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I'm just 18 and I am so embarrassed about my body! How do I deal with this?
Q. HI everyone i just truned 18 and im so embressed with my body i am getting married in may and and feel uncomftable about it.....i have stretch marks all down my thighs and it seems like they are getting bigger and darker, and i have them all up the ...
A. 2 April 2007: Thanks for your advice but i dont eat junk food at all....i eat healthy and exerice but i cant get rid of it ... (read in full...)
This girl is spreading lies about me because I said no to dating her! What can I do ?
Q. OK,Well i have recently asked a girl out. And another girl likes me and i said no to her and she is making up lies that make mad but i dont want to seem like if someone talkes about me ill snap on them what can i do this girl said i went out with...
A. 28 March 2007: Dear Bigryan0301,
Your at that age where you will have problems like that people talk stuff about you all the time and it hurts, but just explain to her that she needs to stop talking stuff about you and if she dont then you will start sayi... (read in full...)
Does my mum favour my brother over me?
Q. I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a ...
A. 28 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
My parents spilt up 4 yrs ago and i went to live with my mom, and when i would go vist my dad once a year where my 2 brothers live, my dad would pay more attion to me, my brothers got upset but my dad told them that he h... (read in full...)
Shes my first girlfriend and I think shes too good for me! Im worried that Im going to do something stupid and lose her!
Q. hey guys!! I am 20years old and have just got my first girlfriend, she was my friend before for about four years. Four years ago when we first met she told me she liked me but at the time i was arrogant n thort i could do better because i had ot...
A. 27 March 2007: Dear anonymous writeR,
There is no reason to be jealous of her having more experience then you, you where just waiting for the right girl to come around and you like to take things slow! Usally a girl does not bleed when you finger her eith... (read in full...)
Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!
Q. Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...
A. 26 March 2007: Dear Holly, I am going through the same thing, with my future husband in mays parents his mom is constly on are back about everything when we go out she wants to know where we are going when we will be back and calls 10 times while we are out ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him to leave her??
Q. Hello, I have my best friend who likes me and I like him... he's goin out with somebody (just a pity thing) and lately we've been "together". For example on IM he'll tell me that he likes me, then at school you can tell to but his "girlfri...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear me616,
If he really likes you as much as he says he does then he would have broke up with the girl thats is a pity thing, you should honestly stay out of it and let him make his own dessions on this, he has a gf and he likes you and he h... (read in full...)
I just recently saw my ex after 10 months, we had sex, now he wants friends with benefits!!
Q. I just saw my ex-boyfriend after 10 months today. We haven't talked that much in between, but all of a sudden started talking again and made plans to meet today. We hit off pretty well, and we both were flirting with each other A LOT. And then he ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
If the two of you are confused about how you both feel about each other and talking about getting back together i dont think you should be friends with benifits cause if you are serious about wanting to get him back he w... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf thats hes dull and boring and that I want to date my ex ?
Q. I'm emotional troubled. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. I got with him right after I broke up with my ex. Our relationship is so dull and boring. We can't even hold up a 10 min conversation on the telephone. So in the end I've ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and explain to him how you think he is boring and what you want to change with him...i think if you do decide to break up with him for your ex you should honestly wait, dont jump... (read in full...)
Do you think that he slept with her, and just lied to me ?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months. Then today he tells me that he went out with a female friend of his and they went drinking and then he ended up sleeping at her place because it was late at night! I was a bit shocked at this ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear Lia,
Thats hard to say..but i wouldnt really flip out about it the truth will come out sooner or later atleast he told you that he did that, i would give him one more chance to see what happens and if it happens again then you should tell... (read in full...)
I cant get over him, we broke up last summer and I still cant deal with it!
Q. I can't seem to get over my Ex boyfriend. is there anything I can do? I find myself wishing he would call and the reason we broke up was he is moving to another state. We broke up last summer and i thought i would be over it by now. What shoul...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear tessy!!tmt,
You really are attracted to this guy and its going to be hard to get over him specially because you broke up because he moved, but try to get ahold of him, look him up some how if you know where he moved to look it up on the ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy says he fell for you ?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says he fell for you? I can eloborate in a private message, if you want to get to the nitty gritty......
A. 23 March 2007: Dear travelgal,
usally when a guy says he fell for you means that he is attracted to you but its hard to say when i dont know what it all means but if you want to talk you can send me a mess. ... (read in full...)
We love each other but she won't be with me because her friends don't like me! What can I do?
Q. This girl im in love with,she wont be with me just because her friends dont like me. but she says she feels the same way as i do...what do i do? please help....
