and i slapped him and we argued and he called me jody{thats not my name} i am so anrgy wiv him i dont no wat to do guys can u plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): @cute angel
You act like they are strangers or something, they were kissing (right?), what do you expect? next time xx-mizzy-xxx, TELL HIM you don't want him doing anymore than kissing, i'm sure he will understand
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 well i beleive what your boyfriend DID was highly inapropriate..a guy should always respect their girlfriends..and he taking advantage of the situation was not a nice thing to do..probably he thought this would be a cherry on top with all the kissing going on lol..
but either way talk it out,tell him u felt disrespected and u will never tolerate such behaviour again!
if he doesnt understand then i have two words for u DUMP HIM
xoxo
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 I think you two need to sit down and talk about what this relationship is. He is obviously thinking that you two should be moving towards sexual things. So his move wasn't really uncalled for or wrong. Now it would be a different story if you had told him no and he continued but expect him not to make sexual advances when you two are making out is crazy. He is obviously attracted to you.
You do however need to apologize for hitting him becasue that is pretty much the worst thing you can do and I don't blame him for being angry.
Sit down and talk with him and remember this for the rest of your life. Men shouldn't hit women and women shouldn't hit men by the exact same standards. It's equally wrong for both parties.
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