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We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?
Q. I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because ...
A. 31 August 2007: you are welcome and i hope it all works out for you... (read in full...)
We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?
Q. I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because ...
A. 30 August 2007: hey hun you are really going through a hard time with this girl. but for a man to stand by her all the time through all this she has got a good man! But any ways to the problem you are having. she is 17 yrs old almost 18 years old which i dont know ... (read in full...)
Drinking can make my guy go into a rage. I've met someone nice but dont know who to be with???
Q. Hi there, I've got myself into a bit of a dilemma. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years however in the beginning of the relationship he was very wild. He used to become violent when drinking, he cheated on me, took drugs. T...
A. 30 August 2007: Honestly if you have been with your bf for 6 yrs and you two have made it this far after the cheating and the drinking, and you really care and love him then i would honeslty recommend that you two go to a specialiest and talk about your problems ... (read in full...)
Pleasuring myself makes me feel disgusting, but I know I shouldn't and that it's completely normal!
Q. Hi, i'm 15 years old and im not in any relationship, i've never been in a relationship before and i've never had sex, but the one thing im addicted to is masturbating. At first I always try and tell myself to stop but I end up doing it anyway and ...
A. 29 August 2007: hey hun, everyone at your age is touching themselves and getting them selves off, even older guys do it even when they have someone to have sex with, but it is better that you are getting yourself off instead of going out and having sex and ... (read in full...)
I moved in w/ my gf and her family. All I do is clean for them! My gf notices my attitude. What can I do about it?
Q. Hello all, I have a serious attitude problem. I have had one all of my life I think?....Atleast I've been this way to my mom and my brother for as far back as I can remember. My mom always tells me, you'll be lucky if someone actualyl stays with you...
A. 29 August 2007: hey hun, it sounds like you really need to get some help for your attitude problem. They will probly put you in anger mangement, and put you on some pills. you say you dont want to pay for it but if you love this girl and want to be with her then ... (read in full...)
I just feel 'not bothered' about socialising at the moment. This is not like me normally. Help!
Q. WHY WHY WHY?! Why do i want to be alone right now? I have lots of oppotunities to go and see friends but i just feel "not bothered" This feeling has been around for about a week now. I just want to be ALONE. It's not like me. Pleasee Pleasse...
A. 28 August 2007: hey this is normal everyone goes through this. But if it keeps bothering you in a couple more weeks then i would go to a counsilor because you maybe depressed, but just wait and see if it is longer. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is jealous of my female friend. How can i deal with this?
Q. okay well iv know this girl (lets call her lucy) from when i was little, shes only 14 and im 18. iv always been like a big brother to her an looked after her, messed around etc. and she always comes to me when she has a problem. the thing is i...
A. 28 August 2007: hey, have you ever explained to your gf what lucy means to you and why you guys are so close to each other, you shouldnt give up one person for another person. have you tried to hangout with the both of them at the same time? like ask your ... (read in full...)
My friend has been in rehab and doesn't seem to want to talk t me anymore. Is that normal?
Q. Do people get depressed and not really want to interact with others when they are trying to sober up? My friend is an alcoholic and she went to rehab and she's trying to stay sober, but I haven't heard from her and she used to call me a lot. ...
A. 28 August 2007: Hey hun, It is normal for people who came out of rehab not to want to talk to any one for a while. If she use to drink with you then she may not want to hang out with you, in rehab they tell you when you get out dont hang out with the ones you like ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for me to date her?
Q. Hi i'm 22 year old guy and i was wondering if it is ok to date a 16 year old girl. I'm really quite fond of her as i have been freinds with her family for many years, but i met her only a year ago.Though i did find her attractive, and she admitted ...
A. 19 August 2007: honestly it is not alright to be dating a girl who is 16 you can go to jail on many diffrent charges...Even if someone heard it and truned you in for it and you both say no i am not with her, or no we did not have sex they will watch you and see ... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 19 August 2007: if you are that worried about her saying something then dont do anything. but no matter what everyone your age that has sex will talk to other ppl about other guys dicks how big they are what they look like and ect. are you ready to get a job and ... (read in full...)
I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught
Q. iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...
A. 9 August 2007: You are to young to be having sex but i am not here to judge anyone. but there is a lot more to sex then you think, its prolly not what you think it is, you will not really enjoy it at your age, and now a days it is easey to get stds, hiv, and aids, ... (read in full...)
I have cuaght my daughter and my neice kissing
Q. I am in some desperate need of some help! I have a daughter who will be 7 this year, and a niece who just turned 6. They have obviously grown up together. On three separate occasions my sister and I have caught them kissing. We tried to reprimand ...