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
I am not tryin to sound like a b*tch and all but you said this lady loves you but i dont think so, if she loved you she wouldnt care what other people think. Friends come and go but true love will be with you as long as y... (read in full...)
My health is at risk! Please help!
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-had-sex-with-a-woman-for-the.html) I wrote a question about my girlfriend who has an off putting fishy smelling vagina. Ok well I asked if it was normal to smell like that and I have done my reasearch an...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
I read the last question you wrote and its good to know you did research on it, now to this question..i belive in the last question you wrote you did tell her that the was an order down there, but now you have to expl... (read in full...)
Do you ever think your guy is a skank??
Q. Have you ever got mean thoughts about a guy you like ..say you got a thought of him being a skank or wondering if he was? I feel like i don't deserve him because i keep having thoughts! I feel like i have to tell him but why?! ah please help! Th...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
I think everyone has thoughts about that with the one they are with and love, its just thoughts that go through your head i am getting married in may and sometimes i have thoughts like that but then the go away and i know... (read in full...)
Someone told me my boyfriend is gay, they have a recording of him admitting to it!
Q. ok, well,this is a long story. i met this boy wen i was about 14. from then i liked him, even tho he was goig out with my best m8s, m8. afta 2 years of being with her they split up becoz there was a rumor he was gay. well i met up with him and he...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
If he was gay then i dont think he would date you specially if he was telling this girl that he was cheating on her with a guy for the time he was with her, do you think he would really leave her and be with anot... (read in full...)
She says she loves me, just that she wants space... What does it mean?!
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and everything was going really great. We don't have major differences. We are on the same page on a lot of issues of life and friends. She did ask for space almost a month ago. I've been reading a ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear ArtLove19,
I was in a relationship for 3 years with my ex boyfriend and i just needed space away from him to clear my mind and just have time alone the first time i needed space away from him was about 2 wks and the last time it was for ... (read in full...)
She has depression, no friends and issues of trust and is bringing me down!
Q. Hi, this has gone on long enough and i really need help or advice. I've been seeing my girlfriend for just over 2 years and im getting unhappier by the week. she is my first love (im 21 and she is 23) and there are a few points that are making me ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear james22,
Its ok to make your question longer sometimes longer the better but thats ok...Have you tryed to talk to this girl about you hanging out with your friends? you should never let a girl control your life and guys should never cont... (read in full...)
Im 16 hes 20, I really like him, but could he only be after sex ?
Q. Hi i know this is going to sound really stupid and normaly im ok with it but theres this boy i like and he likes me im 16 and hes 20 i dont know why but i think hes too old for me or just wanting sex my mates all think i should go for it but i still ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear xxemilyxx,
If you really like this guy then go for it and be with him, but just watch and see how he acts with you if he is constily trying to do things with you that you dont like or dont feel comfortable tell him that you are not read... (read in full...)
I used to think I was straight but now I'm thinking... could I be bi-sexual?
Q. I used to think I was straight all my life but I am not sure any more. I wonder what it would be like to french kiss a women and have sex with her. I know that I like men for sure but could I be bi? ...
A. 23 March 2007: dear JLO90,
It is perfectly normal for someone your age to go through this, i was about your age when i didnt know wheather i was stright or bi i was attracted to both sex, but all you can do is wait intil the time happens and you kiss a girl... (read in full...)
My friend is gay and wants to come out but he's freaking out about it. What advice can I give him?
Q. I have got a 17 year old male friend that comes to me for advice, I am older than him and have lived my life somewhat!! He has announced that he thinks he is gay and that he wants to start a relationship with a man he knows. But he is freaking ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear xxxallibabesxxx, I am a 17 yr old female and i have been bisexual since i was 13, There are a few things your friend can do 1, hide it from everyone and not be happy with the way his is, and not beable to open up and let everyone know thats wh... (read in full...)
My work colleague is with someone else but I think we have chemistry! What do I do?
Q. hey all, I really this woman at work and not sure if she likes me, we flirt alot but she is in a relationship and she has been hurt so many times past(I couldnt hurt a fly) we get on so well and i want to ask her on a date but first of all how, ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer, You are in a hard situation right now cause there is some up and downs you are going to run into....she is in a relationship right now and still flirting with you and all the other things she is doing, but she has been... (read in full...)
We broke up after 15 years together because he cheated for the 3rd time, but I still love him!
Q. I broke up with my BF of 15 years last month. He cheated on me for the third time. We have broken up before but we always get back together. I'm always thinking about and dreaming about him. I don't know what to do! I still love him!...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear smile35, 15yrs is along time to be with someone but he has cheated on you 3 times i can see the 1st time taking him back but after that dont do it no more, you still love him and think about him all the time and you will for a long tim... (read in full...)
