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HI everyone i am 20 yrs old i live in pa with my husband who is 27, we met when i was 17 and got married at 18, things are good between us. we are expecting a baby boy in july, my pregnancy is not going to well i have been on bed rest for the whole time. I grew up a hard life so i know what others are going threw, i am here to try and answer any questions the best i can.

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I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??

Q.   I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?...

A.   1 January 2008: Most boys begin to ejaculate semen when they're between the ages of 12 and 15, although some begin ejaculating at a later or earlier age. You can still masturbate and even have orgasms before you're old enough to ejaculate. If you are not able to ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do

Q.   I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he ...

A.   1 January 2008: Hey when i was 16 i was with a 30 year old guy he was a single dad because his wife past away from cancer. I was there for him and his kids but it did not work out because of our age diffrence and if one person found out about use he would be ... (read in full...)

My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?

Q.   hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...

A.   1 January 2008: Hey sweetie, I know it really pisses you off that your mom is always trying to see what you do on the internet but now a days you cant trust other people on the internet, i am sure she wants to respect your privacy but she is also worried about what ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if I'm too loose down below?

Q.   i hear some of the guys out in the pub talk about girls being really loose down bellow, how can i tell if im 1 of them? do you get it from having 2 much sex?...

A.   31 December 2007: No you dont get loose from having to much sex that usally only happens when you give natural child birth, you shouldnt really worrie about it i am sure you are just fine, dont worrie about what guys talk about.... (read in full...)

Do condoms really work?

Q.   Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...

A.   31 December 2007: Hey sweetie condoms do work but sometimes they do break thats why you cant always just trust condoms. but here is the thing i know your young and you will not listen to anyone when they tell you to wait so if you do have sex when your boyfriend is ... (read in full...)

I ejaculate too soon, please help!!

Q.   Hi I've just turned 17 and me and my girlfriend have started having sex. Everythings fine and i have an erection and then we start doing it and i ejaculate in less than 1 minute. I dunno whats going on. Sometimes i can only last for 30 seconds a...

A.   31 December 2007: Hey sweetie, dont worrie about this alot of guys dont last long during sex specially if this is the first girl you have had sex with. What you could try doing is get yourself off befor sex that way you have already got off and that may help you last ... (read in full...)

I've not had unprotected sex but I seem to be showing signs of pregnancy...Help!!

Q.   ok so im really scared i have never had unprotected sex but i keep getting random waves of nausea and my stomach is really hard and it hurts im afraid i might be pregnant?? i need help and advice!!...

A.   19 December 2007: well sweetie you never really got into how long ago you had sex and when these symthoms started so its kind of hard to tell if you are preg. or not so why dont you just get an at home pregnanacy test and see what the results are or just leave more ... (read in full...)

I need to know how to give her the big 'O'

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend now for a year. Although we both care for each other, a situation arose last week. We started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago and have sex 2 or 3 times a week. One day when I had to go out to get something, I came bac...

A.   14 December 2007: Dont get all upset about this because some ladies dont have have orgasms during intercourse so why dont you try new things i know you two are new to this but why dont you go to a porn store and buy a vibrating cock ring and put it on while having ... (read in full...)

Confused and Hurt!! Help!!

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half. He's a senior in college and I graduated last year and am now working full time. This past semester I have gone to visit him up at school almost every weekend.(about an hour away) I know he's ...

A.   13 December 2007: well sweetie maybe he isnt going to call you back right away maybe he wants to see if you will call him again to see if you really wanna talk to him... (read in full...)

Confused and Hurt!! Help!!

Q.   I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half. He's a senior in college and I graduated last year and am now working full time. This past semester I have gone to visit him up at school almost every weekend.(about an hour away) I know he's ...

A.   13 December 2007: Hunni you did a real good job on what you did i know it was hard for you to just blow him off like you did but thats what you have to do sometimes to make him relize how much he misses you and wants you. If you keep talkin to him then he will just ... (read in full...)

I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother.