A. 9 August 2007: Hi, everybody goes through this, but just sit them down together, and explain to them it is not ok to kiss anybody, and if anyone ever kisses them they should come and tell you or your sister.... (read in full...)
How can you prevent shave bumps?
Q. I was wondering. My guy shaves down there. Everytime he shaves he get bumps and they look like pimples kind of. What can we do so he dont get that anymore cause he likes when he shaves....
A. 9 August 2007: hey hun go to walmart or any place that sales shaving things, and get the bikni bumps shave gel, it is for ladies but it works on guys to and follow the directions on it.... (read in full...)
What are the signs of an orgasm?
Q. hi i haven't had sex but my bf has fingered me and given me oral and i get a build up of energy when it feels amazing but i don't really know if i have had an orgasm. i have been with my bf for 15 months and it has bin a 'sexual' ...
A. 8 August 2007: here are some things you will get when you have an orgasm rising feeling of intense pleasure;
increase in blood pressure and pulse rate;
breathing quickens;
increase in vaginal lubrication;
clitoris becomes erect and exposed;
breasts become... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hun i am sorry to hear that. but honestly you should marrie him and have a baby you both have been together along time and you both love each other, If something does happen to him you will have a baby from him and you will know you did what you ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm!!
Q. Hiii, I have a BIG problem. I am 22 yrs old. I have been having sex since I was 16yrs old. I have never had any signs of having an organsum. I do not know what is going on with my body.It feels really good when I am having sex. It is just tha...
A. 8 August 2007: hey hun, some ladies do not have orgasams during sex, But have you had an orgasm while getting oral sex? If you havent then go and talk to your obgyn. and also if it is bothering you that much during sex then also talk to your obgyn. if you want to ... (read in full...)
Is she only trying to make me feel better? It's driving me mad thinking of her with some one else...
Q. Hello I have been with this girl for ages to cut a long story short I want to know if it's possible that if a girl isn't comfortable during sex with men that she doesn't get any feeling, my girlfriend says the lads who she was with before were one ...
A. 7 August 2007: hey hun it dont mean that she is with other guys and doing thing. sometimes when a girl is taking avange of by another guy the girl will not enjoy sex by anyone. she will feel uncomftable and other things will be going through her head of what ... (read in full...)
Anyone got tips on making hair grow faster?
Q. Does anyone out there have any tips on making hair grow faster. My hair is shoulder length and I feel like it has been that same legnth for 6 months. I want it to be at least to the middle of my back. Any advice?...
A. 7 August 2007: Have your dead ends cut and go to a hair styliest and talk to them about it they will know!... (read in full...)
Do you have to get rid of chlamydia in order to become pregnant?
Q. i wanted to know if you have chlamydia which is an sti can you still get pregnant or do you have to get rid of it first...
A. 7 August 2007: Yes you can get pregnant if you have chlamydia but it will be a little harder, you should really go to the obgyn and talk to he/she about it though!... (read in full...)
We're getting married! But all of a sudden, I'm scared that I am making a huge mistake.
Q. I'm due to be married in a few weeks time. Thing is, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing!! I really thought it was what I wanted, at first when he proposed out of the blue I was rather taken aback, and I did say yes because I couldnt exactly ...
A. 7 August 2007: hey hun i just got married in may i was the same way you are, i wanted to be married but i was scared i think everyone goes through this but the thing is you can not worrie about what if this dont work or what if this dont happen. you cant think ... (read in full...)
If he's like this now how will he be after we're married?!
Q. my fiance is doing my head in. We are getting married in 3 weeks time, and there is still lots to do, and he just isn't doing anything!! I feel like I have done almost everything, and the things I ask him to do I end up doing myself anyway because ...
A. 7 August 2007: hey hun i just got married in may to my husband and he was the same way except he did not call me names. But i would tell him to go to the store and get this and get that and he never did it right, i had to do everything myself, but a wedding is ... (read in full...)
Need perspective on what to do about this other long distance girl I still like.
Q. Hello everyone. Things finally seem to be settling down a little, at long last. It's been over a month since my long distance girlfriend of 2 years split with me, and I feel a little easier about the situation right now. We are still in cont...
A. 2 August 2007: hey hun, i have been through this long distance relationship and they are not really that good, but you should follow your heart, do you want to go on with this girl that lives miles and miles away where there is a chance that you will probly never ... (read in full...)
My straight friend snogged me today...does this mean she likes me?
Q. Hey, so i am going out with my girl Jess and i luv her to bits. i told my closest friend that i was going out with a gal (no one else nos i am gay) and she was so cool with it and she hasn't told any one. The thing is today she snogged me and and ...
A. 2 August 2007: Hey hun, sometimes people are bi or gay but they act stright because they dont know how other people will react it is a big step up to let someone know that you are gay, but once they find out that someone else is gay and they accepet who they are ... (read in full...)