My new GF won't sleep in the bed with me, but on top of it!
Q. How Long Does A Girl Hold Out? i've been dating a 20 year old for just over a week now and everythings going good. shes the first girl to ever turn me on since my ex dumped me just before xmas. after geting with this girl for a week i asked...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear I Waited For The One, Seeing that you have only been together for a week or so it is normal that she didnt cuddle with you and that it may have seemed that she was bored but it could have been she was really comftable staying there sh... (read in full...)
Will the girl I like get jealous if I talk to my female friends when she's around?
Q. I'm going crazy over this girl i like. I dont talk to her as i do to my other close female friends. Do you think it's ok to talk to other girls in front of her? Will she be jealous or think i dont like her? it's extremely hard to talk to her beca...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
If you really like this girl and you dont want to mess anyhting up you will just have to tell her how you feel and whats on your mind like you are worried about talking to other girls right infront of her, and that she ... (read in full...)
I haven't kissed a guy in 2 years and I'm nervous that my date will be turned off since I'm out of practice! Help!
Q. Guys, would you be turned off of a girl if your first kiss with her was a bad kiss? I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy i know from work and its the first date since we admitted our feelings for each other. Thing is, I'm worried that because ive ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear worried_gal,
I am not a guy but i can help you out! I dont think you will foget how to kiss honestly it will come to you, you get yourself all worked up and then when it happens you will have it right to you.. plus kissing isnt going to b... (read in full...)
I am beginning to really like my boyfriends friend! Help!
Q. hi. im 16 and i have been with my bf for 2 an a half months. Before we started going out with each other there was this other boy that i kinda liked but then he left school to go to college last year. I havent seen him for about 6 months. Now ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
relationships can be tuff and confussing but there is only one thing you can go by and thats your HEART! your heart will lead you through good and bad things but it will take you to the right path...befor you go any fart... (read in full...)
Im having trouble trusting my bf, any tips on how I can relax when he goes out ?
Q. How do I get over constantly calling my fiance when he doesn't answer his phone while he is out? He is gone on vacation for 2 months. I'd like to say that I can trust him, but I find it kind of weird that he goes out dancing and to bars by himself. ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
You have to have trust in this man when he goes out you are going to marry him and if you cant trust him now what is the since of getting married and not having trust, if he dont answer his phone dont worrie about it, ... (read in full...)
Im planning on having sex with him, hes my first, Is it possible for a woman to enjoy sex within a week?
Q. My LDR bf will visit me for his week long spring break in about ten days. I feel I am ready to have sex with him (he would be my first) but he is hesitant because he's worried it will be painful for me and I won't be able to enjoy it within the six ...
A. 23 March 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
There is no need to rush into sex, and you may think that you are ready but when its time to happen you may not think the same way only you will know if your ready when the time comes..if you really love this guy and feel... (read in full...)
What do I tell my friend???
Q. Me and my cousin have been secertly together for about 8 months but not properly, he specifically says we are not going out, yet kisses me and loves me. But now hes been emailing one of my friends as well as me and came up to a social and saw her, ...
A. 23 March 2007: hey hun, you are in a hard situation right now, not only is the problem with your bestfriend but your with your cousin and you have to keep it secret...keeping a relationship a secret is really hard and with your cousion is even harder but whatever ... (read in full...)
We had sex and it hurt a little... would me being on top help?
Q. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and it ended up hurting a lot. He was a perfect gentleman and asked me many times if I was okay and we didn't keep going because he was afraid of hurting me more than he already was. He had wanted me to ...
A. 23 March 2007: the first time you have sex it will hurt no matter how you try it...after it happens for a while it will not be as bad...you cant always listen to how other people have sex the first time because it is diffrent for many people, dont worrie about ... (read in full...)
My gf and I broke up but I can't get her out of my head! whatcan I do?
Q. my ex girlfriend broke up with me on feb 3 and i cant get her out of my head. is this normal. i wish i could talk to her but i dont know what to say or do. ...
A. 21 March 2007: Dear weldman,
yes it is normal for you to still be thinking about this girl it hasnt been that long since you two have broke up....i or no one else can really tell you what to say to this girl because no one really knows the reason you two have... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse?
Q. Can you get pregnant without having full on intercourse? I haven't had sex with my boyfriend yet but my waist seems a bit thicker than it used to be... But maybe I'm [hopefully] just being paranoid....
A. 21 March 2007: hi....its not possible for you to get pregnet with out having sex! inless he cumed next to your vigina and some went in....sometimes when you make yourself think that you are pregnet the symthoms will start showin your brian plays games on you but ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, my boyfriend's 20 but I've told him I'm 16.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and i really like him. hes 20 and im 15!! the problem is that he thinks im 16 and i really want to tell him my age but im afraid he will finish me. What do you think i should do?? please help x...