Q.   im 17 and this guy iv been seeing for 6 months is my brothers friend and is 22! we are really into eachother and lvoe being with eachother, and want to have a nromal relationship without sneaking around!! howver i do not want to ruin mine and my ...

A.   13 December 2007: I use to date my brothers friends but the thing is he would get mad at me sometimes about it. But i told my brother befor ii dated one of his friends the thing you should do is go and talk to your brother about this and tell him that you really like ... (read in full...)

My husband's friend slept with my husband's younger sister... despite being warned away!

Q.   My husband's best friend is a well-known womanizer. My husband has made it somewhat clear that it wouldn't be a good idea for him to "date" his younger sister. He even expressed this concern to his sister. She agreed that she would steer clear. But ...

A.   13 December 2007: Well seeing that your husband lets everyone walk all over him I dont think if he goes and talks to his friend and his sister it would do any good. But it happend they have already done things together so i dont think it is going to do anygood to ... (read in full...)

I'm ashamed of my big clitoris!

Q.   I am a woman of 25 and I have big clitories. I am so shy of this to have a relationship with men. I have shown to one of my girlfriend the other day and she said I have to see a doctor so they can circumsize it. do you think it is a good Idea?...

A.   13 December 2007: If it is that big of a deal for you then i would go to a doctor and get checked and see what they can do for you. All women are diffrent in that area, but if you are really shy about it then go for it it wont hurt you to see what a doctor would say ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to occasionally use porn?

Q.   I met my wife 10 years and married for 2. I love deeply and think she is one of the most attractive women that I have ever seen. Occasionally I watch porn.By occasionally I mean I may not watch it for a few months then I may watch it say 3 or 4 tim...

A.   11 December 2007: I dont understand what the problem is with you watching porn. Because if she gets off by thinking about other guys then that is a bigger issue then you watching porn! If I was you then i would really sit down and talk to her about this just because ... (read in full...)

How do I shave my pubic hair?

Q.   how do i shave my pubic hairs? ive tried multiple times before, but i cant get all of it and when i shave its all stubbly, is there a technique i need to use? thanks....

A.   21 November 2007: Hey sweetie. When you shave do it in the shower and use lots of body wash or shaving gel those two work the best and get a real good razor those really cheap ones dont work use a mans razor they work the best. And start at the top and work your way ... (read in full...)

Would it be terriable to have sex with him?

Q.   I known it is wrong, and i probably shouldn't do it, but A everygood guy friend of mine. WHo happens to be a virgin, whats to lose his virginity and have girlfriend. I am in a good relationship and i love the guy alot. The only thing is i've had a ...

A.   15 November 2007: Honestly sweetie your friend maybe all upset and things now but if you have sex with him then things between you two will never be the same i had a best friend and i fell in love with him and then we broke up and nothing was ever the same. YOUR ... (read in full...)

Can u marry your second cousin

Q.   can you marry your second cousin?...

A.   13 November 2007: Sweetie i belive you can but you should really check it out with the states some states you can and some you cant, so go to google and google and see what states you can marrie in. well good luck and i hope it all works out for you..... (read in full...)

I have feeling for my aunt.

Q.   well i have feeling for my aunt i know its not lust i love her and i know its wrong but we both kind of flirt with each other and i was wondering if it would be wrong to seduce her oh also she is almost 30 years older than me but i love her so much...

A.   13 November 2007: hey sweetie, you should not come on here to see what people think or say because we are not you you are you and your the only one who knows what your heart feels but if you both flirt then go for it follow your heart it will take you where it wants ... (read in full...)

Doctors say my husband and I are fertile and we've been trying to conceive for 3 yrs now. Suggestions, pills?

Q.   Hi ladies this is a more of a question for you and guys if you can give advice that would be ok too. Well i am 18 years old the first time i have got my period was when i was 10. But i have irregular periods. i have been to doctors after doctors and ...

A.   9 November 2007: Thank you to everyone who gave adivice.... (read in full...)

12, I haven't had a period in 5 months and worry I could be pregnant. Any advice?