I'm not lesbian so why.have I fallen for this girl at work??
Q. Hi.plzz plzz help me,ive just started new work,its been 2 months and ever since ive set eyes on this girl ive just fallen in love with her.plzz let me state that am not a LESBIAN, strictly straight but i dont know what this is. i cant get her out of ...
A. 2 August 2007: hey hun, you dont just want and go and ask her what she thinks about you, just go and talk to her about other things and after a while it will come out how she feels about you.. the feelings you are having for her could mean that you just want to be ... (read in full...)
I met this guy and he is 21, but I told my parents he's 19 and they still dont approve
Q. Hello, I met this guy, and i really really like him. and hes 21, doesnt have a car, and im only 16 and i cant drive. we tried to hang out several times but it seems like something always goes wrong, i met him like twice without something going ...
A. 2 August 2007: Hey hun, the reason your parents are probly freaking out about his age is because they are worried that he is only going to want one thing from you and that is sex, try sitting down with them and tell them that it is not about sex you just enjoy ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is on the pill but 4 hours after we had sex today she said she was bleeding, without pain. Why is this?
Q. hi. me and my girlfriend have been making love for about 7 months now. and shes on a certain pill cant remember the name., but today about 4 hours after we made love she told me she was bleeding but there was no pain, we had no idea what it was does ...
A. 25 July 2007: It would really help if you knew the name of the pill because they have some pills out there that dont give a female her period but in between months she will get spotting. But then again she could have started her period sometimes when you have sex ... (read in full...)
Why do these "average joe's" do this to me?
Q. Hi! I am a 23 year old female. I recently had an incident happen to me that I would absolutely love some advice about. First, I've never had a bf. No, I'm not some hideous monster. I'm actually quite cute, long blonde hair, blue eyes, tall,...
A. 25 July 2007: It could be possiable that he has a g/f but then again it could be possible that he had a girl say that she was his girlfriend because you keep blowing him off when ever he wanted to hangout and he is hurt about it and maybe think that you have a ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a widower of 2 years 5 months... but is he ready for a new relationship?
Q. i've been dating a 40 yr old widower of 2 years for 5 months. he still has his wife's clothes in the closet , jewelry on the bathroom counter, pictures next to the bed and wears his wedding ring......do you think he's really ready to be in a ...
A. 25 July 2007: It really does not sound like he is moving on from his wife who is gone, and It dont sound that he is ready for a relationship, Usally when a person moves on to someone else they will pack the others persons stuff up and put them in a box or give ... (read in full...)
Sweet 16 and never been kissed!
Q. I am 16 years old and have never kissed a boy or anything... 16!!! All my friends always have a bf and have so much fun and luv with them... I am ready to have a relationship and am ready to have sex when i find the right bf. i am so lonely how do i ...
A. 25 July 2007: What you need to do is find a boy that you think is attractive and that you like and there is a chance that he likes you to, and then just be friends with him for a while and get to know him and then it will move on from there. But dont be all upset ... (read in full...)
Did my girlfriend go on a "date" with this other guy?
Q. My gf was out of town and went out to dinner, then to a bar and then to a movie with a male coworker her age and single. Is this a date? hint: they have partied before...
A. 25 July 2007: I would not really say it was a date, They are just coworkers that like to go out and have fun, Dont worrie about anything inless you find reasons that she is cheating on you, then talk to her about it but if nothing is going on then just let it be ... (read in full...)
He tried to meet a girl for sex but couldn't get hold of her; I forgave him but I think he's still trying to cheat
Q. I asked for some advice some time ago regarding the fact that after two years my boyfriend hadnt introduced me to his family or friends despite me bringing up the subject frequently. I also caught him out on his phone planning to meet an old ...
A. 24 July 2007: Hi, the best thing for you to do is leave him because you have no trust in him and all you are going to do is be upset all the time and wondering if he is cheating on you, and if he wont let you meet his family then it sounds like he is hidden you ... (read in full...)
I confided to someone on MySpace that my boyfriend and I weren't doing so well and he dumped me for telling
Q. hi, my boyfriend broke up with me because i wrote to a friend on myspace that were not doing so well he got upset that i put our business out like that, i understand it was wrong but not such a big deal he still calls to say i miss u and the other ...
A. 24 July 2007: Hi, it sounds like he is just upset that you are telling other people that you are having problems, you should have went to him and talked to him about it. But what is going on with him sounds like he wants to be with you but if you are telling your ... (read in full...)
This girl I recently got to know told me she likes me; I don't feel the same way but I feel bad about rejecting her
Q. Hi Everyone, I'm sure there's been numerous topics like this but, there's this girl that's in my summer school class that I just got to know. She just told me that she liked me, but the problem is that I don't feel the same way. She confesse...