A. 20 March 2007: hey, you really need to tell him your real age, someone finds out that you two are together hes going to jail 16 or not! anyone over the age of 18 needs to date 18 or over you can get him locked up and seeing its only 3 months i would recommend you ... (read in full...)
We've been together 11 months and have moved in together, is this too soon?
Q. I am 17 and my boyfriend of 11 months as recently moved in with me. i am starting to think it is a bit soon but i really love him and can't stand to be apart from is it too soon?...
A. 20 March 2007: dear redhed
i am 17 yrs old i will be 18 in 7 days and i moved in with my future husband which i am gettin married in may... in aug of 2006 we will be together 9 months when we get married but i know i am doing the right thing cause i have... (read in full...)
He keeps trying to take it to the next level but I'm still a virgin and apprehensive.
Q. I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin!!! I met this guy and he's really cool I really like him! And he' always tries to take it to the next level you know "sex" I like him but I don't know how to tell him I'm a virgin, or what he will think of me, or if his ...
A. 20 March 2007: hun i lost my virginty at age 10 i was raped and that was the worst part because by the time i was ready to settle down with the guy i am marrying in may it wont be the best because i dont have that special moment....but you have that chance to stay ... (read in full...)
She was sexually molested by a male relative and now I find it gross touching her.
Q. Hello Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and recently she came clean about being sexually molested by a male relative when she was 8-14 and now as horrible as it sounds i find myself kind of grossed out by her. everytime i touch her i ...
A. 20 March 2007: you need to stop freakin out about this.....everything was fine befor she told you and then when she told you it grossed you out...but if you cant stop thinking about it then maybe you should leave her cause if your not happy with her then you cant ... (read in full...)
So worried she'll fall in love with someone else. Do I just sit, wait and hope she comes back?
Q. ok my girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. in beginning of october my vey close friend died in a car accident, later that month she says she want to take a break. that whole month she kept telling me to make her love her..like i knew what it ...
A. 20 March 2007: swelsurfin,
I am glad that everything has worked out between you two, i hope for the best to the both of you and if you need any help just let me know and i will try to help you the best as i can....i will leave you alone for now so you and your... (read in full...)
So worried she'll fall in love with someone else. Do I just sit, wait and hope she comes back?
Q. ok my girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. in beginning of october my vey close friend died in a car accident, later that month she says she want to take a break. that whole month she kept telling me to make her love her..like i knew what it ...
A. 18 March 2007: i am hoping for the best for you two to, but just keep in mind if it dont work be strong and move on, not everything in this world works out the way you want it to, but good luck and let me know how it goes....... (read in full...)
So worried she'll fall in love with someone else. Do I just sit, wait and hope she comes back?
Q. ok my girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. in beginning of october my vey close friend died in a car accident, later that month she says she want to take a break. that whole month she kept telling me to make her love her..like i knew what it ...
A. 18 March 2007: i am hoping for the best for you two to, but just keep in mind if it dont work be strong and move on, not everything in this world works out the way you want it to, but good luck and let me know how it goes....... (read in full...)
I am 4 years older than her and are only friends but would like to be more.... but don't know if it's wise?
Q. I’m in a bit of a jam. I’ve been friends with a girl now for a couple of months and we get along real fine, she’s quickly become one of my best friends, but she’s 4 years younger than me and we’ve run into some issues involving our friendship. ...
A. 18 March 2007: Dear Cheese,
If i was you i would stop seeing her intil she is old enough like (18) you are of the age of going to jail because of this girl you are facing up to 1yr to 5yrs and its really not worth it if this girl decides that i dont want... (read in full...)
How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?
Q. Hi hopefully someone will be able to help me I have two problems..the first of my problems is that I find that I cum too quickly. Whenever I masturbate I can do it generally within two minutes, which is fine by me when I'm in a rush however whe...
A. 18 March 2007: Hey i know you think just because i am a female that i wouldnt know nothing about this kind of thing but i am gettin married in may and my soon to be husband , use to have this same problem, you are really excited with this girl you are with now, ... (read in full...)
So worried she'll fall in love with someone else. Do I just sit, wait and hope she comes back?
Q. ok my girlfriend and i were together for 2 years. in beginning of october my vey close friend died in a car accident, later that month she says she want to take a break. that whole month she kept telling me to make her love her..like i knew what it ...
A. 17 March 2007: Dear swelsurfin,
I am sorry to hear about your friend but now its time to take care of your problem....The one part where she is texting you saying she misses you but still not ready it sounds like she is checking up on you and playing head... (read in full...)
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