Q.   Hey Guys. I Hope You Can Help Me. I Am 12 And Im Gunna Turn 13 In Januaryy... I Started My Periods About 2 Years Ago...... But I Am Scared i Am Pregnant As I Had Sex About 5 Monthes Ago And I Havent Had A Period Since... I Have Tried Pregnancey Te...

A.   19 October 2007: Hey sweetie. dont worrie if the test keep comming back that you are not pregnant then dont worrie, i am 18 years old and i go a year sometimes with out my period its just the way some bodies go through, but go to the doctors and get put on ... (read in full...)

This lump on my left breast has become painful. My mother says my body is changing. Should I see a doctor?

Q.   i found a lump on my left breast a couple of weeks ago and didnt know what it was so i just left it as i thought it might go away by its self. but its still there and its become painful. i told my mum about it and she sed it will just be because my ...

A.   17 October 2007: Honestly i would go see a doctor about this because it could just be your brest are growing but it could also be something else its better to get checked and be safe then let it go and and be sorry. If you are still in school, go talk to your nurse ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating because she wants me to stop this female friend from calling me.

Q.   my girlfriend thinks i'm cheating because she wants me to stop another female friend of mine from calling but i said no. How do i convince her i'm not cheating? ...

A.   17 October 2007: Just tell your girlfriend me and this other girl is just friends there is nothing going on between us, and maybe have your girlfriend meet your friend and you all hang out and be all over your girlfriend infront of your friend that way your ... (read in full...)

My half brother is married to her elder sister. We see each other in secret. Our families disagree. How can we win this?

Q.   I'm 25 and i'm really, truly, madly, deeply in love with my girlfriend. She's 20 but the problem is everyone(my folks and hers) swear they wont let us get married cos my half bother is married to her elder sister. I know she's also crazy about me ...

A.   17 October 2007: There really is no way of winning this if you are both in love then just tell your familys that you love each other and you guys are in your 20s if they dont like it then they dont have to be bothered by the two of you.. You two are old enough to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me....

Q.   My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!...

A.   26 September 2007: Hunnie, leave now that you can, because once a man puts his hands on you and you stay there he will do it over and over and over again time after time. I was in relationships where the man was good to me for about a yr then hit me and i still stayed ... (read in full...)

Do you think what I did was cheating?

Q.   I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

A.   26 September 2007: honestly yes it is considered cheating. even though it was not for long or with another guy it is still cheating. Just put yourself in your husbands spot, if he went out and kissed someone else are you going to be upset,? TRY To talk to him abou... (read in full...)

I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...

Q.   Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...

A.   26 September 2007: hey it sounds like you maybe having problems with your sugar it could have dropped on you. but you should really get to the doctors and tell them what is going on because no one on here can really give you the right reason of what is going on with ... (read in full...)

It's a lose-lose situation, with or without a condom

Q.   i go soft during sex with a condom sometimes and without a condom i cum within seconds. any tips will be gratful...

A.   5 September 2007: hey hun you really should be using a condom inless you are trying to become a dad. but anyways my husband has the same problem and we read about it on the comp. but if you go to rite aid or a drug store go down by the pregnacy test and the other sex ... (read in full...)

What does my married lesbian friend want from me? She is giving me mixed signals.

Q.   I'm am writing again in regards to a woman I love. I am also a woman in my 40's. I told this woman I had feelings that were deeper than just friendship back in Jan. She denied her feelings for me, but did tell me that she was in a loveless marriage ...

A.   5 September 2007: hey hun i would really be interested in hearing some of these emails that way i kinda get a better idea of whats going on you can private email me on here. ... (read in full...)

How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?

Q.   How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?...

A.   5 September 2007: just put the ice cube in your mouth, but not a big one but one big enough where you can put his penis in your mouth and also be able to have the ice cube in your mouth and do as though there was not an ice cube.... (read in full...)

I need some tips on oral sex

Q.   i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ...

A.   1 September 2007: hey hun i think that is great that you did it :) i am so happy that we could help. have a great time with your gf and if you need anymore help we will be here for you :)... (read in full...)

We got on great, then she went back to her ex. Would our age difference of been a problem?