A. 24 July 2007: Hi, Just tell her that you dont want to be in a relationship with her right now because you dont know her that much and you just want to stay friends with her, but dont do it around everyone because then she will feel worse, but just get her by ... (read in full...)
No replies to text messages and he said he wouldn't be able to see me for 5 months! Should I just end it?
Q. i need some advice about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've been friends for about 10 months and been together for 7 of those! we used to get on so well. hes the nicest guy you could ever meet. im at uni so we could only see each other every 2 ...
A. 21 July 2007: hey hun, i think you should really break up with him and just be friends, or just forget about him, He may have another girlfriend on the side but who knows but if you really feel that you arent going to get upset if you leave him then do it now ... (read in full...)
We broke up and I have a problem with letting go of the man I love. Help!
Q. i have so much problem with letting go the man i love.we have been toghether for all most 2 years and we broke up almost two months now. the problem is i still love him,my heart still aches for him and i want him back so badly.i dont see anyone i ...
A. 21 July 2007: Hi its really hard to let go of someone that you have been with for a while and specially if he is your first true love, you will have the heart ache for a long time maybe even a year, but what you should do is go out with your friends and have a ... (read in full...)
Hes a flirt and I dont know if he actually likes me as anything more as a friend with benefits. Any advice?
Q. i was rejected by one of my guy friends and this made us a lot closer. now he gets jelous if i flirt with other guys and i spend loads of time with him. my friends said i should ask him out but i think hes gone on holiday now. i cant stop thinking ...
A. 21 July 2007: Hi, alot of girls your age have this problem with others, but anyways you should ask him out again if you really want to be with him, if he is gone on holiday then just wait for him to come back, or even write him a letter telling him how you feel ... (read in full...)
Having sex is painful for me. Can anyone tell me why?
Q. Hi guys, i first had sex when i was 13 (totally stupid i know!) As usual with ur 1st time it was very very painful. However i have slept with two guys since (Im 19 now) and each time it has been excrutiating!! I have usually bled for about a...
A. 21 July 2007: Hi hun, I am 18 yrs old and i have the same problem you do. I can not stand to have sex because it is painful, I have been checked and they say they cant find anything wrong, but sometimes i get really relaxed and have him on top, or even behind me ... (read in full...)
Do I leave my wife for this other woman?
Q. Hi all, I'm in a very difficult position which will probably lead to lots of judgements about me, but, here goes: I've been married (very happily married) for 6 years to an amazing woman. About 6 months ago I met a someone and we hit it off ...
A. 21 July 2007: Hi, honestly the right thing to do is to probly leave your wife seeing that you are cheating on her with this other lady, But 6 yrs is a long time to just walk off and leave her...You should really think about this cause the 4 months that you have ... (read in full...)
Update: Is six to eight bottles of alcohol a weekend-every weekend too much?
Q. i posted a question to you yesturday asking if 6-8 bottles of alcohol a weekend,every weekend was too much. firstly i would like to thank everyone who replied to my question,your advice was very much appreciated. i shown my husband the question i p...
A. 18 July 2007: I dont think that 6-8 bottles a weekend is bad at all. And honestly i would not worrie about it as long as he is not very angry when he drinks, if he just sits back and drinks and you all have a good time then i wouldnt bother with it, but if he is ... (read in full...)
Can you get AIDS from sweat?
Q. Could you get STD,AIDS,HIV from sweat or somebody elses sweat?...
A. 6 July 2007: No you can not catch nothing by sweat. Only way you can catch hiv and aids is by having sex, oral sex, spit, if you have an open cut and touch blood. And in order to get in std you have to have sex with someone who has it... (read in full...)
I respect girls and treat them right. So why won't they date me?
Q. Dear Everybody I'm 14 and surrounded by people my age with boy/girlfriends. All the boys in my year group are perverted and simply 'use' these girls to feel them up etc which is highly inaporpriate and In my opinion, very rude! I am one of onl...
A. 5 July 2007: Hun, I dont know it seems like girls now a days dont want the good guys they like the ones who touch em and do all these things with them. But then cry when they get dumped. But just be yourself cause you still have time to get a girl the girls you ... (read in full...)
Married to my wife for 20 years, but I have this thing about other men's penises! Any advice?
Q. I am a married man and have been with my wife for 20 years. I love her more than anything or anyone else. I have no complaints and our life together is fantastic. I have never cheated on her. My problem is that in the last few years I have enj...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi hun there are a couple of things you can do. 1. you can tell your wife the feelings you have been having and talk to her about it. 2. you can go out and cheat on your wife and have a chance of losing your wife of 20 yrs to something you just want ... (read in full...)
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