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Everytime we have a sleep over, we end up kissing! Am I a lesbian?

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Question - (31 December 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi

i have a best friend we have been friends for 5 years we are still at school and in year 7. and we often have sleepovers and everytime she comes and sleeps around mine we end up kissing and i dont know what to do i think she really fancies me but i think i fancy her to also when i masturbate i always think of her and thats what makes me orgasm

please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

I think you're exploring urself sexually, and u may be in fact a lesbian because your thinking about her in a sexual way. Ask yourself these questions: Can you see yourself in a relationship with her? Can you see yourself only in relationships with females? Are you sexually attracted to guys in the same way? If so you could very well be bi.

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A female reader, x-xEmoKidx-x United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2008):

I think it's alright to be a lesbian at the age of 12, you need to talk to her and say how you feel about her. But just don't be having proper sex at your age.

Message me and let me know how you get on, ok?

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A female reader, AuntieAmber United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2008):

AuntieAmber agony auntoh my god...

i dont beleive this...

some of you are telling her to 'experiment' and even have SEX...lezbian sex or not,,,its still sex and if she was talking about a boy then you would all be saying how stupid she is,,,thats so silly !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008):

talk to her about how you feel- shes probably feeling the same way. im a lesbian (and im onnly 12) and i found out when i had a sleepover with my bestfriend. we were discussing what it was like to kiss a girl and i just leaned over and kissed her.one thing led to another and i had lesbian sex with her. it happened a few times(every sleepover) but then she moved away and i havent seen her since. i masturbate and think about her every time.

my advice to you would be to experiment with each other.heck- jus have sex(you can sk me how another time if you want). after all- if you dont try you wont know

good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

heya

If you keep having sleep overs thats great i am also a lesbian but my age is 20. When i was your age whats happening 2 you is what happend 2 me i had a very close frend and she came round mine alot and we started kissing and playing with each other and getting relly wet. But its your life you say what you want to be when your older .... lesbian or like men xx

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntIt might not make you a definate 'LESBIAN' but talk to her and see if she fancies you. You're at the age of experimentation adn maybe in a few years you can start liking boys.....that is if you want to =]

message me if you want to talk =] x

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A female reader, sophie1956 United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2008):

i think that if you honestly think you fancy her, i would ask her if she feels the same way...because if you always kiss, there's an attraction there. but you're still quite young, this isn't a definate sign that you're lesbian.

when you get older you may become attracted to boys instead, but i wouldn't worry too much :)

good luck x

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A female reader, Full moon temptress1 United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

I remember having the same sorts of thoughts and feelings at your age to.Its perfectly natural to be curious.

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

chrissy32789 agony auntHey sweetie why dont you talk to her and find out about what is going on ask her when she kisses you what does it mean to her, and tell her not to be afraid of telling you the truth and then tell her what it means to her but keep the orgasm out of it. And you may not be a lesbian, but that is totally up to you if you want to be with girls thats on you, but sometimes at your age girls expeince diffrent things you may want to be with a female now then you may want to be with a male. your hormones are racing right now but its your life so you pick what you want in life, but talk to her and if you need more advice you can private mail me and we can talk.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntyou need to talk to her find out what the situation is and take it from there.

sparkii x

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