Q.   I'm 34, single male, no kids. Through my workplace, I met a wonderful, caring, attractive, 21 year old woman. She'd been dating her boyfriend for two years, but recently stopped their relationship after she discovered he had cheated on her. Her ...

A.   31 August 2007: hey hun i dont think age diffrence would really matter, it sounds like she just needed someone to care about her intil she worked it out with her ex who cheated on her, she needed someone to lean on and get the courage to get bac with the cheater. ... (read in full...)

I need some tips on oral sex

Q.   i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ...

A.   31 August 2007: hey hun its ok to be scared and not to know what to do. But it is fun and you will both enjoy it :x but anyways, for oral sex on a female is easy, first of all just start licking on the clit with the tip of your tongue, and then use the whole ... (read in full...)

I think I am too tight

Q.   hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? ...

A.   31 August 2007: There is no way to break through being tight i am a married women and my husband still has troubles getting in me and i have had sex pleinty of times, but what i find to help get his penis in so it dont hurt is if i foreplay befor we have sex, and ... (read in full...)

Are ultra thin condoms more likely to break?

Q.   how effective are ultra thin condoms with spermicide. Because they are ultra thin are they more likely to break??...

A.   31 August 2007: No they are still 99% affective just like the other condoms out there. Just make sure that you have 2 back ups of pertection, like use a condom and also go on the birthcontroal pill. that way you are really pertective. ... (read in full...)

If he brings me a present I'll feel bad as I told him I'm a material girl, if he doesn't I'll feel worse...

Q.   Difficult situation, I'm damn escort, material girl, think I fell in love with a guy that does not treat me like that... I like him in some ways, but hate myself or at least don't feel well if don't get any profit from him... What the hell i ...

A.   31 August 2007: Just tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore. tell him that you want things that he dont give you and that you want a man with money and that will give you everything that you want dont lie to him tell him you would just get up and leave ... (read in full...)

We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?

Q.   I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because ...

A.   31 August 2007: you are welcome and i hope it all works out for you... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a Sikh and his family cant find out abous us. I cant bear to lose him!

Q.   I have a BIG problem and its driving me and my boyfriend up the wall. The thing is he's a Sikh and he can't do certain things like have a girlfriend so his family don't exactly know about us... we plan to tell them in two years, But if they find...

A.   30 August 2007: Hun honestly the sooner you tell his parents the better because the longer you wait and then if they dont want you two together and you two have to break up it is going to be harder on you both, so just tell them that you are with him and if they ... (read in full...)

Has he gone off me?

Q.   Okay I need help, I don't now if I should start talking to him again? You know when you get that feeling that pokes you tell you do it well this is that feeling. I guess I should start from the beginning - my mum has a best friend who has a st...

A.   30 August 2007: Hunni if it is bothering you that much why dont you go over to his house and talk to him about it, and tell him how much it is bothering you that you 2 have not spoken. if its been 2 months since you havent talked to him and you are still thinking ... (read in full...)

My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?

Q.   Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers ...

A.   30 August 2007: Did something happen to her while she was gone? I am not saying that something happend to her but has she ever acted like this befor when she went away with out you? When she gets back to being her self sit down with her and ask her why she was so ... (read in full...)

Does a man that loves a woman normally want her to be beautiful, well dressed etc, or doesn't care at all?

Q.   My question to everybody here is, What do you think, the man that Loves you wants you to be beautiful, well dressed, shining or He doesn't care at all? Yes, i'm quite disturbed by this guy, he seems not to care of how i do look... I can go to hi...

A.   30 August 2007: I think it is a same way with a girl. If you love this man yes you care what he looks like or his apperance but you kind of keep it to yourself if you dont like the shirt he is wearing you dont usally say anything or if he shaved his head your not ... (read in full...)

We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?

Q.   I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because ...

A.   30 August 2007: hey hun you are really going through a hard time with this girl. but for a man to stand by her all the time through all this she has got a good man! But any ways to the problem you are having. she is 17 yrs old almost 18 years old which i dont know ... (read in full...)

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